If he lost interest, why is looking at my Facebook pics?
Q. A guy I have been seeing has stopped contacting me. I don't know what happened but it started after relationship got physical even though that was great so I know it's not a lack of chemistry there. . I'm not looking for a "u gotta hold out longer" ...
A. 28 December 2012: That's the attitude!... (read in full...)
If he lost interest, why is looking at my Facebook pics?
Q. A guy I have been seeing has stopped contacting me. I don't know what happened but it started after relationship got physical even though that was great so I know it's not a lack of chemistry there. . I'm not looking for a "u gotta hold out longer" ...
A. 24 December 2012: Don't feel like crap over this guy. If he isn't MAN enough to tell you he isn't interested, yet he stalks your Facebook pictures, he isn't worth worrying about - I think that was more the point people were trying to say.
I would just block hi... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's parents won't let me see her, HELP!!!
Q. My girlfriend's parents have something against me, and I have no clue what to do. The whole thing started when she was over at my house, and my dad was responsible for driving her home, and long story short, he wasn't available at the arranged time. ...
A. 22 December 2012: I would back of til the Dad cools off. Maybe he just doesn't really want her dating and was looking for an excuse to tell her no more dating for now.
There really isn't anything you can do. I agree if she is under 18 living at her parents house, t... (read in full...)
I thought the second date went well but she never responded to my text afterwards. Is she not interested? Should I ask her out again?
Q. I met a woman online and we had a fantastic first date. She is very pretty, funny, kind and we had a lot in common. She asked me out on a 2nd date and texted me afterwards saying she had a great time and she couldn't wait to get together again. ...
A. 21 December 2012: YAY good news :) Have a great date!... (read in full...)
Why is he still lying? Yet begging to resume our relationship? Will he change or continue to go on dating sites if we get back together?
Q. I dumped my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago for going on dating sites and sex texting with girls. He could not even explain who these girls were, so I assumed they were from dating sites. He is still lying and says he never went on those dating s...
A. 20 December 2012: I doubt he will change. He wants you back because it's nice to have a fall-back girl while looking for greener grass.
The fact that he flat out told you, this is none of your business because we aren't together kinda shows his attitude, it certa... (read in full...)
Is keeping a memory box lame and depressing? My friends comment upset me!
Q. I just wanted to get another opinion on this as my friends comment I thought was rude and didn't make sense... Basically, in my room at university I put in this wristband someone gave me the night before from an epic night out in this box. She as...
A. 20 December 2012: Honestly, it sounds like she is belittling your memory box because SHE didn't think of that or doesn't have one.
I would just ignore her comment. Personally I don't hold on to a lot of stuff, but I have to say that is it FUN to go through old phot... (read in full...)
I want to leave my cheating husband, but need to straighten out some financial matters first. How can I cope with this in the mean time?
Q. I am married with 3 children. The youngest is 9 months old and the oldest is 3 1/2. My husband is contacting women on Craigslist and emailing them with the intent of having sex with them while he is at work. He has sent pictures of his genitals and ...
A. 20 December 2012: First step would definitely be an attorney/lawyer and go from there.
What a piece of scum and I'm sorry.... (read in full...)
If he lost interest, why is looking at my Facebook pics?
Q. A guy I have been seeing has stopped contacting me. I don't know what happened but it started after relationship got physical even though that was great so I know it's not a lack of chemistry there. . I'm not looking for a "u gotta hold out longer" ...
A. 20 December 2012: Eh, just block him and set your privacy setting for your pictures to friends only ( and de-friend him)
I would venture a guess that he was just surfing around and looked at your pictures, no hidden agenda.
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Me loving her right now isn't important, saving the friendship is!
Q. There is this girl who I have known for several months now and we instantly became best friends. I don't want to go into details on how we met but ever since she stepped into my life she made me a very happy person again after being treated badly by ...
A. 19 December 2012: I agree with SVC - you can't MAKE her want to be your friend again.
LEARN from this and adjust your behavior accordingly in the future when you make friends.
Let her be. If she at some future point in time thinks she wants to be around you ag... (read in full...)
She wants to fool around, so she broke up with me! What does that mean?
