What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?
Q. What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...
A. 22 August 2007: "I unfortunately don't think anyone here is able to give me an utterly objective response."
No you are not looking for objectivity you are looking for validation and you aren't finding it. You are also looking for trouble, knock off this nons... (read in full...)
What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?
Q. What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...
A. 25 July 2007: You've already made up your mind so I guess you are still here waiting for someone to say something to validate your decision. It won't be me I think you are looking for trouble.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's father is my mother's half brother.
Q. Hi, I'm 27 and my boyfiend is 23 but we have a problem. His father is my mother's half brother and we been together for a while and some people know but my mom doesn't and I don't think its a good idea but anyway, I was just wondering what I can do ...
A. 23 July 2007: Genetic counseling definitely should be sought before you have a child with your cousin. Tell your mom what is going on, she's bound to find out sooner or later anyway.... (read in full...)
I found condoms in his travel bag and although he assures me he wouldn't cheat, I can't stop thinking about it
Q. my boyfriend of 4 months has gone on a business trip for 5 days and i bought him a going away present and card to read on the plane, but when i opened the front zip on his suitcase to put them in i found a handful of condoms scattered in the bottom ...
A. 23 July 2007: With this added info, I think he's playing you. Dump him, you sound miserable.... (read in full...)
I am skinnny and my family's rude comments about that, really hurt. What can I do?
Q. I am very tall and naturally quite skinny-I do not exercise or diet and eat what I want. I am so fed up on everyone putting down slim people and making statements about "real womanly bodies" - as if being a size 0 somehow makes you less of a woman. ...
A. 23 July 2007: Well If you have done all those three things I fear you will just have to put up with the rude comments or not go at all. With all the eating disorders out there, a naturally thin young woman it is just assumed, by some, to have a disorder. Unfair ... (read in full...)
I love him but he has problems.
Q. We are both near 50yrs and have both had multiple relationships and want to settle down. We've been together 4yrs, lived together 3yrs. My grandchildren love him, I love him....but I can't stand to be around him for more than a couple of days at a...
A. 23 July 2007: Are there side effects that he doesn't like with the medication? If so the doctor may be able to prescribe something else that will help. But if he is just refusing to take it because he doesn't want to, then I guess you should move on. It truly ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friends seem to be on a hate campaign against me for no reason
Q. my boyfriends friends say they hate me.... dunno what i did, they are saying im immature (while they used to say i was extrmely mature for my age as do most people... they are about 7/8 years older than i am) one girl said she hated me and wan...
A. 23 July 2007: Something doesn't quite jell here. You say they used to like you but now one of his female friends wants to kill you? You must have done something, or at least someone is making up stories and passing them around. What the heck does your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
What's the chance of getting pregnant while on the pill?
Q. ok what are the chances of getting pregnant on the pill and how can i tell when are my most fertile days?...
A. 23 July 2007: You should always use condoms as well. The pill will protect against pregnancy but does not against STD's. If you use a condom as well, you are covered completely for both.... (read in full...)
How can i help my shattered wife?
Q. Hi, my wife has just given birth our beautiful baby daughter and we are really happy. The thing is i'm back at work full time now and she is at home with the baby at the moment until the baby can go to a nursery and my wife will go back to work part...
A. 23 July 2007: If she is breast feeding have her put up a few bottles in the freezer so you can feed her on occasion. My husband would help me out on the weekends this way so I could get a nap or go shopping or whatever I felt like doing. The baby will settle into ... (read in full...)
What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?
Q. What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...
A. 20 July 2007: I just think you are taking a risk when no risk HAS to be taken. Out of sight- out of mind.... (read in full...)
What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?
Q. What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...
A. 19 July 2007: Of course this is not a good idea, it is a very, very bad one as a matter of fact. Whether he is happily or unhappily married is none of your concern. Married is married. Hands off and move on. You can find another person to be "friends" with.... (read in full...)
I had my period last month but since I am late this month I am worried I could be pregnant
Q. The last time I had sex was about the 13th/14th of May. I had a normal, heavy period last month and I'm now overdue for the next. Last week, I had intense cramping akin to what I'd get in a period. I put it down to things being on the move (as they...
A. 19 July 2007: If you had a regular period last month you most likely aren't pregnant. Do you use protection when you have sex? If you do then when you go to the store to pick up a pregnancy test as Penta suggests, stock up on some birth control as well. Good ... (read in full...)
He said he wants to meet me, but then he said he might be too busy! Is this a brush off?
Q. I met a guy a week ago and kissed him, we have txt each other and he says he wants to meet me but when i asked him if he was ok for a drink tonight he says he might be busy. He's sent me messages saying i am beautiful and very sexy but should i take ...
