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writes:My boyfriend thinks I am cheating on him; he came home and I was hanging out with one of the people he works with; but we've all hung out before ;and I didn't think anything of it. All me and this guy did was talk about tattoos, concerts, some korean chick he liked, and how I bought a ring to ask my boyfriend to marry him. He left and won't talk to me . I don't know what to do .. Somebody please help me !! I love this man with everything I've got. He was the one person I loved, and he means the world to me.. Help help HelP!!
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (26 February 2009):
 At the risk of "spoiling" your surprise to him, could you send him a picture of the ring (and the receipt .. with the nominal value of the purchase blacked out) either to his cell phone ro to his email?
Just a small note like "this is what we were discussing" ... and sorry if I had upset you ,.,. or something more romantic .. but keep it cryptic.
Then see what happens next ... if he would not listen to you or he said "no" to you, at least you have not given him the ring (and possibly could get a refund .. unless you want to hold on to it until both of you are ready)
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): Sounds like a control freak in the making. Yes, jealousy may be one thing, but for something so plainly open, he gets mad at you? Are you sure this is what he is mad about and not something else?
If this is what he is mad about, then I implore you to reconsider becoming more intimate with this person. Wow, after thinking about this for a bit more, if I am his friend and I heard this from him, I would smack him upside the head.
Advice: going against what I just expressed, he needs to calm down before you say anything to him. You should be the one getting mad here and not his small-mindedness. Of course, that's not going to happen. Therefore, you can sit him down on your lap, bend him over if you will, spank him until he submits and apologizes AND THEN propose to him.
What say you Ms. Angel? Does that sound like a great idea? No? Don't take it so literal. I'm just trying to cheer you up for such a frustrating 'problem'.
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (26 February 2009):
I think that if he trust you so little then maybe marriage is just not the right idea. The only thing you can do is let him no the truth and he can take it or leave it.
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