He's always needing money, always questioning my feelings for him, and never wants to go out or do anything.
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 months, I love his personality and sense of humor...but seems like he never has any money and he makes more than i. he asked me a couple of weeks ago to make his house payment for him because he was three ...
A. 6 December 2012: Good for you! And good luck to you.... (read in full...)
How long do women need foreplay before being turned on?
Q. Hello I've read an artice on internet which showed something different what I've knew until now. In this article is mentioned that to turn a woman on needs at least 15 minutes foreplay and sometimes even more( I thout 5 to 10 minutes its enough) ...
A. 2 December 2012: There is no set "timer" on turning a woman on.
Depending on MANY things a woman can be good to go in 30 seconds other times 30 minutes. Depends on what you do, how well you do it and also the influx of hormones that given day.
If you really... (read in full...)
He's always needing money, always questioning my feelings for him, and never wants to go out or do anything.
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 months, I love his personality and sense of humor...but seems like he never has any money and he makes more than i. he asked me a couple of weeks ago to make his house payment for him because he was three ...
A. 2 December 2012: Wow, sounds more like a 3rd child then a BF honestly. I don't think he wants a GF he wants a second "mom" someone who will CATER to him every wish and whim.
Sorry if he is in the same age group 36-40 as you I would end it. It's only been 3 months... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and I had a small argument and I haven't heard from him at all
Q. Yesterday afternoon we were on the phone and had a small argument. I wasnt aware of my tone and how I said it but he asked me where I was going (i was driving home from school) and I said "Where else would I go? I'm going home" and he got defensive ...
A. 2 December 2012: I would seriously just let him stew. Focus on your studies. No guy is worth getting bad grades over.
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Boyfriend and I had a small argument and I haven't heard from him at all
Q. Yesterday afternoon we were on the phone and had a small argument. I wasnt aware of my tone and how I said it but he asked me where I was going (i was driving home from school) and I said "Where else would I go? I'm going home" and he got defensive ...
A. 2 December 2012: I'd stop calling him til he calls back and apologize, you already did - he owes you one too.
And I will second Cerberus - don't talk/text while driving. ... (read in full...)
How do you know if you have an yeast infection?
Q. i heard that a women's scent changes depending on diet. i'm starting to see discharge and it has a chlorine scent and is white but a little thick and creamy. i am on the iud birth control method so could that be changes as well? i don't have ...
A. 2 December 2012: I would just go see your GYN.
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What gives girls the right to be angry with men who did not respond to their advances and rejected them in the past?
Q. A little over a month ago I moved back to my hometown after many years of absence. Since returning I have had a few "blast from the past" encounters (in the shape of eye contact and non-verbal communication only, mostly over the frozen chicken isle ...
A. 2 December 2012: I think your imagination is cooking up scenarios that are far from the truth...
They might have had a crush on you in the old days, but seriously, I doubt ANY woman would hold a grudge this long. And if they do, then F it! Why worry about it? It's... (read in full...)
My dad saw one of the dirty pics that I had sent my B/f!
Q. Ok so me and my boyfriend now have a long distance relationship... in order to keep things "interesting"... we send each other pictures. The other night I sent him a bunch of pictures and they were sitting on my desktop. The next day I was in the ...
A. 2 December 2012: How do you think your Dad felt? LOL
Let it go.
And I agree with Cerberus security advice - follow through on that!
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My father-in-law scolded me for something I didn't do. and my husband didn't come to my defense.
Q. hii...i am from a cultured family... today mu husbands father scolded me infront of him for the mistake which i have not done....he didnot give me chance to explain my version...my husband remained silent through out this topic...later he...
A. 2 December 2012: I would go find your Father in law when he is alone and explain the matter from your point of view. If he will not listen then I don't know what to advice.
And I also think you need to talk to your husband. Ask him WHY he didn't stand up for you.... (read in full...)
My long distance girlfriend (another country) won't move to be with me for two and a half years. I don't think I can wait that long.
