Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?
Q. I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...
A. 3 December 2015: I hope no one judges you here on DC for having been a nude model.
Consider ALL the FINE works of art we have today, from the last couple of millennia that required a nude model. Think David, think the Sistine chapel, Robert Mapplethorpe's photos, ... (read in full...)
Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?
Q. I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...
A. 2 December 2015: If you (or one of your friends) find a forum where you are a subject or your images are shared - I would look into the posters. It could be that the the one who originally posted it and thus spread it online - no, I would not "engage" in any ... (read in full...)
Can I tame this player?
Q. Hi. I’m a 23 year old girl and I’m falling head over heels for a boy at my university. The problem is he’s a real player and sleeps around A LOT. But could he be relationship material? He’s literally all I can think about lately. He’s 21 and ha...
A. 1 December 2015: Nope, he is who he is, and he is fine with that.
Thinking "if only I could change this or that he would be perfect!" is fantasy. Reality is, he is a "player" because he CHOOSES to be one. He might still be one in 10 years. He might not HAVE the... (read in full...)
I like him but why treat me like this?
Q. Hi. I'm confused about this guy's behavior and need advice. So I finally started liking a guy after 2 years of getting out of a long term relationship. I still like him a lot. He lives in a diff city and whenever we are in each other's city, we meet ...
A. 1 December 2015: I fully agree with SVC.
This is HIS bad behavior and bad manners - it's NOT you.
Cut the guy lose. Block and delete his number and let it go.
And I also agree that this is not about you. What IS about you, is why you'd want this guy in y... (read in full...)
How could I have such a dream, while sleeping in my boyfriend's arms?
Q. I have a really great boyfriend, love him to the point where even the thought of hurting him fills me with guilt. The other day, we fell asleep after doing chores and as he was holding me, I had the most graphic dream I have ever had featurin...
A. 1 December 2015: It's a dream. WE have very little control over the content of our dreams. I had a VERY graphic and vivid one of one of my favorite actors while spooning my husband. And yes, it DID feel odd when I woke up (like I had cheated).
Dreams are weird. Y... (read in full...)
Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?
Q. I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...
A. 1 December 2015: Glad the lawyers could get most of them shut down. It is ridiculous how something like this can happen and YOU are the one who has to deal with it.
Have you also "trolled" forums for "sharing" of nudes? The more you find and shut down the better. ... (read in full...)
Fiancée's attitude makes me sick but how can I leave?
Q. A few weeks ago me and my fiancée of 2 years went to her parents house for her mom's birthday. It was there, her mother told the family she was sick. This is the wonderful woman who put my fiancée through school twice!, bought her a car when she ...
A. 1 December 2015: One thing I have learned is to NOT make promises you don't know 100% you can't keep. Because it doesn't do anyone good. Of course there are times where you think you CAN do something, and then it turns out that you can't. It's part of life as ... (read in full...)
I'm worred that my girlfriend is going to dump me
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now and it has been great until recently when we spent a whole week together aboard in Spain. At the start it was all lovey dovey but then towards the end she got cold, admittedly I made small ...
A. 1 December 2015: So she is nitpicking you over actual little things. Maybe she has decided that yo two moved to fast and that she isn't as into you as she had hoped? Going on vacation with someone you have only dated a few months can be going a tad fast.
Was i... (read in full...)
Her daughter is a nightmare at bedtime! Ideas on how to deal with her?
Q. I'm in a relationship with a lovely woman who has a 9 year old daughter whom I absolutely adore. She is a great kid, but has quite a problem when it comes to bedtime. And it is driving my gf completely insane to the point she is at her wits end. ...
A. 30 November 2015: Thanks for the update!
And no, you are not back to square one. It just didn't work instantaneous as you had hoped. Such is the thing about kids (and many adults lol) they NEED to go over things a few times to "get it".
I would still have her G... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has let his house go it makes me uncomfortable and I can't talk to him about it
Q. My boyfriend in the last few months has really let his house go and it's a real mess. It's got to the stage where I don't want to be there, we're long distance so coming to mine isn't always an option. When I've tried to discuss it with him he ...
A. 30 November 2015: Intelligence has nothing to do with a clean house, what bogus excuse it that.. Honestly, it is the "dumbest" excuse I have ever heard for having a filthy house.
DO NOT clean his house! Seriously. HE is a GROWN ASS man!
Either rent a cheap hot... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate to send my ex work colleague Christmas card?
