What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 18 September 2010: awesome!! that's so great! I think that you should pick a day that works for the both of you and a day where you can spend a lot of time together since you live so far apart, the time spent together is more meaningful then. and HAVE FUN!!! ... (read in full...)
What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 8 September 2010: hmm, well you can either take the leader role and get everyone from camp to cooperate to get together or you can go for just you and him. Either way, you will get to spend time with him, the one on one would be more focused on you two though.
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What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 4 September 2010: well it can be that easy, when you are talking on facebook you can mention getting together and see how he responds to that.
and you're welcome :) I hope this works for you !... (read in full...)
What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 4 September 2010: well that issue is up to you, if you want to go for him despite the distance then go for it, if you don't then I guess ya don't. ... (read in full...)
What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 2 September 2010: I love it! Congrats! I think you should ask him out next time you talk to him, you could be direct and ask him to a movie, dinner, mini golf, etc. Whatever activity you choose or you can just ask him to hang out and see if anything is there, which ... (read in full...)
What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 1 September 2010: you could ask him flat out like that, it would show confidence. Or you could ask someone that knows him if you're too shy to do that. ... (read in full...)
My friend doesn't take me seriously
Q. I've come to a conclusion that my friend doesn't take me seriously. we've been friends since we were 6, we are both 22 now. right now in my life I'm in college at an art school, doing p90x (an extreme workout video) and haven't been sleeping...
A. 1 September 2010: thats interesting that you mention you say that about girls you can't stand because when we were arguing that night I noticed she was talking about me in the tone she talks about people she hates and called her out on it. ... (read in full...)
Operation: Get BFF back
Q. My best friend seems to not like me anymore. I mean, she doesn't completely ignore me, like she responds if I ask her something, but she doesn't really hang out with me. We use to be really close and talk all the time and stuff, but now there is ...
A. 31 August 2010: Caringguy is right. Once you confront her you will know where you stand.
and its true that you will go through a lot of friends at your age. My bestfriend from ages of 13-15 is a girl who I barely talk to today, I'm 22 years old. My whole group of... (read in full...)
Tired of being dished the crap in relationships! How do I become a stronger woman?
Q. i need some advise. i am 28 yrs old and all ive ever done is let men run all over me in my relationships. how do i become that strong woman and put my foot down. im tired of crap...
A. 31 August 2010: stand up for yourself. its weird, but if you tell yourself "I am a stronger woman today, I won't let anyone walk all over me" everyday you will begin to believe it, its psychology. I think you should start with that.
next step is to start sa... (read in full...)
I have an uneasy feeling about her. Should I end this?
Q. TO STAY OR LET GO I have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly 4 years. She has two children, daughter 19 and son 13. They live with their father, why, because they choose to as their mother left father for me and he is good to them....
A. 31 August 2010: I think if there was any chance of her getting her family back she should. You are the other man, I know you're in love but do you want to be the reason a family is broken apart when they could have a chance to be whole again?
I think you should l... (read in full...)
Should she fight through the urge to pee during sex?
Q. Hi, so my question is when my GF and I have sex, she gets that sensation to wanna pee. So she'll stop and literally go pee(She actually pees) and comes back so we start again and she gets the same feeling again after a few minutes. I tell her to ...
A. 31 August 2010: well as long as you are okay with possibly getting peed on then I don't see a problem here, you will know for the future then if she's about to climax or if she really has to pee. go for it lol... (read in full...)
My parents found out about my boyfriend!
Q. He's been my secret boyfriend for a while now and I just tell my parents that he's my best friend. Today I wasn't so lucky because I was at the mall with him and so was my dad. He saw me and my boyfriend holding hands and kissing. My dad told my mom ...
A. 31 August 2010: your parents are probably more mad about you sneaking behind their backs then you actually dating someone. I think you should apologize for lying to them, because even lying by omission is lying, and ask them for forgiveness. Let them know how you ... (read in full...)
