Is my mind playing tricks on me? I think my teacher is flirting with me!
Q. I have had a little crush on one of my teachers for quite a while. He is quite young for a teacher, and i was his first ever class to teach when i was in second year of high school (im in scotland so i was 13/14 at the time) i didnt have him as a ...
A. 17 October 2010: sounds like you both are dancing on thin water here. He is risking his career on you a little bit and I hope you don't let him.
Think about the age of the teacher and is it appropriate for him to be attracted to a 16 year old girl?
I remem... (read in full...)
When his daughter is here I'm invisible!
Q. I hate to be 'one of those women', but I don't understand why I feel this way. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. We both have one child from previous relationships. He a daughter (4) and I a son (3). We have also been living ...
A. 8 October 2010: What does your boyfriend do when his daughter back talks you and says "leave my dad alone"? If he sits there quietly...that is weird.
It sounds like he is a loving father but maybe more of a friend to his daughter than an authority figure. ... (read in full...)
He has photos of his ex in his album and I don't like it!
Q. i am in a long distance relationship and have been for over a year, we see each other twice a month 3 to 4 days at a time, he has called me every night since we met. My problem is just last week he began putting photos in his family album and I saw ...
A. 8 October 2010: dirtball makes great sense, at first I thought maybe an ex girlfriend it was odd but once you mentioned 'ex wife' I understood where he is coming from.
My dad and mom have been divorced for four years. They are still great friends. My dad just got... (read in full...)
She rejected me, is there any way to salvage our relationship?
Q. Good evening people! I need some advice here - just like everyone else posting on this website. I've fallen for one of my closest female friends. The rumours were circling around the school were quite rife, so she already /kind of/ knew befor...
A. 8 October 2010: she told you flat out that she didn't want a relationship...unless she's playing super hard to get, i doubt it. You were friends first so the concerned thing could have been because you two are friends and she was trying to be a good friend, ... (read in full...)
My life is a mess and I feel trapped! HELP!
Q. I'm 17, and I just can't DO this anymore. I don't know. I'm so bored, alone. Trapped in my city and I hate it so much. The only thing keeping me going is the promise of going to Univerisy next year, but that's stressing me out and I don't know. I'm ...
A. 8 October 2010: It sounds like you're depressed. Perhaps you could go see a therapist about it. If that is not possible, then you'll have to make your own efforts to see the bright side of things.
Make a list of everything you love and enjoy out of life. it... (read in full...)
I want to stop my daughter from making a big mistake!
Q. My 20 yr old daughter is making the biggest mistake of her life, I know that everyone says kids need to learn by their mistakes and I totally agree but not when it can ruin their future. 5 months ago she came home and told us that she was dating a...
A. 8 October 2010: Dirtball makes good points, sad but true, she probably won't listen and want him more if you forbid it. She must be very naive but eventually will realize and learn the hard way and unfortunately you might have to sit back and watch it happen ... (read in full...)
My 1st cousin and I want to be together. How do we tell the family?
Q. I am 26 years old with 2 children from previous abusive and abandoning relationships. I have recently got back in touch with my 1st cousin. Someone I use to be very close to. We loved each other and cared so much for each other during our younger ...
A. 7 October 2010: this is ridiculous, I honestly know that cousins do fall in love sometimes and crazily enough that's not the ridiculous part I'm referring to. The crazy part is that you think that GOD brought you together, did he drive you to his place and said ... (read in full...)
My family adopted an 11 year old boy who is attracted to me and won't leave me alone!
Q. hi everyone, I'm feeling really awkward right now, and it's been going on for quite some time. My family adopted an eleven year old boy (who resembles Dominic Scott Kay to me) and he's just gotten into 6th grade. He's sweet and smart, and definitely ...
A. 7 October 2010: I agree with the rest of the advice, its not like your parents are going to 'unadopt' him, so you're not ruining anything, your concern will be more helpful in the long run.... (read in full...)
Is my mind playing tricks on me? I think my teacher is flirting with me!
Q. I have had a little crush on one of my teachers for quite a while. He is quite young for a teacher, and i was his first ever class to teach when i was in second year of high school (im in scotland so i was 13/14 at the time) i didnt have him as a ...