A. 19 July 2007: I agree with Stina, it's kinda like the "I might be washing my hair that night" thing. Just a thought, time will tell.... (read in full...)
I felt there was something he was hiding from me so I broke up. Was it right?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend since Feb. We met online. We are very compatible and have so much fun. We both have been married twice and have kids from both marriages. He's 47 and I'm 48. We are both attractive with many previous relationship ...
A. 19 July 2007: You doing the right thing by taking all of this very, very slowly. Just relax and see what develops over time. Keep us posted, honey.... (read in full...)
How can I motivate myself to get my GED?
Q. How can I get my self motivated to go to school and get my ged. I started to and then I all of sudden got lazy. I know I have to do it but what can I do to make sure I go since I am so lazy. Plus its from 5-8 at night....
A. 19 July 2007: Think about the better jobs you will get if you have that diploma. Besides it's only for a few weeks, you can do that standing on your head. Go girl gird up thy loins....... (read in full...)
Do people just come out with spontaneous compliments sometimes?
Q. Hi all, this is just something that bothered me while my girlfriend and I were together, and kind of still does. (Very quickly: We were together for 2 years, separated by 200+ miles, broke up 3 weeks ago) Anyway, we'd be on the phone sometimes,...
A. 19 July 2007: Oh Andy, you poor guy, isn't that torch getting even a little bit heavy to carry yet? She is not a very nice person as we have all discovered from your previous posts. But lots of people have trouble and are uncomfortable saying nice things and just ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and pregnant! I can't tell my parents...What shall ! do?
Q. im 15 and pregnant! what shall i do??? it was a mistake, im not with the father of the baby, i got drunk and got carried away! help, i cant tell my mum or dad or anyone! how am i gonna tell them!?! they will be crushed! ...
A. 19 July 2007: ummm guys? She's probably already had the baby, look at the date.... (read in full...)
I still play around with my ex, but he says he used me and now is going out with my mate
Q. Im 14, I need help. Theres a boy in my school who I love and have been out with(as in girlfriend+boyfriend)in the past and after that we have done things together since we split up and thats has been on and off for the past 2 years. (we havn't had ...
A. 19 July 2007: You need a new boyfriend I wouldn't have anything to do with this loser ever ever. I felt slimy just reading about him. YUCK.... (read in full...)
I offered her the use of my car temporarily. That was 2 years ago! How do I put a stop to this?
Q. My girlfriend of 3 years and I are having problems. She came into the relationship with a beat up old station wagon in really rough shape. Brakes didn't work, tires were shot, heater didn't work, etc. The thing was a death trap and it always m...
A. 19 July 2007: Help her start looking for a car. Your input would be valuable to her plus it will motivate her into getting her own car.... (read in full...)
He wants to see her on his birthday, but not me!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 3 years.For some reason every so often he gives his number to other girls at his work and texts them behind my back,but I found out about the one just recently because I felt suspicious.Anyway,Its his ...
A. 19 July 2007: Time to move on, honey. He sounds like a perfect ass so don't look back. You'll be just fine.... (read in full...)
He found out I was cheating with my ex and now wont take me back!
Q. my b.f and i were engaged to be married next year but suddenly my ex b.f got in touch with me and i also communicated with him. i even met him couple of times i felt somehow that the feelings i had for him before comes back, but he took advantage ...
A. 19 July 2007: Nobody can take advantage of you unless you let them. You made a terrible mistake and now you are paying for it. Move forward with your life, this lesson can and will make you a better person. Good luck.... (read in full...)
She doesnt want sex and I am getting bored
Q. my girlfriend doesnt want to go further :S what can i do? me and my girlfriend have been going out about a year now and all we have done is kiss and hug and the really petty stuff but i want to go further as im quite a 'exploring' guy if that kind...
A. 19 July 2007: If you value sex more than just enjoying her company then break up and go exploring. She certainly deserves to have the honor and respect she deserves from a boyfriend not be pressured into doing something she doesn't want to do.... (read in full...)
Hypnotism and sex combined has become a real fantasy for me!
Q. Hello. I've just turned 18, and I have recently discovered hypnotism. Well, actually, I was aware of it before, but I've just started looking at it in a new light. It has just come to mind that hypnotism and Sex combined is quite a turn on for ...
A. 19 July 2007: You can't make anyone do something against their will even hypnotised but it can cause them to lose some of their inhibitions. Some people can't even BE hypnotized. But if you find a willing partner then go for it. ... (read in full...)
