I cant get pregnant by my husband. Is it because our blood doesn't match? Should I try to get pregnant by another man?
Q. Dear Cupid.ORG. Im 29 married women with no children.Me and my husband we have been trying for a baby about 8 years knw bt now lucky.So I like to know if its is possible to get pregnant if I sleep with another man because so of people say maybe ou...
A. 12 August 2014: Blood don't matter (for the most part)
_______ info on blood types/ Rh incompatibility ------
Most people — about 85% — are Rh positive. But if a woman who is Rh negative and a man who is Rh positive conceive a baby, there is the potential fo... (read in full...)
Every time I try to leave this man he threatens to kill himself. Is this my fault?
Q. Been with my partner for seven years, we have a four year old child together. We have a very rocky relationship and constantly argue and I am very unhappy and he is too. I have tried to make this relationship work for two years now and it just won't ...
A. 12 August 2014: Oh my, I fully agree with Cerberus.
He may put it kind of bluntly.. BUT he is speaking the truth.
YOU can not let this man manipulate you into a life of misery. He is miserable and he wants you down in the gutter with him.
For your CHILD'... (read in full...)
I want my ex out of my life but will feel guilty if I have to call the police
Q. My ex boyfriend kept going through my email. He read emails, accused me of sleeping with multiple guys in my past (pretty much any guy). He then would contact them as if it was me to ask them if I had sex with them. He created a fb profile of a guy ...
A. 11 August 2014: Stop talking to him over Skype. When you get back, contact your landlord and tell the EX that he has 1 week to move his stuff out or you WILL call the police.
YOU are ASSUMING that he is thinking like a normal person, he isn't.
You did a rea... (read in full...)
How do I confront him about his lies?
Q. Im 21, nearly 22, and have been getting to know this guy since May, but have been speaking since February. We were both at university (far apart) so we used to Skype every day, talk on the phone for hours and text throughout the day for 3 months...
A. 11 August 2014: What you are saying is that you two are TALKING exclusivity, but you aren't sure he is actually being EXCLUSIVE with you.
I can't really see what you can do, other then ASK him and MAYBE sort out where you two stand. The whole, we are going wi... (read in full...)
Semi nude picture on boyfriends computer
Q. I know this makes me sound uptight, but this is bothering me to no end. My boyfriend was letting me sit in his lap and help him look through some stuff on his computer. We went to the picture library and there was a picture of a girl he knew there. ...
A. 11 August 2014: What kind of person would do that? (keep pictures for blackmail purposes) That just reeks of a shady character.
And yes, YOU need to start listening to your gut. YOU felt something was off, then TRUST in your feelings. And my guess.. of she "jus... (read in full...)
My brother and his wife only call me when they need something!
Q. My brother is 31 years old and I am 29 years old. My brother is married. The problem is that the only time my brother and sister-in-law calls me is when they want something or when they want to complain about something. They call to ask for money...
A. 11 August 2014: I too agree with Uncle Wise.
Learn to say, no or... F no!
If you don't WANT to lend them money, then don't. It's really that simple. Same as babysitting when you have other plans, not that hard to say sorry, I can't I have plans.
If you... (read in full...)
At 26 is it wierd to count a 18 yr old as a friend?
Q. Now this maybe a over thinking question but just to check. I worked with a girl over the past year and well I didn’t think anything of it but we really got on well and seemed to have a laugh. Anyway now she has got another Job and we don’t...
A. 11 August 2014: Not really. Friends kind of cross age boundaries a lot more than relationships.
And.... as long as the BF doesn't see it as a problem.
... (read in full...)
Do I trust my boyfriend after a break up when he hooked up with my best friend?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for 7yrs, high school sweet hearts! We often talk about marriage and our future. After a year of dating, we had a big argument and ended up 'taking a break.' We were young then and ended up getting back ...
A. 11 August 2014: This is really common. People take a "break" from their relationship and crap happens.
1. You were ON a break, he could have slept with just about anyone. The fact that he slept with your best friend is kind of icky and for ME, personal... (read in full...)
My new friend and her daughter aren't nice to us. How do I handle this?
Q. Me and my daughter moved to a new area almost 4 years. Since moving into this current area, I've found it difficult to form new friendships. I barely socialized since moving to this current location. I tried to be friendly with others and to ar...
