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writes: Me and my friend were talkin the other day(we are both girls) and she said how long do you think you'll be a virgin for and i said until i'm like 25 and she goes you wont last that long. So I'd like to know if it OK to be a virgin till then. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): Hello!
I only lost my virginity 3 months ago- im 25! To be honest it was cool and I have been enjoying it. However it has'nt made any dramatic effect on my life. Before I had lost it I really felt like this was a problem in my life that really needed sorting out. Now in hind sight that was a stupid way to think about it.
Anyway I guess we all have to lose it eventually and I suppose im glad I have. Just dont think it will have any major effect on your life and certainly dont rush into it if you are'nt comfortable. Just go for it when YOU want to.
Cheers!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2006): I am 27 and I still have mine. Everything still 'works'...it's not like you have a use-by or best-before date of 25. Some people would think of me as a rarity in this day and age, but then others would applaud me.
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reader, Toria +, writes (4 October 2006):
 Of course it's okay, if you haven't felt ready or been with the right person then no reason for you to be worried about still being a virgin, too many people worry or feel it's not right and therefore put themselves into a situation to lose their virginity with someone they don't care about and feel the same back therefore leaving themselves with a bad lifelong memory of how it was.
Although I was 16 when I lost mine I really wish I had waited til I knew I was ready and with someone that I really cared for and knew they felt the same I just was worried at the time that I was the only one and it was a bad thing not getting rid of it with a boyfriend that already had lost his and felt he would leave if I didn't give him what he already knew what he was missing out on not the best reasons to give up something special like your virginity, which you can never get back.
Hope this helps :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): i was 22 or even 24 for proper intercourse that worked, don't worry about it. also, everyone presumes its choice, but some people like myself in my teens, just can't converse so well or don't have the confidence to get into this kind of situation, so its not always about choice. me personally, i wish it was a bit sooner but it seems to be something that doesn't bother females from what i've seen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): hi,of course its ok to be a virgin at 25.so many people loose their virginity early and end up regretting it.only you can say when your ready,dont let peer presure sway you.
you'll know when its right. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): You asked if its ok to be a virgin at 25!!! Ask the question what if you were what is wrong with it? I would say absolutly nothing at all.What is age anyway its down to each individual when they choose to lose their virginity.I waited until i was in my 20s until i lost mine nobody thought any less of me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): What do you think? Is it okay for a 25 year old to be a virgin?
[sigh]
Really, wondering what others think what might be the norm or not is not an accurate viewpoint. On top of that, why does knowing what others think matter in this sort of thing? Are you embarrassed? Are you feeling left out that all the 12 year olds are having sex already? Are you thinking that you'll be a mirror example of the 40 year old virgin?
Heck, it's not about age (per se). It's about natural initiation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): Its ok for you to be a virgin until you feel ready to have sex. Age is not as important as feeling happy and relaxed enough with the person that you are with
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