We've tried everything we can think of, but I just can't get pregnant!
Q. hi guys , i have been married for 2 years and trying to concieve for 1 year and half but no luck . we have tried different positions . but i want to know whats the best position for getting pregnant ? and can i still get pregnant if i'm on top or...
A. 2 July 2009: I bet you get knocked up on vacation...anyone want a piece of the action? Not that action..or piece..oh hell you know what I mean....... (read in full...)
Her violence is escalating -- I'm afraid for her if I leave
Q. Hello all, I've been dating a girl for about 18 months now and need some advice. She is a really amazing person and I love her very much but recently things with her have gone out of control. She is a very emotional person and is prone to...
A. 22 June 2009: Old Guy makes a very valid point, you will eventually have to restrain her, not only to protect yourself but perhaps even to protect her from herself. The cops get called and you go to jail. You need to document and get the hell out because this ... (read in full...)
What is the difference between a committment phobic or someone afraid to be hurt?
Q. Can someone please tell me the difference between a true commitment phobic man and one that is just a bit emotional and afraid of being hurt in a relationship since he once was. Help don't want to waste anymore time....
A. 22 June 2009: Is this your own assessment or did he say himself he was afraid of commitment?... (read in full...)
Does "just good friends" always mean just that for a woman?
Q. Okay – I have been out of the dating thing for at least 2 years and was a bit rusty but started seeing a girl (she is 39 and I am 42) recently. We had an instant amazing connection - and still do! First four or five dates were very casual and we had ...
A. 22 June 2009: Give her some time if you think she's worth it. Just relax and take it easy. If she starts to warm up once the pressure is off, then great. However, if after a reasonable period of time (in my opinion a few months), nothing appears to change in her ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling jealous and insecure, he's cheated before
Q. My partner does a course involving a lot of women and very few male collegues (nursing) he goes twice a week, and they have all started going out to dinner together (well a group of 5 or 6 of them). I have started feeling a bit of green eyed ...
A. 22 June 2009: Yep, you need to be able to meet him for dinner as well if you can't afford it then NOBODY goes out for dinner. Fair is fair.... (read in full...)
I've devastated my fiance by leaving him, it's hurting me too
Q. Ok I am in some need of help here, and any advice is greatly appreciated.. I posted on here recently about how I had cancelled my wedding to my fiance who I have been with for 3 years and that I was considering leaving him because I feel we just wan...
A. 22 June 2009: You gave it your best shot but it just wasn't the right fit. He'll get over it and you can help him by not keeping in contact with him. Remember..like a bandaid. You shouldn't allow yourself to be confused, focus on your future.... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 22 June 2009: I think BOTH of your posts were kind of testy. Some people are just not suited to dealing with the general public. Especially those who take personal offense easily. Your "yeah, yeah" phrase is rather impolite don't you think? If you do your job as ... (read in full...)
I've never had an issue with my body until my boyfriend started making comments about my weight!
Q. I'm 5ft8 and a size 12-14 which ive always thought is pretty normal. My bodies in proportion and ive never really had an issue with it. Until i got with my boyfriend and now am sexually active, i was before but only little flings, ive never been ...
A. 22 June 2009: I'm 5'8". I can wear a 10, a 12, and a 14 in clothing depending on the item. Women's clothing is hardly standardized. Your boyfirend is ignorant. Maybe he's into boys because that what you would look like at a size 8. Ask him if he's gay.... (read in full...)
Why can I have great sex in the affair but not my marriage?
Q. I started an affair 8 months ago with a woman not to much younger than me. From the beginning our sex has been the best I have ever experienced. I actually am able to have a great erection with her and actually every time we make love I last quite ...
A. 22 June 2009: That's just it, you aren't having "proper" sex with the homewrecker. Man up and address the things you need to improve in your marriage or get out of it. Karma is a high-riding bitch and your name is on her list.... (read in full...)
What becomes of the broken hearted?
Q. It all started in february of this year. My husband of nearly 2 years (we'd been together almost 8) told me he didn't love me anymore and that we should get divorced. This came out of left field. He later said he only got married because we had ...
A. 20 June 2009: How old is your husband? If he's in your age bracket it can hardly be classed as a mid-life crisis. Sounds like he just doesn't like the responsibilities of being a husband and father. Maybe being laid off has messed with his mind. I don't think you ... (read in full...)
I work at night, need my sleep, husband loud while I'm trying to sleep, what do I do?
