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14 and worried my vagina is too tight to have sex...

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Question - (17 February 2008) 12 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

im worried my vagina is to tight to have sex, im only 14 but boys tell me its tight, it takes me so long to masterbate, even if i feel in the mood, is anything wrong with me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008):

You are way too young to be thinking about sex! I waited till i was married (at 22) and i never had to worry about getting pregnant or STDs. Sex isn't a "cool thing" to do to be popular, you need to respect your body. At 14 you're not even fully grown yet. I've had a friend who has used condoms and been on birth control and still gotten pregnant in highschool. it drastically changed her life. Her boyfriend was also just a kid and he obviously didn't stick around long. She can't hang out with friends anymore (her daughter is now 3). She is now a full time mom. as far as your vagina goes, it should be just fine in a few years.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008):

your 14, wait and youll be fine, your obviously too young to be having sex!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

nope there is nowt wrong with you, tight is just a normal part of the females vagina, just like most women are loose. no it doesn't depend on how many guys you sleep with does it get loose, cos that is infact wrong. i say for the moment just enjoy what you can do with yourself such as with a vibrator. enjoy yourself. wait till your older it should be a little looser also you are 14 your body has not fully matured yet.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008):

heyaa,

If you feel you are mature enough to have sex then you should who is to say you can't. Try lots of foreplay before sex and if that doesn't work lubricant. Make sure you always practise safe sex though hunni. xx take care xx

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (18 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntThere is nothing wrong with you but only in your head. Just learn to relax and use some lubricants if you feel dry.

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A male reader, mm2u United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2008):

Most guys prefer a tight vagina, as it feels better.

Are you sure you want to be having sex at this age, if you are sure, then go ahead, it will probably feel much better for you and him/her as it will be tight.

Hope i was of help

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A female reader, faith_believe_love Korea - Republic of +, writes (18 February 2008):

faith_believe_love agony auntyou are too young to think about it they are right dont do it until when you reach your right age and when the righteous men comes in your life then give in.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008):

To be honest, if your vagina is "too tight" its because its not grown properly, your still a young child and you shouldn't be having sex for at least another two years. There is nothing wrong with you, its called "development" your going through puberty at your age, let your body mature a bit!! Enjoy your childhood while youve got it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008):

Erm.. to be honest hunny, your too young to even think about having sex, but probably when you get a bit older, it might loosen up a bit down there, but I think that you have got plenty of time to have sex, you're only 14, don't give up being a kid yet ,

email me if you have any question xx hope it helps xx

prinstion girl xx

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A female reader, carebear United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2008):

carebear agony auntHi poster

This is the perfect answer to all you young teen girls out there that want to have sex and all the young boys wanting to sow their wild oats just tell them all I am too tight to have sex think I will wait till i grow a bit

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (17 February 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntThen don't have sex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008):

Every girl is different, so no honey, nothing's wrong with you. Probably when you grow up and have more experience, then things down there will loosen up a bit. Especially if you have a child! As long as it's causing you no pain, then there's no need to worry :] (Oh, and a lot of guys love the feeling of a girls vagina tight on their cock :])

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