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writes: my guy constantly accuses me of looking at guys under 30,no matter where we go,he is 45 and want him only but he wont accept this Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): If he is constantly accusing you of the same thing,then are you sure he hasnt once or twice caught you? If so then he`s going to be so insecure about it then his imagination has got carried away. I assume youre younger than hin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): Your boyfriend may be self-conscious about his age, especially if you're younger than him, too. Men do indeed get uptight about their looks, especially as we age. If he's bothered by your looking at other men, or if he's concocting fantasies that you're looking at other men, it may be a sign that you should spend a little more time stroking his ego. Pay him compliments more often - maybe stuff that you've noticed but haven't bothered to say. That ought to help.
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reader, Toria +, writes (2 October 2006):
 You can't convince him you can only tell him and prove over time how much you want to be with him and how important he is to you, he has to realise on his own that he is being silly and that you wouldn't be with him if you didn't want to.
Good luck :o)
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reader, laxchic82792 +, writes (2 October 2006):
Sit him down for a nice long talk. Tell him that you are the only man on your mind.
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