Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?
Q. I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...
A. 3 December 2015: I hope no one judges you here on DC for having been a nude model.
Consider ALL the FINE works of art we have today, from the last couple of millennia that required a nude model. Think David, think the Sistine chapel, Robert Mapplethorpe's photos, ... (read in full...)
Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?
Q. I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...
A. 2 December 2015: If you (or one of your friends) find a forum where you are a subject or your images are shared - I would look into the posters. It could be that the the one who originally posted it and thus spread it online - no, I would not "engage" in any ... (read in full...)
Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?
Q. I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...
A. 1 December 2015: Glad the lawyers could get most of them shut down. It is ridiculous how something like this can happen and YOU are the one who has to deal with it.
Have you also "trolled" forums for "sharing" of nudes? The more you find and shut down the better. ... (read in full...)
As a male inexperienced virgin who feels socially awkward - Should I pay a sex worker to have sex with me for my first time?
Q. Hello I'm a male virgin who's never even kissed a girl nor have I been on a date or had a girlfriend. I'm not particularly good looking and I'm very socially awkward. I figure having no clue about the opposite sex would be a massive turn off....
A. 5 November 2015:
While I could continue debate you on this - this is not the appropriate thread to do it - do you not agree?
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I want to apologise to my ex and make peace
Q. I am struggling after a break up. We only dated for a few months but he was still arguing with his ex about their children that I felt pushed out and like the third wheel. It was an intense and passionate time but I used to get angry that his past ...
A. 5 November 2015: If it makes YOU feel better and if you NEED to get something of your chest... write him a letter to apologize. You don't NEED to do it in person. After that, let it go.
And learn from this. Actions have consequences. Your actions "saying horrible... (read in full...)
My boyfriend broke up with me because I lied to him that I had quit smoking
Q. My boyfriend [27,M] broke up with me [26,F] 16 days ago because I lied to him about quitting smoking cigarettes, and i have been doing everything in my power to get him back, but he will not take me back. I have texted him everyday constant...
A. 5 November 2015: OP, for some people smoking is a deal-breaker. And I think you KNEW that and that is what motivated you to lie to him. But here is the thing about lying. When you lied to your BF about smoking you were basically telling him that you thought he ... (read in full...)
LDR..who knows to what extent this girl goes to around my boyfriend when I'm not around?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a LDR. We are planning to move in together next year. I will move to his State. I'm visiting him this week as it's his birthday. Last night, we went out to a birthday dinner with a group of his friends. In the group is...
A. 5 November 2015: I would have some serious second thoughts about moving ALL the way to his state, if he thinks his/her behavior is OK. And from what you write... "In the group is this girl that he's always been a bit flirty with" this may be HOW they are with each ... (read in full...)
I'm worried my Gf will cheat on me while she's away enjoying her cruise. What should I do?
Q. I'm worried my grl friend of almost a year tht she is going to cheat on me on the cruise she just left on .ee didn't have sex for lie three weeks before she left and she loves to have sex she says only with me but I was busy working and her too and ...
A. 5 November 2015: Thank you nonny, interesting read. Though... did you read the first paragraph?
"over a third of (already cheating) spouses can’t keep it in their pants while on vacation solo or with friends."
So this is a study done ON people (married people)... (read in full...)
Manipulator sister...at my wits end. Please help!
Q. I have a long-winded problem that I need an outside eye to help me figure out how to be on equal and better terms with my sister. The past year has been a rollercoaster of incidents, one after another with her, and I want off. Growing up, we w...
A. 4 November 2015: Pick a new Matron of honor. If she wants nothing to do with your wedding... Maybe ask her if she wants you to remove her from the wedding list etc. After all you are following HER wishes.
I get the whole tent fiasco, your sister shouldn't have put... (read in full...)
As a male inexperienced virgin who feels socially awkward - Should I pay a sex worker to have sex with me for my first time?
Q. Hello I'm a male virgin who's never even kissed a girl nor have I been on a date or had a girlfriend. I'm not particularly good looking and I'm very socially awkward. I figure having no clue about the opposite sex would be a massive turn off....
A. 4 November 2015: Now nonny, you may think women have all the sexual power and men none... and I absolutely disagree. History proves otherwise. But your opinions if of course yours to have.
NO ONE, no matter what job they hold or what gender they are, ARE ent... (read in full...)
