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Why did she reject me?

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Question - (15 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 16-17, anonymous writes:

why do girls still reject. My friend rejected me even though I treated her like a queen, she knows I'm crazy over her. I'm perfect in front of her, I've done everythin for her. I may not be person person but in front of her I've Neva annoyed her, upset her or anything negative. So why will she reject me? I love her so much...why do girls do this?

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A male reader, q1605 United States +, writes (15 May 2008):

q1605 agony aunt Women like a challenge. Read your post again. Is that how you described yourself. She knows you are alive and thats all you need to put in her court for a while. For as long as it takes for her to one day stop and say. My lawn needs cutting I haven't has a good steak in like forever,and that guy that wore my dresses while I hemmed them up hasn't been around in a long while. Whats up with that? I better get to the bottom of this. Bam you not only win you win on your terms which is being something that is a lot less like a door mat. You can do this just hold out and she will come poking her head through your door before you know it. I promise.

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A male reader, Replacement Canada + , writes (15 May 2008):

Replacement agony auntYou're being too nice probably. Women say they want a nice guy but what they really want is something confident, independant, and a bit out of reach. Act more distant, don't be such a pushover, don't fall all over yourself trying to impress her. Just be cool and act like she's nothing but another friend to you.

Or, alternatively, move on and find another chick for yourself.

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A female reader, DiovanLestat United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2008):

DiovanLestat agony auntHumans are very complicated creatures. We have different interest, opinions, beliefs, motivations and values.

Unfortunately it's not a case of the nicest guy wins the prize. What do women look for. Brown eyes, Blue eyes, Green eyes. A man that is strong, sensistive, compassionate, dangerous, exciting. People want different things. Your a kind person, you try your best. Maybe that's not what this woman is looking for. Maybe she's excited by a dangerous man who will beat her up, steal her money and cheat with her best friend.

This is not the woman for you. You do not have the qualities that she needs to make her feel like a woman. No problem. She's not right. But don't change. You are what you are. You like being decent. You don't want to hit or cheat on a woman. Be patient one day the right woman will come along that wants all you need to give. Stay strong, be good, and wait. Everything that should be will eventually come to be.

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