Going out on 1st date for a drink. What should I talk about?
Q. As you all know, my last girfriend was Hungarian, but tomorrow night I am going on a date with an English girl. She likes my sense of humour (by text), likes my picture. Its been a while since I've dated (in English!) We are going for a drink, wha...
A. 13 August 2012: Update - she says she needs the money, and wants to rearrange
Are you paying for the "date" ? ... (read in full...)
Does my b/f want a threesome? He lets his friends hit on me!
Q. Lately my bf of 4yrs has been letting his friends hit on me. They will do it right in front of him and he just smirks. They say some inappropriate things most of the time. Then just yesterday i was with my bf and his bff and his best friend would ...
A. 5 August 2012: Next time (if you stay with this guy) one of his friends get a little to handsy/rubbing on you tell him to back the F away. You don't have to take that kind of disrespect.
Tell the "friend" to go hump a cactus.
Walk away from the situation, d... (read in full...)
Who was the 5-7 year old girl with a tiara on her head in a painting in Italian museum and it still haunts me. Can anyone identify it from my description please?
Q. This question isn't a normal question for this site, but please post it. i need help, and this is the only place I could turn to. around 4 years ago, my family was in italy. We went to this museam (i don't remember which one) and this one paintin...
A. 5 August 2012: It's hard to say. It could easily be a buy since back in the day, boys would have long hair and wear what looked like dresses as well as the girls.
There are MANY versions of The Last Supper. The best known is perhaps Leonardo da Vinci's late 149... (read in full...)
Now he just wants to be friends. Says sleeping with me as a mistake. Can we start again or is it over?
Q. Hi, I need some relationship, love advice. I am 32 and a few months ago met a lovely guy. We slept together few times really early on and now his saying he just wants to be friend's to get to know each other as his never just slept with girl like ...
A. 5 August 2012: I think Cerberus nailed it.
I agree 100% there. You already KNOW what's going on, so TRUST your instincts.... (read in full...)
I just hate it because I feel like I found my dream girl, but she has a bratty daughter! advice please?
Q. i met an amazing girl a few months ago. hit it off and asked her to be my girlfriend. everything has been great. perfect. no fights, no disagreements, we always have a great time together, sex is phenomenal. only one problem: her five year old ...
A. 5 August 2012: I kind of agree with Sageoldguy here. THEY are a package deal. If you want her, the "brat" comes with.
I have 3 girls and none of them were EVER whiny at that age (unless they were excessively tired).
Could it be that the mother is overco... (read in full...)
When do I tell me no sex without marriage?
Q. If I have made the decision for my life, not to have sexual relations unless I am married. Then when is a fair time to let a man know that this is what I am considering? I have no problems or hang ups with an exciting, adventurous sex life, after ...
A. 5 August 2012: If this is how you feel I would tell them on the first date. In your "age group" (or my own to be honest) I just don't see a lot of men AND women who don't want to go for a "test drive" before they commit to marriage. What IF he has a SERIOUS case ... (read in full...)
My mom is dating a guy a little older than me. Do I need to step in?
Q. My mom who is in her mid 40s is in a relationship with a guy who is apparently in his early 20s. Their relationship is merely based on sex from what I can tell. She wears low cut tops and short shorts when she hangs out with him. i moved out of the ...
A. 4 August 2012: No, she is a grown woman. She can make her one decisions and mistakes.
Good for her!
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He is coming here to meet me and my friends tell me to be careful!
Q. Dear Aunts, Due to my own concerns I decided to post this question. This is regarding my boyfriend whom I met online almost 3 years ago. We live a world apart, and I've been the one making all calls. He did call several times but that's it. He ...
A. 4 August 2012: He sounds like totally BAD news. The fact that you guys haven't met yet face-to-face after 3 years makes me ponder too..
Everything you write about him sounds scary, honestly.
And if you FELL in your gut that there IS something wrong DO NOT ign... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has mites, and still wants to be intimate!
Q. My boyfriend recently told me he had mites, or some sort of bug on his skin which he isnt sure how he got. I am rather freaked out, especially since he said it will be gone in a few days. However, I looked online and it said what hes got is highly ...
