Love triangle and height issues
Q. MOD NOTE: This young lady has post three questions at the same time so I have linked them so she can get all her answers in one place. 1. there is this guy.... (no hang on keep reading please)... i really like him awfully i think about him all the ...
A. 12 May 2009: My hat's off to the moderator of this question(s)!... (read in full...)
Nervous about meeting up with my online guy in real life
Q. Hi I met a man online we've been talking for a while now we r both married so we just basicaly want the same thing friendship someone to talk to. I trust him we've talked on phone lots and its neet because we worked at same place years ago just ...
A. 12 May 2009: Is your husband okay with your new friend? Is his wife okay about you being his friend?... (read in full...)
"What should red do...?"
Q. What would you do if you have two friends one is named blue and the other is named green blue had a boyfriend who she broke up with because she couldnt take the fact that he has another baby with another girl. green is with blue's ex boyfri...
A. 11 May 2009: Red should stay out of the drama and just be friends with her fellow colors, If Red becomes involved things could end up looking like a Jackson Pollock picture.... (read in full...)
Can someone please explain the process of natural childbirth in detail
Q. hey! can someone please explain the process of natural childbirth in detail. starting from contractions right down to bieng stitched down there.thanx...
A. 8 May 2009: Ha Phil! Also I remember very fondly my husband saying to the doctor "Don't skimp on the stitches, Doc, and keep 'em tight."... (read in full...)
Can someone please explain the process of natural childbirth in detail
Q. hey! can someone please explain the process of natural childbirth in detail. starting from contractions right down to bieng stitched down there.thanx...
A. 7 May 2009: Here's what I remember from the three times I had natural childbirth.
Hum.....ouch....owww....yikes......I changed my mind GIVE ME AN EPIDURAL....drugs now....Get that thing outta me.....
That pretty well sums it up.... (read in full...)
I want another child but he says he is too old
Q. I am about to get married again to a chap who already has children. I am in my early 40's and really want another child before it is too late. My fiance says his days of young children are over and that I must choose between him and being with a man ...
A. 7 May 2009: This is a deal buster issue. You have no choice but to move on, your resentment will only grow.... (read in full...)
We passed 100,000 questions published on DearCupid
Q. Today is another milestone in DearCupid history: Over 100,000 questions (100,020 as I write this) have been published! Wow. Thanks to the aunts, the moderators and everyone who shares their problem. As always any ideas on how to improve the s...
A. 6 May 2009: Great news and a great job Andrew! And I kind of like an occasional troll, sometimes they are very entertaining.... (read in full...)
Married 10 years but still not having normal sex
Q. i have been married for 10 years and have not been able to have regular sex like a normal person. we have not been able to penetrate. how can i get rid of the fear of pain?...
A. 6 May 2009: Sounds like you have an industrial strength hymen, your doctor can take care of this for you, it is not a common problem but I actually know someone who had to have hers removed by this minor surgery so it can't be all that rare.... (read in full...)
Love my husband but feel the temptation to cheat on him with a co worker, what should I do?
Q. Help, I am married and I think my co-worker and I are falling for each other. I started a new job in a new country about 5 months ago. It was the first job I had in a long time where I've really enjoyed my colleagues and the work I've been doing,...
A. 5 May 2009: If you don't get caught what's the harm????? Lady you need a reality check. You may be feeling so alive right now but when, and it will happen, you get caught out you will wish you were dead. Imagine the look on your husband's face when he finds out ... (read in full...)
Pregnant...but I don't know who the father is!
Q. I am in such a dilemma. Three months ago, I was at my boyfriend's house and he had to leave suddenly after a very secretive phone call he made to someone. My suspicion is that he was calling another girl, whom I know to be my ex-best friend. I think ...
A. 5 May 2009: If you are positive you are pregnant then you have no other choice but to tell your parents. Today not tomorrow. You are a minor so you will need them to help you with your medical care. They also can advise you on what to do with the prospective ... (read in full...)
I'f I'm pregnant he could get into trouble with the law... Help!