Q. im in a ldr with an awesome girl, we both love each other very much, im in america in she is in europe. we have been together for 6 months only but i miss her so much that is painful. she has just told me she wants to finish school in her country ...
A. 2 December 2012: First of all, it is NOT easy to "just" transfer to a US college/university - it depends on what she is studying.
And in my book her finishing her studying should be her 1st priority.
However, 2 things.. WHY can't you look for work there? Why ... (read in full...)
While house-sitting for my girlfriend, I discovered she is not the person she lead me to believe she is.
Q. So I have been with my girlfriend about 4 months and I thought things were going great. We got serious very quickly however and ended up spending almost every day together. Lately I've felt very uncertain about several things I've discover...
A. 2 December 2012: I think she is a liar and a cheat.
I don't have a problem with a woman who has a bigger libido then her mate, but THAT is NO excuse to troll Craigslist for 3-somes and then BLAME it on the partner when they get caught.
She also lie about her ag... (read in full...)
Saw my best friends fiancée on a dating website. Should I tell him?
Q. I have joined a dating site. I have seen a profile of my life long best friends soon to be wife. She is active on it and it says she is single. What do I do? If I told him would it end up where she lies to him and I get classed as a trouble causer? ...
A. 2 December 2012: Did they met at this dating website? Could be an old profile that she isn't using anymore.
Yes, I would let him know but I would try and make it low key like Cerberus said. I'd copy & paste the link and e-mail it to him.
IF she IS still act... (read in full...)
Should I send him an anonymous treat?
Q. well my crush knows i like him (my friend told him via facebook!!! ahahaha...thanks mate :P ) and anyway he didnt reply :/ but oh well! so we have a thing at school where you can send sweets to people (money goes to charity) they can be sent anono...
A. 1 December 2012: Why not? he won't know 100% it's from you :) If you send a few more to friends as well it will seem more "harmless".
As long as you don't expect him to fall head over heals for you. Sometimes a crush is just one-sided - not much you can do about... (read in full...)
We were getting along fantastically until I told her how taken I was with her, now I don't hear from her.
Q. You guys have prevented me from making some monumental blunders in the past..see some of my past posts..But I've NEVER needed your help more than I do now! Scenario: I live in Wash, DC. I'm cycling back from tennis practice when I hear, from acr...
A. 1 December 2012: Nothing wrong with putting yourself out there but I would give it a bit more time before doing so in the future.
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I want to runaway from home and study abroad. I need support and advise!!
Q. I have trust issues and support issues with my family. I live in a conservative country where they see a girl is a half human being, she can live her life and start travelling after marriage !! I can never live accordingly, I have my dreams I...
A. 1 December 2012: How would you afford the "escape" and then finding a place to live, pay for food and then all the tuition to fulfill your dreams?
Be realistic.
I would look into what you need to do in order to become the person you want to be. What kind of gra... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and it's embarrassing. Should I get a male prostitute so I can get the first time out of the way?
Q. Probably the most humiliating thread to post. So anon for obvious reasons. Well, basically I'm a virgin girl 21, and for the past year or so I have been teased by literally everyone who found out I was a virgin. It hasn't at all been for lack of ...
A. 1 December 2012: 1. there is NOTHING wrong in being a virgin at 21 or heck at 41. It just means you haven't found someone you cared enough for to share your first time with.
2. Don't tell people you are virgin if you don't want to, UNLESS it's a guy you have dat... (read in full...)
He made a commitment to be with me, but is still chatting up girls on the dating site we met on.
Q. I met my boyfriend on an online dating/chat website about 7 months ago. We were just friends for about 5 months before we both agreed to be in a committed relationship. We live two states apart and we visit each other at least every few months. ...
A. 1 December 2012: Sorry, a guy who is still on the dating site and STILL contacting other women and chatting in a sexual manner is NOT committed to the relationship AT ALL - he is just using you as a "safety blanket" til someone "better" (in his eyes) comes along.
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Why is my ex talking to me again?
Q. My ex, now married, is talking to me on a regular basis and telling me what's going on in his life. Is he interested in me again or just want someone to talk to???...