A. 4 August 2012: Not to sound rude or a prude, but EWW..
I would ask him if he is getting treatment for it and honestly, I would wait til he is "cured" and cleared by his doctor before being close and naked next to him. I wouldn't want him in my bedding either. ... (read in full...)
I love him but he doesn't feel the same way about me...
Q. I have been with this guy for 2 1/2 years. We have been thru alot in our relationship. He has recently left for Job Corps and he so called started dating someone else. He told me that I been new it would be over but i cant seem to get him out of ny ...
A. 4 August 2012: Let him go. Cut the contact 100% and find a way to move on.
If he is already dating someone else, why sit and waste your time and your love on this man?... (read in full...)
Should I listen to the little voice inside telling me something is not quite right?
Q. Something happened last night and I'm not quite sure what to think of it. I'm hoping you guys can give me your opinion. My boyfriend was supposed to come here last night at 7-8pm and not having heard from him at 7, I text him to get his ETA. He ...
A. 4 August 2012: Poor guy. He is damned if he does and he is damned if he doesn't.!
You NEED to start TRYING to trust him. If he says I'm at my friends, got car trouble & phone trouble, TRY and believe him.
And you need to stop pulling "games" or you will lose... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about going on holiday with my female friend!
Q. hi, i have been with my partner for five years we have just come back from vacation abroad (greece) i wanted to go on holiday in 5 weeks time to spain with my best girlfriend also. The thing is he's not happy about it and he says I'm being selfis...
A. 4 August 2012: Go and ENJOY your vacation!! If he isn't the one paying for it why the heck is he whining?
And honestly, I find him quite immature with the whole " if you go I won't talk to you" attitude.. Talk about emotional black mail!
He needs to grow up... (read in full...)
I love her but our attitudes to our children differ. She resents the time I spend with my sons. Can we make this relationship work?
Q. I have this dilemma. I think I know the answer, I think I know what's right. But, damn. I really need some some brutal honesty. I have been dating this 45 year old woman for over 18 months. She has 3 boys, I have 2 boys. Started as long distance...
A. 3 August 2012: In a way I kind of understand that she doesn't feel like you included her in your decisions. You just "informed" her that the younger one were visiting. She might have felt taken for granted.
As for leaving money for your son for food.. I don't ... (read in full...)
What do you do when you realize the relationship isn't going to work?
Q. What do you do when you realize that your relationship probably won't work? I love him so much but I fear he is too selfish to change because I have asked him to do more things with me, try something new, etc. I get really sad due to disappointment ...
A. 3 August 2012: You can hope all you want that he will change, but most likely, he won't.
You have tried to ask him to put in an effort, but so far he hasn't seemed willing, so what difference would time make, you think? Na da.
I understand the sense of obl... (read in full...)
They say size doesn't matter but it really does!
Q. Okay so me and my fiance have been together for over three years now and I have a slight issue. To put it bluntly, i have a below average penis size. Sex was great at the start of our relationship and still is in my opinion but I'm pretty sure that ...
A. 3 August 2012: You DO know that few women even orgasm from penetration, right?
So ACTUALLY size doesn't matter when it comes to HER pleasure. ... (read in full...)
Supposed to be met at airport by my LDR but he has stopped communicating!
Q. Dear Cupid i with LDR with my bf for the past few months. We were planning to meet and as per our decision i have booked my flight tickets and i am leaving today afternoon. He is avoiding for past 2 days, not picking up my calls, even if he ...
A. 3 August 2012: Cancel the ticket.... (read in full...)
I booked to see him 5 months in advance, and now he tells me he will be working most of the time!
Q. what would you do if after planning to meet up/ visit your boyfriend hoping that he will make the time to be with you for the two weeks off that u took from work, he tells you he will be working and that he has got the long weekend to be with ...
A. 3 August 2012: I agree with Tisha. Cancel the trip. Either wait til he can take time of and visit YOU or wait til he can take time off.
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My boyfriend is incapable of being aggressive!!