Q. I'm 16 years old. well ive found myself kind of being a little bit slutty i guess you could say. i go out and party and just try to have fun. well i met this guy. Hes 18. And going into the Army. I dont believe age matters. But in the laws eyes ...
A. 5 May 2009: Write back once you know for sure whether you are pregnant or not, don't go borrowing trouble.... (read in full...)
My cheating ex has said all these things and now I'm back to square one!
Q. ok well my ex has came back into my life after 4 years apart. He cheated on me twice with the same girl, now they have a 2 year old son. BUt i met him 2 weeks ago while i was out at a local bar. He couldnt take his eyes off me the whole night and ...
A. 5 May 2009: Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Don't go down this road again, you know what's at the end of it. Give your self some time, stay busy, and when you finally do meet your true love you will look back at this near miss and will be ... (read in full...)
My best friend said these awful things and now hates me. Should I forgive him?
Q. Okay. I don't know what to do. My "best friend" and i hate each other and it wasnt my fault! Last year my auntie died and i was really cut up about it as we were really close and it was a shock. so when i needed my friends around my so cal...
A. 5 May 2009: Friends come and go throughout a person's life, I'd let this one go if I were you.... (read in full...)
Feeding my baby the correct foods...
Q. My baby is 7 months old in 5 days time and i am unsure what food she is able to have? She has baby porridge in the morning, then in the afternoon i give her hipp organic baby food jar and a fromage frais yogurt, is this suitable? as she seems to...
A. 5 May 2009: I was told to start with cereal, then green vegetables then yellow vegetables, then various meats and sprinkle some fruit in between. Babies will love the fruit and not eat the vegetables so make sure you get those in them first. Also most babies ... (read in full...)
Molested by my father: How do I explain to my mother that I can't let them have my kids at weekends?
Q. Ever since I was 4 years old I remember being molested by my father. Even he will admit that he would touch me and get turned on since I was a baby. When I turned 12 he started having sex with me. I didnt tell anyone because I believe in aweird ...
A. 5 May 2009: I'll bet your Mom already has an inkling that your Dad likes little girls, this may not come as a total surprise. But even if, after living with him so many years, she hasn't a clue, she needs to know why exactly you will not be leaving your kids ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be known as the homewrecker
Q. 6 months ago I met this great guy through friends and we started hanging out. He is a newly wed and just moved into my community for work. One thing lead to another and I find myself in love with him. We both tried to deny our feelings for each ...
A. 4 May 2009: Cut him off. If he truly does love you he will end his marriage. Then once the ink on the divorce papers has dried, you can start dating again, you may or may not find out if he is the one for you. But if he can cheat on a new bride, I'd certainly ... (read in full...)
He's still checking his online profile
Q. I have been dating a guy for 6 weeks and he is still checking his online dating profile. I even caught him looking online several days ago but didn't say anything. We have not had an exclusive conversation and so far he spends a lot of time with me, ...
A. 4 May 2009: Are you having sex with the guy?... (read in full...)
Is he being my friend or playing mind games with me?
Q. A guy I work with is married and we are friends. I gave him the cold shoulder to adjust my self after an hurtful 'emotional affair', we did nothing wrong as he would stress to me. during a abreif make up session he said we are cut from the same ...
A. 4 May 2009: I AM sharing something, my wisdom. This guy is definitely not looking to be a mere friend, all the signs are there. I also bring up the wife because if you do indulge yourself and do something you will regret with this guy, SHE is the innocent ... (read in full...)
He wants anal without a condom
Q. Me and my boyfriend have recently had anal sex for the first time(with condom). It was great, i felt no pain at all and he enjoyed it alot. We are gonna do it again this weekend, but he wants to do it without a condom and i dont want to. What can i ...
A. 1 May 2009: Can't catch anything from anal sex? Tell that to Rock Hudson.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks it would be a turn on to watch me having sex with our dog!
Q. Hi everyone, I am 26 and have been with my current bf for almost 3 years. We have a great relationship, he is perfect in many ways. We get along great and have a great sex life. We are both very open at trying new things sexually and I will admit ...
A. 1 May 2009: What kind of dog do you have? I hope it's not a toy poodle...... (read in full...)
I don't know how to break my engagement to my parents!
