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female
age
41-50,
*CMTMC
writes:I'm in a verbal and sometimes physical abusive relationship and I want out. I don't know what to do we are not married but we have a little girl together and he says if I make him leave he will take her and I won't see her. I don't have the money to make it myself. I want to leave but it is my house and was before we got together. When I have asked him to leave he says he isn't that he needs to save money,that he needs a 30 day notice. ok I get all that then he still won't leave. What do I do?
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reader, accused +, writes (11 February 2008):
 I agree update your state and I will help you from there. Accused
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (11 February 2008):
 Ok he wont get out people who are abusive will stick around and just make you more misreable, its often times a sick game to them. Just get a friend or family member(s) to help you financially or even state help on the financial side and change the lock on the doors and lock the windows etc, anywhere he could get in. Then call the cops once he gets there and makes a jerk out of himself. Make sure there is somewhere else safe that you daughter can go until things work themselves out and make sure there is someone else there with you preferably a male preferably or another female or two who is a family member of friend that can hold there own if he manages to get in your home which should be like fort knocks at this point.
And then get a restraining order.
Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): I think you should seek the help of a social worker to help you or give you guidences for your money problems and put in a complaint with the police and don,t go home without someone else to back you up make sure you got a safe place for your daughter and get the locks changed and throw his belongings outside make sure you got someone with you for a while moral support
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (11 February 2008):
 Lock the door. Make the jerk angry. lmao
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 You need to update which state you're in and someone should be able to give some practical advice.
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