Q. Hi I am 17 and my girlfriend is 14 and we are both in high school. She is my first girlfriend and I am her first boyfriend. She recently broke up with me, although we still talk and act like bf/gf because she doesn't want a serious relationship yet. ...
A. 19 December 2012: Honestly if she is 14 she shouldn't be dating so seriously that it leads to sex IMHO.
But yes, basically she doesn't want a GROWN up relationship because.. she ISN'T a grown up. She wants to do whatever "feels" good for her.
IF she still treats... (read in full...)
How long does it take to get over someone and is it possible to be friends after a relationship?
Q. How long does it take to get over someone and is it possible to be friends after a relationship? I split up from my ex about 7 months ago but we kept in touch via email (he lives abroad). Even though we both knew (and said) we still loved each oth...
A. 19 December 2012: I think it depends on the two people and how the relationship ended.
But most of all I don't see there being a HUGE need to be friends with the EX. Friendly perhaps, but not necessary at all.
... (read in full...)
I invested so much into this guy but he has dumped me for his sister's friend! What should I do?
Q. I am in relationship with a guy, he had a problem in school so he left. we see each other on hols and had sex, so many times he confessed his love to me and i went for it. i was happy until he sent me a msg on whatsapp that he is in love with his ...
A. 19 December 2012: He used you for sex. STOP trying to fix this, there is nothing to fix.
Your friends are right, do not call him, thank your lucky star he didn't get you pregnant.
And what exactly is it that you LOVE so dearly about him? Him using you? Then ... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend only sees me when he has nothing better to do!
Q. I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. The problem is it seems like he only sees me when he has nothing better to do. I cannot get him to agree to do anything at the weekends because he wants to wait to see what else is happening, plus ...
A. 19 December 2012: And this is how he STILL treats you after 3 years? Why are you still with him?
He is taking you 100% for granted.
Not being willing to make plans with you for the week-end? That is ridiculous!
I would drop him and move on. I can't see the... (read in full...)
We are at the 3 year mark in our relationship yet all he cares about is drinking and Xbox.
Q. It will be coming upto three years at the end of this month that I have been together with my boyfriend and things have been going downhill quite quickly. Now I don't wanna compare myself to other people or couples but I thought that around the ...
A. 19 December 2012: In the last 3 years YOU might have matured and grown a lot.. he hasn't.
I agree with SVC - he is happy with status quo. He will not change over night, if at all.
No matter how long you wait or how much you love him, he wants to live his life as... (read in full...)
What did my girlfriend mean by this text message?
Q. My gf sent me this text and idk what she's getting at I'm a bit afraid to ask her because I get a bad vibe from reading it here's the text "Tummy, I don't want you to feel obligated to tolerate me ok? We aren't bound to eachother... Ok? o.o" oh she ...
A. 19 December 2012: My guess? She thinks you are with her out of pity or because there is no one "better" at the moment. Or' it's a passive-aggressive dig because you don't pay enough attention to her perhaps? Hard to say, I don't know her, you or how your relationship ... (read in full...)
I'm developing a huge crush on a guy at college but he's already in a relationship. What do I do?
Q. I'm seventeen and I started my first year of college in September. Since then I keep seeing this guy around college who I find really attractive, I've never had a crush before as strange as it sounds, but I really am attracted to this guy. He's ...
A. 19 December 2012: Enjoy looking at him from afar, but respect that he has a partner.
It's a crush.. Sooner or later you will met a guy who
ISN'T taken and who Is interested.... (read in full...)
I thought the second date went well but she never responded to my text afterwards. Is she not interested? Should I ask her out again?
Q. I met a woman online and we had a fantastic first date. She is very pretty, funny, kind and we had a lot in common. She asked me out on a 2nd date and texted me afterwards saying she had a great time and she couldn't wait to get together again. ...
A. 19 December 2012: I would call and ask her out again, what do you have to lose?
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He broke up with me, then got upset at me joining a dating website, so he joined the same site. What do I make of this?
Q. He dumped me just over a month ago, out of the blue. we were serious and talked about a future. He said he wanted to be alone, not date anyone and focus on his kids. Since then I have told him how much I love him and want to work it out. He has r...