Q. I am 25 and I have been dating a 42 year old man for almost 1 year. I live in a different state then my family and none of them have met him yet. He is the sweetest guy I have ever dated, he is respectful, caring and I love him. He asked me to marry ...
A. 1 May 2009: Definitely bring him along so they can meet him and see how well he treats you and how much you two love each other. They may be disturbed about the age difference but perhaps they can get passed that once they see how wonderful he is. Let us know ... (read in full...)
This is not some two-bit affair.....but I'm wondering if he actually loves me?
Q. Some advice please,I am in a relationship with a man who is married and I have been on and off for 30yrs,and i know a lot of you out there are going to be critical of me.but maybe some of you will understand.This man has been married for over 40yrs ...
A. 30 April 2009: Your update came after I posted. So it hasn't been a six-bit affair continuously for 30 years. What were you doing those 21 years? I guess it really doesn't make any difference, you still have allowed yourself to be the bit on the side for 9 long ... (read in full...)
Is he just using me to get back at his ex?
Q. My friend didn't talk to me for about a year, when he was having trouble with his relationship he started talking to me again. then he broke up with his girlfriend, 2 weeks later we slept together, and have been ever since, but not in a relationship ...
A. 30 April 2009: I'm not sure whether it's to get back at his ex, but it sure sounds like he is using you to me. Hold off on the sex and see if he still sticks around.... (read in full...)
This is not some two-bit affair.....but I'm wondering if he actually loves me?
Q. Some advice please,I am in a relationship with a man who is married and I have been on and off for 30yrs,and i know a lot of you out there are going to be critical of me.but maybe some of you will understand.This man has been married for over 40yrs ...
A. 30 April 2009: You are right this isn't some two-bit affairs, since it has dragged on for thirty years it's more like a six-bit affair. Whatever you don't think about all the things you have sacrificed and miss out on by being his play thing. Oh and no, he doesn't ... (read in full...)
Thinking of having a three-some!
Q. me and my boyfriend are thinking of having a three-some. he of course is the 1 with the idea and im half there for it. i do want to experience it but of course there are reasons that put me off it a bit. i know we need to set boundaries, but does...
A. 30 April 2009: People survive threesomes but relationships rarely do.... (read in full...)
Looking for the best female gyneacologist!
Q. I would like to see a female gyneancologist. but i dont where can i get one. im living in johannesburg,gauteng. i found one at lenmed clinic at lenesia but i dont know if shes the best!...
A. 30 April 2009: Kind of a long commute from Johannesburg to Garden City...... (read in full...)
Is he being my friend or playing mind games with me?
Q. A guy I work with is married and we are friends. I gave him the cold shoulder to adjust my self after an hurtful 'emotional affair', we did nothing wrong as he would stress to me. during a abreif make up session he said we are cut from the same ...
A. 30 April 2009: Knock off this nonsense or you will truly regret it. Thinking of his poor wife should give you the incentive. He is not trying hard to be your friend, he's trying hard to get into your pants. Wise up chickie.... (read in full...)
Self conscious about sex!
Q. i am 16 and still virgin. i've had offers from a few guys but never taken them. i am anxious about my first time as i am self consious about my stomach and how i will preform. what should i do????? x...
A. 30 April 2009: What's wrong with your stomach?... (read in full...)
How do I show this married man I'm over the affair?
Q. I mistakenly had an affair with a colleague that lasted half a year. We became extremely close but I ended things with him because I wanted more and knew it would be an emotional dead end and the whole act was beating me up inside. Now this man a...
A. 30 April 2009: I find it so facinating that the OW's who write in are always trying to get us to focus on their pain, rarely do they mention the betrayed wife. You are not the innocent party in this scenario. By allowing yourself to become involved with a married ... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 29 April 2009: "Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it." Santayana (the man not the group hee hee) History is what we older aunts have and it's very hard not to try and stuff it down these young kids' throats because we truly HAVE BEEN THERE. ... (read in full...)
Keeping my boy a secret?
Q. hi my name is hotta to everyone i know . my mom tells me who i can date and who i can not date but my mom does not know i'm dating someone she does not like we have been best friends for so long. and i love this guy name crazy and me and crazy have ...