I'm worried my Gf will cheat on me while she's away enjoying her cruise. What should I do?
Q. I'm worried my grl friend of almost a year tht she is going to cheat on me on the cruise she just left on .ee didn't have sex for lie three weeks before she left and she loves to have sex she says only with me but I was busy working and her too and ...
A. 4 November 2015: I would LOVE to see the actual and factual research that say women cheat more often vacations & trips than men do. Can you provide a link nonny?
As for you OP, If she isn't cheating at home and your relationship is doing fine (except for the litt... (read in full...)
Should I show my girlfriend what her ex texted to me?
Q. My gf of three months had a nasty break up with her ex. He was verbally abusive and in the end became physically abusive. We started dating shortly after they broke but he recently just found out through Facebook that we are dating. Last night I ...
A. 4 November 2015: I think you are being smart, but SHE needs to be smart too. After all baiting him with the "oh my NEW bf is playing legos with your son" is not a good way to deal with someone like him.
She didn't HAVE to bring you into that conversation, but she ... (read in full...)
Differening opinions from my previous partner versus my new partner. I am naturally well lubricated and have multiple orgasms. Is that a bad thing?
Q. So I've been with one man for 5 years and he always told me Im lose , stink and nobody will want me for my sex . Well I start seeing a new man and we had sex , and he told me "your so wet" is this a bad thing? When he said that i asked for...
A. 4 November 2015: First of all.. ACCEPT that your ex was a total twat-waffle and nothing he said is the truth. OK?!
Being "wet" is not a bad thing, it means arousal - which means YOU are sexually around BY your partner. So no, that is NOT a bad thing.
As for ... (read in full...)
Should I suggest that she display this artist rending of her and her ex together?
Q. My fiancee has an artist rendering of her and her ex boyfriend from a trip that was important to her. It was her first time to go to the destination and the artist was on the street. A picture of it is on her Social Media. She knows I have seen it ...
A. 4 November 2015: Let her keep it stores out of sight. Because that is where SHE is comfortable having it.
She doesn't NEED to make a "shine" to this ONE lovely memory. I'm sure you will provide her with many more to come.
She put it out of sight because th... (read in full...)
As a male inexperienced virgin who feels socially awkward - Should I pay a sex worker to have sex with me for my first time?
Q. Hello I'm a male virgin who's never even kissed a girl nor have I been on a date or had a girlfriend. I'm not particularly good looking and I'm very socially awkward. I figure having no clue about the opposite sex would be a massive turn off....
A. 4 November 2015: Anon male
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Any GUY is FULLY allowed to not want to be with a girl who engages or HAS engaged in casual sex. There isn't a double standard there.
Any WOMAN is FULLY allowed to not want to be with a guy who has engaged in sex with ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is leaving many of my needs unfilled. How do I tell her this without it leading to fighting?
Q. I am a touchy person. It's how I express myself best. I play guitar in my spare time, I am in school to be a physical therapist. My mouth doesn't open without my hands moving. Quite frankly 100% of the time I'm expressing myself through my ...
A. 4 November 2015: I think it's a "case" of not being a great match in certain levels.
You are holding back from expressing yourself to make her happy and while that is admirable that you listen to her boundaries, you are setting yourself up for being unhappy.... (read in full...)
My Bf was in bed with another man. I'm distraught. What can I do now?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months now and it's been great he's so caring our sex life is amazing and we really seem to click. But this came crashing down at the weekend, I came back from a girls holiday and found him underneath his best...
A. 4 November 2015: So your BF is unfaithful and at least... bisexual.
Whether he was screwing (pardon for being frank here) a man or a woman doesn't really alter the fact that he is NOt being faithful and is cheating on you.
So what do you do? Well, WHAT do yo... (read in full...)
The necklace... Should I break up with her? Will remaining with her only bring me misery?
Q. I have been with her for over 4 years. For the first birthday she had during our relationship, I got her a gold necklace with a heart on it, half white gold in the back and gold in the front. She really loved it! For her following birthd...
A. 3 November 2015: OK with your update I see why you question your relationship with her. It's not just about this present - it's about her sense of entitlement, immaturity and ignorance.
I have to say, I think you have already made up your mind that you are kind... (read in full...)
Should I show my girlfriend what her ex texted to me?