A. 11 August 2014: I's stop hanging out with this lady and her daughter to be very honest, it's not fair that your daughter gets bullied so you can socialize.
Personally, I would have called the little girl on it. Asked her why she would say something like that. Th... (read in full...)
Is it important that you like the engagement ring that your boyfriend gave you?
Q. Hi aunty! My boyfriend proposed to me last year and now were getting married this year. But i dont like the ring he bought me I told him before i want a specific designs. But he bought different. Which i always tell him about it but not to be in...
A. 11 August 2014: Nope not important.
The ring is NOT equivalent of his love for you. And... it's a RING.
I'm old fashioned, and I think the MAN should pick out the ring (after all he paid for it) and he should get a ring he can afford and think his fiance... (read in full...)
I've tried to stay friends with my ex but he's on my case about everything!
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago and since then, he's been on my case about every little thing that I do! He insists on knowing where I go and with who every time I go somewhere and he's always starting arguments about tiny things. I've tried ...
A. 11 August 2014: Yes, I think the point of trying to be friends is past. He is holding you back from moving forward, from being WHO you are and living YOUR life.
I agree that you need to go no contact. Tell what you intend on doing, THEN do it.
... (read in full...)
He won't get a divorce, should I call it a day?
Q. I've been with boyfriend for around 2 years now, we don't officially live together as I look after my mum but I have a key and spend all my free time at his house! He was separated from his wife for 2 years before we started seeing each othe...
A. 10 August 2014: Have you asked him why?
From what you write it's more you asking him for action, not a reason.
I mean HER parents MUST know they don't live together. So I can't see why a divorce should be a big deal.
Maybe the reason he is still not d... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me a stalker and it was justified because of my actions. What should I do to recover from this?
Q. This morning my boyfriend borrowed my phone and saw that i had typed in google the name of a girl that he had recently added on a social media site to see who they were. I denied i had done it and didnt know how it was on there which was an obvious ...
A. 9 August 2014: Next time don't lie.
If you want to check out the girls he add, then DO so, but don't lie about doing it.
Checking them out doesn't make you a stalker.... (read in full...)
Why is my sister's age such a big deal in her achievement and success?
Q. My sister is 23 and everyone is going on about how amazing her success is, please help me see why it's so impressive!!? She left home at 20, and moved to Paris to work in fashion, since she felt this is where her career was and would benefit he...
A. 9 August 2014: It IS a big feat at 23. I think your sister must be very tenacious, hardworking and focussed. And that IS a big deal at 23. MOST people don't really know WHAT they want to "be" when they grow up - some don't figure that out till mid-late 20's.
... (read in full...)
The man I've talked to online for 4 years finally confessed that he is married/kids. I feel like a home wrecker!
Q. I met a man online in a chat room when I was feeling a bit down and lonely four years ago, we have talked continuously throughout this time. But over the last year, we have grown ever closer and talk every single day. I finally felt ready to meet ...
A. 9 August 2014: You didn't wreck any home or marriage, HE did, when he decided to start an emotional affair with you.
If I were you I'd CUT the contact 100%, don't let him SUCKER you in with sob stories about how horrible his marriage is and how little love ... (read in full...)
Our religious views arent the same. Do I end things now?
Q. Hi guys, I'm hoping that someone can help me make sense and see things from an outside of the box perspective. I don't really have anyone to discuss these issues with an feel so alone trying to find a solution. Here goes.. I met this guy onlin...
A. 8 August 2014: I'd walk away now. He isn't going to automatically BE what you WANT him to be, for you.
If religion is THAT important to you, HE isn't it.
My guess is the "we'll see" is to keep you hoping and maybe get more physical...
On the other hand, ... (read in full...)
He's separated from his wife and she's pregnant but he says he loves me. Am I crazy for even considering him?
Q. This is going to be crazy long and probably a crazy story. Thanks for bearing with me. My best friend is a male. We've been friends for 3 years. When we met he was married. I was dating and I was never interested in him anyway. Flash forward to a ...
A. 8 August 2014: Honestly, it sounds like a big pile of stinking drama waiting to happen.
I would NOT date him till:
1. the divorce is FINAL. (he might be separated but he is still LEGALLY married til the divorce is final).