A. 18 December 2012: I agree fully with SVC - he doesn't want you to move on but he doesn't WANT you either...
Let him go, block him and move on.... (read in full...)
Does your significant other tell you that he finds other women attractive?
Q. My significant other will comment about women on tv or about coworkers. The other day it was a sitcom and the supporting actor was dating a woman and the actor said she was hot. Then the woman appeared and my SO goes Wow! and then Wow! again. Then ...
A. 18 December 2012: Yes, but in all honesty so do I.
I, however NEVER compare my husband to any of them or point out his "short-coming" in comparison.
I married HIM. I have been married to HIM for 15 years now.. That should tell HIM something lol.
And I di... (read in full...)
He got pissed off and told me to leave when I told him I didn't like oral sex...
Q. I have been talking to this guy for 4 months now and I think the relationship is based on sex. He drives trucks and is on the road a lot which leaves us to hang out 2 or 3 times a week. Whenever we hang out its just at his house we watch movies eat ...
A. 18 December 2012: You never talk to the turd again. You wasted 4 months on this guy already, let it go.
And I think your gut is right, is was just a "relationship" based on sex.
... (read in full...)
Am I supposed to feel hungry when dieting? And any tips on losing weight, for a woman aged 50?
Q. Hi there, I m very confused about dieting and weight loss, and because I would love to get in shape I really would like to share some experiences. So it is harder to lose weight at menopausal age, as I heard, but I was getting conflicting advice. ...
A. 18 December 2012: Never starve yourself. So don't go below 1200 cal a day. The thing is to substitute that larger portions of red meat with smaller portions of fish/poultry and veggies.
IF you aren't a GYM person go for a walk EVERY day. Say 45 min. to start wi... (read in full...)
He's been wooing me with nice words. But will he stay if I want to take things very Slowly?
Q. So i go to school with his boy that i like. We've been talking for awhile now. When he texts me he calls me babe and bae. He also says that im beautiful. He told me he wants to be with me. I wanna be with him too. But he told me he wants to kiss...
A. 17 December 2012: If he can not respect you wanting to go slow he is NOT for you. NEVER do things you aren't ready for in order to "keep" a guy - if he can't stick around for YOU, he just isn't worth it.
And calling you babe and other "cutesy" nicknames doesn't ... (read in full...)
Is he interested in me? He knows my attitude to sex.
Q. My ex and I were dating for about a month and made it offical as boyfriend and girlfriend for 3 weeks. I wouldn't have sex with him yet since I thought it was too soon. So he opted to just completely ignore me and he left me for another girl. (who's ...
A. 17 December 2012: I would go out to the movies with him, just stick to your guns though, sweet guy or not.
Do what feels right for you.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he wants to be with me after I cheated but he's calling me names!
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend of a year in a really bad way. I've been honest about it and admitted it. I'd like to work it out and understand he is angry, disgusted and a lot of other things. He says he wants to be with me...BUT he keeps calling me ...
A. 17 December 2012:
Just because you were honest about it and YOU want to work it out doesn't mean he doesn't have a right to feel pissed off, hurt and betrayed.... HOWEVER.... IF HE wants to work through this he needs to figure out a way to move past it with him turn... (read in full...)
Do you think this text was meant for some-one else?
Q. Do you think txt was meant for someone else? Jsut want to know if you think im being paranoid or is this dodgy, A guy I have been seeing for a year now has been away to a friends birthday for the weekend. He has sent me a message everyday while he's ...
A. 16 December 2012: Yea from what you write I would "guess" it was not meant for you. Or he would have elaborated not ignored your reply. I think he had a "OH Shit moment" and figured silence was easier then the truth or taking the time to make up an elaborate lie.... (read in full...)
Ladies: questions about sex on the first date.
Q. I would like to know two quick things about women ************************************ 1) how often do women have sex on the first date, If you have had sex on the first date... 2) what does it take for you to have sex on the first date?...
A. 16 December 2012: I agree it comes down to the woman and in many cases the guy. But for me, I have never had sex on a first date. I feel it screws up getting to build that up where it's not just SEX but making LOVE.
I have been out on a couple of dates where th... (read in full...)
Why did she bleed when we had sex?