Why is he saying he doesn't deserve me?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years and recently he has been sayin that he doesn't deserve me. He keeps saying that I should break up with him and everything. I don't know if he doesn't love anymore or he wants to find some one new....
A. 31 August 2010: I'm guessing he secretly wants to break up with you and wants you to break up with him because he's probably feeling guilty about something and doesn't want to fess up to it.
I've used that line before with guys, I broke up with one of my past ... (read in full...)
Does anyone think I'm guaranteed to be pregnant now?
Q. I'm 14 and i've had a misscarriage before and it really hurt me as i'm a loving person i'm not a mad teenager who take's drug's or is out every night of the week drinking. I'm a quiet type of person i don't go out unless it's with my family. i like ...
A. 31 August 2010: I think its incredibly naive of you that you're trying to get pregnant at 14, I know you explained your justification of this but can you really afford to have a baby right now? You go to school I assume, are you planning on going to college? How do ... (read in full...)
I still can't stop obsessing over the past girls he's slept with
Q. My boyfriend and I have been official for 5 months, but have been "involved" for over a year. Before we were together, we had a fair amount of issues regarding other women and him lying. Ever since then, and even after we've become official, I still ...
A. 31 August 2010: I don't think this is his problem, I think you have the problem. Sorry to be blunt, but you have him now, not those girls. He fell for you, not those girls and if he did he doesn't love them anymore. He loves you.
Stop acting crazy, it will dri... (read in full...)
Should I just take my birth control pill whenever?
Q. Hey guys i need help. I have really irregular periods and it kills me i get moody have really painful cramps but i dont get my period until a month or 2 later. My doctor gave me birth control and told me to take it the sunday i get my period how ...
A. 31 August 2010: I think you should follow the instructions you were given and use protection in the meantime. Hopefully your period will come soon enough... (read in full...)
What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 31 August 2010: I think you should mention you two hanging out sometime, just be like "hey, we should get together sometime"... (read in full...)
This whole situation is messing with my head!
Q. I met this girl at a big bon fire about a year and a half back. we started dating less then a week after we met. we dated for 5 months, she got drunk, cheated and we broke up. almost no contact for a couple of months. we started talking again an...
A. 31 August 2010: it could be that she felt rejected that you didn't do more than making out with her, if thats the case then she should realize you were being respectful.
The best way to figure this out is to flat out ask her whats going on.
about the dru... (read in full...)
What do you think?
Q. guys, What do u think if a girl would tell u to go and visit her at night when her parents Are sleeping... But she has told you that there going to be outside just talking... and girls help plz..=]...
A. 31 August 2010: I am confused, so the parents are sleeping and talking outside? if thats the case then this girl isn't making sense.
But if you meant that her parents are sleeping she wants you to come over to talk outside with her, then that is all she wants. I... (read in full...)
My friend doesn't take me seriously
Q. I've come to a conclusion that my friend doesn't take me seriously. we've been friends since we were 6, we are both 22 now. right now in my life I'm in college at an art school, doing p90x (an extreme workout video) and haven't been sleeping...
A. 31 August 2010: tennistarr88, thank you so much for your response, it helps out a lot.
Its been bugging me for awhile and it does suck to have a person in your life who is only friends with you for themselves.
I never really considered her to be jealous of me... (read in full...)
I ain't playing games with her. I want answers from her!
Q. Hey, I'm 27 and have a 20 year old gal who it appears that only I refer to 'girlfriend', I never actually heard her saying in front of other people that I'm her boyfriend and we've been dating for like 5 months, and she's Danish. We really clicked, ...
A. 30 August 2010: I don't think you should stay with her just because you don't want it to fail, sometimes its out of your control. Remember, it takes two people to be in a happy relationship. If she isn't going to be a good girlfriend, wouldn't you rather be single ... (read in full...)
I think I am in love with a girl I consider my sister!
