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writes:Ok so i'll explain a lil about how i feel... so first of all, im 21 female. I have this thing with guys that i dont feel comfortable to see one naked, I dont like hairy guys either(under arm, chest...)and am totaly attracted to dark colored guys more than white, but im totally not racist. I have had so far 3 dating guys and 1 real boyfriend. I love to make out, but I have never enjoyed sex and dont feel anything when guys play with my boobs or finger me. I am discusted just to think of oral sex. My boyfriend says he feels im scared when about to have sex, but why? Lately i've been thinking that maybe im lesbian, or is it just because im not ready to have a boyfriend? or do i need more experience?!? I need help Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): thanks a lot for the help! and i guess i was raised as seeing sex in a bad way. but as "bernard" said, i guess also i am scared of dicks... wich makes things even worst!!
now all i have to do is try out with a girl see how that goes!
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (22 August 2010):
 Well think about being sexual with a female, does that make your feelings more at ease? If so, perhaps you might be a lesbian.
Some girls and people don't like sex, its rare but it happens. Perhaps you haven't found that special someone yet, someone you're over the moon for.
It does not sound like you're scared, it sounds like sex grosses you out. Another thing could be how you were raised to view sex. If you were raised to think that sex might be an icky thing, then perhaps this is why you're feeling like this as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): Whenever you were describing what kind of man you like to date its sounds like you're picky [which isnt bad as long as you can compromise about some things]. I wouldnt want a hairy man either, but some women like chest hair,ect. Maybe the man you are with does not fit you're physical needs. But sex is something that you should do with someone that you love. Do love the man you are with? If its not that then maybe you are scared to have sex and need more experience. I dont think you are scared of guys because you have had boyfriends, I just think your nervous about sex. I wish you the best of luck.:]
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