Q. I guess this is kind of a silly question but I would like some advice please. I would like to know if it is appropriate to send my ex work colleague Christmas card? Basically at the start of the year, for about 5 monts I worked in a job that I...
A. 30 November 2015: I think it's OK to send one as long as you make sure the wording is friendly and platonic.
And WHO cares what other people in that office might think! You don't work there anymore...
BTW I send Christmas card to my German OB/GYN who not o... (read in full...)
I'm worred that my girlfriend is going to dump me
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now and it has been great until recently when we spent a whole week together aboard in Spain. At the start it was all lovey dovey but then towards the end she got cold, admittedly I made small ...
A. 30 November 2015: What "small" mistakes did you make?
Can't really answer your question without knowing why she might be pissed off at you.... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose her friendship over spur of the moment sex
Q. I had sex with one of my flatmates after a drunken Halloween party last month and I fear it’s destroyed our friendship. I’m 20, she’s 21. We live in a halls of residence flat at university with 4 other students, and are in our second year. We’ve ...
A. 30 November 2015: I agree with YouWish
Take her advice to heart and follow through. And DO NOT - I repeat - NO NOT apologize over text. MAN up and do it in person.... (read in full...)
I can tell he's trying to change but I don't think it's enough anymore
Q. I apologise in advance for this being a long question, but as I need answers/advice from people outside of the situation, I have to fully explain everything. So, basically, I'm 19 years old, and was dating a boy, lets name him Jordan, for over...
A. 30 November 2015: He has already done this to you twice. And once it was with a Mutual friend? That is rather bold. (or really stupid)
He isn't thinking of your relationship as a long term thing, he is thinking of it as a hindrance to doing ALL the things (girls e... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be this fearful of something bad happening to my baby son?
Q. I have just had the most beautiful baby boy who I am just besotted with. I am so blessed. But I am terrified of something awful happening him. Everytime I am enjoying him, I am consumed by this fear. I don't sleep, I stay awake just to make sure he ...
A. 30 November 2015: It's normal. I did it with baby #1 and #2 and... #3.
My oldest was a crappy sleeper - woke a lot, ate often, had colic, slept in bursts. So WHEN she did sleep, I kept checking on her. Then baby #2 arrived. She slept like a champ, ate like on as we... (read in full...)
Do couples go through stages where they don't have sex?
Q. Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. At first, sex was great. It was passionate and it happened often. Now my boyfriend never seems to want sex. What makes me confused is that we still have great chemistry, great conversa...
A. 30 November 2015: I'd say it's "normal" IF you had been together longer than 2 years. But I have not been in a relationship where the sex died down that soon.It does "even" out from the "crazy bunny sex" to the more relaxed, "do it when you are in the mood". But ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend looking up engagement rings now?
Q. I am living with boyfriends parents to save money for a house deposit. We should have it in about 6 months time! But it will realistically be a year before we actually move out. My boyfriend has always insisted that we do not get engaged whilst u...
A. 30 November 2015: Maybe he was looking them up to see how much he needs to save? If the plan is to move out in a year and to NOT get engaged til AFTER you move out... It would make sense to start saving up now.
And I agree, you two should definitely move out of h... (read in full...)
Why do women become so much more interesting when you are committed?
Q. Hello cupid I'm recently committed after a long time and I have been very comfortable and happy with my girlfriend. Before meeting my girlfriend, many girls showed interest but I was adamant to stay single till I find the person I can be fully mys...
A. 30 November 2015: It's the same for both genders. If you are recently committed and happy - it shows. More the "happy" part than the committed. So wo(men) see a happy guy/girl... and hit on him/her. People are ATTRACTED to happy people.
I honestly had more men hit ... (read in full...)
I'm angry that my partner returned the iPhone he found to its owner
Q. What would you do if you found a I phone? My partner found one by his car and it belonged to a woman because it had a case with flowers on to protect it and a photo of her and her fella. My partner said to see if she rang for her phone and if...
A. 30 November 2015: Giving it back is the RIGHT thing to do. He cold have turned it in to the nearest store or police dept, but he chose a good way to do it in waiting on her to call it.
I'm not really sure why you think he did the wrong thing.
WHAT is so wr... (read in full...)
Why does my girlfriend all of the sudden have that horrible odor down there??
Q. I have kind of an embrassing question... My girlfrirnd is on birth control so we have alot of unprotected sex. Probably atleast 3 to 5 times a day. I always cum inside of her since she can't get pregnant while she is on the birth control. The birth ...
