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anonymous
writes:my gf watches kinky porn, pretend rape, and a couple guys on one girl. what could this say about our relationship or the type of person she is? We have amazing sex and are physically attracted to each other and intimate at the same time. ladies, should I be worried about her sharing herself with other guys or wanting too try?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): i think the gud thing is she is sharing this with you.. which means she trusts you.. since she is still young.. she is exploring her sexuality.. with you.. that's the important thing.. so i would suggest you guide her a little.. and just enjoy it..
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reader, lerato29  +, writes (15 March 2011):
 i dont think its a problem she is just enjoing porn and shes watching with you thats makes it better,maybe is she was hiding ti from you it could be a problem.
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (15 March 2011):
watching porn doesnt meen
that she isn't sexually satisfied with you or that she is welling to cheat....come on man it is just porn !
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): Don"t ask cause if she says yes you're screwed! Just play it cool m8t sounds like you rock the bed, the more you talk about fantasies the more likely they are to turn into reality. (which can be a good or bad thing, based on my personal experience)
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reader, smiliek  +, writes (15 March 2011):
 lol. Its porn. Don't tell me you've never watched two girls with one guy? Its fantasy. Doesn't mean she wants it in real life. But if you're that worried ask her
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): Wow...
This is the first post I've seen where a man is worried about someone else enjoying pornography. Usually they're defending their right to watch it and insisting it isn't a form of cheating.
If she's tries out the things or techniques she sees in porn with you from time to time, I don't see why you should worried. Everyone has fantasies, porn just lets you enjoy them at a distance. She probably watches it for the same reasons you do.
You reenact everything you see on television do you?
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (15 March 2011):
 I'm not sure if you should be worried about her wanting other guys. If you have watched porn while in a relationship, did you feel like being with other women as a result? Most people don't, but if you're uncomfortable, talk to her about it.
It is a little concerning that she seems to choose disturbing porn to watch. Is she asking you to do anything very strange sexually? If her fetishes are "out there", things like blood or choking her out, she may have suffered some emotional trauma that you might want to talk to her/encourage her to get help about.
Do you feel like she watches porn too much? Are you worried she has an addiction? Or is it only worrying that she will cheat?
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (15 March 2011):
I'm not sure if you should be worried about her wanting other guys. If you have watched porn while in a relationship, did you feel like being with other women as a result? Most people don't, but if you're uncomfortable, talk to her about it.
It is a little concerning that she seems to choose disturbing porn to watch. Is she asking you to do anything very strange sexually? If her fetishes are "out there", things like blood or choking her out, she may have suffered some emotional trauma that you might want to talk to her/encourage her to get help about.
Do you feel like she watches porn too much? Are you worried she has an addiction? Or is it only worrying that she will cheat?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): I don't think you have anything to worry about. I have similar tastes, however it's strictly fantasy and not something I or probably most people who watch the same thing would actually want to act out. It's more a draw to it being taboo and exciting. If anything it's probably what adds to the great sex because she herself is more open minded. Her preference in porn is completely harmless.
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