Q. Hi there world, i am actually a confused soul...and i need help to figure out my problem. quite recently, i made friends with a senior of mine in college, who used to intimidate me.. we grew close and soon we called each other sisters. thats h...
A. 30 August 2010: well if you are a lesbian you'd be okay with the idea of kissing her, being sexual with her and you'd find her attractive.
I think you are over joyed by the fact that you have a great friendship that's much better than others you've had.
... (read in full...)
I think my daughters friend was sexually molested
Q. is this normal? My daughter who is nine had her ten year old friend over the other day. They were playing on the slip and slide in the backyard. I looked out in the backyard and the ten year old is sitting with her legs spread with a big smile on ...
A. 30 August 2010: it could be normal, her just discovering herself. However, the bowel thing is concerning. I think you shouldn't say anything until you have more facts, don't jump to conclusions.
But that this is not your daughter and you don't know her medical ... (read in full...)
How do I stop him from ruining his life?
Q. Please help everyone! I'm in a pretty tough situation. My best friend and me have fallen out because he admitted that he felt for me as more than just a friend, but i already had a boyfirend. I tried to handle the situation the best way i could, but ...
A. 30 August 2010: hoenstly I think he's cold towards you because you rejected him, not because of the drugs.
weed doesn't make people cold hearted typically, sometimes sure, but in general it makes people chill, lazy and paranoid.
Unless he's on a harder drug... (read in full...)
What's it like losing your virginity?
Q. so im talking to this guy about having sex with him so i can have a first time. i really like him but i dont think he feels the same way.. he is only 2 years older than me. should i have sex with him? he is in college and im a junior. and how bad ...
A. 30 August 2010: I tell this to all virgins: Don't have sex just to lose your virginity. Keep it until you find a guy you love.
I'm a hypocrite saying that, because I did lose it just to lose it. BUT I REGRET DOING THAT.
but to answer your question, its al... (read in full...)
Help, should I call the cops? I think I'm being stalked.
Q. Okay so one day these boys Rode past my house while I was practicing dance with my little sister in my yard They rode up to us and where like I can do that dance, And i was like, Show me! (I'm friendly, And Ballet is my LIFE) So then they ca...
A. 26 August 2010: thats no good, well lesson learned...next time refrain from being too friendly with random strangers. I'm the same way though, on the city bus I was too chit chatty with a guy and before I knew it it was creepville USA.
however for your situatio... (read in full...)
Man wants to steal my cousin's child. What can we do?
Q. My cousin put another mans name on the birth certificate, now this man is tryin to steal her child. He refuses to give her baby back. My cousin is 17 and this man is 24 and he knows he is not the child. The child is in his possesion right now and ...
A. 26 August 2010: well first off, stop putting the wrong name on the birth certificate, its reasons like this that we don't do that.
However, how did he find out? why did your cousin decide to do that? She can go to the police and tell them her child has been kid... (read in full...)
Still love my ex but he seems to be with another girl. How do I know? What do I do?
Q. My ex and i were together for a few years; I was very young when i met him..learned from my mistakes and really think things can be different this time. We have been talking on and off for about a year. He told me this is hard for him and he buried ...
A. 26 August 2010: I'm curious, why are you so okay with being his consolation prize? Its pretty clear that this other girl is more important to him if he doesn't see you while she's here.
Also, don't assume that they are always together even if she is still he... (read in full...)
Should I wait for my GF to decide she wants me back?
Q. Update: my girlfriend and I have dated for four months I couldn't help myself and texted her today and told her that I removed the text block and asked her to call me. She did call and I asked her these quesions: told her I missed her, she said s...
A. 26 August 2010: she already let you know...you asked her if she wanted to keep dating you and she said yes, then she told you maybe thursday or saturday.
You are with her. you're seeing her soon. Have fun, don't smother her though, give her space to breathe ... (read in full...)
I like this guy and we've been IMing, but how should I start dating him?