2. He has been divorced and ON his... (read in full...)
Wife caught her best friend propositioning me?
Q. My wife caught her best friend saying very sexually leading comments to me. She confronted her friend on the spot and made her leave our house. Her friend called me in tears asking what she could to to fix it. I really don't know what she can do. ...
A. 8 August 2014: Yes, it is beyond repair. The fact that your wife FORGAVE her once before, I'd say that the "friend" totally F'd up.
You know the saying:" Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on YOU. I don't blame your wife at all. I wouldn't... (read in full...)
I am addicted to shopping!
Q. I have always been an impulsive person, and for quite some time now, I have been spending money like there is no tomorrow. I am buying things very impulsively when realistically I can't afford to. But in the moment, I don't care, its like I "need...
A. 8 August 2014: Anything you HAVE that you can TAKE back for a refund you TAKE BACK right now and get a refund.
Are you using cash or a charge/debit/credit? If you are buying all this crap on your card then DO NOT carry you card on you for a while, have enough c... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has turned into an egotistical jerk! Do I end things?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and we used to have the perfect relationship. He used to buy me things, he used to be so nice and considerate, and he would always make me feel special. But recently, it just stopped. He's obsessed ...
A. 8 August 2014: Should you dump him? Yes.
This is only a PEEK of how he will treat you (IF you LET HIM)- it's only been 7 months and his true nature is slipping out. THIS is who he is. The guy who paid attention to you, who spoiled you was the GUY who was tryi... (read in full...)
I kick in my sleep! How do I stop this so I don't kick my soon to be husband?
Q. I'm getting married next year. I have been sleeping on my bed alone for the past 23 years of my life. I only slept on the same bed as my fiance once and he said that I kicked him off the bed. I feel that I always kick in my sleep because each time I ...
A. 7 August 2014: Let him know.
I toss and turn ALL night, I know I "slapped" my husband in my sleep last night - NOT on purpose I was apparently trying to roll over and his face was were I wanted my hand...
I have found though that when I sleep with a body pill... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't like me wearing a bikini to the beach but I feel restricted!
Q. My boyfriend isn't happy when I wear a bikini to the beach. While he doesn't restrict me, when I wear the bikini, he would be in a foul mood because he doesn't like guys staring at my body. While I want to take his feelings into consideration, it ...
A. 7 August 2014: Wear what you want, tell him to grow up.
If you LET him control what you wear, what's next? Who your friends are? What you can eat? read? watch?
Or you can buy a peek-a-boo one piece, though I'm sure he would dislike that too.
MEN will... (read in full...)
Do you think the age difference of 3 years is a problem for two teenagers?
Q. So, I'm 17 years old, and I'm a lesbian. I'm talking to this girl, we'll call her "M," and she's about to be 14. We started talking through Facebook, and I didn't know her age by looking at her profile. She told me, and I had no problems with it. ...
A. 7 August 2014: It's not OK because she is 14. She is still a child, you are still a child, even though you might FEEL grown up, at 17 you are LEGALLY still a child. In some states 15/16 is the legal age of consent (which means you can have sex at 16) many states ... (read in full...)
How do I get the huge crush I have on an actor out of my head?
Q. OK, I know this is stupid, and This is very embarassing... I have been watching a new TV series, and I have a HUGE crush on one of the actors, who is British and fairly famous. Problem is, I've let myself dream about this guy so much that my rea...
A. 7 August 2014: I think this is pretty normal, to be honest. We ALL want a fantasy. Sometimes we include partner, spouses in these other times actors, singers, musicians or absolute fictional characters. Like Mr. Darcy from Pride and Prejudice. :)
What YOU fail... (read in full...)
Our 'reunion sex' has me worn out. How do I explain this without hurting his feelings?
Q. My bf and I have been dating for 3 years. He has always had a very high sex drive, we would have sex 4-5 days a week sometimes two or three times a day. He is in the army and was over seas for 8 months. He came home 28 days ago. I was behind happy ...
A. 7 August 2014: Just tell him your lady bits needs a BREAK!
My husband served in the Army for most of our marriage, so he has been gone for schools, training and deployment and yeha the "reunion sex" was making me feel "bruised" below.
Honestly, my ... (read in full...)