Q. So we've been dating for a while- my boyfriend and I. We are at the point where we've told each other that we love one another. And I do love him dearly. I really do. But there is a problem. My boyfriend has aggressiveness issues. He is incapable ...
A. 3 August 2012: Honestly, I think YOU are the one with the issues. You sounds immature, controlling, selfish and honestly, like you need to get a clue.
HE didn't ruin your Prom, your ex did, however you DID ruin his Award Ceremony. HE does have a past, he DID h... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me emotionally and I want him "marked" with a tatoo of my name!
Q. I'm 5 months pregnant now, and I've recently found out that at the beginning of the relationship my boyfriend had been mentally cheating, still in love with his ex, planning on going back to her and leaving me. Never found out if he cheated ...
A. 3 August 2012: It's his body, so you can't "make" him get a tattoo.
And honey, "marking" him doesn't make him any more faithful or make him yours. That is something only HE can do.
Because of the baby he will ALWAYS be in your life/child's life whether he ... (read in full...)
Was there really an IPod or was he just trying to make an excuse to talk to me?
Q. Two weeks after a guy I went on a couple of dates with decided we should stop talking because he thought I was going to be too high matenence he decided to text me out of the blue and ask if I left my iPod in his car when I've only been in his car ...
A. 3 August 2012: Maybe another girl left the Ipod in his car?
Does it really matter though? If the guy thinks you are too high maintenance, it's either because you are, or he is too lazy to put forth the effort to date you.... (read in full...)
Why does he hate me?
Q. Well a guy I've loved for two years keeps being horrible to me and he blocked me on facebook and he said its because I spoke to him to much. Then my friends mum tried to talk him round. It didn't work as such but he still spoke to me but when he did ...
A. 3 August 2012: I don't think he hates you, but for whatever reason he doesn't like you and doesn't want to talk to you, so my question is WHY do you want to be around/social network with a guy like this? He sounds like a total tool!
STOP trying to talk to him o... (read in full...)
After having a termination I have lost my libido, any suggestions to get it back?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and in that time we have had a reletively good sex life. a couple of months ago i got pregnant even though i was taking the pill. I ended up having a terminatuion for several reasons. main reason being the ...
A. 3 August 2012: Whether he likes it or not, YOU need help in grieving over what happened. Even if it was the best thing for the two of you, what your body/mind went through is not easy for a guy to understand.
I suggest you ask your doctor for a referral to a the... (read in full...)
Why would my ex go behind his new wife's back to talk to me?
Q. ex bf's new wife told me she didn't want us talking to each other, she called me. But my ex said it's not a problem and he will talk behind her back. Why would he go against what she wants??...
A. 3 August 2012: Not sure why you are asking us, why not ask him? After all he is calling you.
And I agree with Eyeswideopen, he is looking for trouble.... (read in full...)
Do I have another infection again?
Q. Hi there, I have an odd, (or hopefully not so odd) question to ask. For a while (past twelve months) I have had quite a strong smell coming from my vagina. I can smell it every time i go to the toilet on my underwear or even sometime when i move my ...
A. 3 August 2012: Go see your doctor again. A bacterial infection can reoccur. Wearing pads/tampons for long hours can cause the infection, and it can even be that it wasn't all the way cleared up last time.
Also, it could be the Ph balance below. Since blood ha... (read in full...)
I love her but our attitudes to our children differ. She resents the time I spend with my sons. Can we make this relationship work?
Q. I have this dilemma. I think I know the answer, I think I know what's right. But, damn. I really need some some brutal honesty. I have been dating this 45 year old woman for over 18 months. She has 3 boys, I have 2 boys. Started as long distance...
A. 3 August 2012: I think you did the right thing in holding back with the idea/proposal of marriage. Your instincts are right. But did you talk to HER about how you felt, how your feelings changed?
If not, maybe that is why she resent your bond with your kids so ... (read in full...)
How can I forget him? He lied to his ex, lied to me, cheated on me too.
Q. I'm dating this guy who is three years older than me. He has broken my heart several times buh he comes back apologising. Yet lately i was told he was using me to forget his previous girl and he lied about everything and all the promises he ...