Q. I have to work really at night so I sleep during the day. Well my husband (of 6 months) has horrible habit of being very loud and getting drunk with his annoying friends at our house. When I tell him to keep it down (nicely), he tells me I'm being a ...
A. 19 June 2009: When does your husband work?... (read in full...)
Crazy about my kid's teacher!
Q. I am in my mid thirties, I have a young child who goes to school, and am absolutely crazy about the teacher there. I am bi married, she is also married and believe she has children. I try so hard to get her out of my head that its impossible. ...
A. 19 June 2009: You're married, she's married...nuff said.... (read in full...)
Emotions...
Q. When I laugh or smile it's because most girls I talk with laugh or smile too, what is the reason for that? Certain times when a funny statement is being made unless I laugh or smile before they do same. Certain times they wouldn't want to but once...
A. 19 June 2009: It's called mirroring. People will mirror the expressions and behavior of the person they are looking at. You smile, they smile. Laughter is very contagious.... (read in full...)
He said he didn't fancy me as much as her! Is this true?
Q. Hi I have a sex question. I had a messy get together with my boyfriend and his ex was a little upset and tried to stir some trouble. She told me one night how he had had this massive premature ejaculation problem previously (when he was with her), I ...
A. 18 June 2009: His ex is feeding you a bunch of baloney, ignore her. It sounds like your sex life is just fine to me.... (read in full...)
We put a "floor show" on at her wedding.. Is she right to be mad at us?
Q. My sister is mad at me because I put a floor show with my "underdressed" girlfriend (her dress was quite revealing) at her wedding. Me and my girlfriend had way too much to drink and we were all over each other on the dance floor. My sister and her ...
A. 18 June 2009: No. You acted like an no class idiots. I'd be mad too. She'll cool off sooner or later but you owe her a huge apology for spoiling HER big day. And both you and the girlfriend should take it easy on the sauce, it brings the worst out of both of you.... (read in full...)
Help! Can you die from leaving a tampon in to long?
Q. I have a big problem and I am SO scared. I put a tampon in for my FIRST time yeasterday to go swimming. I went swimming for 2-3 hours. When I got back inside my house I went to my batherroom and I took out the tampon. I didn't bleed much since ...
A. 18 June 2009: I never had a tampon break apart (used them for 44 years) so I really don't think that's the case here. But to ease your fears, tell your Mom and she can decide whether you should be checked out by a doctor. Toxic shock is very rare but it does ... (read in full...)
He was trying to keep us a secret, people found out and now he won't contact me!
Q. Please help me... I have been seeing a guy I have known for years for the past 3 months. He has been out of his marriage for just under a year and they have 2 children. His ex cheated on him on numerous occasions and the love has gone. He asked me...
A. 18 June 2009: Then I guess the reason he's acting so cagey is because he wants to keep all his options open, he wants to appear unattached. I think maybe you are heading for heartbreak if you try to pursue this guy. I'd pack those bags if I were you and enjoy ... (read in full...)
Is it like, love or lust?
Q. Is it like, love, or lust? 1. I see this guy and am instantly attracted to him. I fantacize about him kissing me, etc. 2. I get to kinow this guy and realize that we have a lot in common.. even really random things, like favorite ice cream ...
A. 18 June 2009: You just have a schoolgirl's crush not a relationship. Most people get them at your age. It will pass eventually.... (read in full...)
He cheated on me so I burned all of his things!
Q. Lets cut to the chase, shall we? my boyfriend and I were dating for a good year and three months. I am sixteen and he is eighteen. I thought we were in love, he bought me a promise ring for our one year. i honestly thought i would spend th...
A. 18 June 2009: The court may fine you but boy howdy, I think it was worth every cent!... (read in full...)
A woman came to my door telling me she was through seeing him, and he claims he doesn't even know her?
Q. Boy Friend trouble....Need help figuring it all out...Is he cheating? OK I have posted before asking questions and I have to add more details. I am currently 28 years with a 9 year old little girl and my boy friend is 48. He has kids himself ...
A. 18 June 2009: What's the reason he gives you for not divorcing his wife?... (read in full...)
I think he is just using me!
Q. ive been sleeping with this lad for ages now n he always slags me off to his friends but tells me he dosnt meen it n thats what they wanna hear my friends say hes just playing me but hes gorguss n i cant help but go back for more i realy like him ...