Should the other woman tell the wife?
Q. In a nutshell, should the other woman tell the wife? It's after breaking up with the married man (5 month affair), she does care for him very deeply. He has said his wife has seen several text messages and suspects an affair, and that there have ...
A. 7 August 2014: What would the OW get out of telling the wife?
And WHY would the OW want to tell the wife?
Those are my questions to you.
I think the OW should go GROW some morals and LOOK at her OWN actions before she gets so desperate to expose the m... (read in full...)
I don't want to block him because he is a nice person but I'm freaking out now because he will take my rejection very badly, how do I handle this?
Q. I have been chatting to a man online for a few months now, he seemed ok and I would offer him advice as he had mental problems...he has a borderline personality so I did google the illness and realised that people who suffer from that tend to act on ...
A. 7 August 2014: Well, this is what happens when people move too fast. You added him to your PERSONAL Facebook without really knowing him and now you are trying to figure out how to "get rid" of him politely...
I would STOP texting and talking anything sexual. ... (read in full...)
I have heard of this thing where you "disengage" from your step children, does anyone have advice or experience in this?
Q. I am having a tough time finding permanent work, my new husband and I don't see eye to eye on many things, and my stepson just moved his girlfriend into our house without even asking us. I am actually considering moving out. I have heard of th...
A. 7 August 2014: My guess it really comes down to what YOU want. Since your husband seem totally unwilling to compromise, you only have 2 choices:
1. move out
2. suck it up.
Neither are great choices, but really what else is there?
Do you guys rent? or ... (read in full...)
How do I cope? My fiance has told me she's coming to see me to break things off
Q. My fiance of four and a half years has told me that she wants to end things. Shed coming to see me in a few weeks to end it in person. her reasons are that she says her feelings have changed and that she no longer gets excited wen she sees me and t...
A. 7 August 2014: How long have you two been in a LDR? Because many people conducting a long DISTANCe relationship don't make it long term.
I can be partly because of the depression and maybe because she wants someone THERE near her or she needs some alone time.
... (read in full...)
I have heard of this thing where you "disengage" from your step children, does anyone have advice or experience in this?
Q. I am having a tough time finding permanent work, my new husband and I don't see eye to eye on many things, and my stepson just moved his girlfriend into our house without even asking us. I am actually considering moving out. I have heard of th...
A. 6 August 2014: I think it's more of a disenchanted with your husband more then the son.
The fact that he didn't ASK YOU before moving his GF in, I guess is because he ALREADY asked his Dad and HE (your husband)agreed and didn't bother to ask you.
Is it H... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't want me to masturbate. How do I handle this?
Q. I am in my early twenties and I am a girl seeing another girl about my age. I do not personally think masturbation is wrong but my girlfriend insists that she does not like the idea of me masturbating although I only do it when we cannot be intimate ...
A. 6 August 2014: I'm with Cindy here..
You are both nuts.
If she doesn't want you to masterbate, then don't DO it around her. But it's YOUR penis and your hand. YOU have the right to your privacy when it comes to things such as materbation.
My guess is she... (read in full...)
Left me pregnant, got anew catch and texts, he wants to meet
Q. My Ex, who i had been with for 7 years made me pregnant and disappeared without a word. However, he disappeared with the house rent which i had given him to pay and after a while he emailed me.... i will not hear from him or will rarely hear from ...
A. 6 August 2014: Why even have him on your social media? Why not block him? Why not save yourself the emotional turmoil of watching him post all his "happy life" pictures while you worked your behind off to make a life for you and your child?
Honestly, I wouldn't... (read in full...)
Phone calls at 4am and her phone never leaves her side. Is she cheating?
Q. I just wanna get some opinions on if others think my girl could be cheating. We've been together about a year but before me she'd had a string of short term relationships. Things have been good but the last couple of months it's been up and down. A ...
A. 6 August 2014: She might not be physically cheating but the whole hiding her phone and odd phone calls at 4 am doesn't bode well.
What I don't understand is why you haven't asked her what's up with the 4 am calls.
And of course she has told you he was horri... (read in full...)
Why do I feel guilty even though I didn't cheat?
