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Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 24 March 2008: That is so good to hear you are at peace. I agree with Pericles that short posts mean peace. Savour every moment darling and enjoy because YOU ARE WORTH IT! Happy easter from Australia!... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 14 March 2008: Wow ringing you at 3am just shows the lack of respect. He is probably hoping that if you answer the phone at this hour you will be not thinking of a defensive response. I would get an answering machine, turn the phone to silent ring tone overnight ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 12 March 2008: He was expecting a card or phone call from you and when that didn't happen he felt the loss of power and control over you. He used GUILT AND PITY to make you see HIS emotions without considering yours. SORRY PHASE. NEXT IS BUYBACK PHASE. He is ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 12 March 2008: I am so proud of you. You had enough strength to not send the card. It is ok to buy it and your instincts told you not to follow through. That is a positive step. Another positive thing would be to keep a journal. On one half of the book you can ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 10 March 2008: Glad I was able to help. To have moments when you feel like caving in and going back is to admit you are human. You know the emotional cost you have put into the relationship is what makes you falter but this is when you should just do nothing. Your ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 9 March 2008: Thankyou for posting and letting me know you are ok. Keep posting as rcn and myself genuinely care about seeing you in a better place. Information you are gathering will strengthen you in addition to doing some work with yourself. I mean building ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 9 March 2008: Wow I am so proud of you for going to the library and reading up on domestic violence related issues. I am getting goosebumps and tears of joy in my eyes. You are on the road to recovery. Once I armed myself with literature and books on the subject ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 6 March 2008: Hey I hope you are doing ok and come back and let us know how you are going. I see you are getting your strength back and just want to say how proud I am of you. I left my abusive ex husband 3 years ago and there were many times I had this crazy ... (read in full...)
Are there signs that she might be interested?
Q. Hi All, Bit of a long story this one but I think you’ll find it amusing if nothing else! I really like this girl. I’m fine chatting to her and joking around but there are moments where I get confused… Is she interested? Is she just being ni...
A. 22 February 2008: Gday mate just wanted to have an update on how things are going with you and this special girl that has you wound up in knots. Let us know how things have progressed. I am curious as we haven't heard from you for awhile so maybe this is good because ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 22 February 2008: Going to the library is such a positive step for you. Arming yourself with as much literature on emotionally abusive relationships will have a twofold effect. One it will provide you with information on all the tools manipulative people use to soul ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 22 February 2008: Wow it sounds like you have been through alot of pain in your seven years with this coke addicted man. I would say the selfishness within him was present before the cocaine and the cocaine has just emphasised it and enhanced this personality trait. ... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to commit. I know she is the one I love and want to spend the rest of my life with.
Q. Well where to start, I have 8 colleagues in my office every one is married I am the single one. Every day I'm been told by them how lucky I am been single and to tell the truth, when I hear some of the crap in there lives it really lets me think ...
A. 17 February 2008: well DONE I gathered your committment to this woman stemmed from childhood. You see the pain and the trauma your mother went through at the hands of your father and you felt like you should have protected her. This is why these core beliefs whether ... (read in full...)
Am I normal??? How can I overcome this shyness with women?
Q. I want to know if I'm a normal guy. I'm 26 years old and I don't date at all. Not because I don't want to date, I find woman very attractive, I'm just shy. I have gone on a total of 5 dates my whole life, and have never been on a second date. ...
A. 17 February 2008: Work on your confidence levels. Happiness comes from within and radiates outwards. You could try internet dating if approaching a women scares you. You can chat online and meet for coffee etc. My advise also is this. Walk down the street and the ... (read in full...)
Do Girls Really Like it When A Boyfriend Writes Them a Poem?
Q. I have a question for all you good natured girls? If I were to write a poem to a girl telling her that I wish she was mine; that, I would protect her; that, I would hold her in my arms when she is cold; that, I would wipe her tears away when she is ...
A. 17 February 2008: That sounds so sweet. She must be a really special person. If she feels the same she will be bedazzled and flattered and probably laminate it. If she does not feel the same way it will creep her out. I got a love letter from a bloke and he said some ... (read in full...)
Why do men stray into the arms of another??
Q. This question isn't actually about my relationship, but I do have a general curiosity about infidelity. It seems as though I am surrounded by hundreds of women, whose husbands/boyfriends have cheated. I'm not baiting anyone, I really have a geniune ...
A. 17 February 2008: Why do men cheat? Why do women cheat? Because they can and they want to. When a relationship turns sour some people choose to stray from their partner seeing the problem in the relationship as EXTERNAL TO THEM and JUSTIFY THEIR ACTIONS IN DENYING ... (read in full...)
Let Down... do I have what it takes to pursue my dream career... people say I do not.