A. 2 August 2012: Thank your lucky stars that he moved on.
Learn to LOOK at a person's actions, not just listen to their words. If you look back at this guy, you will see that his actions were appalling and everything that came out of his mouth were lies, so hones... (read in full...)
Going out on 1st date for a drink. What should I talk about?
Q. As you all know, my last girfriend was Hungarian, but tomorrow night I am going on a date with an English girl. She likes my sense of humour (by text), likes my picture. Its been a while since I've dated (in English!) We are going for a drink, wha...
A. 2 August 2012: Movies, travels, food, music, books...... I would avoid talking about exes, but find some thing the two of you have in common. Ask her question and pay attention.
Use your manners and don't get drunk :)
And have a great time.... (read in full...)
How can I settle down with him knowing that he has feelings of wanting to be a female?
Q. I need some help and other opinions as i am so confused at to what to do at the moment. I will explain briefly the situation. I have been with my partner now for 3 years. When we met for the first couple of years the relationship was great! ...
A. 2 August 2012: I think I would look into some crossdresser/transgender forums and see if you can find some people to help you answer your questions.
I would also suggest that you perhaps look into a couples counselor, someone with experience in this. Speciall... (read in full...)
My Ex Fiance, who also has Trust issues: Should I Leave her alone or try to contact her? She started showing interest again and then nothing.
Q. I have a situation going on currently at this time.. I started talking to my ex-fiance about about a month and a half ago, and everything was going fine we talked and went out a couple of times made out and everything seemed fine. Then all of a sud...
A. 2 August 2012: You said you would give her time, so do JUST that.
Since you two were at one point engaged to be married I would assume that you can call her in a week or two and see where she is at.
However, it really comes down to a few things. Do both ... (read in full...)
He left to do drugs while I was making him dinner. Am I wrong for being mad?
Q. Okay so today I was hanging out with my boyfriend like normal, (we usually hang everyday) and hes a sweet heart. I really like him and maybe love him. But see the thing is he smokes weed, I don't really care about that but while I was making him ...
A. 2 August 2012: Don't say *I don't care* If that is NOT how you feel. Be honest about it.
It doesn't make you a "cool" girl friend by letting him think it doesn't phase you.
Be honest, be real.... (read in full...)
I love her but our attitudes to our children differ. She resents the time I spend with my sons. Can we make this relationship work?
Q. I have this dilemma. I think I know the answer, I think I know what's right. But, damn. I really need some some brutal honesty. I have been dating this 45 year old woman for over 18 months. She has 3 boys, I have 2 boys. Started as long distance...
A. 2 August 2012: Honestly, YOU will never change and neither will she, so you are at an impasse. And an impasse that show the BOTH of you that you are not that great of a fit/match.
She has some rather UNREALISTIC expectations of you. She fell for you BECAUSE ... (read in full...)
Dumped him for various red flags, agree or disagree?
Q. Dated a guy for almost 2 years andhe never ever took me to his house or showed me where he lived. I found that creepy and asked him about it several times but he just ignored my requests to see his place. Dumped him eventually for that and a bunch ...
A. 2 August 2012: Listen to your gut, it's usually right. And don't beat yourself up over this, learn from it.
Chin up!... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me figure out how to get such a hard-to-impress girl to like me back?
Q. So, there is this girl. Intelligent, charming, good looking and so on. We get along really well, our conversations are great and I just think our personalities are compatible. But...she is very VERY hard to read; I don't think she's easily impressed ...
A. 2 August 2012: Why doesn't she date?
I mean if she doesn't date, why keep trying?... (read in full...)
How can I leave her slowly so she doesn't feel she's done something wrong!
Q. Hey guys... I ll come straight to point ... I have a girlfriend... She is beautifuk classy hot n everything dat i wabted ... One thing i wnted most is her virginity... But she s wasnt ... She had a asshole first bf ... So i still love her so much ...
A. 2 August 2012: You can't leave someone SLOWLY. It's just plain CRUEL to drag it out.
If you can't be with her the best and nicest thing you can do is be honest and upfront about it and make the break clean and fast.
