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writes:Umm this is a wierd one but I am a real worrier and need to know that I am just snowballing a worry. Anyway, Im in a relationship with a person a I love very much. I went out with the girls one night and saw one of my boyfs friends out and latched onto him bought him a drink told him how much i love him etc (as a friend) and was hanging with him all night. My firends were all there and anyway the next day i was feeling guilty about being so full on with him when my firend asked me if i kissed him as she thought she saw me pull away from him, Im sure i remember everything about the night i even remember going home but what if i cheated and i dont remember?Would i remember?Am i just freaking myself out?My friend assures me she didnt see any kissing just my face moving away from his..Im driving myself crazy as im truly in love and would hate to hurt my boyfriend. I keep worrying that i remember everything in the night excpet cheating!! argh can anyone help me??
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (2 September 2007):
 stop worrying love. you probably didnt cheat on your boyfriend if you remember everything that happened that night. Just remember that this is a lesson for you. whenyou get the intention of being flirty with someone. stop and think about how you felt when you thought you cheated before...its not nice is it?
stop worrying hun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): If you can't recall doing it, then stop worrying!!
You probably didn't... if you were being really friendly with him, you may have just given him a hug & been pulling away or given him a kiss on the cheek or something.
If you did... well, you did and it's over now but you know now that's not something you will be wanting to do again. Use it as a lesson for next time -- if you find yourself out, having drinks & you're feeling flirty, remember this awful feeling you're having now.
One of my favourite expressions is: "worrying is like rocking in a rocking chair -- you won't go anywhere but it sure does pass the time." (i.e. it passes the time but achieves nothing).
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reader, Beckto  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 STOP WORRYING!
You didn't cheat. You don't remember it. No one saw you do it. So you didn't do it.
You're totally freaking yourself out. STOP.
Just be more careful about drinking in excess in the future.
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