Q. hey so i just turned a sophmore a this guy who went to the same drivers ed with me and goes to a school very near to ours has been IMing all summer. I really like him and im quite sure he likes me but he hasnt really made a big hint just little ...
A. 24 August 2010: You could do both, they are both separate approaches to getting your man.
However, the direct way will save you time and you could end up dating him sooner, but the risk is that you might scare him away.
With the subtle approach of just... (read in full...)
Stop looking and it will happen???
Q. Good evening, Dear Cupid Community: My problem is that I'm too "friendly". Or it seems this way. Girls always look at me as a friend. I ask you this: Who you rather date somebody you helps you with you problems or talks to you often, and cares ab...
A. 24 August 2010: I ask you this, do you want a girlfriend just to have a girlfriend or are you willing to wait for the girl who you'll end up with? Don't settle :)
My best advice for you is to focus on yourself, forget about trying to find a girlfriend. When thi... (read in full...)
Is it normal for men to masturbate to other woman in relationships?
Q. Is it normal for men to masturbate to girls that they know and are attracted to while in a relationship? Do women also fantasize about other men that they know while they are in a relationship?...
A. 22 August 2010: it depends on how open minded the relationship is. There are no 'right and wrong' rules in general, the rules are placed between two people and how they communicate and how their specific relationship is.
Personally, I don't think I'd be okay wit... (read in full...)
Scared of guys?? is that possible?
Q. Ok so i'll explain a lil about how i feel... so first of all, im 21 female. I have this thing with guys that i dont feel comfortable to see one naked, I dont like hairy guys either(under arm, chest...)and am totaly attracted to dark colored guys ...
A. 22 August 2010: Well think about being sexual with a female, does that make your feelings more at ease? If so, perhaps you might be a lesbian.
Some girls and people don't like sex, its rare but it happens. Perhaps you haven't found that special someone yet, som... (read in full...)
Why do guys want to watch girls masterbate?
Q. Why do guys like to watch girls masterbate? I mean I don't really mind it,but it's a bit awkward to me. I'd rather you finger me then me finger myself. I wouldn't ask a guy to jerk off or something while I'm there when I know he'd rather me do it ...
A. 22 August 2010: I know a guy like this, but its all about who the guy is, what his preference is and what turns him on. Some girls are actually turned on by a guy getting turned on by this. ... (read in full...)
What now?
Q. ok so like this girl and told her so and she said she only liked me as a friend so i guess the question is what now? i mean i've "come to terms" with her decision i can't help so again, what now?...
A. 22 August 2010: respect her decision. thats all you can do. You can either decide to stick around hoping she'll change her mind, or you can open your heart to other girls. good luck.... (read in full...)
We had a disagreement and I haven't heard from her since, what should I do?
Q. Dear cupids, I just got back from playing Bingo at this bar with my best friend and her boyfriend. There has been some underlying issues with my best friend and me for awhile now. I walked out of the place pissed off and offended at what she said...
A. 22 August 2010: Thanks guys! Well right after this happened and I wrote this my sister had her baby and this didn't seem as important anymore. Eventually I talked to my friend and told her that my sister had a baby girl named Violet.
I decided to still be her f... (read in full...)
Periods while pregnant
Q. can you have periods and still be pregnant because i just came off my period and took 2 different tests and they were both posative but i aint had sex this month...
A. 18 August 2010: its rare bur sometimes happens when girls get a light period, as in very light.... (read in full...)
Falling in love with my "non-serious boyfriend."
Q. [OP original title] Back Story: I met this person at a bar. Went home with him. Slept with him. Hung out the next weekend. Had the conversation that neither of us was looking for anything serious. My reasoning: I was freshly out of a mar...
A. 17 August 2010: the right thing to do is to tell him, he deserves to know. Just tell him that your feelings for him have grown stronger since you spend so much time together, ask him if his feelings has changed and go from there. Prepare yourself for the worst and ... (read in full...)
Does "I don't know" , mean she doesn't want to be in a relationship?