A. 29 November 2015: Sperm can alter a vagina's odor because it offsets the Ph balance within. So yes it CAN be all your sperm that is making it smell. She can also have a uti or yeast infection both can be due to YOUR sperm. And again unbalanced Ph can result in ... (read in full...)
How can I find that determination to just walk away?
Q. How do I find the determination to leave my current boyfriend? I've been putting a lot of thought into this relationship and I don't see a future with the person my boyfriend is. He is in his 30's, still lives at home with his parents, lacks a ...
A. 29 November 2015: Call him and end it, before going to bed, then delete and block his number.
And when you wake up STICK to that decision.
I don't understand how he can "prohibit" you from even talking to other men. That is ridiculous. More so that you basical... (read in full...)
Do I give my date a second chance?
Q. I met a guy in his 40s for a drink on Thursday after chatting for two days. The evening went well and I wasnt sure if the chemistry was right but he seemee lokeca good guy. I agreed to meet him Sunday. That night he text he was coming off the dating ...
A. 28 November 2015: It's been LESS than a week of meeting/chatting/1 date and he is already questioning you being on the dating site. I'm sorry I wouldn't CARE if his ex-wife cheated. You are not his ex-wife and not at all responsible for that. THAT is his baggage that ... (read in full...)
My work has partnered with wife a terrible driving woman. How should I handle this?
Q. Hi, A few months ago the company I work for provided a "share drive scheme" What They do is buddy you up with another person in the workplace (they base this on who lives the closest together) and they provide you with a company car - which you ...
A. 28 November 2015: I agree with Denizen, I'd take the bus from now on. I would not risk my life for a shorter ride with someone you feel is an unsafe driver (driving like a lunatic).
IT IS NOT your job to provide proof that she is unsafe. I think the fact that you... (read in full...)
Did I go too far and say the wrong thing?
Q. So my crush and I were texting during the black friday sale and I told him I was shopping that's why I havent been able to reply. Then he was like "What'd you get me? ??" (im not sure if emojis show on this site but he put a smug emoji after his ...
A. 28 November 2015: Eh, it might not have been the most "cool" think to say, but I wouldn't sweat it.
Did you sound like s slut? nah..
Relax. If he can't handle a little bit of a joke... then he isn't worth your time.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been trying to meet up with another woman
Q. So, I've been in a relationship with someone for about a year and a half mostly online. Up until recently it has been completely virtual. I went to visit him in the summer and we hit it off eventhough he was a bit....forward. Recently (Septemb...
A. 27 November 2015: Yes, you should leave him. Because as much as he "wants" to change he isn't doing anything about it, he is instead blaming you. He is taking 0 responsibility and THAT is not the actions of someone who really wants to change.
He probably was doin... (read in full...)
Do troubled on again and off again relationships last? Or is she just kidding herself?
Q. My friend is in a very 'on-off' relationship with her boyfriend. One minute they are best of friends having weekends away together and the next minute they are falling out and he is abusive to her and doesn't speak to her for days - and then the...
A. 26 November 2015: She probably is kidding herself. I think people who have these dysfunctional on/off/abusive relationship are usually unwilling to see the truth for what is it.
However, this is your friend, her problems, hers to deal with as SHE sees fit. As ... (read in full...)
Men, can you be turned off a woman and lose attraction, based on one thing she said ?
Q. Hello! There's a man that i serve every day at work, I really like him, and he seems to like me too- we just smile and sort of gaze at each other, even when we're not saying anything, and he does seem shy and quite nervous but tries to initiat...
A. 26 November 2015: I don't think he has stayed away from your work-place because you used one wee curse word.
While it may have come across as a TAD unprofessional we ALL let words slip here and there. It happens. You are only human. Not some Saint.
... (read in full...)
Online Dating : is it possible that I'm emotionally unavailable?
Q. Am I emotionally unavailable. Or is this a combo of both. I started online dating almost a year ago now and have met a few guys. I met one guy who was 10+ older than myself. He seemed very interested in me after our first coffee date and I went...
A. 26 November 2015: Is it possible that I'm emotionally unavailable?
----
It is possible, but in this case you mention, I think it has less to do with being emotionally available, and more of you not seeing the whole picture. You may have "liked" this guy, but yo... (read in full...)
How much more can my heart take? Tired of being Mr Nice and getting no where.
Q. I tried again, am done being the nice guy, romantic, sweet talker, opening car doors ,poems,I've tried, an tried again, woman say they want to meet a good guy, well I've had it, am not going to be a bad boy, just don't give all I got. So ladies ...