A. 7 October 2010: sounds like it could be in your head, but maybe not.
pay attention to how he treats other students in the classroom, does he get real close when he talks to other girls? Also, do your friends notice the extra treatment he gives you? I know you... (read in full...)
We feel like roommates and he's very critical of me.
Q. I am unsure what to do in regards to my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for almost 2 years, yet it's more like we are roommates now instead of lovers. We haven't had sex in months, partially because I have been off the pill ...
A. 7 October 2010: Have you tried bringing this up with him? communication is the best resort to regaining your relationship with him.
if that doesn't work...its going to be very hard to do anything about it.
If you don't want to talk to him directly about i... (read in full...)
I regret it all, what do I do?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we have had many many highs and equal lows. I've always been a very friendly girl to other guys (but have never flirted or cheated) but he has never liked it. I love him incredibly. In the past ye...
A. 30 September 2010: in a four year relationship it is quite normal to feel things for other people, you did the right thing by not acting on those feelings.
your boyfriend is over reacting in my opinion, I think its a sign that he CAN trust you that you had feelings... (read in full...)
One night stand with my friend
Q. Last week i made a big mistake , i had a 1 night stand with a male friend of mine. Since that night he has asked me to move in with him, told me he will treat me like a queen. I really don't know what to do?...
A. 30 September 2010: sounds like he thought it meant more than you did. you need to talk to him about this pronto.... (read in full...)
Advice on getting a boyfriend?
Q. ok right im 16 years old and ive never had a boyfriend im not hidius looking and im a bit on the chubby side but all through high school no boys have ever really been interested in me i dont know what to do and how to get a boyfriend please help me ...
A. 30 September 2010: stop looking. Thats the best advice, focus on yourself and other things that you can get that you have control over, like good grades, a part time job, set your goals for life and with that your confidence will go up and you will start attracted the ... (read in full...)
What do women really, actually want?
Q. Why do women so often say they want things that aren't the man himself, e.g. clothes, tatoos, car, house, money, job, hairstyle? If you ask a man what he really wants, he wants a good looking, healthy woman who doesn't actually need makeup, or ...
A. 30 September 2010: it comes down to chemistry... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to men, but don't want to be!
Q. I really hope i dont offend any one so I appologies if I do. I am 38 years old and always had some sexual attraction to men. Its always been just sexual never wanted to date anyone that is. I dont want to be gay and in my family life it would not be ...
A. 30 September 2010: I know you didn't want to hear 'be true to yourself' but you will be happier if you do embrace that.
now to the advice you wanted..
There isn't an easy way to pretend to be someone you're not. Its going to be hard and you're not going to be ... (read in full...)
He only talks about sex, does he love me?
Q. Hi. There's a guy whom i met 2 months bk. Hez been askn me out since nd i rejected him several times bt he has not given up. I acpted him 2 wiks bak nd we had sex 3 time nd lately, what he talks about is only sex. Does he luv me?...
A. 30 September 2010: There is not enough detail here to tell you honestly. if he really only talks about sex, probably doesn't love you. but that is the asnwer you're going to get without more detail given :/... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to transsexuals, but I'm afraid that my interest might be considered insulting
Q. Hi there, I'm a young woman, I look feminine and pretty, in a girl-next-door way. Everyone who doesn't know better is mistaking me for "straight". But I've got a secret, and I don't know who to talk to. I'm known to be bisexual, but if I am re...
A. 30 September 2010: I know it doesn't say you're from america, but in america, atleast where I live there is a place called LGBT and its an organization specifically for lesbians, gays, bisexuals and transexuals/transgenders.
... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to transsexuals, but I'm afraid that my interest might be considered insulting
Q. Hi there, I'm a young woman, I look feminine and pretty, in a girl-next-door way. Everyone who doesn't know better is mistaking me for "straight". But I've got a secret, and I don't know who to talk to. I'm known to be bisexual, but if I am re...
A. 28 September 2010: I don't think that would be insulting at all...why would you being attracted insult anyone?
being attracted to someone is flattering, even if they don't feel the same way.
Some might be into a straight man, straight woman and want to be seen ... (read in full...)
Are her parents holding us back?
Q. I have fallen in love and started a relationship with a girl 12 years my junior. i'm 31 and she is 19. We get on so well, we can talk to each other about anything, we share similar interests, we enjoy each others company. we both feel the same about ...