A. 1 December 2012: It's hard to say why he is doing it, but I don't think it;s a good idea. He is newly married and talking to the ex (even if it's innocent) is just playing with fire.
I would NOT expect that he is talking to you because he is interested in you agai... (read in full...)
Do I need to stop flirting with female friends?
Q. Hello, i am feeling guilty because i talk to a girl online through facebook, skype and sometimes over xbox live and i think she likes me where as i just flirt because i like it. i do not mean to sound bad here but i do not find her at all physically ...
A. 1 December 2012: I agree, no flirting with girls you have no intentions with - you can still have a verbal banter but leave out the sexual component.
And NO dirty talk with ANYONE except your GF and ONLY if she is OK with that.
You are USING this girl to mak... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to ask if she would mind scanning her notes? And why did she say yes, and then not bother? And now ignores me?
Q. I want to share this with you people and please give me your opinion I need some help here Thanks :). Ok so I started a course on July, its only 2 times a week and since the first day I've been talking to 2 girls that seemed to be friendly, I ...
A. 1 December 2012: I would not have relied only on her to get a copy of the notes. But learn from this TAKE your own notes and if you are missing from class one day ask someone else for a photocopy not for them to scan it. It is 10 times easier.
She didn't want to ... (read in full...)
We were getting along fantastically until I told her how taken I was with her, now I don't hear from her.
Q. You guys have prevented me from making some monumental blunders in the past..see some of my past posts..But I've NEVER needed your help more than I do now! Scenario: I live in Wash, DC. I'm cycling back from tennis practice when I hear, from acr...
A. 1 December 2012: She was looking for a tennis partner NOT a date. And honestly you BARELY know her.
So... STOP texting her. If she still wants to play tennis with you she will get in touch, if she wants to date you, she will get in touch.
Are you sure the fel... (read in full...)
Would you consider an internet romance to be cheating?
Q. Would it be cheating if my girlfriend went on internet and talked to some guy and they had a little romance over the internet for not a long time before i cought her. She then told me they did nothing. But I read the email and they were flirting and ...
A. 1 December 2012: Yes. It is emotionally cheating. And that fact that she met up with him speaks volumes - doesn't matter that their didn't have sex.. it's STILL cheating.... (read in full...)
Does saying sorry make you a better person?
Q. Hi everyone, I would really appreciate it if you can share your thoughts on this one... Does saying sorry to someone after saying some hurtful things make you a better person instead of being conceited and ignorant?...
A. 1 December 2012: If you truly mean it and learn enough from it to never do it again - then yes, it makes you a better person.
THOUGH, over all THINKING before you do or say something is even better.
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He says we have sex less often because I've put on weight. Could this be the real reason?
Q. hello, i have a problem. i have been with my boyfriend for 7years. we only have sex sometimes once a week or once a month. he says it's because i've gained weight and it feels different. Can this be true? Also i sometimes think he's cheating ...
A. 30 November 2012: It could be a mix of several things.
Weight can be part of the issue if you have GAINED a lot and you seem or act less comfortable naked or less confident in bed.
Also after 7 years sex becomes little more of a habit then it was the first 1-... (read in full...)
What's the difference between sexual attraction and love?
Q. Hi, Anybody out there that can tell me What the difference is between sexual attraction And love? And doesn't it go hand in hand? Thanks...
A. 30 November 2012: Yes, a person can be physically attracted to another person without knowing a thing about them, purely based on looks and/or personality. Basically they can be "pretty" and dumb as a rock, but the latter doesn't matter.
Consider an actor playing ... (read in full...)
He got a stripper pregnant, and is staying with her but says he still loves me.
Q. My exboyfriend first cheated on me with a stripper, then lied to me saying that he longer had connections with her. Within 3 months the stripper is suppose to be pregnant with his child, and now it has been 5 months and she claims they are married. ...
A. 30 November 2012: WHY are you still talking to this scumbag?
If he really loved you he wouldn't have cheated on you. Whether their relationship will work or not is moot - he is with her now.