Q. please ladies, help with this one. i am extremely curious about something that happened to me. i met this wonderful girl and we became roommates, we were only aqcuitences before, but once we were together the first week i asked her out to the movies ...
A. 16 December 2012: If this is common she needs to go get a check up. Bleeding profusely during sex is not the norm.
Unless of course she was on her period.... (read in full...)
Why did she bleed when we had sex?
Q. please ladies, help with this one. i am extremely curious about something that happened to me. i met this wonderful girl and we became roommates, we were only aqcuitences before, but once we were together the first week i asked her out to the movies ...
A. 15 December 2012: Could be many reasons, but I have to say.. you come of as a major douche... ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is REALLY almost TOO skinny, what to do?
Q. Hi agony aunts :) I'm having this problem. My girlfriend is really, really, REALLY skinny. Like, I can see her bones, skinny. She is sometimes really insecure about the way she looks and how much she weighs, which always seems crazy to me because ...
A. 15 December 2012: Sounds like eating disorder for sure. It's a really hard subject to bring up because most girls suffering from it live in this "denial" zone where they actually see themselves as being "fat".... (read in full...)
Best friend. Should I tell her about her boyfriend?
Q. Okay well im starting to be really good friends with this girl at my school and she has a boyfriend for about 2 years. When i walk in the hallways at school he is always smiling and staring at me when she isn't looking, ill confess he is cute but i ...
A. 15 December 2012: I'm not sure she would believe you honestly, more like you might be reading more into his actions then what he meant.
The thing is he could be toying with you, to see how far you are willing to go, so I suggest you nip this in the bud. No groping,... (read in full...)
Is this normal male behaviour or is he being overly possessive?
Q. My boyfriend and I are on holiday, staying in my friend's apartment. She and her boyfriend live here. My boyfriend got upset with me last night as I came to bed in my pyjamas and he said the top was see-through and he hoped I wasn't letting N (the ...
A. 15 December 2012: Not normal at all, now if you were "prancing around" in a g-string and no top I can see him feeling out of sorts but for you to wear a PJ in the room where you are sleeping with your BF? WTF?
Seems like he really doesn't want to be there and want... (read in full...)
Straight out of a Soap Opera. Questions about her cheating.
Q. So, recently I posted about how my girlfriend of 6 years cheated on me with one of her co-workers. I didn't understand fully why everything happened. There were so many unanswered questions. I didn't understand why she wouldn't just tell me, leave ...
A. 15 December 2012: I think for every one you find cheat there is a story and a "reason" - usually it boils down to, I didn't think it would go this far or I didn't think I would get caught.
The first 3 words is more likely.. I DIDN'T THINK (about anyone but me).
... (read in full...)
Should I force myself to get married to feel like I amount to something?
Q. I am 21 years old and never had a relationship. My grandmother is picking on me constantly because I'm not married and she was at my age. She says that the reason why I'm not married is because I'm ugly,I'm worthless,I'm fat, ETC. And she always ...
A. 15 December 2012: I didn't get married til I was 28 - didn't find the "right" til I was 26 almost 27. If I had married the guy I was with at 21 who knows it might have lasted it might not have, we both had a lot of growing to do at that time.
Focus on YOU. Work on ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant after a one-night-stand. How do I tell him?
Q. 4 weeks ago I had a one-night-stand with this guy. A couple of days ago I took a test. I'm definitely pregnant. I want to tell him but I don't know how to. The major problem is he is in a relationship and his girlfriend doesn't know we had ...
A. 15 December 2012:
Well that is really messed up. Will he leave her for you? I doubt it and if he does I seriously doubt he will stick around, baby or no baby. And there is no doubt you will lose your friend too.
I suggest you go see your doctor and talk about y... (read in full...)
She makes me feel bad and I don't know what to do. Any advice?
Q. My friend will get mad at me if I'm not available to hang out. She gives me the silent treatment. When she finally does respond, she'll ask if I'm mad at her. I don't understand because she was mad at me and then is asking if I'm mad at her. When ...
A. 15 December 2012: **Does she really think I'm ugly when she makes fun of me?**
No, but she wants you to think you are, because misery (her) likes company. She is unhappy with herself/her life and want others to feel the same way. It may not be fully conscien... (read in full...)
