I think my friend stole from me ......
Q. I think my friend may have stolen from me and I feel awful thinking like this so I need some advice... A mutual friend of ours was getting married and we were both invited to the wedding. Unfortunately I wasn't able to attend as I was going o...
A. 18 August 2014: I agree with Cindy (as usual)
This is NOT a friend. A friend would have called you the MOMENT she found out she lost the envelope, she would have offered to replace the voucher and she WOULD have replaced it.
Your "friend" "acted" sorry by... (read in full...)
I went farther than I'm comfortable with this early on
Q. I met a guy recently and we went on a first date for drinks which was a really great evening and we both wanted to see each other again. We went for a second date a week later which involved going for drinks, going for dinner and after dinner drinks ...
A. 18 August 2014: I agree with Cerberus, just be upfront with him.
And, if you are not sure you can keep your clothes on around this guy.... then keep the dates to public places for a while. No going home with each other.... (read in full...)
We agreed to be exclusive, she says sex with another woman doesn't count!
Q. I've been with a woman for about a month, we just recently had the talk and decided to be exclusive but not official. Deciding to take things slow. Last night she decided to attempt to see if she could do anything sexually with another woman. She ...
A. 18 August 2014: So if YOU had sex with another woman it wouldn't count either? Or would THAT count but not a guy?
IT counts and IT makes no sense.
Let her go, she isn't ready to BE exclusive OR she is too dense to comprehend what EXCLUSIVE means....
I'd... (read in full...)
My recovering drug addicted boyfriend has gone AWOL .... again!
Q. Hi everyone I come here in despair, hoping to gain some insight from objective people. I have been dating a guy who is a recovering drug addict. We have been together for just over three months. At the beginning of our relationship, h...
A. 18 August 2014: He might NOT being doing drugs right now but his mentality is that of an addicts.
BY accusing YOU of cheating he is deflecting the discussion of HIS behavior and making you go on the DEFENSE instead of offense.
It's been 3 months and you h... (read in full...)
Why does he lie about stuff just to get away from me?
Q. Boyfriend and I have been together a year and 6 months and we live together. How ever every time we fight, or I'm depressed or upset and cry and freak out on him he makes excuses to not be around me. Like today we have been fighting all weekend ...
A. 17 August 2014: My first advice to you is get some help with the anxiety. Do NOT expect a BF/partner to "fix" that for you.
And I have to agree with Staceily. I don't know many men who will willingly sit and comfort their GF while she verbally abuses him. I h... (read in full...)
How can I stop hating myself because I forgive her?
Q. Short and sweet. My best friend of 5 years and girlfriend of a year just up and left me. I found out she messed around with 5 other guys while she was with me. The only way I found out was one of the guys that she was messing with told me cuz he ...
A. 16 August 2014: Can you stop hating yourself?
I should hope so. Hating yourself because you were a decent guy is silly. Knowing and accepting that she DIDN'T deserve YOU and YOU didn't deserve what she did to you, might at some point dawn on you.
She is obviou... (read in full...)
Sex with my partner is so predictable I can't bring myself to do it anymore
Q. I've been with my partner for three years and at first our sex life was amazing. We would do it every night in a variety of places and positions.... Of course I expected that it was begin to calm down but it has got to a point now when I literally ...
A. 16 August 2014: You need to talk to him. If you find that too hard, TRY to SHOW him what you need.
When you say more romance, TRY to do what you would like HIM to do. As in, come home with flowers and a bottle of champagne.
Instead of "wishing" for mo... (read in full...)
He says he's serious about me, so why is he so interested in these other girls?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. I'm not the most attractive girl in the world. I'm short and don't have much of a "Sexy" or curvy body. My boyfriend has dated pretty attractive girls in the past (in High school), but says that he ...
A. 16 August 2014: I agree with Auntie Bim
You are seriously mind-fu..... your BF. YOU have insecurities about yourself and your looks and you expect your BF to fix that for you. It doesn't work that way, the insecurities are YOURS and YOU need to work on them.
... (read in full...)
Should I give him an ultimatum or just end this situation?