A. 27 September 2010: well, her parents won't be a problem if they are ignorant about the situation and as it is, until she has enough money to support herself and her daughter in their own house, its going to have to stay this way. it is easiest, perhaps when she moves ... (read in full...)
Is it realistic for me to hold out for the day that he isn't selfish?
Q. My boyfriend has always been quite selfish. Not in a terrible way. But he does continue to put himself first. Even when I really really need him. I asked him to come over the other day as I had had an awful day and just needed comforting. He had ...
A. 27 September 2010: no. usually people don't suddenly change.... (read in full...)
Have I done something wrong.. I am not able to decide for myself...Please help
Q. Hi, I had a good relationship with my ex-gf(that's what I always thought) but when I started my new job, I was unable to spend the same amount of time with her as I previously did. Meanwhile, she got close to my best friend(Mr. A). She used to ...
A. 26 September 2010: your first mistake was the swapping. NEVER allow your girlfriend to cheat on you, that makes you the worlds biggest pushover. Even if she gave you miss B for you...she ended up using her against you later on anyhow. NOT WORTH IT.
what the hell... (read in full...)
Why does it matter if I feel sorry for her or not I slept with her husband!
Q. I never experienced the crazy baby mother drama but I have experienced the crazy wife drama. I started seeing this married man for 3yrs. We had a lovely relationship, lived 2gather and everything. My cousious got the best of me and we decided to ...
A. 26 September 2010: you feel sorry for her because you have a conscience. You broke it off with this man because I can only assume you knew it was wrong that you were with a married man. you did the right thing and clearly his wife still doesn't trust her husband and ... (read in full...)
I don't deserve to be treated like this!
Q. My husband and I been together for 4 years now, but most of it was while he was incarerasted. Weve been only married for almost 2 years now. He got out a few months ago and we been only living together just under 2 months and weve been fighting like ...
A. 26 September 2010: Don't enable the sex and leave routine he developed.
I like the idea of stop talking to him for awhile, it will show him that you're serious about him changing his behavior.
He sounds immature and well, mean. The contact with his exes thing i... (read in full...)
Pregnancy pains that wont go away
Q. I am 7mths pregnant and noticing I can't sleep at all at night and when I do I wake up with severe leg cramps. Now I'm noticing I'm getting them throught out the day too. I have pain in my butt and pain in my back. My doctor said its the baby ...
A. 26 September 2010: have you asked your doctor any home remedies that may help?
Avoid standing or sitting with your legs crossed for long periods of time, Stretch your calf muscles regularly during the day and several times before you go to bed, Rotate your ankles a... (read in full...)
Could he have meant it when he said "I love you"?
Q. Ok so I'm with this gorgeous, intelligent, and delicious latino man and everything's been good for eight months. We have 14yrs between us but we get along well (if he doesn't play 80s music and I don't try to show him the loveliness of Il Divo ...
A. 26 September 2010: it sounds like its definitely a possibility that he's in love with you, if not maybe he's falling for you or starting to.
But I have no idea whether its a cultural thing or not. ... (read in full...)
What were you like as a teenager?
Q. I have recently have been thinking about my teenage years since now I am a young adult and I have been thinking about what I expected when I turned 16. I live in a small town but the teens here were weird. They were the party girls who slept with ...
A. 26 September 2010: There is nothing wrong with you if you didn't sleep with six guys each week and drank and smoked, in fact thats awesome
Keep on doing the right thing and your life will be a lot easier. Its nice that you can look back and not have regrets about sl... (read in full...)
Personality change for the worse?
Q. Hey I've just started my third year of high school. I havea friend I met in my first year who I'm sort of close with. At the beginning she was shy, but polite and I (recently having been through a family ordeal) was aggressive and outspoken. Being ...
A. 23 September 2010: the only person that knows what really is going on is well, your friend who changed.
my advice is to confront her about it in a nice, calm, mature way. That way, she is less likely to attack and swear at you.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have sexual thoughts just out of the blue?
Q. Is it normal to have sexual fantasies/thoughts while doing everday things? such as school or just sitting at home watching TV? It's been happening to me alot lately. No I'm not sexually active as a matter of fact I'm still a virgin - I've never had ...