Tell her that SHE didn't do anything wron... (read in full...)
Am I weird that I have multiple girls I have a crush on and all at the same time? Does this happen to other guys?
Q. Is it weird to have crush's on different girls at the same time? I am a 13 year old guy and I want to know of it is a little weird to have multiple crushes all at the same time where I like different girls. I like girls and I have had lots of crush...
A. 2 August 2012: Seems pretty normal to me.
However, If you start to date, try and focus on that ONE gril who is your girlfriend :)
Having a crush happens to everyone at any point in their life. As long as you can recognize it for what it is. (a crush not und... (read in full...)
Dumped him for various red flags, agree or disagree?
Q. Dated a guy for almost 2 years andhe never ever took me to his house or showed me where he lived. I found that creepy and asked him about it several times but he just ignored my requests to see his place. Dumped him eventually for that and a bunch ...
A. 2 August 2012:
Why did it take you two years to dump him?
I can't imagine DATING a person and never see where they live or how they live. So, yes THAT would be a red flag.
It seems like he dated you out of convenience and you dated him why? Because you hop... (read in full...)
How can I help my boyfriend keep a stable job?
Q. How can I help my boyfriend, he hasn't been able to hold a job for longer than three to six months. He keeps getting let go and it seems to me for the most ridiculous reasons, such as talking too much and too loudly.I've been with him for about a ...
A. 2 August 2012: I'm sorry, there is NOTHING you can do. It's all on him. And it this is his MO or his pattern he is unlikely to stop it, grow up and get a clue anytime soon.
Have you talked to him about it?
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My ex and her friends have turned my new girlfriends life into a living hell
Q. Okay so I dated this girl for a while and we even got engaged. We broke up because I made a horrible mistake. I wasn’t attracted to her and I didn’t love her, I proposed because I thought it was the right thing to do. When I realized that it was ...
A. 2 August 2012: Not sure either what you are asking. I would BLOCK your ex from your life in every way, be it cell phone number (yea, there is an APP for that -some are even free to download)her Facebook, social site, her e-mail EVERYTHING.
DO not fall for the ... (read in full...)
Is she cheating still? Is this a salvageable situation?
Q. My gf of more than a year and I broke up in April, we each had a rebound and did our thing fr a month and a half. The reason for our break up she claimed she felt stuck and felt as if we were married (granted i felt the same way). Upon getting back ...
A. 2 August 2012: You have confronted her HOW many times and she keeps doing it? Sorry, honey she isn't going to stop. And she knows all she has to do is feed you some bullshit excuse and you will STILL be there for her.
Sorry, I think she is emotionally detached... (read in full...)
Are women of just two types: girlfriends and the easy ones?
Q. I have heard a lot of times that men put women into 2 categories on spot: girlfriend/wife material AND just for fun/sex buddy etc. What are your insights on this topic?...
A. 2 August 2012: No I personally, don't believe in "typing" people that way. The thing is someone may be "type cast" into the wrong category and YOU lose out on an amazing person.
Do guys do this? I'm sure some does.
I do think, that women (and men) can act in ... (read in full...)
Every time I invite her to do something she's busy. Is she just not interested?
Q. Hello, I met this girl a 2 weeks ago through a mutual friend. That night i took her number and told her we would do something soon enough. A few days later we went out and we had a blast, I ever ran into another friend of mine who saw us toget...
A. 2 August 2012: I agree with giving her a little notice and hold your horses... Slow down a little. Woo her.
Don't expect her to drop everything else for you. After all you have ONLY known her for 2 weeks.... (read in full...)
Why do woman hook up with married men?
Q. My question is simple, Why do women hook up with a married man? I would like to hear from those who had a relationship with a married man, why did you do it? Love? Sex? Adventure? ...
A. 2 August 2012: Because they can. And because "dating" a married man is "easier" then dating one who doesn't have a wife at home, to wash his dirty sock, fold his laundry, cook him dinners, clean the house, take care of the kids..........
They lack morals. ... (read in full...)
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