A. 18 June 2009: Sounds like he is using you to me. Knock off the sex and see if he still comes sniffing around. You'll get your answer.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was a bit rough with me and now I'm in pain!
Q. My boyfriend was kinda rough last night when he was fingering me and I've been extremely sore ever since. I think his nails might have scatched me, is there any way to ease the pain? It's honestly so bad Im avoiding even using the washroom as long ...
A. 18 June 2009: You need to sit in a nice warm bath for awhile, that should help ease the pain. Take some ibuprofen.... (read in full...)
He was trying to keep us a secret, people found out and now he won't contact me!
Q. Please help me... I have been seeing a guy I have known for years for the past 3 months. He has been out of his marriage for just under a year and they have 2 children. His ex cheated on him on numerous occasions and the love has gone. He asked me...
A. 18 June 2009: Where does he live? Does he still live with his wife and kids?... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wondering if she'll ever care about her appearance?
Q. This autumn will be 6 years married, 7 years in the same relationship and i will be 26. My girl is really good to me, but she is really overweight. I figured eventually she could lose weight, but there's never been any motivation. I've tried ...
A. 18 June 2009: Would you be better off with her or without her? You decide. I don't think you are being a jerk really but it was stupid of you to get married if you were not totally gung ho at the idea. You just have to do some hard thinking and decide what course ... (read in full...)
We've tried everything we can think of, but I just can't get pregnant!
Q. hi guys , i have been married for 2 years and trying to concieve for 1 year and half but no luck . we have tried different positions . but i want to know whats the best position for getting pregnant ? and can i still get pregnant if i'm on top or...
A. 17 June 2009: After sex don't get up right away, elevate your legs and stay there for a few minutes. Also have BOTH of you been checked out by a physician? Sometimes a guy can have a vein that heats his scrotum just a tad too much and it kills the sperm. Once ... (read in full...)
Do I need to be worried about my husband visiting our neighbour?
Q. i've been crying all day. i really don't know what to do. let me explain. my hubbie and i went to a neighbor's party this weekend. there were about a dozen people there including my good friend vicky and her husband carl. it was good at first ...
A. 17 June 2009: Good call babymama.... (read in full...)
How can I talk sexy back to him?
Q. my guy is into sex and anal, and he says the next time we meet up he wants me to try me fingering him and he wants me to try to use a dildo on him. im ok with that but he does the sex and talks about it. i dont know how to respond and sound sexy ...
A. 17 June 2009: If you are feeling sexy then the chatter becomes more sexy, however if you are forcing yourself you end up sounding more like you are suffering from Tourette's Syndrome.... (read in full...)
24 year old teacher touches me and wants to hang out. I love him!
Q. I am in love with my 24 year old teacher. I am 15 so there is only 9 years apart, and if i wasnt a student it wouldnt be a big deal. This is his first year teaching at the high school and he is a amazing man. When he isnt teaching, he is just ...
A. 17 June 2009: You have no choice BUT to wait, if you do anything with this guy he'll end up in prison so you won't be seeing him anyway. The guy has to have a screw loose somewhere if he is carrying on like this with a student. I also think his teaching career ... (read in full...)
My ex acts like he really likes me but says only as friend!
Q. Ok I feel so confused, rejected and embarrased right now I don't know what to do. Me and my ex went out about 3 years ago but he ended it suddenly and decided to go travelling it was awkward at first but we stayed in touch and became close friends ...
A. 17 June 2009: I don't think you've ruined your friendship but I'm afraid you will have to accept that that is all it is. Some people are so close to being the perfect person for you but just no cigar. That's probably how he feels about you. If it won't be too ... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 17 June 2009: I've worked as a cashier before and I know all about rude customers. However I also have been on the other side of the counter and met very rude cashiers. It's very frustrating to get finally done with your shopping and an item has been entered into ... (read in full...)
She consumes every aspect of my life!
Q. i think im in love,i told the girl that ive fancied for over a year how i felt about her, we've known each other for a while, i enjoy being around her, listening to her, talking to her, just being with her makes me happy. i get that whole feeling of ...
A. 16 June 2009: Aww Buddy, you brought tears to my eyes. You are suffering I know. Unrequited love is a bitch. All I can tell you is that time is your best friend. Sooner or later the pain will ease up a bit and each day will be easier. Keep your chin up, what you ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to get itchy "down there'' after shaving?