A. 23 September 2010: B13....on the contrary it is normal to not have a boyfriend at this age. (18-21). ... (read in full...)
I'm very attached to my boyfriend! how can I get over this?
Q. Thanks for taking the time to read my question! Well, there's a somewhat emotional issue I've been trying to deal with over the last couple months that has been bugging me quite a bit...and it's gotten better, but I thought maybe some of you guys...
A. 23 September 2010: well you're three steps ahead so that's good. You admit that you have a problem, you already try to control that problem and you know where it comes from.
This alone will help your relationship. Maybe you could talk to your boyfriend about th... (read in full...)
I lied about what a looked like and now he is mad! how can I get him back?
Q. Hello everyone one thank you for taking the time to read my question first i want to give you some info...So i met this guy like a week an half ago on the internet an we been talking ever since..We have a lot of chemistry talk every single day for ...
A. 21 September 2010: lesson learned: don't pretend to be someone you're not.
... (read in full...)
How can I stop acting this way so I can show how I actually feel?
Q. Last night I said something really silly to my boyfriend which I think came across as me not wanting much of a commitment with him. This is far from the truth - in fact he is the only guy who has ever felt right to me. Every other guy I've dated ...
A. 21 September 2010: well if you think he's too good for you, then maybe you react this way because you can't believe how lucky you are?
or maybe you can make some comments yourself about moving in and getting married to get the balance back. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried we might be getting married too soon, but he has told me he will break up with me if I don't marry him!
Q. hi, i really need help with this. time is runing out. i am so in love with my guy.i never had such a deep feeling of love from anyone. we are like magic together. we got engaged on july 4th . i was very happy. we started dating in nov. [8 months] ...
A. 20 September 2010: I think its unfair of him to give you an ultimatum like that, get married or break up? So pretty much, all or nothing sort of deal. That puts you in an unfair situation.
I think you should talk with him and explain that you don't think that you... (read in full...)
My wife wants to turn gay!
Q. why does my wife want to turn in a gay lover and do not want any part of me .We have one child she some time talk to me nice and thentalk to me like a pig .We been with each other for 15 years and now she do not love me . can anyone tell me why ? i ...
A. 18 September 2010: are you saying your wife told you she has a gay lover? and now you are wondering why she doesn't love you?
the answer is simple, she's not straight. she's gay. It seemed to have taken her 15 years to figure this out, but unfortunately you'll h... (read in full...)
What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 18 September 2010: awesome!! that's so great! I think that you should pick a day that works for the both of you and a day where you can spend a lot of time together since you live so far apart, the time spent together is more meaningful then. and HAVE FUN!!! ... (read in full...)
I'm too old to get pregnant at 39, right?
Q. I thought i already post last 2 days ago and i cant find my post so here i am again writing again. Hello to all, i just wanna ask something. I am 39 years old. 4 days after my days i took a pills. But then i realize i am already old so i stop my...
A. 17 September 2010: My aunt got pregnant at 40. You are able to get pregnant until you go through menopause. Have you gone through menopause yet?
... (read in full...)
After 9 years, I want the same feeling as the first time we met!
Q. I've been married 9 years now. My husband says I lov you, only when getting off the phone, leaving, or going to bed. I know he says I love you, but is he still "IN LOVE" with me? We have 4 boys, work different shifts, hectic schedules. I've caught ...
A. 13 September 2010: sounds like the change you need is just to spice your love life up, its hard in this busy world and especially once kids are introduced, because then its not always about you two as a couple but you two with your family (children).
The porn thi... (read in full...)
My wife wants another man and ok'd it. I think she may fall in love with him. What do I do?
Q. I need advice. My wife wants to have a real relationship with another man and I have sanctioned it. Am I crazy or a great husband? We have been married for over 20 years. I want her to have it all. I have not been perfect. Far from it. She st...
A. 13 September 2010: number one mistake: you approved of her cheating.
I'm sorry, but you are an incredible FOOL. Also, you seem like a doormat and she probably sees that she can do WHATEVER she wants, as long as she says "I'll be happy" with no regard to your fee... (read in full...)
I cannot hate my family because he does!