Q. Long story short...been dating a guy for over 6 months..we used to get together about twice a week but then a month or 2 ago there was a big misunderstanding that made me back off of him for a month. But now we're back to dating, but now we've only ...
A. 16 August 2014: It's been 6 months and you two haven't even talked about being or not being exclusive?
I am not sure why you call him your BF, because it doesn't SEEM like you two are more then friends who (maybe) occasionally have sex too?
If you WANT to be... (read in full...)
Boyfriend going away for 2 weeks with friends. I'm afraid he'll get drunk and cheat on me
Q. So I have been dating my boyfriend since April and been seeing him since January time. In a couple of days he is going on holiday with his mates to malia. I am really afraid he will get drunk and cheat on me. He cheated on his ex on holiday before ...
A. 16 August 2014: My advice TALK to him. TELL him your fears. BUT do not ask him NOT to go. Just tell him that you worry about it, but that you HOPE your trust in him isn't misplaced and then DO NOT make a big deal out of it. Say your piece and then STOP nagging or ... (read in full...)
I want to move on, but I keep dreaming about my crush!
Q. Hi all! Some advice would be great! I've been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years, everything's great! However, my work means that I have to move around different departments in my local area and work there for 3 months! Before I move on...
A. 16 August 2014: I think you got SOMETHING from this little "attraction flirtation" that you don't get from your BF, maybe because the two of you have been together for so long OR because you both take each other a little for granted.
My advice? Spend some of ... (read in full...)
Is there a difference between a FWB and a side chick?
Q. I don't really know how to start off my question other than just asking it plain and simple. I'm just wondering if there is a difference between a side chick and friends with benefits? And if there's a difference then how are they different? The gu...
A. 16 August 2014: Some people (men AND women) don't really care. They just want what they want. You are of the instant gratification generation, my guess is, so is he.
If he can get sex from you, that's fine with him whether you have feelings or not doesn't ... (read in full...)
He never called. Did he lose interest?
Q. So I met this guy at a family BBQ. He arrived sort of at the very end so we didn't speak much, we had a slight conversation and before I left to go home he asked for my number. I asked why and he said he wanted to talk after the BBQ, so I gave it to ...
A. 16 August 2014: You can guess til the cows come home as to why he ASKED for your number and then never called. It won't help you.
If he has put forth no further effort then really, why waste time on him?
... (read in full...)
Why would he google my exes?
Q. I just recently found out that three months into my relationship my boyfriend went online and Googled two of my ex's. My boyfriend is not a controlling person and he is self confident - not needy our insecure. I'm not really sure what to thi...
A. 16 August 2014: I'd say curiosity.
Though, I've been married for almost 17 years and I don't know all the full names of my husband exes, nor does he know the names of mine, so... not much googling going on.
... (read in full...)
I'm living the life of a single person but I'm not single, in a LDR!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. The first year and a half was great, then he moved 6 hours away because the company had problems and pulled everyone back to head office. He struggled financailly and I helped him out. I said at the time...
A. 15 August 2014:
DO you want to wait for him to sort himself out? And how long would you wait? Have you two even talked about that? Would you give him 6 more months? Or 6 more years?
OR..
Are YOU done with being a geographical bachelorette? I'm not as... (read in full...)
I want to leave my boyfriend because just now it's feeling like our relationship is more like a comfy convenient situation instead of a loving happy one. I want to open up to my friend and not feel guilty about hanging about with him. Advice?
Q. OK,so I'm needing some advice, not criticism buy good solid advice.Recently I have been up and down emotional, I have a lot to deal with just now but I was fine up until about six weeks ago. Six weeks ago my life changed and it's been tough, I have ...
A. 15 August 2014: I agree if you feel DONE with the relationship, then by all means MOVE on.
But, I would strongly advise against jumping straight into a new relationship with this friend. TAKE some time being single and on your own. Be HAPPY with YOURSELF... (read in full...)
I have my first date! Is there a list of no-no's to follow to ensure that its a great date?
Q. I'm about to have a date for the first time in my life. Is there a general list of things that I should refrain from doing in order to ensure that my date has the best possible time? The date itself is going to be a fairly simple affair. Basicall...