Stop talking to him, stop texting and chatting. Erase him from your li... (read in full...)
The guy I'm just starting to date may have given me strep throat. Should I tell him?
Q. I have this crush on a guy who I think gave me strep throat about a month ago when we hung out. How do I tell him? What if I'm wrong? I met this guy this past summer at an event. He body painted me and we became friends on facebook and I finally got ...
A. 30 November 2012: No, it's Strep, not an STD. It's a bacterial infection.
Cold sore is Herpes Simplex. BIG difference.
But you CAN tell him that you had Strep throat.
To quote a medical website:
It is usually transmitted by close contact with the saliva... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 30 November 2012: Great news!!
I'm glad it paid off to be honest and upfront!
Good luck!... (read in full...)
He keeps me hidden from all aspects of his life but I still love him, should I stay or go?
Q. I have been with my bf for 1 and 1/2 years. He keeps me hidden from all aspects of his life. He doesnt want me to be around his friends, co-workers or his family. I have only met 3 of his friends and recently met some of his co-workers only because ...
A. 30 November 2012: So he lives with his parents, he never stays overnight, and he doesn't want to bond with your child?
After a 1 1/2 year he should definitely have bonded pretty well with your son and maybe even considered you two living together.
He wants to s... (read in full...)
I dumped him because of the dating sites, but he's still on them meeting new people! How do I overcome my anger?
Q. I have broke up from a 2 year relationship. It was my decision. He would not stop visiting datimg sites and always lied to me about it or said he went on them because I nagged him all the time. Now, the same account he said wasnt his is still there ...
A. 30 November 2012: Well, you can be as angry as you want at him and for him to already be dating again.
The thing is, a person who goes on dating sites when IN a relationship is ALREADY disengaging and looking for greener grass. So basically he dated you til he t... (read in full...)
Why can't he ever address me by my name?
Q. There is a man who I think is attracted to me (flirts, smiles, let's off so much positive energy and shows interest in me etc), but he NEVER has once said my name. He even has written to someone else about me to discuss a detail and referred to me ...
A. 30 November 2012: Are you 100% sure he KNOWS your name? Maybe he isn't sure and don't want you to know that he forgot.
Personally, I'm really bad with names, but great with faces and places.... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with him but I don't like the thought of him with anyone else
Q. I've been with someone for a year and a little bit now, and we broke up and its been about two months, we still see each other and things and try and act normal, but we still do things with other people which may be weird. I don't want to be with ...
A. 30 November 2012: I think it is selfish (but understandable) how you feel, but you really need to be realistic.
By "pretending" to be friends you are BOTH holding yourself and each other back from moving on. And you re kind of stringing him along if he think th... (read in full...)
To those who are married/in relationships: Do you masturbate? If yes, why?
Q. Hello I want to ask people who are married or in relationship if they masturbate, if yes how often they do it and why? Thank you....
A. 29 November 2012: yes.
when I feel like it.
because I can.... (read in full...)
Has he crossed boundaries, should I make something of his behavior?
Q. I was at a meeting last night and the usual innuendo was going on. After the meeting I went down the pub with two of the men one of which I know quite well being my partner's friend. The other guy had gone outside for a cigarette so when we sat d...
A. 29 November 2012: Is this how he usually is? The "sense of humor" ? If so, then he is perhaps just a flirty guy.
Honestly, if something makes you uncomfortable - TELL that person, :"hey, do you mind moving your arm I can't sit back with your arm in the way."
... (read in full...)
Should I end our affair in person? Or is a goodbye text enough?
Q. I've decided that even tho I'm hopelessly in love with a guy I've been having an affair with, it's time to end it. He is married, and I know he's never gonna leave her, I'm just tired of holding my emotions inside, and waiting for him to be mine, ...
A. 29 November 2012: I would NOT do it in person, I would just rip that band-aid off and text him and them tell him NO CONTACT.
Block his number, un-friend & block him on Farcebook and whatnot.
And.. honey... Word of advice.... Don't "date" a married man agai... (read in full...)