A. 26 November 2015: I think you might be over-doing the whole "courtly-love" approach.
Not every woman is going to be knocked for a loop over sweet-talking and poems. Poems are lovely for SOME ladies, but I think they are appropriate ONCE you know that person w... (read in full...)
Her daughter is a nightmare at bedtime! Ideas on how to deal with her?
Q. I'm in a relationship with a lovely woman who has a 9 year old daughter whom I absolutely adore. She is a great kid, but has quite a problem when it comes to bedtime. And it is driving my gf completely insane to the point she is at her wits end. ...
A. 26 November 2015: Sounds like one of my niece's children. Though she was 6 at the time but with the same drama every night. And her grandpa and two other aunties would go through hoops to get her to bed. It was a circus.
I think (personally) have set routines... (read in full...)
Can I safely assume that I don't have a young man that is attracted to me and is just being friendly/flirty with me and enjoy it as it is?
Q. I am a 40 year old and normally find when a man winks at you its either friendly or they are interested in you. However a younger man (I think he is about 25) joined our workplace a year ago and on his first day of being introduced to me winked at ...
A. 26 November 2015: Since this is at your work-place I wold presume that he is being friendly, charming and flirty because THAT is who he is, and leave it at that.
I would NOT read more into it. Just stick to being polite, friendly and professional.
A place of bu... (read in full...)
The father rejected our son, and his mother isn't interested either
Q. Hi everyone. I have a problem. Yesterday i went shopping with my son who is 4 years old, i saw my son grandma which is his dads mother for the first time. I approached her because i recognise her from Facebook. I told her who I was and she asked me ...
A. 26 November 2015: I too agree with YouWish
Think about your son. The last thing he needs is to be rejected by a useless piece of crap of a man.
Leave him and his family alone, they have nothing good to offer.
See a solicitor and file for child support/mainte... (read in full...)
Is he a complete flake or are all men like this?
Q. About 6 months ago I started talking to this guy on a dating site. I initially rejected him because he was much younger than me (9 years) but I thought he was attractive and agreed to have coffee. He was so flaky that we actually were never able to ...
A. 26 November 2015: I think yo should trust your instinct that told you: " He's a FLAKE!!" and let him go.
I think he is dating multiple women at the same time and therefore have a little trouble keeping up on seeing them all.
You can do better. Yes, he might be... (read in full...)
He can't make up his mind if he wants a relationship with me
Q. I was with my boyfriend for about 7 months and we split about 2 weeks ago. For both of us this was the first significant relationship we'd been in. When we first got together everything was going great apart from the sex side of things. I hadn't...
A. 26 November 2015: Honestly, someone who isn't sure if he loves you or not after 7 months... doesn't love you. He might care about you, he might like the sex, intimacy and "having" someone, but it's not love. Which means if you continue something with him, you are ... (read in full...)
Am I over-reacting to his harsh and hurtful comments?
Q. Hello Everyone! Boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. Last weekend, he said things to me that really broke my spirit and was very hurtful. We were getting intimate and he said that I was the only woman who's never made him come,...
A. 25 November 2015: Why are you with this A-hole?
He seems to have absolutely no appreciation for you, so I'd let him go and do that gladly!
There is being honest, and then there is being cruel. He is being the latter.
Cut him lose, cut him off.
... (read in full...)
Is it selfish that I don't want my Bf's sons living with us?
Q. I need Help.. I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 35, he has 2 kids 18 and 13 both boys. I am currently 3 months pregnant and couldn't be any happier I'm so excited for my baby we both are, after months of waiting we finally are getting our new ...
A. 24 November 2015: You sound like a responsible and mature young lady, and I FULLY understand why you are apprehensive towards having both his kids living there, hence the RULES you need to make.
If you think 30/70 is fair, then YOU tell your BF that. You, also nee... (read in full...)
He's disrespectful but I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?
Q. I'm sorry if this is a little long. I've been in a relationship now for a little more than a year and a half. I try not to think about the fact that we don't really go out and do much, and we only really spend time at each other's houses. The ...
A. 24 November 2015: You do know that it constitutes to rape? Having sex with someone who is asleep or not willing? But you do nothing because you don't know what to do? How about saying No? If you do NOT want sex it is your RIGHT to say no. This isn't 1550 it's 2015. ... (read in full...)
Is it selfish that I don't want my Bf's sons living with us?
Q. I need Help.. I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 35, he has 2 kids 18 and 13 both boys. I am currently 3 months pregnant and couldn't be any happier I'm so excited for my baby we both are, after months of waiting we finally are getting our new ...