It was perfect, but he cheated, we keep breaking up and there's trust issues! We're meant for each other!?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for a year before breaking up a month ago. he is 34 and i am 20. despite our age gap, we have managed to create a special bond between us. during the first 5-6 months of the relationship everything went perfect. ...
A. 19 July 2007: For two people who are "meant for each other" you guys sure have had alot of breakups in a short period of time. And of course there was the cheating incident. Trust is essential in a healthy relationship if you don't think you will ever be able to ... (read in full...)
After the breakup shes still around despite my behaviour, why?
Q. Had a girlfriend, sayed together for 1 yrs, we separated after a serious conflict(the girls behaviour changed and I was not impressed so decided to ridicule her). After the fall out she went for another man whom they are now cohabitating, but since ...
A. 19 July 2007: She obviously still cared for you after your breakup even if she found another guy. She ran out of the shop because she is probably embarrassed by your rejection yet once again. That's my guess anyway.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend always stay quiet towards me and is opened up to his mates and not me.
Q. I need help... Why does my boyfriend always stay quiet towards me and is opened up to his mates and not me... I don't get it this really hurts me... all we say is hi bye I luv you, I miss you ntng n da buh I always put effort in and always tell him ...
A. 19 July 2007: Some guys have a hard time talking to girls about personal stuff. He may open up to you as he gets more secure in your relationship. Just don't push him he will have to do this on his time table and it may take awhile. Since he is open with his ... (read in full...)
Friend whom I lost contact with is back in my life; should I date him after he sort of dated my best friend?
Q. two years ago i was talking to a friend, we both liked each other very much but as time passed by we stopped speaking neither one of us remember why but he claims to now miss me and i miss him but the problem is that he "dated' my best friend it was ...
A. 19 July 2007: Of course you should, they didn't have much a relationship to begin with did they!? You can check with your friend and see if she is okay with it but I don't think she will mind since she hardly was ever really with him. I say go for it.... (read in full...)
How can I ensure my rectum is empty before attempting anal sex?
Q. how do i make sure that before i have anal intercourse there wont be any "surprises" in the rectal cavity before my partner enters and how can i prevent that from happening before we start........
A. 19 July 2007: Laxatives, enema, bran flakes.... (read in full...)
Been with my boyfriend for 2 years who has gone into the army for 6 years; I've now fallen for a friend who lives close by
Q. I love 2 guys one is B who I have been with for over 2 years the other is CJ who I have known for almost a year. B has left for Bootcamp on July 4th and he is going to be in the army for 6 years, I am not old enough to marry him and not sure if I ...
A. 19 July 2007: I think the reason you can't decide is because you are not ready for a commitment and that's exactly the way it should be at your age. Dating different people in your teenage years prepares you for adulthood. It lets you discover which personality ... (read in full...)
They were always flirty and now I've seen them kiss on the lips; is my worry and overreaction?
Q. Just saw husband and bf kissing on the lips. Granted we were in the process of leaving and they were in the house alone while the rest of us were out side. I went to walk from one side of the deck to the other and turned around and saw them kiss ...
A. 19 July 2007: Some families kiss each other and friends on the lips and some just kiss on the cheek. I'm a cheek kisser and save the the lip locks for my hubby exclusively. Now if he normally kisses people on the lips then maybe this is no biggy but if he ... (read in full...)
Can sperm die in chlorine water?
Q. Can sperm die in chlorine water?...
A. 19 July 2007: Then the answer is yes.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to make love but my ex wants mad sex! Who do I choose?
Q. hey i need advice how do i decide between my boyfriend and my ex??? i'm a virgin n i really love my boyfriend n my ex. i think i'm ready to go all the way but the problem is i want them both to b my first...i kno its not possible but i cant decid...
A. 18 July 2007: Sorry about I don't think you ARE ready to "go all the way" if you are asking these questions. I mean come on, "long passionate sex" vs "hot mad sex"? Do it with the boyfriend or do with the ex? Sounds just a tad goofy don't you think? When the time ... (read in full...)
Lately I have been thinking a lot about someone that I should not be thinking of at all as I'm married.
Q. Lately I have been thinking a lot about someone that I should not be thinking of at all. There are two probelms. First off, I am married and he has a significant other and a child. And second, I am not even sure how he feels about me. He w...
A. 18 July 2007: I would leave it alone, it is just an older version of a schoolgirl crush. Focus on your husband and family.... (read in full...)
Will I get flabby arms if I don't tone them!?
Q. will i still get flabby arms if i do not weight lift such as toning my arms? i do cardio every day for 45 minutes. i weight lifted before, and now i want to stop. if i do not weight lift and just do cardio instead with my arms, will i still get...
