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Should I talk to my friend's boyfriend to see if he feels the same way?
Q. At the beginning of my sophomore year of high school I met my best friend. I've never been closer with anyone in my life, she knows everything there is to know about me. She trusts me more than anyone, and I trust her. Soon after we became friends ...
A. 12 July 2011: She's your best friend. Unless your friendship with her isn't important, please don't do this to her. She's been a good friend to you so put yourself in her shoes and see how you feel. Find someone that isn't taken.... (read in full...)
I keep on giving but get nothing from her, not even a gift on my birthday!
Q. i'm 19 year boy and i'm in realtionship with a 18 year girl,we are having a relation from past 7 months...its been a great time with her....i love her a lot....lot means ..how much i love myself i love her... before few days my friends and i ...
A. 12 July 2011: Dump her. She's just taking advantage of you. She's only thinking about herself. Why be with someone like that? You deserve better. Dump her and find a respectful girl.... (read in full...)
Going out with a great guy, but I have liked this other guy for 2 years! What should I do?
Q. Okay well i like this guy ive known for a bit over 2 years and he knew i liked him for a while. he thinks i got over him and i went to the easter show with him his friend and my best friend we had such a great time, he told my bestfriend he had ...
A. 12 July 2011: If the guy is going to take two years to even notice you then he's not worth it. Stay with the guy you're with now and don't give him up for someone who takes two years to acknowledge your feelings.... (read in full...)
Should I start faking orgasms?
Q. I just split up with my boyfriend of two years, and I'm excited to get into the world of promiscuous sex. (That sounds terrible, but I never really experienced that world, I just jumped straight into a serious relationship.) But, I've only ever had ...
A. 12 July 2011: Don't fake orgasms. It's meaningless. If the guy can't please you, then he just can't please you.... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my boyfriend?
Q. Should I break up with my boyfriend? We've had a rocky relationship for such a long time. In the beginning everything was great, it was awesome and perfect. But then he found out about my past (he asked me and learned that in the past - before I ...
A. 12 July 2011: You shouldn't be with someone like this. He's too controlling and insecure. The FWB is over and you're with him now; he needs to understand. And he can't expect you to limit your friends because he doesn't like them. We're all entitled to different ... (read in full...)
Stuck in no-man's land between together and broken up
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years. It has not been a smooth ride - I cheated on him 6 months into the relationship but he decided he wanted to stay together and work through it. We currently live together, but for a long time now ...
A. 12 July 2011: I think you should go ahead and end it. You have little feelings for him and both of you are going to get nowhere when it comes to love if you two stay together. You both deserve someone who you really love and really loves you. Be with someone who ... (read in full...)
Confusing situation! He no longer expresses himself to me!
Q. This situation is confusing to me. I have been messing around with this guy for about 7 months, but I knew him the year before. It started because he was heartbroken by his ex girlfriend and I had been there to comfort him and he admitted that he ...
A. 12 July 2011: Ok dump this loser. He's possessive, controlling, a cheater and he thinks he can treat you any way he wants. What guy tells their girlfriend that they no longer have ownership of their womanhood? That's perverted and creepy and we're always entitled ... (read in full...)
Should I follow my heart and stay with him, or did I make a mistake by choosing him over my career?
Q. Ok, so at the moment I'm really freaking out. I have just left my job in Germany to move home to Ireland. I didn't want to go to Ireland, given the job situation, but my boyfriend, who's French by the way, is going to do a masters here and I said ...
A. 12 July 2011: I think you should give your boyfriend an ultimatum. He either stops smoking pot and spends more time with you or you leave. I know it sounds like you would be controlling but you have needs. You didn't move back there for nothing and he needs to ... (read in full...)
Should I follow my heart and stay with him, or did I make a mistake by choosing him over my career?
Q. Ok, so at the moment I'm really freaking out. I have just left my job in Germany to move home to Ireland. I didn't want to go to Ireland, given the job situation, but my boyfriend, who's French by the way, is going to do a masters here and I said ...
A. 11 July 2011: It doesn't seem like he's taking your feelings into consideration. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. I would've waited until he finished his masters to move back. How important is your career to your relationship?... (read in full...)
My GF wants me to remove a tattoo from my chest which spells my late sister's name, because my ex had the same name, and my GF doesn't want to be reminded of my ex!
Q. My twin sister died a few years ago in a car accident. I was really affected by her death. She wasn't just my sister but my best friend. I got a tattoo of her name on my chest so that she'll always be next to my heart. I have been seeing a...
A. 11 July 2011: There is a reason your ex is your ex so she shouldn't be so insecure. And she should become an ex also because this is a ridiculous request. Your sister will always be your sister and this girl you're with will just be someone you've dated. Do you ... (read in full...)
Ex wants me to help her with repairs around her house, and is furious because I said I would charge her for it! Does that make me a jerk?
Q. I dated a girl for a while. In that time, I did a lot of things for her. One thing I did was help around her house. I am very handy and once worked for a plumber. I mowed the lawn and did repairs. We broke up two month ago. It was a bad breakup....
A. 11 July 2011: The relationship is over. She can't expect you to work for her for free just because you two once loved each other. That's ridiculous. Let her know that if she can't accept that she's not a free customer then she can find someone else.... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over my fiance's death? Will I ever find someone who I can love as much as I love my heart and soul? Will I even want to?
Q. My late fiance and I were together for three years; engaged for one. He died six months ago in a huge car accident that took three other lives as well... and I'm still having a hard time coping with the loss. I've received an insane amount of love ...
A. 11 July 2011: I'm very sorry for your loss. No one ever gets over the death of a loved one. They just learn to deal with it. You will find someone as great as your fiance was. You're mourning now, so I know you don't think that's possible. No one will be able to ... (read in full...)
I really have my heart set on a child but my fiance is not ready. What should I do?
Q. So I have a fiance that I love dearly...We live together now but we will be moving into our very first apartment on Friday:) the problem is,I really want to carry his child..he has me on birth control but I'm not really happy with it..I'm just doing ...
A. 11 July 2011: You need to give him some time. Just because you're getting married doesn't mean you should start a family right away. If you're not willing to wait then maybe you two shouldn't be getting married. You have years to create a family so don't push him ... (read in full...)
I left my alcoholic boyfriend 4 months ago, but it really hurts all the time to be without him. Please tell me I'll eventually be able to move on...
Q. It's been four months now since I walked away from my alcoholic boyfriend of two years. I have not contacted him once, nor have I been anywhere near where he might be. This space is well needed for me to get my head straight and not get back on the ...
A. 11 July 2011: You did the right thing and I'm glad you were smart enough to see that he wasn't going to change. You seem to be handling things pretty well. You will be able to move on, it's just going to take some time since you did love him. Just keep doing what ... (read in full...)
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