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I'm 24, never had a boyfriend. I don't want to be 30 and still a virgin!

Q.   I am 24 and I still haven't had a boyfriend. I went to an all girls school with a mixed sixth form that only had about 5 boys so there weren't really any options there. At univeristy I didn't meet anyone although a couple of my close mates from ...

A.   5 July 2012: Then contact me we can hit things off..im looking 4 a real relationship... (read in full...)

What do my cousin's actions mean?

Q.   hai,well i had a cousin she is about 18years and few months before , she always used to stay with me and spend time with me we used to laugh , we text each other she always hates other boys in front of me , but in some day when i touch her she ...

A.   24 June 2012: She likes you if you feel thesame ask her out as long as she is above legal age goodluck... (read in full...)

Is he telling the truth or cheating on me again?

Q.   I'm 22 year-old and my boyfriend is just a year older than me. We've been going steady with our relationship of one and a half year until a very strange issue cropped up a week before. My boyfriend has all of a sudden started behaving very ab...

A.   18 June 2012: A cheat wil always cheat,tell him that if he dont change his ways and come back to his old self that you wil walk away without looking back,do it and see how it will work,but if you feel he is cheatin (with a good evidence) break up with him b... (read in full...)

I'm unhappy with our sex life. What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I haven't got a good sex life, we've been together a year and a half and we've always had problems with sex, he's rarely managing to hold an erection, and lately it's getting worse, now it's like I have to choose between an ...

A.   17 June 2012: I have experience such thing earliar,and believe its can be very embarrasing especially for the guy.initially i thot it was erectile dysfunction,after many research,and consultation,luckily for me,my dad is a medical practitioner and mum a ... (read in full...)

Why is everything conditional in this marriage to her? Am I way too forgiving?

Q.   Firstly, a big thankyou to the agony aunts who helped me through some past difficult times :) I can bring some good news. I'm still married (I'll get to that in a bit) and my work situation has improved so much. I went through a rocky period of ...

A.   3 June 2012: Start behaving differently and distant from her,spend more time at work place,try not to share thesame bed with her and mayb try sleeping on the couche for some times i know its hard,but it is time you make your home your own,show her who is the ... (read in full...)

I'm very shy and worried that if my girlfriend breaks up with me I wont find anyone else! Help!

Q.   Hi,im 19yrs now.but i have this problem that worries me alot,many people say im handsome thats not the point,im a very shy type.this has impede my progress with dating girls,its very hard for me to stand a girl i like due to this reason. Yes i have ...

A.   1 June 2012: Tnx very much i had startd working on that,and i'm improving gradually,gaining self confidence is great,im glad im having a taste of that now.i just want to enjoy this friendship while it last and im doing it now tnx alot... (read in full...)

My b/f can't make me orgasm but I don't want to feel like I have to educate him

Q.   I have no problem making myself climax when I masturbate and i've had plenty of orgasms thru oral sex with previous bfs but, for some reason, my current bf just can't make me cum. It's frustating although i don't make it a big deal as I know he's ...

A.   29 May 2012: Then educate him,since he is frustrated too,help the poor boy out.show him were to go and were not to.or is oral sex the only means to make you cum.you two can do other things... (read in full...)

He comments on everyone's FB pics except mine??

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for four months and we are friends on Facebook obviously. What bugs me is he has never liked or commented on any of my pictures but I see him commenting on my friends pictures saying things like "awww" and ...

A.   28 May 2012: Hi dear,dönt get yourself worrying over that little things.he clearly wants to make you jealous and your falling for it.it doesnt matter if he comment or not.stop commenting on his own pics and start taking your pound of flesh by commenting on his ... (read in full...)

After 8 years of a sexless relationship, she tells me she cheated and lost her virginity. Do I end things?

Q.   I have been going out with my girlfriend since 2005 to now.we have been apart mostly because i attend a foreign University and left at a local compass.She finished last year and doing her final year project she visited me thrice...she needed ...

A.   28 May 2012: She does not worth to be your wife..one thing i learnt is that cheating with another guy and having sex with him isnt and wil never be a mistake.last time i checked(last nite)sex is sweet.she did it on her own free will.take my humble advice,Break ... (read in full...)

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