A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey all,I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and then broke up for less than a month, and now we're back together.While we were not seeing each other, she met another guy and started talking with him. Even after we got back together she kept talking with him without telling me about it.I found out 2 days ago and told her about it and she was all confused and telling lies until I told her that if she seriously doesn't get honest with me I'll break things off between us.She said that she's sorry that she did this without telling me and that she was talking to him as a Friend only and that nothing happened between them.I met the guy and he said that she didn't tell him either that she has a boyfriend now, and then he started to say that he did PHONE SEX with her and that she went out with him several times, and when I asked my girlfriend about it she said NO NO he is lying we did never do anything from that, he is trying to ruin our relationship?She's saying I respect you and our relationship and I would never do that especially to you, she's saying I don't care if you break up with me, I just need you to know that I didn't do anything wrong with him and am confident about it.She continues if you want to believe the guy that's fine with me, but know that I'm not lying to you.She has stopped talking with him when I told her that I know about the other guy.I'm not sure what to do, any advice would be greatly appreciated.Thank you.
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (16 December 2010):
she is playing on both of you
get rid of her,
if she had feelings for you she wouldn't have fallen directly with new guy in less than a month from your breakup !
and besides the kind of jealousy that she had put you in
well always affect and toxicate your feelings if you continue to see her
cut her off your life
and even if she ran after you witch is very very possible
keep giving her the cold sholder and look for some one else
remember that
no one deserve your tears,
the one who deserve your tears well not let you pour them..
Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the replies.
I've asked a couple of guys who know him and they said that he talks to a lot of girls.
And my friend who told me that my girl is talking with another guy was with the guy in his car while he was text chatting with my girl on BlackBerry, the guy said to my friend that he could get naked pictures of my girl in a few days.
That's all I've got. Thanks again.
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reader, tss18  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 well first off sorry to hear that your in this situation. It will nearly impossible to find out whos telling the truth, it really comes down to if you trust your girlfriend or not. when you met the guy did he seem honest? do you know anyone that knows him? maybe try to find out if hes a trustworthy guy or not. he very well might be just trying to ruin things between you two but then again it could be true. only time will tell. goodluck with everything.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (16 December 2010):
 She has been two timing you, been found out and now lying to cover her tracks. You have found out now and she knows it and has stopped talking with the other guy. She seems to have made her choice now. It's up to you to either carry on with her or not. You did right by confronting the issue head on because you changed it all. If they were really just talking as friends, that would still be the same, but she's been found out so now it's not the same. You won't be able to trust her for a while now.
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