Q. My boyfriend of almost 4 years and I have been going through a tough time recently. For the past year my mother has been dying slowly due to cancer. Its all over her body and there isnt an "if" but a "when" in this situation. For me, being very ...
A. 13 September 2010: this guy sounds controlling, I'd first let him know that your family is important to you and that if he can't find a way to get a long with them then it'll be hard to continue dating. ... (read in full...)
I cannot hate my family because he does!
Q. My boyfriend of almost 4 years and I have been going through a tough time recently. For the past year my mother has been dying slowly due to cancer. Its all over her body and there isnt an "if" but a "when" in this situation. For me, being very ...
A. 13 September 2010: this guy sounds controlling, I'd first let him know that your family is important to you and that if he can't find a way to get a long with them then it'll be hard to continue dating. ... (read in full...)
She blamed her actions on a panic attack?
Q. Ok.My girlfriend and I are both 50 years old.she lives 120 miles away.We have been going out for almost 3 years.We broke up at least 8 times.We just broke up again 3 weeks ago .I think its for good this time.I hope.But it dosint make sence this ...
A. 13 September 2010: miamme has a good point... (read in full...)
I'm scared of being pregnant even though we still had clothes on
Q. Hi Im 16 and about 3 days ago I went to my bf's house...I don't know if im making a bit of a fuss about this but when we went to his room..we started kissing and stuff like that..i climbed on top of him and he was in his boxers and I was in my skirt ...
A. 11 September 2010: do you have a reason for thinking you're pregnant? Are you even showing symptoms?
(upset stomach, fatigue, breast hurting, missed period, etc)
There is a really slim chance you're pregnant. Especially that you still had panties on under your sk... (read in full...)
My girlfriend hugs other guys
Q. Ok, so basically my girlfriend hugs other guys. And quite frankly i wouldn't care as long as she didnt do it in front of me or told me about. But there's the problem, she does just that. I have told her numerous times that i don't like it,but she ...
A. 11 September 2010: yeah! a hug is a hug, my goodness. Friends hug. Family hug. no big deal at all.... (read in full...)
What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 8 September 2010: hmm, well you can either take the leader role and get everyone from camp to cooperate to get together or you can go for just you and him. Either way, you will get to spend time with him, the one on one would be more focused on you two though.
... (read in full...)
She blamed her actions on a panic attack?
Q. Ok.My girlfriend and I are both 50 years old.she lives 120 miles away.We have been going out for almost 3 years.We broke up at least 8 times.We just broke up again 3 weeks ago .I think its for good this time.I hope.But it dosint make sence this ...
A. 6 September 2010: sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants, I'd call her on it. Ask her straight up why she keeps doing this to you.... (read in full...)
She blamed her actions on a panic attack?
Q. Ok.My girlfriend and I are both 50 years old.she lives 120 miles away.We have been going out for almost 3 years.We broke up at least 8 times.We just broke up again 3 weeks ago .I think its for good this time.I hope.But it dosint make sence this ...
A. 6 September 2010: Isn't it overreacting a bit that you changed your number? You simply could have asked her why she ignored you instead of blocking her out of your life. You clearly care about his person, so why run and avoid the situation instead of confronting it ... (read in full...)
What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 4 September 2010: well it can be that easy, when you are talking on facebook you can mention getting together and see how he responds to that.
and you're welcome :) I hope this works for you !... (read in full...)
What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 4 September 2010: well that issue is up to you, if you want to go for him despite the distance then go for it, if you don't then I guess ya don't. ... (read in full...)
What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 2 September 2010: I love it! Congrats! I think you should ask him out next time you talk to him, you could be direct and ask him to a movie, dinner, mini golf, etc. Whatever activity you choose or you can just ask him to hang out and see if anything is there, which ... (read in full...)
What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 1 September 2010: you could ask him flat out like that, it would show confidence. Or you could ask someone that knows him if you're too shy to do that. ... (read in full...)
What should I do next? should I ask him out?
Q. Okay. So I went away to a pgl action adventure camp two weeks ago and i loved it. However something or rather someone has got me going mad. I met this guy on the second night - Monday - and I thought he was pretty cool but didnt really think much ...
A. 31 August 2010: I think you should mention you two hanging out sometime, just be like "hey, we should get together sometime"... (read in full...)
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