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*obertEvans
writes:Update: my girlfriend and I have dated for four monthsI couldn't help myself and texted her today and told her that I removed the text block and asked her to call me. She did call and I asked her these quesions:told her I missed her, she said she misses me also!!Asked if she met, dated or saw another guy: she said noasked if she still really likes me alot like she did when we met: she said yesasked if she still wants to continue to date me and see me: and she said yesasked if when I can see her: she said maybe thurs or satI asked her how school and counseling was also and she said good and we talked a little about that.I told her that I had never been through anything like this and felt I wasn't doing a good job of giving her time and she said I had been very patient with her.Also asked her when she would unblock me from Facebook: she said sometime she would but didn't say whenthe only thing I am concerned about is seeing her. Alot of times I get anxious and ask the day may be getting together and then she sometimes says she can't see me that day. What should I do about this situation? Should I not ask and wait for her to let me know if we are getting together or not? Should I text her sometimes or always wait for her to text me then respond?
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reader, James the Rocket  +, writes (28 August 2010):
I got a shock when I checked your age! I thought it was teenager asking this.
She is considering unblocking you from Facebook? The problem with Facebook is that everyone can see it. They can see who your friends are. She probably has a boyfriend or other guys she is into... her hesitation is a red flag.
Women love Facebook. That's why they are so blatant and then just say to their men "it's just friendship". there is nothing the man can do and ten before you know it, they are meeting the guy.
If you want to have some fun, go for it. But if you get back into a relationship with her, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (26 August 2010):
 she already let you know...you asked her if she wanted to keep dating you and she said yes, then she told you maybe thursday or saturday.
You are with her. you're seeing her soon. Have fun, don't smother her though, give her space to breathe :)
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reader, Supasquid  +, writes (26 August 2010):
It depends why you broke up. If she cheated, was violent, or even psychotic then maybe you should take more time and see if you can meet anyone else. If you just broke up because it was one of those things then go for it but set some rules and boundaries to avoid the same mistakes that were made between you two before.
Also decide whether you want a one strike, two strike, or three strike system with her before you guys pull out for good.
You never know... it could be a happily ever after scenario... but remember love isnt easy, it takes work, thats what makes it so special!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): Men like women are afraid of rejection; as strange as it may be or admit to!
To base my thoughts is in referral to the question and the attitude that she has show.
1/ Actions speak louder than words; and in this case she hasn't followed through with what she says shes "going" to do v. what she has done.
Time to bite the bullet move on and if she contacts you again then just treat her as a friend ( as hard as it may be).
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