A. 15 August 2014: I think Mark covered it all :)
Also, if you really like her then either ASK her at the end of the date for a new date or text/call her the same DAY asking for a new date. I think the whole 3 day "rule" is BULLCRAP. IF you are interested let her ... (read in full...)
Is there a difference between a FWB and a side chick?
Q. I don't really know how to start off my question other than just asking it plain and simple. I'm just wondering if there is a difference between a side chick and friends with benefits? And if there's a difference then how are they different? The gu...
A. 15 August 2014: If yo uwant to go "deep" with the explanations then FWB are FRIENDS who have sex. They both DO NOT want to be in a relationship but still wants sex. THEY are BOTH single btw.
What you are doing is being his booty call on the side.
Why on Earth ... (read in full...)
How do I get the old me back? I'm sick of everything being on his terms!
Q. I've been living with my boyfriend less than a year. I'm 43, he's 45. When we first got together, he was very giving, caring, loving. We went out and had fun, and we also stayed in for romantic nights. Now he rarely even takes the time to notice me. ...
A. 15 August 2014: Good for you! I hope you will enjoy the new adventure :)
... (read in full...)
We are going to a costume convention and the other girl is wearing the same outfit!
Q. I need advice, though not really relationship advice. My boyfriend and I are going with a group of (his) friends to a costume convention. Think comicon if that helps. This is my first time going to one. We came up with a theme in the beginning of ...
A. 14 August 2014: You don't STOP caring, BUT you focus on ROCKING OYUR outfit and have fun at the convention. I highly doubt you will all stick together the whole time there anyways (except maybe you and your BF).
She is ALLOWED to pick ANY costume she wants an... (read in full...)
My husband and I are getting a divorce but he refuses to leave the house, which is in my name. Is there anything I can do?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 15 years. Recently we has a huge fight in which he now wants a divorce. He is seeing an attorney who told him to stay in the house in order to receive a share of the money if we have to sell the home. The house ...
A. 14 August 2014: Highly unlikely unfortunately.
And even IF the house is in YOUR name only, it is part of the marital assets, so yes he CAN "demand" half of the value of house.
My advice GET yourself a lawyer.
And don't cook for him or clean up after him. I... (read in full...)
How do I feel more comfortable with my penis size?
Q. This is a usual thing for some blokes but how do I feel more comfortable with my penis size? guessing the main answer is to sleep with more women and hope they are really nice lol One issue is because I don't like my size it holds me back as I fee...
A. 14 August 2014: Amen, Auntie Cindy... Preaching to the choir!
Read her advice till it sinks in dear OP. The size doesn't matter for most women. (there ARE women who thinks the bigger the better, just like there are men who thinks the bigger the boobs the better t... (read in full...)
Can you cheat in an open relationship?
Q. So I've been in a long term relationship with my partner for the past 9 years. We talk about having children one day and getting married and we already own a home together. We have an extremely happy and healthy relationship and are very open and ...
A. 14 August 2014: I also agree with Sage here.
This is NOT an open relationship or "semi" open as you call it. This is a relationship where you partner can screw whomever and YOU accept it. So why is there a double standard here? Why can YOU not screw whomever... (read in full...)
I did not just expect him to pay for his share only! Is this a sign of cheapness?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a month and a half. This past weekend we went on a mini weekend trip with another couple. The other couple had bought all the food for the trip and paid for the accommodations and at the end they were going to let us ...
A. 14 August 2014: Yeah and exactly, to everything Auntie Cindy said. But in short....
No, I don't think he is cheap because he didn't pay for you.
Who was the couple you went with? His friends or yours? (just curious)... (read in full...)
Relationship Respect and Making Friends of the Opposite Sex
Q. Hey, I have been dating by boyfriend for three years and am very much in love with him. However... I recently moved to a new city and am trying to make friends. As I am out meeting people, people occasionally hit on me and I don't know how to act. I ...
A. 14 August 2014: Maybe you should start out with making FEMALE friends? There is nothing wrong in male friends (most of mine were and are male) but when you are in a relationship making new MALE friends can seem like you're either looking for a replacement or ... (read in full...)
I've researched about STDs and how they are transmitted! Any advice?