Q. Okay, people of dearcupid, I have a question. I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 5 months now and all has been more than good in my eyes but I have a few questions on things that have came up to stress to you to possibly get your ...
A. 17 August 2010: I think you should give her some time but not too much time. Let her know that waiting for her answer is hurting you and it would be helpful if she made up her mind about the two of you.... (read in full...)
Do I trust him or is he a player??
Q. Is there really anyway to tell the diffrence between being too untrusting/paranoid. Verse intuetion? If so how do you tell? Seriously, I'm very quick to catch on, see what's the truth or lies, and I've been threw and seen it all. I thought I can't ...
A. 16 August 2010: with me, my intuition is usually a nagging feeling that tells me that there is some redflag about the guy. A month ago I met this guy who on paper seemed great, he was cute, in person he was lovely and we had a good time. However my gut kept this ... (read in full...)
Seem to have lost the spark after 2 years of dating. Is this normal?
Q. hey everyone, So here's the deal. Me and my girlfriend have been dating 2 years now and I guess that the "spark" is kinda gone but we still love each other. Is this normal after a couple years? Please let me know ya'lls opinions. Thanks...
A. 16 August 2010: yeah...you are out of the 'honeymoon' phase and have proceeded to the commitment phase. This is the part where you work at the relationship and work at finding that spark again.
... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm too young, should I give up?
Q. I play baseball on a co-head team and I'v started getting close with one of the guys on the team. Needless to say we've had sex a few times now. Wouldn't be so bad if I wouldn't start having feelings for him. Biggest problem here is that i'm 17 and ...
A. 16 August 2010: it really is about what this guy thinks. It doesn't matter what we say here on dearcupid, the bottom line is that this guy is uncomfortable with this age gap and I don't think there is much you can do to change that.
I do agree with you that 6 y... (read in full...)
Desperately need an opinion, things seem to be getting out of hand
Q. [Mod Note - OP's own title] I have been with my second boyfriend for a year and 8 months, we have never had the perfect relationship but i have found a level of comfort in him that makes me feel like it could be worth while. He was the first pers...
A. 16 August 2010: Not to offend you or anything, but have you considered that he might have a mental disorder such as bipolar or something? He must have anger issues considering he kept hitting himself.
This is a scary situation, and he seems like he could be... (read in full...)
Should I wait while he gets over his ex?
Q. [Mod note - OP's own title] Hello... So, there's this guy... We have dated before about two months ago, it only lasted a couple weeks. We decided to break up because he was still in love with his ex... We stayed good friends. His ex is in a relatio...
A. 16 August 2010: the number one thing I noticed was that you don't think much of yourself. You're probably a great person, don't compare yourself to her and I know its hard not to since he's in love with her.
but face it, "he's just not that into you". A guy who ... (read in full...)
Does having sex while on my period pose a health risk?
Q. Dear folks. Is sex during periods(w/out a condom)a health risk?...
A. 16 August 2010: person12345 is right, put some towels down...it gets messy but because everything is so sensitive down there during that time the sex can be pretty amazing... (read in full...)
Worried my partner is cheating on me due to his erratic behavior.
Q. my partner has cheated before and i took him back. i have caught him out with other lies again. even lying to me about why he has stripppers ph numbers. i question him about things and he yells at me and says he is sick of being question and ...
A. 16 August 2010: just from the small description you gave it sounds like he's most definitely cheating.
my father cheated on my mother and they were together for awhile before my mom faced reality. I hadn't known this until they divorced, however while growing ... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and a virgin!
Q. i'm 19, a virgin, and deeply ashamed to be one. what's worse, is that I have absolutely no experience, not only when it comes to sex, but with anything concerning affection (kissing, ect). recently i've been talking to this guy and I think something ...
A. 16 August 2010: being 19 and a virgin is not a bad thing! a lot of people think this but really it is all about how you present it, just like with everything in life. If you're confident about it, and area virgin by choice, usually its more attractive to the guy ... (read in full...)
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