We were planning to meet then all of a sudden he stopped talking to me! What can I do?
Q. hello i know you have answered this similar question many times but i honestly need help to let this go! i met this guy on face book. 2months ago.he seamed so amazing. we talked a lot, exchanged many photos and videos, called each other all the ti...
A. 29 November 2012: Sorry, it's only been 2 months. I would accept that he isn't interested any more. It's not that he needs space or time to himself, he just isn't interested in having a online relationship with you any more.
And I would honestly leave the room mat... (read in full...)
Unemployment and relationship finances...who buys dinner?
Q. My bf and I have been dating about 8 months and this is the first serious relationship for both of us. When we met we both had good jobs, he still has one but I'm a contractor and so once my last contract ended about 4 months ago I have been ...
A. 29 November 2012: I don't think you are a "gold-digger" or "money-grabber" - I think your BF is EXTREMELY penny pinching.
He lives with his mom, so does he pay rent and other expenses at "home"? If he is in his 30's and still living at home that would kinda gi... (read in full...)
Adult girl and 16-year-old guy.... Could it work? Is it going to get us in trouble?
Q. Hello everyone. Thank you in advance for taking time out of your busy lifes to help with all of our problems and for reading my problem too. Well the main problem is that i am in love with a great guy (all these months he has helped me through ...
A. 29 November 2012: I have to agree wholeheartedly with SVC
A 20-something WOMAN should not be looking for a 16 year old BOY to date. It might be legal in many places but I personally think the age gap of 6+ years is WAY to big at this stage. Given the fact that mal... (read in full...)
Is my behavior my fault, or the fault of the person who caused me to behave this way?
Q. SIMPLE QUESTION: if i tell someone (in this case a family member) not to do or say a certain thing b/c it'll get me really angry, and then they go ahead and say or do what gets me angry anyways, and i blow up and get mad, am i at fault, or ...
A. 29 November 2012: Yes, you are responsible for your own actions.
If you KNOW that this person LOVE to jerk your chain to set you off, YOU need to learn how to react without anger.
Every action has a reaction. X says BLAH and you get mad. X KNOWS when he/she says... (read in full...)
I'm finally ready to move in with him after a year and a half of long distance relationship. Now he says he doesn't think we're right for each other.
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship for a year and a half. We have been very happy and planned to move in together. He has alway said he wanted to marry me and now that i am in a place to move in with him he has said he is not sure we are ...
A. 29 November 2012: HE LOVED the idea of the two of you together as a fantasy. But when it came to REALITY he had to find an excuse as to why it isn't going to work. It's called "cold feet" or just plain simple REALITY CHECK.
I think it is BETTER you know NOW that... (read in full...)
I'm 14, am I ready for sex?
Q. I am a 14 year old girl...i am from india...the question i want to ask is that am i ready for sex?...i know this guy since 8 months..we are pretty much good friends...we share everything with eachother..no secrets...he wants to have sex with me...so ...
A. 28 November 2012: Like SVC said, you are NOT ready if you think strangers on the Internet can tell you that it is OK at 14 to have sex.
You already know that it's not accepted culturally where you live, so til you are old enough to DEAL with the repercus... (read in full...)
Am I rushing the wedding bells?
Q. I have been in a serious relationship for 10 months with a wonderful man. We see each other every day and spend weekends together. Our families have intertwined and everything is going great. When should I be expecting a marriage proposal? I'm 43 ...
A. 28 November 2012: Honestly, I do think you are rushing it.
I mean what is the hurry? It's not like you have an expiration date when it comes to marriage.
I would talk to him about what he thinks - you already know that marriage is something he can see in the f... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 27 September 2012: Good for you to own up to it. And good luck with next phase!... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 7 September 2012: I think it was well worded and honest. ... (read in full...)
Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?
Q. Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...
A. 7 September 2012: I agree with C. Grant. Be 100% honest. I'm PRETTY sure they have seen/heard it before. Owning up to past mistakes I would think is better then having a polygraph that shows deceit.
Everyone has done something in their life they aren't proud of... (read in full...)
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