A. 29 April 2009: If the guy goes by the name Crazy, maybe you'd best listen to mom on this one.... (read in full...)
How do I show this married man I'm over the affair?
Q. I mistakenly had an affair with a colleague that lasted half a year. We became extremely close but I ended things with him because I wanted more and knew it would be an emotional dead end and the whole act was beating me up inside. Now this man a...
A. 29 April 2009: Hear, hear! Apparently she will keep posting this until she gets it just right.... (read in full...)
Do guys just want us girls for sex?
Q. is it true that when a guy is with a girl it is mostly for sex? most of my guy friends say they love a girl but then say i wanna do her tonight....
A. 29 April 2009: You forgot wash the dog and take out the garbage...... (read in full...)
I don't want my fiance to have a stripper!
Q. I'm engaged to my partner (we have been together several years), and he said the only reason he won't be having a stripper on his stag night is because i'm really paranoid (I have a mental illness). So, I said that I thought he was doing it to ...
A. 29 April 2009: I guess your only solution to this stripper problem is to let your fiance know how you feel about it, and since he makes all the decisions in this relationship, you can only HOPE that he will decide to respect your wishes on the matter. I just hope ... (read in full...)
Does she want me to be a lesbian?
Q. hi, ive just moved in with my girlfreind into a flat, and all my clothes were in the suitcases as we just got there and i went to the shop and got talking to one of my mates and when i got back she was staring in my suitcase and there was thongs in ...
A. 28 April 2009: What do you mean she "makes" you wear her clothes and puts makeup on you? You must like it.... (read in full...)
LDR girlfriend doesn't know if she can move for me?
Q. Hey guys... Well I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for 6 months - in which time we have seen each other for 10 weeks and she is due to move over here in 4 weeks. She was my best mate for 3 years before this. My proble...
A. 28 April 2009: What country is she from (and you)? Are we talking about a totally different culture than the USA?... (read in full...)
Really weird love quadrangle...??
Q. I'm in a really weird love quadrangle... I really, really like this guy who is one of my best friends; we've known each other for about a year, and we get on really well. But he's gay. It's common knowledge that he has a major crush on another...
A. 28 April 2009: Write a book?... (read in full...)
What does "Friends with Benefits" mean?
Q. Hello, i was talking to my ex-boyfriend, and he said we can be friends. im fine with that.He also said we could be friends with benifits. What did he mean? thank you....
A. 28 April 2009: It's a new term for a very, very, old senario. Don't sucker for it.... (read in full...)
Anyone have any good excuses?
Q. Hey u guys I actually need help with some excuses it's not for anything bad so don't judge me yet but this summer my parents will be going camping and there will be times that I can't go cuz of work so I figured that I could have my girlfriend over ...
A. 28 April 2009: How smart are her parents? She could try the "I was abducted by aliens" story. ... (read in full...)
Starting to hate my sister!
Q. Hi aunts and uncles, heres the thing i know it's harsh but i am really starting to hate my sister. she has become so spiteful! this isn't just your typical sisterly thing oh no! way deeper than that. she basically has an eating problem bu...
A. 28 April 2009: You can pick your friends but you can't pick your family. I'd just avoid her as much as you can. Nobody should have to be around anybody that makes them feel bad, sister or no sister. ... (read in full...)
I have the worst luck with men
Q. I have the worst luck with men. All my relationships that mattered has been when I don't look and all of a sudden it comes. I get swept off my feet, fall head over heals for the man, never expecting anything from it all in the beginning. It's hard ...
A. 24 April 2009: You don't have bad luck, you make bad DECISIONS. Once you know a guy is married, you should head in the opposite direction, fast, quick, and in a hurry. No exceptions. Now do what you know you have to do with the current married man.... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 22 April 2009: You know what really is annoying, 13 year olds engaging in sexual activities then coming on here and asking if they can get pregnant from sperm in their mouths...now that's annoying!... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 20 April 2009: Are you the poster who thought it would be fun to have a baby so you could dress it up and show it off to your friends?... (read in full...)
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