Q. Ok, I don't want to catch any STDs so I've researched alot, but I want feedback from people with real experience: Fingering, Mutual Masturbation, Dry Humping with underwear on, and anything through clothing, no STDs can be transmitted right? Also...
A. 14 August 2014: No one is IMMUNE to Herpes, not even the mild version that is HSV1. Just because YOU have never had (so far) doesn't mean you can't GET it at some point in life.
And bodily fluids can transmit some STD's and if he has his mouth on your lady bit... (read in full...)
I know he's cheating on me, why won't he admit it?
Q. I know hes cheating on me ive been told by so many people and his friends its apparently been going on since dec when he moved to b closer to his brothers I've always given him the chance to tell me himself ive dropped hints with suff like if u lik...
A. 14 August 2014: Admitting it makes no difference.
Cheating is cheating. And he knows you will still stick around no matter if he fesses up or not.
Why be with someone who doesn't think you are IMPORTANT enough for him to be faithful? and truthful?
... (read in full...)
He never called. Did he lose interest?
Q. So I met this guy at a family BBQ. He arrived sort of at the very end so we didn't speak much, we had a slight conversation and before I left to go home he asked for my number. I asked why and he said he wanted to talk after the BBQ, so I gave it to ...
A. 13 August 2014: My guess is the guy is going by the 3 days or.. he lost your number or wrote it down wrong.
I doubt a guy would ask for your number so he can NOT call you later... That makes no sense.
I agree, if he doesn't call within a week, then he's decide... (read in full...)
How do I deal with rumors at work regarding a girl that I'm only friends with?
Q. At the store I work at, there is a girl that usually works the same shifts I do. She is 18 and has a boyfriend. I am friendly to everyone so naturally everyone is friendly with me, which is fine. It feels like more with this girl. While she is f...
A. 13 August 2014: Oh aren't you a sucker?!
" However, she always wants me to do things for her or with her and I'm nice so I do."
Why do you think she does that? Because she KNOWS you will do it and all she has to do in return is flirt and say Oh I LOVE YOU ..... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend has been using me for money. I don't know whether to hold it together till I find another place or just leave!
Q. I have discovered my boyfriends profile on a dating website and I am so angry. Have been with my boyfriend for 2 years - we met on the internet and then for 18 months we met up every weekend minimum our relationship got deeper. I have now been ...
A. 13 August 2014: Wow, I don't blame you for being mad and feeling duped.
The thing is, you KNOW he will lie if you "confront" him about anything, so my advice? Find a place to live, move your stuff, make sure you two share NO bills together and if he has had acce... (read in full...)
Was my ex boyfriend trying to rub this in and make me jealous with this comment?
Q. Was my ex boyfriend trying to rub this in, and make me jealous with this comment?. I went on a website today, which is where you can discuss films and actors. My ex and I have been going on that website for years. I recently left a message on a ...
A. 13 August 2014: Why does it matter 2 years later who he is dating? Why should that "hurt" you? Is he not allowed to move on? Is he not allowed to be "proud" of his new GF?
I mean it's a PUBLIC forum you both have posted on in the past and still do.
I still... (read in full...)
I know it's not healthy and I'm trying to move on but it's human to want revenge!
Q. So I'd been dating a girl on and off for 4 months but it became a long distance relationship due to university over summer. We'd talk every day and I'd visit as often as I could - until we had (what I thought was) a small argument. Turns out right ...
A. 13 August 2014: Eh, Karma will come her way sooner or later.
If you CARED so little by being dumped, UNTIL she gushed to you, then did you REALLY care all that much for her at all? After all it was a 4 months relationship, so obviously didn't get that deep.
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's ex girlfriend is filing for child support just out of spite to hurt him.
Q. My boyfriend and his ex girlfriend ended up having a huge fight this past weekend and now she has decided to not allow him to see his daughter ever again and is going to file for child support. Not once in her daughter's three years of life has she ...
A. 13 August 2014: It still doesn't matter. Her new pregnancy, her not using birth-control or having rich parents.
YOUR BF knocked her up. A baby was the result. THEY are BOTH responsible for this child. With HER being the MAIN caregiver she is ENTITLED to CS. Now ... (read in full...)
How do I get the old me back? I'm sick of everything being on his terms!