Should I try to look for a meaningful relationship that goes beyond just sex?
Q. I don't know where to begin and I apologize in advance if this sounds like a long-winded whinge fest as opposed to a real question. That said, I really do need to talk to someone, so here goes. About a year ago or so, I developed feelings of the ...
A. 15 December 2012: 1. go get tested for HIV and other STD's(chances are you are clean) and then in 6 months get re-tested. In the meantime if you DO have sex USE protection EVERY TIME.
And YES, I do think forging a connection with a woman BEFORE having sex is a goo... (read in full...)
I thought he liked me, but he hasn't used my number.?
Q. There is a guy at work . There's a guy at work, I emailed him my number on pretence of work , we usually have a hot and cold relationship. He has his other colleagues numbers and talks to them. But hasn't called or texted me with my numbe...
A. 15 December 2012: I would really try and stay away from office romances as it is, and with him not wanting to call you -even ABOUT work - I would stop trying with this guy.
... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend be the only thing I lose if I end this relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half years, and because of this, most of my closest friends are also his closest friends. For the first few months of our relationship, my feelings for him were very intense, and I actually l...
A. 14 December 2012: You can't break up and not stir the pot in some way or another. If you and your BF can end it amicably then maybe there won't be a "parting" of the friends.
But honestly, you can't stay in a relationship because you are afraid it will make fri... (read in full...)
How does my friend really feel about me? He rejected me and moved in with his girlfriend, but cant say if he still has feelings for me...
Q. im a bit worried as to how this will get read so please help if you can ok here goes, during the summer i got close to my best friend. we never had sex but kissed a few times. hes in a problematic situation with his girlfriend of 5 years so what hap...
A. 14 December 2012: The GF of 5 years is not holding a gun to his head and he is not a helpless victim that needs "rescuing" he is CHOOSING to move in with her. So don't make it to be that she is terrible and he has no way out. There is always a way out of a ... (read in full...)
She makes me feel bad and I don't know what to do. Any advice?
Q. My friend will get mad at me if I'm not available to hang out. She gives me the silent treatment. When she finally does respond, she'll ask if I'm mad at her. I don't understand because she was mad at me and then is asking if I'm mad at her. When ...
A. 14 December 2012: I agree with CaringGuy.
It's not you. It's definitely her. She doesn't KNOW how to be a good friend. She is unhappy with herself or her life and therefore want YOU to be miserable too.
I would cut the contact. If you can't tell her flat out tha... (read in full...)
He tells me not to worry about his cheating, because he loves me!
Q. My boyfriend is cheating and anytime I talk about it,he goes like..he knows he is doing the wrong thing but the fact that he loves me should be enough reason for me not to worry....does he really loves me,if he does why would he cheats...am soo ...
A. 14 December 2012: He cheats because he can and because he wants to.
Love doesn't fix everything. What about when he comes home with a STD and render you infertile? Or get you sick? Just because he loved getting laid more then he loves you.
I'm sure he tells ev... (read in full...)
Stay with my married lover or breakup? He says he doesn't want to lose me and he loves me
Q. Hi All I really need some advice about a married man i have been seeing for years,we are now both in our sixties. I have tried dozens of times to end the relationship but he doesn't want me to and i am truly in love with him,he tells me he love...
A. 14 December 2012: I can tell you this, it is HARD not to judge, but I will try to not go overboard but give you my genuine opinion and thoughts.
1. This relationship have been going on for years you say, yet he is STILL with his wife. So obviously he has NO inten... (read in full...)
I had a vasectomy 4 years ago...so why was my wife was taking birth control pills?
Q. Quick question for any women out there. I am married for 12 years, 3 kids, no "issues" per se. I’m a good dad, provider, etc. My wife is a good mom, hard worker and loves me. We went through a period though about 2-3 years ago for around 12 ...
A. 14 December 2012: Yes, she could be telling you the truth.
If I didn't take the BC pill I would have periods from Hades and PMS from Hell... BC helps keep my hormones in relative check.
Using the pill makes it easier to know exactly when it shows up and if ... (read in full...)
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