Q. Ok this isn't really a problem but I just wanted some advice from the gals out there. Is it normal to get really itchy after shaving 'down there' or is it just me? In which case should I use a hair removal cream instead? I could really do with some ...
A. 16 June 2009: yea!!!It just wouldn't be right if we didn't have a crotch hair question currently active on this site!... (read in full...)
I'm 14, What sex positions can I try out?
Q. what other sex positions can i try out any suggestions???...
A. 16 June 2009: I've got a great one for you:
1. place a nickel between your knees and hold firmly
2. hold a text book (any subject will do) sit still and read it.
It's really exhilarating, trust me.... (read in full...)
I go to swingers' parties alone and it can mess up my marriage if it's found out!
Q. Although I love my husband dearly and he is the best father to our two children, he doesn't satisfy me sexually. My biggest fantasy was to have sex with many different men. Finally I brought up the idea of bringing in a partner. I even said he ...
A. 16 June 2009: "Any advice on a long-term strategy would be helpful," ha,ha good luck with that. Maybe if you bring this up at the next PTA meeting you might get some good strategy ideas. Moms can be so resourceful. What a troll...... (read in full...)
After saying he wanted to marry me, he then changed his mind and has broken up with me
Q. I had been going out with my boyfriend for over two years (he is 27 and I am 22). He is the love of my life. We had our ups and downs through the years, but were always there for each other. We started talking about the future gradually and he...
A. 16 June 2009: First off I just have to say that OCD is NOT genetic, in fact some studies have indicated that there is a link to the contraction of strep throat at a young age especially in males. He needs to do more research. As far as space goes, sounds like he ... (read in full...)
Depressed from the bombshell my wife dropped. She wasn't a virgin.
Q. I recently got married and on our wedding night my wife dropped a bombshell by saying shez not a vrigin. she said she had sex while she was 9 years old and the guy was 20 years old. She didn't have any boyfriend or any sort of relationship since ...
A. 15 June 2009: She didn't have sex when she was 9, she was raped when she was 9. Sounds like your wife trusts you and loves you very much or she could have kept this horrible incident in her past. Show her some compassion for crying out loud. Man up Buddy.
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I'm 13, Should I wait to have a child with my 17 year old boyfriend?
Q. my boyfriend and i want to have a baby. we are both in our teens (im 13 he is 17) and unsure if we should wait??? please help...
A. 15 June 2009: yikes... (read in full...)
My friend stole my boyfriend and he kissed me... I have forgiven, how do I forget?
Q. okay so i had met this girl jessie, we became close friends..i strted hanginn out with her and her friends.... in the group there was this guy at i was attrated to him.i was shy and dint really talk to him. the summer came me and him started ...
A. 15 June 2009: My best advice is for you to stay in school...as long as you can....please.... (read in full...)
I'm 13, Should I wait to have a child with my 17 year old boyfriend?
Q. my boyfriend and i want to have a baby. we are both in our teens (im 13 he is 17) and unsure if we should wait??? please help...
A. 15 June 2009: Of course you should wait...duh. If you don't believe me ask your parents.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a threesome. I want to do this for him, but how do you organize something like this?
Q. Hi My bf and I have been together 18months and are happy he is older then me (he is 31 and im 24) and for this reason and others he seems to be the more outspoken one and I am the one who is lead I kinda prefere to just blend in whereas he likes...
A. 15 June 2009: Hummm I wonder if she's had her little tea party yet????... (read in full...)
Can't stand my small breasts ...
Q. Hi I need your help, I'm a young female of 20, and for the past 4 or 5 years I have had an issue with my breasts. To be honest I can’t stand them -- they are too small and I don’t feel womanly! It’s been getting to me even more in the past cou...
A. 15 June 2009: If you do go for augmentation you may just miss out on one of the most profound moments in womanhood. Breastfeeding you newborn is such a huge rush and those moments last a lifetime, trust me. Breast sizes change over a lifetime, it's best to start ... (read in full...)
Indecent proposal--should I continue the affair?
Q. Ok, here I go. A bit long, but I want you to get the whole picture. I am a successful business woman married to a wonderful man and have 3 beautiful boys. If you "knew" me you could never tell I have a deep dark secret. I have had an affair wi...
A. 15 June 2009: We get posts very similar to yours all the time. One thing I've learned on this site over the years is that people like you are not really looking for help at all, you either are just looking for someone to justify your stupid behavior or you just ... (read in full...)
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