What can I get her for Christmas that doesn't cost a dime?
Q. Ok I have a problem i have been in love with this girl for three years. I have followed her around i guess you can say i worship her. I love her more than life itself. She has been wonderful to me. She is one of the most beautiful people in the ...
A. 28 November 2010: What about making a heart shaped poem telling her what she means to you. Or a homemade heartshaped cake or homemade heartshaped chocolates.... (read in full...)
It feels like we are broken!
Q. Hey I'm 22 year old and I'm daten a younger guy he's 19 years old and since the begging our relationship has Been a lot of lies on both our parts really. Now I'm madly inlove and I change for him I gave a lit away for him cuz I wanted to i did it ...
A. 28 November 2010: It sort of seems like he has disconnected from the relationship and is trying to give you a reason to break up with him so he doesn't have to bother. The lesson you should take from this relationship is never to change or give up things for a man ... (read in full...)
Usually my crushes last 2 days, she surpassed the two day mark!
Q. Ok I have known this girl for a little while and we have been best friends for six months(took a lont time to get bff #1). Everyone makes jokes about how where a couple or were siblings because we’re with each other so much. I never considered the ...
A. 28 November 2010: Age gaps are a funny thing. I am 4 years younger than my husband but at our age's (he's 41, I'm 37) it doesn't seem such a big gap as a 17 year old with a 13 year old. I guess the only thing you can do is ask her out for a date and see how it ... (read in full...)
We only got back together because he promised not to lie, but he is telling lies again already
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for about 5yrs, he was married for 19 yrs and I for 21 years. During the time we have been together he has cheated on me (he says only 1 time but I'm not sure) and have gotten busted lying to me ...
A. 28 November 2010: Honestly he sounds pathological. I would move on!... (read in full...)
It just seems too good to be true!
Q. I don't know what exactly to think about my relationship. I'm absolutly in love with my boyfriend we have been together for 14 months happily. We both plan on getting married as soon as possiable. Then we plan to go college together to be ...
A. 28 November 2010: It's ok to plan but don't cling to the plan like a limpet, if something else comes along that seems better than the plan go for it. Enjoy every minute with your boyfriend and concentrate on the here and now rather than the distant future.... (read in full...)
He says he has bigger problems to deal with than me
Q. Me and my ex where together for about 3years During those 3years we lied to each other I was a very jealous person who did not let him do anything. We had breakups and eventually got back together. During that time we ended living together I was ...
A. 28 November 2010: Sweetheart you need some time out to deal with you and your jealousy and self esteem issues. The most loveable people are self assured and confident in themselves and do not feel the need to control and monitor others. Use this time to reflect on ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants my baby to remember me by
Q. ok im going out with this girl in new york but im moving to florida and were in love and she wants to have a baby that she can keep so it like a piece of me i cant even tell my parents anything how would i tell them how would i tell her mom i dont ...
A. 28 November 2010: I really don't think this is a good idea. A baby isn't a keepsake to remember someone by. It's a human being who needs love, guidance, education, etc and preferrably two parents. Not to mention a baby is going to be there for the rest of hers and ... (read in full...)
Presumably perfect boyfriend cheated, now I'm lost at what to do
Q. Hi everyone My relationship dilemma is a common one to ask here but seeing as Im now in the situation myself Im finding it really difficult to give myself advice on this matter, my previous relationship (2 years) was one full of lies and cheatin...
A. 9 November 2010: Oh dear what a pickle! This is my suggestion for you. Have a little break from each other and tell him he needs to sort his head out before you will get back together. Distance will prove wether or not this relationship is meant to be. You will ... (read in full...)
Seventeen and have wanted a child for years
Q. im 17years old, and ive had the weird feeling of wanting a child so bad. this feeling has been with me for about almost three years now. mt boyfriend told me that we cant have a child because we wouldnt be able to raise it, but i want one. i dont ...
A. 9 November 2010: I've been where you are, so I know what a nagging feeling it is for you. I remember feeling like that when I was about 21. I had a lot of older friends who were all married and having children and I wanted so badly to be in that club and have a ... (read in full...)
Is there really such a thing as fate?
Q. do you think fate is real? Like If two people love eachother do you think fate will bring them back together after they stop talking...
A. 3 November 2010: Original Poster don't worry sweetheart you are not alone feeling like this. We have all had these horrible crushes on someone that is not requited and it's hell but I promise every day it will get just a little easier to eat and get out of bed and ... (read in full...)
Is there really such a thing as fate?
Q. do you think fate is real? Like If two people love eachother do you think fate will bring them back together after they stop talking...