Q. My gf of three months had a nasty break up with her ex. He was verbally abusive and in the end became physically abusive. We started dating shortly after they broke but he recently just found out through Facebook that we are dating. Last night I ...
A. 3 November 2015: So WHO told him about it? Did she contact him? I will presume it was her. And that was a BAD move. Looks like she was TRYING to get a raise out of him.
I DO think it was fine that you talked to the dad. His dad made sense when he said to just blo... (read in full...)
Girls, question, are these red flags? Am I coming on too strong?
Q. Girls, question, are these red flags? Four dates so far, I think everything is going great, she doesn't say she misses me, loves to be with me, tells me not to fall to fast, tells me , I can go out with other women. She does tell me she likes se...
A. 3 November 2015: I too think you are moving too fast for her.
And I DO think it's a red light on BOTH your parts, that she TELLS you that you should date other women and you keep pursuing her.
I would ask her if the notion that you should date other women is h... (read in full...)
Considering our strong connection why she doesn't break up with him? Is this girl worth pursuing?
Q. So i met this girl at school through one of my ex girlfriend's friends. We ended up exhanching numbers at one point, we would text often and have lunch as a group at school. We got to know each other over the course of a month and came to learn we...
A. 3 November 2015: She has a BF, that should have been your common sense "STOP" sign, RIGHT there. Whether you have TONS in common or not... is irrelevant.
She has MADE her choice- her CHOICE is her BF - no matter how much smack she has talked about him, she stil... (read in full...)
Are my fears reasonable? Is my Bf, who is divorced, just too close to his ex and her parents, still? And why should I be a secret?
Q. Hi, i really need an opinion from you guys. I'm 43 my bf is 50. i'm widow and he is divorced. We are now 5 months in relationship. We are not living together cos our place are 3 hours far distance, but we are always seeing each other, sometimes im s...
A. 3 November 2015: Honestly I'd worry more about his temper and manipulation tricks than whether he should tell his ex and her parents about you.
You write:
"When i talk about this, he is so much high voice and too much angry. I am having a stress already w... (read in full...)
I think my summer fling from Norway has an ulterior motive in wanting to meet up again!
Q. I hooked up with a foreign girl whilst on holiday last summer and she's just messaged me saying she wants to meet up again. But I'm slightly wary of her. I'm 22. Me and a group of friends went on a lads holiday to Sunny Beach in Bulgaria back in...
A. 3 November 2015: You are right nonnies!
But... it still doesn't change anything as they are part of the European Economic Area.
Quote:
The EEA agreement grants Norway access to the EU's internal market while the country is to adopt most EU legislation rela... (read in full...)
What are my options? My husband has been calling me horrible names and acting like an jerk
Q. Hi Tonight my husband called me a "f^^^ing lazy c^^t" , says i never want to do anything, and that he was going downstairs, sleeping downstairs and moving downstairs for good. I told him he cannot speak to me that way and if he wants to live dow...
A. 3 November 2015: Ah so you are a military spouse too. My husband is retired military so I DO know how he is acting. In the first couple of year of our marriage my husband "tried" at times to treat me like I was one of his "Joes" (soldiers) and I told him more then ... (read in full...)
My husband just left after bad mouthing me to our children. Any advice for me?
Q. My husband just left after bad mouthing me to our children. Ive been unwell for almost 3 weeks.. my cough has turned into bronchitis. Ive been feeling horribly miserable. When i first started out with the cough, i was still working out and ...
A. 3 November 2015: FIRST thing you do is get on a course of antibiotics and get over your bronchitis. If you are already on it, 5-10 days course will make you all better.
Secondly your husband is a twat. YOU are sick with an infection in your respiratory system a... (read in full...)
I think my summer fling from Norway has an ulterior motive in wanting to meet up again!
Q. I hooked up with a foreign girl whilst on holiday last summer and she's just messaged me saying she wants to meet up again. But I'm slightly wary of her. I'm 22. Me and a group of friends went on a lads holiday to Sunny Beach in Bulgaria back in...
A. 3 November 2015: A Norwegian doesn't NEED a visa to move to England, as both countries are within the EU. Citizens of the EU can move FREELY around the EU, much like citizens of the US can move around it's states. That goes for work and education.
Not sure wha... (read in full...)
The necklace... Should I break up with her? Will remaining with her only bring me misery?
