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female
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36-40,
*hianxie
writes:why do some men get bored in a relationship? and is it possible that you love two persons in different levels?
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reader, secrets-x-sh!  +, writes (14 September 2007):
 Hey there,Any man can get bored in a relationship, it could be because hes not getting what he wants out of it and hes sick of trying to get it or it just could simply be because use two have done everything and hes bored,a way to try and make him not bored is make things more exciting, suggest things which use havnt done before or take him for a romantik night out or try and go for a weekend away, livin things up, show him your not boring! :] And i dont think its impoissible to love someone at two different levels, i know this sounds stupid but iv fell in love before, well still am but i also have big feelings for another guy, but theres always one i think about more than the other. hope iv helped you in someway hun xx keep smiling xxand remember show your man your not boring you go there:]
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reader, Skeez +, writes (4 September 2007):
 Heya hun. there are many reasons why: men get bored in a relationship:
There could be lack of somehting in the relationship.
He doesnt love the person anymore.
The relationship is a same routine.
You talk about the same thing all the time.
Theres barely any sex in your love life
and etc etc
its the same with woman too.
and as for loving two people..i think you can. But then I dont think there the same kind of love. If you desire someone becuase of there looks and you have fantasies about you two having sex then I think its lust more than love.
But when you think about someone as your future. babies together and owning a house. thats love and commitment.
choose who you feel your happy with most and the one where you feel a lot can come out of it.
Id personally go with the second one. A happy family is always better than sex and playtime.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): I am a girl so I don't know how to answer the boredom question. I do however absolutely believe that you can love two people both very much. This unfortunetly causes a lot of heart ache as keeping to people fullfilled and happy is near impossible.
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