A. 24 November 2015: While I DO understand you up to a point, I also think you are being a little ridiculous.
You have been dating and made a baby with a guy who has other children. Which means THEY will always be his priority and part of his life. These kids don't ju... (read in full...)
Is he sick of me, and bored with me, that he falls asleep, soon after he arrives home?
Q. Is my boyfriend sick or just sick of me? He is fine and wide awake when he's alone and I'm at work. In the evenings he is fine and awake while out with his mates. He will call me to talk on the phone during his 15 min ute drive home. But once...
A. 24 November 2015:
Are you two living together?
If that is the only time a day you two talk.... I have to say if he is expecting you to be happy with 15 minutes attention a day, I'd say you are not getting your needs met. Does it mean he is bored with you? I can'... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend lives in a tip
Q. I went round to my new boyfriend's house. I was very shocked. The place is an absolute tip. The kitchen is stacked high with dirty dishes and the washing in piles, garden unkempt and bike parts everywhere. When he came over for dinner he brought a ...
A. 24 November 2015: When I first read your post I was thinking ewwww teenage boys in their first place are such pigs! And then I re-check your age group.. and thought double eww, this is an Adult! Who invited his GF over while his house looks like a pigsty! Not even ... (read in full...)
Why haven't I dumped him sooner? Why have I been so stupid?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. The relationship has been really good but has definitely not been perfect; he has lied to me a lot. He first lied about being in touch with his ex, and carried on being in touch with her even after us ...
A. 23 November 2015: Firstly! Stop beating yourself up!
You have like MANY people (men and women) before you, stuck it out with someone (partner) in hopes that they would shape up and pitch in. Sometimes it happens, more often... it doesn't - silver lining is, you ... (read in full...)
Was it OK to ask my landlord for a female property manager when viewing requested repairs? The male PM seemed annoyed
Q. Hi, Guess I'm just looking for reassurance that I have done the right thing. I live in a rented flat and the landlord has a property Manager (PM) who does inspections which should only be done every 6 months or so or if I request a repair. Anyway...
A. 23 November 2015: I agree it was OK to ask, it's up to the owner/landlord to decide if she can/will provide a female for you and other tenants.
Now you said this creepy male would come out more often and/or unannounced - did he access your home? or just on the prop... (read in full...)
We've been chatting for a week and now he says I'm 'the one'
Q. For the last week I have started chatting to this man online and to put it mildly it has been so intense.We have so much in common and we chat for hours everyday and it's been really nice. He has rung me on the phone and said he was very drawn to...
A. 23 November 2015: He claims the past GF's always dumped him... yet it's all their faults.... They had issues.. yet... HE was dating them. See what I'm getting at?
I think you will have a clearer picture of him if you meet him in person sooner rather than later.
... (read in full...)
We've been chatting for a week and now he says I'm 'the one'
Q. For the last week I have started chatting to this man online and to put it mildly it has been so intense.We have so much in common and we chat for hours everyday and it's been really nice. He has rung me on the phone and said he was very drawn to...
A. 22 November 2015: I think it IS a red flag when someone after a week makes a declaration of "The one". While you two have "talked" a lot over text/phone he IS still a stranger to you, and you are still a stranger to him. IT's been a week. The likelihood of him being ... (read in full...)
Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?
Q. I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...
A. 3 November 2015: While the law regarding the Internet is still (seriously) in it's infancy, I can't tell you if they would. Again, I would consult a lawyer/solicitor.
If those pictures were uploaded by the photographer after you singed a release form, you may not ... (read in full...)
Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?
Q. I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...
A. 2 November 2015: Talk to a lawyer/solicitor, sometimes when threaten with legal jargon and the prospect of being sued websites will remove pictures.
However, consider that ONCE pictures are "out there" on the Internet, there really isn't much you can do. I DO kno... (read in full...)
Is it still possible to continue with a normal working life after posing for nude modelling?
Q. I am currently studying accountancy in college and have ambitions to have a successful career working in finance. While still attending courses in college, I did part time work as a model for local painting classes. I did not see this as something ...
A. 2 November 2015: First off:
Don't let anyone SHAME you or HARASS you for this. YOU were free to DO whatever you wanted (as long as it was legal) and have absolutely nothing to apologize for.
I'd stick with the truth that you worked as an artist model while in s... (read in full...)
| *oneypie's friends
These are mutual friends, so *oneypie has
added them and they have added *oneypie!
|