Q. I have been with her for over 4 years. For the first birthday she had during our relationship, I got her a gold necklace with a heart on it, half white gold in the back and gold in the front. She really loved it! For her following birthd...
A. 3 November 2015: I kind of agree with jls022.
Not liking a present doesn't mean one is ungrateful. However her attitude in the store seems rather petty. I have NEVER been to a jeweler's store and not like a single thing there. I find the business of the IOU odd.... (read in full...)
What are my options? My husband has been calling me horrible names and acting like an jerk
Q. Hi Tonight my husband called me a "f^^^ing lazy c^^t" , says i never want to do anything, and that he was going downstairs, sleeping downstairs and moving downstairs for good. I told him he cannot speak to me that way and if he wants to live dow...
A. 3 November 2015: ""I think I deserve better than to be called something that ugly.""
I don't think ANYONE deserved being called a "f^^^ing lazy c^^t".
And I don't think your daughter deserves being yelled at in her face.
So I have to ask is this a new thing?... (read in full...)
Does it indicate that he does not care enough? Considering that he's NEVER jealous?
Q. My boyfriend is never insecure and never ever gets jealous. EVER! I know this isn't a problem and should be a good thing but sometimes I feel like maybe he just doesn't care enough to get jealous, what do you think? He seems super confident ...
A. 3 November 2015: Jealousy is NOT attractive and NOT an indication of GREATER love for ones partner.
Him being super confident would say to me that he TRUSTS you, that he FEELS love from you, that he KNOWS what he wants.
Just like many people don't (generally... (read in full...)
As a male inexperienced virgin who feels socially awkward - Should I pay a sex worker to have sex with me for my first time?
Q. Hello I'm a male virgin who's never even kissed a girl nor have I been on a date or had a girlfriend. I'm not particularly good looking and I'm very socially awkward. I figure having no clue about the opposite sex would be a massive turn off....
A. 3 November 2015: I think, as a woman, that a guy PAYING for sex from a sex-worker is FAR more unattractive/a turn off, than a guy who just doesn't have any experience.... yet. If I were in my 20's now, I wouldn't touch a guy who had sex with prostitutes with a ... (read in full...)
Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?
Q. I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...
A. 3 November 2015: While the law regarding the Internet is still (seriously) in it's infancy, I can't tell you if they would. Again, I would consult a lawyer/solicitor.
If those pictures were uploaded by the photographer after you singed a release form, you may not ... (read in full...)
Could he like me but be scared to get involved
Q. He is avoiding a relationship out of insecurities? I recently hooked up with a guy I met on match. He is 52 and I am 40. After several dates and a sleepover he went ghost on me, and left me scratching my head why he'd wanted me to stay but n...
A. 2 November 2015: I think he is dating multiple women, that would explain the silence.
Whether is is not dating "seriously" due to ED - I can't say. But I can say that he isn't on MATCH to find HIS match or a long term partner, he is looking for casual. Casual s... (read in full...)
Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?
Q. I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...
A. 2 November 2015: Talk to a lawyer/solicitor, sometimes when threaten with legal jargon and the prospect of being sued websites will remove pictures.
However, consider that ONCE pictures are "out there" on the Internet, there really isn't much you can do. I DO kno... (read in full...)
Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?
Q. I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...
A. 2 November 2015: First off:
Don't let anyone SHAME you or HARASS you for this. YOU were free to DO whatever you wanted (as long as it was legal) and have absolutely nothing to apologize for.
I'd stick with the truth that you worked as an artist model while in s... (read in full...)
Should I show my girlfriend what her ex texted to me?
Q. My gf of three months had a nasty break up with her ex. He was verbally abusive and in the end became physically abusive. We started dating shortly after they broke but he recently just found out through Facebook that we are dating. Last night I ...
A. 2 November 2015: I wouldn't show her, just because I think THAT is what the ex wants. He wants to make a wedge between you two. He wants her to feel like crap and he wants drama.
So ignore it (you CAN save it - screenshot it) and then let it go.
At least, tha... (read in full...)
Decided to take a break from each other. Will he think it's a permanent thing by April?
Q. Okay, firstly we've only been broken up a few hours so this question is more of a future problem solving one. We broke up because life schedules mean we never see each other. I literally have work 7 days a week and it clashes with his days off so ...
A. 1 November 2015: I think in general "where there is a will there is a way".
Taking "breaks" rarely work, because people presume that taking a break will FIX what ever issue caused the break and everything will be problem-free and working fine after a break.