Q. I've been living with my boyfriend less than a year. I'm 43, he's 45. When we first got together, he was very giving, caring, loving. We went out and had fun, and we also stayed in for romantic nights. Now he rarely even takes the time to notice me. ...
A. 13 August 2014: I agree with Ciar.
Don't Facebook as a "punishment" or FEEL like his gaming is punishment on you.
I would look into things to do outside the house. Like museums you haven't seen or hiking group (whatever tickles your fancy) and ask him if h... (read in full...)
How can I tell if it is safe to be 'out' at this school? And how do I make friends?
Q. I am approaching becoming a freshman in high school where I will know absolutely nobody beforehand . This in itself is extremely stressful but on top of that, I am someone who has recently come out as gay. And I don't know how the school is on that ...
A. 13 August 2014: I know a LOT of High Schools have LGBT groups. Not sure if yours do. IT doesn't mean that all that join the group ARE gay, just that they support it.
I'm (like Cerberus) from Europe so this whole "coming out" for kids and young adults kind of ... (read in full...)
Was my ex boyfriend trying to rub this in and make me jealous with this comment?
Q. Was my ex boyfriend trying to rub this in, and make me jealous with this comment?. I went on a website today, which is where you can discuss films and actors. My ex and I have been going on that website for years. I recently left a message on a ...
A. 13 August 2014: Yea, don't respond to it.
You posted about YOUR hot man, he posted about his HOT GF.. So what?
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's ex girlfriend is filing for child support just out of spite to hurt him.
Q. My boyfriend and his ex girlfriend ended up having a huge fight this past weekend and now she has decided to not allow him to see his daughter ever again and is going to file for child support. Not once in her daughter's three years of life has she ...
A. 13 August 2014: Well, I get what you are saying.. BUT he MADE that child and thus he needs to TAKE responsibility FOR that child. HER child is NOT LESS his, then YOUR child is.
She CAN NOT DENY him access to his child, and then ask for CS. Life doesn't work tha... (read in full...)
My partner's ex is putting ideas into their children's heads. I don't want the drama!
Q. Hi Just want other peoples opinion if possible! I have been with my partner for 3 years, he is a loving, kind decent man who works hard. He has decided to go back to college in September on top of is full time job. I have just brought a house...
A. 13 August 2014: What do you do about it? Ignore it. Even the kids are figuring out that it's a load of bull crap.
And take the high road and do not talk smack about her.
If they bring thing up like a new baby, then explain how you feel. Make sure the kids kn... (read in full...)
He tells me he wants a future with me but he already has a girlfriend!
Q. I'm inlove with a guy who already have a girlfriend and he told me he want to have the future with me a should give him sometime. When I ask him if he still love her his answer is yes.so I don't know what to do becuase I real love him and when the ...
A. 13 August 2014: I agree with Cindy (as usual)
They guy don't want YOU as his new GF, he wants you as his "thing on the side".
He still LOVES his GF, which probably means he WANTS to BE with her, but just get some (sex & attention) from you.
Why are you doi... (read in full...)
I want to explore this new girl but don't want to lose something I already have
Q. Hello readers. I hope you can give me some insight in the hope that I would understand my feelings and know what to do. Firstly I have a gf, been together for 1.5yrs. I don't know if I love her or if I am emotionally attached. She says she loves m...
A. 13 August 2014: Well if you aren't SURE after 1 1/2 years if you WANT to be with your GF and she wants to be with you, I suggest you do the right thing and BREAK up with your GF.
And stringing your GF along because you aren't sure isn't fair, just so YOU won'... (read in full...)
I cant get pregnant by my husband. Is it because our blood doesn't match? Should I try to get pregnant by another man?
Q. Dear Cupid.ORG. Im 29 married women with no children.Me and my husband we have been trying for a baby about 8 years knw bt now lucky.So I like to know if its is possible to get pregnant if I sleep with another man because so of people say maybe ou...
A. 12 August 2014: Blood don't matter (for the most part)
_______ info on blood types/ Rh incompatibility ------
Most people — about 85% — are Rh positive. But if a woman who is Rh negative and a man who is Rh positive conceive a baby, there is the potential fo... (read in full...)
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