A. 18 July 2007: Ask a trainer at your local gym. From my limited knowledge on the subject, if your cardio exercise uses your legs then your legs will benefit from it as well as you circulatory system. If your cardio exercise uses your arms then ditto. But a ... (read in full...)
I'm just afraid that he is cheating on her or going to hurt her in the future... any advice??
Q. One of my very good friends has been dating this guy for a little over 6 months now. I personally think that they moved too fast, and I'm not 100% sure what I think of this guy. Recently a mutual friend of mine found my friends boyfriend's ...
A. 18 July 2007: Never ever mess with a friend's personal business unless they ask you to. It's one thing to be a sympathetic ear or a shoulder to cry on when there's trouble but never be the instigator. Be a good friend and mind your own business.... (read in full...)
Is he having an emotional affair with his ex?
Q. Me and my bf have been going out for nearly two years now. As we live nearly an hour apart, i only get to see him at weekends. During the week when we are not seeing each other we talk almost all day via instant messenger. I have recently found ...
A. 18 July 2007: I wouldn't ask him not to speak to her if I were you. Just because he talks to her doesn't mean he's having an "emotional affair" especially because he was totally honest about talking to her. I wouldn't be worried at this point but if his demeanor ... (read in full...)
After a relationship ends does the partner ever eventually regret leaving the person that gave them everything?
Q. They say that being nice never gets you anywhere. In my past relationships I have always been the 'nice' person and never got the same in return, instead I got walked over. After a relationship ends, does the partner eventually regret leaving the ...
A. 18 July 2007: Sorry that's Sometimes they DO and sometimes they don't... (read in full...)
After a relationship ends does the partner ever eventually regret leaving the person that gave them everything?
Q. They say that being nice never gets you anywhere. In my past relationships I have always been the 'nice' person and never got the same in return, instead I got walked over. After a relationship ends, does the partner eventually regret leaving the ...
A. 18 July 2007: Sometimes they and sometimes they don't. At least you can say you gave the relationship your all. However, if you feel you were taken advantage of then I have to say that I believe that people ALLOW themselves to be taken for granted or advantage ... (read in full...)
My ex now is seeing the same councelor I did and I dont like it
Q. I have a simple question-(Maybe) I was dating this guy for close to 3 years-and he was an alcoholic-I found this out after 1 year with him-I tried counseling with him (He agreed to go on his own not forced) to my counselor of 8 years! Well long...
A. 18 July 2007: Sure it's okay, she is bound by ethics not to discuss you and your sessions with anybody else. Just be glad he is getting counseling.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I have caused him too much pain by not trusting him
Q. I have been in 3yr relationship w/my boyfriend.I have been very untrusting of him.He told me several times to stop but I didn't and now because of my trust issues I have driven him away, he won't be affectionate at all to me, says I've hurt him and ...
A. 18 July 2007: Jealousy can ruin a relationship faster than anything. If he has never given you any real reason not to trust him then you need to work on your poor self-esteem because that is usually where the jealousy stems from. A jealous person is very tiresome ... (read in full...)
How do you make a man feel guilty when he gets in an aggresive/attackig mood?
Q. Is it true that some women are good at making the man feel guilty when they get in to aggressive / attacking mood, even when it is for the right reasons? What should be done to deal with them? ...
A. 18 July 2007: By "them" do mean the agressive male or the woman laying on the guilt? Not clear on what exactly you are asking.... (read in full...)
How can I sleep with my boyfriend who has HIV, but not get it myself?
Q. How do you catch HIV/AIDS? I kissed my boyfriend (who's just been dignosed with HIV) a couple of days back. Have i got the STD? Please reply, i'm really worried. Also i'm thinking of having sex with him. What would be the best contraception to use ...
A. 18 July 2007: Talk to your doctor, he/she can give you the most accurate information. ... (read in full...)
My wife is cheating on me and wants a divorce
Q. Hi, I found out 6 days ago that my wife is having an affair. I have known in my heart things have not been right for quite a while and understand that this has been going on behind my back for 2 or 3 months. I am having a very tough time deali...
A. 18 July 2007: You need to consult with a lawyer and he will walk you through everything, that's why they earn the big bucks. She sounds like a real witch, you'll be just fine. Act like a class act, your children and lost friends will notice, trust me.... (read in full...)
Can sperm die in chlorine water?
Q. Can sperm die in chlorine water?...
A. 18 July 2007: Of course sperm die in chlorinated water but like Stina said that doesn't make having sex in a pool safe sex. Your partner won't have chlorine up her vagina so those little buggers will be able to swim safely to the egg and bingo, baby! Now if you ... (read in full...)
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