... (read in full...)
My LD Boyfriend constantly chats. Am I right to be irriated or am I paranoid?
Q. Long distance Bf (3years) constantly chats up on whatsapp with his reunion group (starting 2015).. They go on for hours.. I know he is not playing behind me but I get really irritated and we end up fighting.. He even chats while we are fighting...
A. 1 November 2015: So you are saying while talking to you on the phone, Skype, IM he is also chatting with a group of people?
If that is so, I'd cut the conversation short. And keep doing that till he figures out that his PARTNER (you) should have his undivide... (read in full...)
Does my girlfriend still want her ex boyfriend? She chats to him on whatsapp every day
Q. Hi everyone, I have been dating someone for 6 months now and it's generally going well. My main concern is she has an ex-boyfriend (ex) and they message each other on whatsapp literally everyday. They were friends for a few years before t...
A. 1 November 2015: I agree with Janniepeg here.
YOU are the 3rd wheel in your own relationship. While it's GREAT that they can become friends and civil after a bad break up, but that doesn't mean you have to want to be with someone who seems to have her prioriti... (read in full...)
If I chose not to have sex how do I find the willpower to wait?
Q. I'm 16 in my first year of college and I'm still a virgin (and proud to be one actually). But everyday becomes a little harder even though I know staying a virgin until I meet "the one" or near enough is the right thing to do. I haven't even kissed ...
A. 1 November 2015: You stick to your guns.
I think waiting to have sex till you meet someone you ACTUALLY care about is a good thing to do. A LOT of girls don't wait and thus a lot of girls look back and regret their first time.
Sure, you will still feel horny... (read in full...)
Is boyfriend unhappy because I haven't touched him the way he touches me?
Q. my bf has fingered me and thats about as far as our relationship has gotten too but i find it hard to cum...and im worried he isnt satisfied because i havent touched him in that way.....
A. 1 November 2015: I think if you get nothing out of him "fingering" you, then WHY do it? Because HE wants to put his fingers in you?
And if you aren't ready to touch HIM in "that" way then tell him.
And I SO agree with Ivy here, IF you can't talk to him abou... (read in full...)
Should I feel obligated to send my ex a card just to follow along with a tradition we started?
Q. I know this sounds trivial - but my ex from years ago still keeps in touch. He visits from time to time and sends me birthday cards even though I have no more feelings for him. I am not bothered whether I keep in touch with him or not these da...
A. 1 November 2015: I agree with BimBim
YOU do not OWE this guy "friendship" and since you aren't really friends anyways, what's the point?
Just be honest with him. Tell him I don't really see us being in contact as something I need or want, I wish you well, b... (read in full...)
Feeling nervous and unable to talk to him properly. What to do?
Q. One guy is staying opposite to my home. I am seeing him there for almost one year. The very first time he used to stare at me but i just ignored. Sometimes he will be doing something to impress me but i just ignored. I started neglecting him a...
A. 1 November 2015: Honestly, he sounds creepy. OR maybe that is just me. I had a stalker when I was in my 20's. He would call and say the weirdest things, among them comments about my clothing. Which meant that he was WATCHING me, and I actually lived with my blinds ... (read in full...)
Wife's drunken antics took a turn for worse, and yet I am somehow the bad guy. What did I do wrong?
Q. To understand the question I'm asking, I must go over in detail what has transpired for the past couple weeks. My wife and I have been married for 6 months, and have been together for 5 years. She has been married before, and had a son with a person ...
A. 1 November 2015: Wow, I have to agree that MAYBE the ex of hers weren't the abusive and violent one... maybe it was her? But I also DO know that there are people who will act out in "safer environments" (such as her with you, because she knows you won't hit her).
... (read in full...)
My Girlfriends seems to be jealous of my children. How to handle the strain this puts on our relationship?
Q. Hi everyone, I have a problem that hopefully you can help me with..... My current partner of 2 years and myself have a child who is 7 months old (the relationship moved fast). I have two more children from a previous relationship, all my chi...
A. 1 November 2015: I think your current GF is a tad immature. and not really very understanding of the whole situation. Which, well may not be entirely strange as she is ONLY 21.
There is a WASTE difference in what you can do with a 3 year old, a 9 year old and... a... (read in full...)
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