A. 2 November 2010: That rings a bell Dirtball was it John Connor in the terminator?... (read in full...)
I want a child born out of a loving relationship, but one where we are like brother and sister
Q. I have been married for 11 years and have no family. My wife developed a medical condition after 2 years of marriage. In the last few years been brought under control. During her illness i was as attentive as i could be but we did not have and ...
A. 2 November 2010: Gosh you are in a really tricky situation I really feel for you. I agree with you bringing a child into this relationship where you don't feel love for the mother is wrong. My heart felt so heavy for you when I read your line about your duty to ... (read in full...)
Is there really such a thing as fate?
Q. do you think fate is real? Like If two people love eachother do you think fate will bring them back together after they stop talking...
A. 2 November 2010: Yes I believe in fate, but I also think relationships take work and care to make sure fate was right in the first place.... (read in full...)
First time experiences?
Q. What was it like the first time that you had sex male and females welcome to answer...
A. 2 November 2010: It was great! Exciting, exhilirating and passionate, but I hasten to add that it was with someone I had known for a long time and loved very much. I was 17 and we were together for over 3 years and loved each other to distraction. Personally I ... (read in full...)
Cheating but its not all about sex
Q. i'm married and so is he but we have been seeing each other for 4yrs i dont think its all about sex cause a lot of time we can stay together and do nothing i just want to know can this man have feelings for me and do he even care about me but we ...
A. 2 November 2010: It's never all about sex it's always about gratification. Obviously neither of you are getting what you need out of your respective marriages or you would have never looked twice at each other. This can go nowhere that is good.... (read in full...)
What to expect after going on birth control?
Q. I made an appointment with planned parenthood and am going on birth control. I don't know yet if it will be the shot or the pill...I'd just like a few tips (please) on what to expect. How to remember to take the pill (if that"s what I get). Side ...
A. 2 November 2010: I used to remember to take the pill by taking it when I brushed my teeth. That way I could never forget. Personally I never experienced any side effects from the pill and I've never had the shot so can't comment there. You need to be taking the ... (read in full...)
He always cums way too quickly! Is there a cure for this?
Q. My Fiance Cums way too fast, sometimes soon as he sticks it inside me so is this because of he is almost 50 years old and is there a cure to this issue so we can have pleasurable Sex for long periods of time again??...
A. 2 November 2010: Make him cum with oral sex or mutual masturbation and then get him aroused again and have sex. It will decrease his sensitivity and he will last longer.... (read in full...)
Am I expecting too much support from him or is he just a waste of space, whom I should forget about and move on?
Q. I have recently split up from my boyfriend of three months. We met every Saturday for four years when I served him on his shopping trips. I enjoyed seeing him every Saturday and blushed when he was queuing up at my checkout. We chatted every time ...
A. 2 November 2010: At the end of the day your virginity is yours to give to whom you want to give it to when you want to give it to them and if he can't respect that then he's not your dream guy.... (read in full...)
He prefers the street life to me!!!
Q. Hello. I'm 7 months pregnant and im so in love with my baby daddy. We've been together for 1 year and 2 weeks already and when we first started it was wonderful i loved it.. He didnt have a job but i made sure he had everything he needed we was ...
A. 2 November 2010: This guy is having his cake and eating it too and proving yet again that anyone can be a father but it's a true man who can be a Dad. Cut this guy out of your life he's treating you like a convience store.... (read in full...)
I LOVE bigger women!
Q. I'm 19 year old male. I have this thing for bigger woman, I always have, ever since i was in high-school I've had this thing for them but I've never expressed it openly. So I've done it in secret by going to websites and talking to bigger w...
A. 2 November 2010: Love big women and be proud about it! Don't hide it away.... (read in full...)
Are stretch marks a turn off for guys?
Q. Hi, this question is for guys and i want to know the male perspective, i have stretch marks on my boobs and i feel really embarrassed to take of my bra in-front of guys, i have big beautiful breast 38 c the only problem is the stretch marks on ...
A. 2 November 2010: I'm not a guy so I don't know about the turnoff thing from their perspective but I have two things to add.
1.) my husband has stretch marks on his biceps from weight lifting and they definitely don't turn me off
2.) Have you tired bio oil on your ... (read in full...)
Jealousy over boyfriend's past.
Q. I only ask this because I'm not sure how to react or respond to my boyfriend. He admitted something to me about him and his sister when he was a freshmen in high school. He was drunk when he told me this and I'm not sure if it was because he w...
A. 2 November 2010: Jealously is the last thing you should be feeling. Get away from this guy he has committed incest! He needs help! Anyone that would play around with his sister has something very wrong going on in his head. Get away fast.... (read in full...)
Quick sex, no Frenching
Q. Why does my husband like quick sex but does not like to french kiss. Only to have his few minutes of fun and that is it. ...
A. 30 October 2010: He's either selfish or afraid of real intimacy. You need to ask him why he wont kiss you and tell him you feel sex is impersonal the way he wants it.... (read in full...)
