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writes:Okay...I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years, we live together and I've known him for most of my life, we've always been great friends. He's the greatest boyfriend I could ever wish for-he's kind, affectionate and supportive and I really trust him and want to be with him for the rest of my life, we're so happy together.However, there's one thing that bothers me. Since my early teens, I've been really attracted to women and get turned on by them more so than men. I think to myself that if only I could get to be with a woman just once, to kiss her and have sex with her, I would marry my boyfriend and be perfectly content with my life. I just want to experience it so much!I've even thought about meeting up with a girl, maybe through the internet, just so I can know how it feels. I just would never want to cheat on my boyfriend, I never have in three years and I know he has never cheated on me. It would hurt him so much to know that I am dying to have sex with a woman. What do I do? I don't want to get old and regret anything!
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reader, Skeez +, writes (17 August 2007):
 Heya hun.Hmm i find this a tricky one.If you want to fulfill your desire with having sex with another woman..why dotn you try it when your not with your boyfriend?There are so many problems that could be causedfrom you hving sex with someone else.You love your bf and he loves you, you both havent cheated on each other and both of you intend not to.So ok thats great!But....having a threesome has a lot of other negativity to it. If your boyfriend doesnt accept your request he may become offended and think of himself as not good enough for you. If he does accept and you go ahead with it, are you sure your going to be ok with him fiddling around with another woman infront of you..coz personally i wouldnt liek to see my bf do that. And he may not like seeing you have sex with someone else.I really think you should talk to him first. Make sure hes completely satisfied and its deffinetly ok about it. If he has worries dnt push him into it. You have a great relatinship that many woman would love. Dont watse it and throw it away.You have your whole life ahead of you to try new things. You arnt going to be with him forever.So either just wait it outOr experiance it now, but do expect some consicuences.goodluck
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reader, LethalInjection-x +, writes (17 August 2007):
 You need to talk to him about it.
But, if you do go ahead with fulfilling your desire, you need to be prepared for possible repercussions. What I mean is, once you've had sex with a woman, you may feel you prefer it to men, your boyfriend ever and then you have a whole new problem.
I know how you feel, I've liked girls for as long as I can remember, but everyone told me it was a "phase" so I got boyfriends and ignored it. But while I was single I tried it with a girl.. &I liked it a whole lot more. If I was in a relationship at the time that would have ruined everything.
So, have a long think about it, if you still want to go ahead with it, talk to your boyfriend.. maybe ask him whether he has ant fantasies himself that he has never mentioned to you. Then you tell him yours. &Suggest you both try to fulfill them.
Good luck xxx
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reader, gcockerham +, writes (17 August 2007):
Maybe suggest a threesome with your boyfriend. That way he is also involved in your fantasy and wont feel hurt and you get to experience what you want to xxx
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