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writes: hi i am a teenager and i am a virgin. my b-f wants to start having sex...I need to know is it better to shave down below or not?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): hi if you feel comfortable do but dont change the way you are for a boy he should love u shaved or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): may be not shave all of it just trim it down so it is pretty for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): I think it is definately better to shave down there. It adds a touch of sexiness. oh yeah, but be carful when you shave, try to avoid razor bumps and such. It also appeals to most men if you shave, and if they decide to go down on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): Hi what do you feel comfortable with ? if full shaving is a problem then just either shave to tidy it up or create a shape with your pubes that will interest him best of luck j
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006): If he cant wait then he is not thinking of you just him self ! Tell him to take a hike !
No dont shave!
quiet male
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2006): i shaved down there and i am still a teen my mom said it is up to you but if he reallly doesn't love you and he wants to just have sex and leave don't do it.i mean it.i am still a virgin i no wat your gon through.but boys just say they love you to get some if he really loves you he won't want it till your ready like me and my man.but the choice is up to u if you want to shave go ahead but it is not his just his desision alone
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reader, Rhian_Star +, writes (11 October 2006):
There is no rules 2 say that u have 2 shave down there. It is totally up 2 u! IF u feel comfterble the way u r then just keep it like that, but if u feel that u want 2 and it will help ur confidence then do it. But down there thats somewhere only people who really love u should see and if he trully loves u nd ditto back then it wouldnt matter if ur shaved or un-shaved. So dont panic about it, cos its natrual!
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reader, realguy +, writes (8 October 2006):
My suggestion is to do what makes you feel the most comfortable and sexy ? That is the key because honestly, you are in control and he has no clue at this point in your young relationship. Whatever you decide makes you feel sexy WILL make you more sexy. If you are unsure and insecure, well you probably should be waiting more but a nice compromise is to have a nicely trimmed package. No guy will be upset about that and then later when your relationship develops, heck he can use the shaver on you himself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): Try this: Shave down there, and see how you like the change that accompanies it. You may find that the "upkeep" is too time consuming, but if you don't devote enough time to "upkeep" that you'll be quite uncomfortable at times. At any rate, you can always allow your hair to grow back. Now, I hope that you've carefully read what I first wrote, because I did not say, "Shave down there and have sex." You may not be ready for sex, and as you are still a teen, there is likely no reason to rush into having sex (once you've done it, it can't be undone - as if it were the equivalent of shaving your pubic hair).
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2006): Don't have sex with him until you feel ready. You can shave down there if you want but sometimes during sex and if you shave down there it can spike the boys penis.
reliable source xx-xx
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reader, *kez*  +, writes (4 October 2006):
 Its up to, your first time should be special i regretted mine i just rushed into it i didnt care. It should be with some one u love so he shouldnt care whether u r shaven or not, i found that the guys i slept with dont care but its upto you but it does feel better though when u r shaven!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2006): The answer is 'trim' not 'shave' unless you are completely out of control.
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reader, Toria +, writes (4 October 2006):
 I personally do, I did it for myself and I prefer it I also believe it is more hygienic to do so but it is entirely up to you, some guys like it shaven some don't that is why I suggest choosing what you want or asing your boyfriend what he would like, I think we all try different things until we get to what we prefer and then stick to that, if you do decide to shave be aware it will itch as it grows back the first few times, I go through stages of shaving or using hair removal cream but be careful with using cream as you will need to test it on a small area to make sure you don't have a reaction against it and don't leave it on longer than you should as burning and swelling can happen.
Hope this helps :o)
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (4 October 2006):
 Just because your boyfriend is ready to have sex, doesn't mean you are ready. Your boyfriend will always be ready. I think you should worry about what you're going to do for birth control, or better yet, why not wait until you're a little older before you start having sex at all. There is no rush, and there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Shaving "down below" should be the least of your worries.Good luck.
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