My jealousy's slowing us down.
Q. I am a very jelous girl. and i think my boyfriend is getting tired of that, and he thinks i don´t trust him. what should i do ?...
A. 27 October 2010: You have got to put the hard yards in and work on eliminating your jealousy. Be up front with your boyfriend and tell him you know how your jealously is affecting the relationship and work out something he can do when you are coming on too strong. ... (read in full...)
What does it feel like to have someone you consider a life partner?
Q. What does it feel like to be with someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with and to have them want to be with you too?...
A. 27 October 2010: It feels great and it feels right.... (read in full...)
Did he really mean that he doesn't want to be a boyfriend because he can't be a good one?
Q. So me and my ex broke up 1 month ago. We were together for almost 5 months, which was my longest relationship. Anyway, he always said that if we broke up that he wanted us to stay friends. I usually stay friends so that's not a problem for me. Now ...
A. 27 October 2010: I'm sure he did mean it but understand that drugs REALLY mess with your brain. They change so much of your biochemistry and how you react to things and people. He seems different because the drugs are affecting him. It is best for you to be away ... (read in full...)
Please give me some ideas on how to find a girlfriend!
Q. Hello guys this is undead here for the first time in my lifer am planing to get a girlfriend and gf means not just for flirting or to have sex with her for everything and I want to stay with her for whole she got to be my first best and last gf so I ...
A. 27 October 2010: I am a great fan of meeting people that are involved in the same interests as you. So join some clubs or take some classes in something you are interested in e.g book club, cooking class, stained glass etc.
Take people up on any social invite you ... (read in full...)
I'm heartbroken at being dumped because we got uninvolved with each other's daily lives... I need to hear some different perspectives!
Q. Ive had a relationship before, and ive been dumped before. This time its worse. Basically, ive been going out with him for a while now, and it might just be me but i get used to things, i get attatched and when they leave i cant cope myself...
A. 27 October 2010: Everyone has been in your situation where they feel as though life will not be the same again and that they have lost their soulmate, but trust me if this relationship was meant to be forever you would still be together. It's not meant to be so ... (read in full...)
Was my wife just joking about us becoming swingers?
Q. my wife and i were talking about our sex the other night and i said maybee we need to spice things up. she says maybe we should be swingers. i asked if thats what she wants she said yes. a min later she says she was just kidding. i just dont know if ...
A. 27 October 2010: Ask her... (read in full...)
Can one brand of the pill be okay for years then suddenly not work for you?
Q. Can one brand of the pill be okay for years then suddenly not work for you? ...
A. 27 October 2010: I have not heard of this before but I suggest paying a visit to the doctor with your question.... (read in full...)
I am a wifey in distress! Should I try to work it out with him or just throw in the towel?
Q. Hi I am a Wifey in distress. I don't think my husband is in love with me whats worse is I think he is being unfaithful. We have been together since we were 14 ( I know right) we are now 29, we have 4 kids and we are busy people. He used to be ...
A. 27 October 2010: At the moment you are doing all the trying and he is not doing anything. It kind of sounds like he has checked out of the marriage completely. Perhaps you could ask him straight out if he wants out of this marriage because you feel the distance ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't want a label?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have dated for 4 going on 5 months and for the other 2 months he wanted to be "talking" to fix our problems. But we never got back together. We are still "talking". Now he doens't want that. He doesn't want a label on it any ...
A. 26 October 2010: It means he's done with you and dodging having to commit. Move on from this guy he's not going to give you what you want.... (read in full...)
I've been so stupid
Q. ive made such a mess of things and I dont know what to do next.My wife and I just started a business running a bar together and have been working 18 hours a day 7 days a week.Its going really well. However I got it into my head that she was starting...
A. 19 October 2010: OK stop beating yourself up now. Positive action is what is required. Never Never Never again smoke weed. You are correct it does make you paranoid, it also fries your brain and makes you angry.
Send that girl flowers every second day, and jewe... (read in full...)
Never Been Loved
Q. I'm going through a bad breakup.. I was off and on with this guy for 2 years...and he just told me he never loved me tonight. It was always a battle ground...but I thought he cared. I just found out he didn't, he was using me. This got me reme...
A. 19 October 2010: There is nothing wrong with you and yes you have just not found your match yet. Honestly this guy more than likely did love you but he is lashing out to hurt you since you have broken up. I remember an ex of mine telling me that too and he also ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is possessive and controlling!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we got engaged when we were together 7 months. Everything was fine at first, we had fun and we did lots of things together. We also got on well with each others families. About 2 months after we ...
A. 13 October 2010: Well done you for standing up for yourself as this relationship can go no where that is good! Yep I'd write a letter and ask him in plain clear terms not to contact you anymore and that the relationship is over. Be prepared for harrassement from ... (read in full...)