Q. I am married to a lovely man who I love dearly. I would never intentionally hurt him. Anyway, last week I was at a party at my friends house. No one knew each other, and there was a bit of an awkward silence. I noticed the guy sitting next to ...
A. 5 August 2014: Eh, no reason to feel guilty. AT ALL.
Going to a friends house, getting drunk, having a FLIRTY conversation with a hot guy is not a NO-NO in my book.
You set the record straight by telling him you are married. And you didn't "take" the offer... (read in full...)
Finally after years of no sex my wife was happy to have sex this week. So why did it feel so unsatisfactory and unfulfilling for me?
Q. My wife did not have sex with me very many years (more than a decade) and in my mind I always felt like sex was that one missing piece that would rejuvenate the relationship. I really missed it, I craved it, and it made me feel lonely that we stopp...
A. 5 August 2014: Well, I think you spend the last 10 years (or however long it was since last time) FANTASIZING about how lovely, great, amazing sex would be. Reality RARELY lives up to the fantasy.
I agree that you should initiate more intimacy (not necessar... (read in full...)
Why do men prefer it shaved?
Q. My question might sound simple but why do so many men seem to like shaved vulva as opposed to a natural hairy one ? I found that the man I am with says he finds it much sexier and several men have said this before . I prefer to go natural as I get ...
A. 5 August 2014: The fad is for ANYONE to woman/man scape these days. And it's in all the porn these day too which sets another odd standard for women.
YOU have to go with what YOU PREFER.
I have never liked being all bald below, I think it looks prepubesce... (read in full...)
Are we crazy for moving in our son's girlfriend, to help keep her away from her abusive father?
Q. My wife and I and getting lots of grieve from family friends regarding a decision we made with our only son who ism20. He still lives at home during the summer and goes away ( 1.5hours from home) for school. He comes home most weekends. He has been ...
A. 5 August 2014: I think what you are doing is what YOU feel is the RIGHT thing to do. Honestly, if I were in your situation I'd do the same.
One thing though, I know you are not encouraging sex, but they are young "adults" and will want to have sex and they WIL... (read in full...)
What does "in a complicated relationship" on FB mean, exactly?
Q. My friend last week on her fb account put in a complicated relationship, what does it mean???? Ive asked her if shes ok and if she wants to talk im always hear to speak to but im not really sure what it means Does it mean her relationship is ...
A. 4 August 2014: I agree with Tisha - she is using her "status" on FB to somehow punish her SO or make a point to HIM. And... maybe she wants a little drama and sympathy.
If she CHOOSES to not clue you in, I'd let it go.
At least she knows she can talk to you ... (read in full...)
His porn preference is for larger women, I am slim, should I worry?
Q. My boyfriend is into big girls who are pretty, but I am slim - he does love me and find me sexy but it makes me insecure. I know he is into lots of types of girls, but his porn preference is BBW. Do I need to worry? He wants to marry me and buy a ...
A. 4 August 2014: Porn is not reality. And what a person watches (as far as porn) doesn't mean THAT is all they get turned on by. Doesn't mean he wants YOU to get fat (or big) or that he is only turned on by big girls.
Some people like "ethnic" porn, but don't WA... (read in full...)
My slob of a housemate has bitched to our friends!
Q. I live with a guy who is a complete slob. Not a couple or anything but we are friends. We live in a rented house and we deal with an accomodation agency. Last monh he was given plenty of notice that the agency was coming to inspect the house as ...
A. 4 August 2014: I agree with Auntie Bim as well. I would look into breaking YOUR end of the lease and move in somewhere else.
It's DISGUSTING to live with a slob. And you should have to PAY fines for him being a nasty nasty dude.
Call your landlord, explai... (read in full...)
My ex lover, who's a married man, won't leave his wife and children for me. But he keep buying me things even though I said I only want to be friends. Do you think he is too emotionally involved to lose contact with me?
Q. I had an affair with a married man but ended it because it wasn't going anywhere, I ended my marriage and now I'm seperated.Anyway my ex lover started contacting me and I told him that I ended my marriage and moving on with my life,I told him I ...
A. 4 August 2014: Give the presents back and cut the contact, he now sees you as an "easy" sex partner. He already knows you so he won't have to "find" a new affair partner and if giving you presents means you will still have sex and NOT expect anything from him, ... (read in full...)
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