How can I help my family to cope with my cousin's cancer?
Q. HI Aunts and Uncles I've just had a close cousin diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. He is only 46 and we are all pretty devastated about this diagnosis. His father (my uncle) died 3 years ago from complications with his lungs. His death hi...
A. 5 October 2010: Hi Tisha and Denimandlace
Thank you both so much for your replies it really helps to talk about it with other people apart from your family. The funeral is tomorrow (Thursday the 7th Oct) so it will be a very sad day. I was talking to one of his ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend abroad, afraid she loves it more than she loves me
Q. So my girlfriend and I have been together for about 13 months now. We're both in our 3rd year of college. We met our freshman year during the 2nd semester and became quick friends, which is very unusual for me. I struggle with generalized anxiety ...
A. 5 October 2010: I can totally understand what she means when she says she wants to come back but she doesn't want to leave. I always feel like that when I go away. You look forward to getting back to the people you love and getting back to your normal life but ... (read in full...)
Baby and baby daddy and sex blues!
Q. First question: hey evryone.im going to be brief asking this.im caught between three guys.one is my babydaddy but im dumping him.im done with him hurtn me.he askd me not to give up on us but ive held on too long.this ex's just came back in my life...
A. 4 October 2010: Ok first question. Don't jump into another relationship give yourself time to figure out what you like and need.
Second question. Why do you feel disgusted about having sex again? If I were you I would buy a vibrator and have fun with your... (read in full...)
Too tight for first time?
Q. A few months ago my ex boyfriend fingered me, and it felt really good. But afterwards he told me that maybe I should lose my virginity to someone else as he thought I was "too tight." For various reasons we decided to break up and now I'm with...
A. 4 October 2010: Very weird thing for him to say because most guys like it "tight". Honestly I wouldn't worry about what he said he could have been so nervous about having sex that he said something to hurt you to put you off so he wouldnt have to face doing it. ... (read in full...)
Do you always have a thing for the guy that took your virginity?
Q. Wanted to ask a question toward the women, because i think it happens to them more than guys. Do you always have a thing for the guy that took your virginity?...
A. 4 October 2010: I lost mine to someone I was totally in love with (and he loved me too) and delirously happy with so yes I will always have a soft spot for him but I'd never want him back in a million years because when our relationship went sour it did so in ... (read in full...)
Would you forgive me for the way I'm treating him?
Q. I think one of my guy friends likes me and I don't like him back but I did a really really mean thing and I feel really bad especially since i think he thinks I like him back. Basically when I found out that he probebly likes me I happen to forget a ...
A. 4 October 2010: I'm sure the pain will wear off eventually and you will be friends again but sorry babe I don't think it will ever be the same as it was again. ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend abroad, afraid she loves it more than she loves me
Q. So my girlfriend and I have been together for about 13 months now. We're both in our 3rd year of college. We met our freshman year during the 2nd semester and became quick friends, which is very unusual for me. I struggle with generalized anxiety ...
A. 4 October 2010: I guess being realistic she is going to come back different since she has added to her knowledge of the world and seen new and different things and met lots of different people. But in her heart of hearts she will still be the same person you know ... (read in full...)
How can I help my family to cope with my cousin's cancer?
Q. HI Aunts and Uncles I've just had a close cousin diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. He is only 46 and we are all pretty devastated about this diagnosis. His father (my uncle) died 3 years ago from complications with his lungs. His death hi...
A. 4 October 2010: Just thought I'd let you guys know that my cousin died yesterday. Can't believe that in July we thought he had gallstones and now he's dead. Life is such a fragile thing. I'm glad he's no longer suffering but oh what a terrible thing for us all. ... (read in full...)
How can I help my family to cope with my cousin's cancer?
Q. HI Aunts and Uncles I've just had a close cousin diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. He is only 46 and we are all pretty devastated about this diagnosis. His father (my uncle) died 3 years ago from complications with his lungs. His death hi...
A. 4 July 2010: Tisha you are so right. I rang my Aunty and we had a phone call of crying, laughing and crying again. It was great to talk to her and realise that I couldn't really say the wrong thing if I was honest about everything I felt. She thanked me for ... (read in full...)
How can I help my family to cope with my cousin's cancer?
Q. HI Aunts and Uncles I've just had a close cousin diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. He is only 46 and we are all pretty devastated about this diagnosis. His father (my uncle) died 3 years ago from complications with his lungs. His death hi...
A. 2 July 2010: Thanks guys. Was just talking to my Mum who has been talking to my aunty and now the news is even worse. He also has bowel cancer. He is not expected to live past Christmas. I think I could relieve a drought with the amount of tears I have ... (read in full...)
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