Q. Hey I know that this has nothing to do with dating or relationships but I decided to ask it here anyway cause I really need some advice. I am a 20 year old college student who is recovering from a year long bout of major depression. This depressi...
A. 17 February 2008: Hi first of all I would say that the best advise is to not let other people's perception of your worth affect you. Have you heard of the circle of influence? Draw a big circle on a piece of paper. This is your inner circle of influence ie how you ... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to commit. I know she is the one I love and want to spend the rest of my life with.
Q. Well where to start, I have 8 colleagues in my office every one is married I am the single one. Every day I'm been told by them how lucky I am been single and to tell the truth, when I hear some of the crap in there lives it really lets me think ...
A. 17 February 2008: Being afraid to commit could be that your workmates are putting a damper on being married. If you love her then ask her to marry you. Ask yourself if you chose to procrastinate and she left you and someone else asked her and she said yes would you ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if the guy touches himself and then me?
Q. I have a problem, I meet this guy a while ago, I don't really know him that well but last night I saw him and things got a little frisky. So my question is can you get pregnant if the guy touches himself and then me? All I know is that he did the ...
A. 17 February 2008: A woman can get pregnant only during day 14-18 of her cycle. Day 1 is the first day of your period. A woman ovulates or her ovary releases an ova around the 12th day and it takes a couple of days to reach the fertile ground of the uterus. As sperm ... (read in full...)
Why don't some guys express how they feel to a woman sometimes?
Q. Why don't some guys express how they feel to a woman sometimes?...
A. 17 February 2008: Men's lack of communication comes down to their individual core beliefs and values which were instilled on them in childhood. How many times have you seen a little boy cry only to be told to toughen up and act like a man. Men communicate very ... (read in full...)
The most embarrasing that can happen with sex.
Q. My boyfriend has been asking me for anal sex but I am scared to try it out, not because of the pain, but because of the potential embarrassment involved. I read on here that anal sex can get quite "messy", what exactly is the mess about? I want to ...
A. 17 February 2008: My advise is to only do this if you are comfortable with him doing it. I am 35 years old and from the age of 18 had every boyfriend ask me to do it with them. I never felt comfortable so told them to go and get a cuccumber out of the fridge and to ... (read in full...)
Husband doesn't want me to go to church.
Q. My husband doesnt want me to go to church, i want to so bad to fellowship, music and to just enjoy the presents of the Lord, i do free enjoy the presents of the Lord home. Why ? he says that they want to know where he is and that they will start ...
A. 17 February 2008: Marriage is a covenant not a jail sentence. He is breaking the covenant by not putting God first. Spiritual abuse is actually one of the types of domestic violence. There is physical, emotional, financial, social, sexual and spiritual. He should be ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by not wanting to put a label on our relationship
Q. I have been seeing this guy for a little while now,I'm ready to move to the next level but he likes it the ways it is, and doesn't want to put a label on what we have going on now..How should I take that?? Are we a couple?? Or are we just friends ...
A. 17 February 2008: Glad to hear it. Not wanting to rush things means he cares about you a great deal and does not want to lose you. I am glad your talk went well with him. Hopefully there will be lots more happy times ahead and enjoy the dating phase. It is by far the ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be attracted to girls as well as boys?
Q. I am 11 years old and so is my best friend, we are in the same year 7 class and I've known her for 2 years (but we weren't best friends until we were in the same class). The thing is, I'm worried that I like her too much. you know, people have ...
A. 16 February 2008: It is not wrong or right it's how you feel. Get yourself to the library or to a youth centre and discuss this with them. It sounds like you are bisexual. That is ok. I have had thoughts about women and have acted on them but I prefer a good male any ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by not wanting to put a label on our relationship
Q. I have been seeing this guy for a little while now,I'm ready to move to the next level but he likes it the ways it is, and doesn't want to put a label on what we have going on now..How should I take that?? Are we a couple?? Or are we just friends ...
A. 16 February 2008: I would take that as he is happy with you and he is enjoying the dates you have together. Do not be in a rush to go from dating to living together. I have been dating my man for 6 months and I had the same issue. However instead of having the talk I ... (read in full...)
I'm not turned on by him and during oral I don't really get aroused at all.
Q. I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me, but I'm not turned on by him and during oral I don't really get aroused at all. Help I don't want to insult him ....
A. 16 February 2008: It depends on his technique. Get him to trace IN CAPITALS the alphabet from A to Z on your clit. He can go slowly or fast however talented his tongue is. Another thing is body paint get him to paint it down there and really go to town. I do not know ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I am laid in his bed naked and he is still masturbating to porn...what should I do??
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for three years. We have sex almost everyday, sometimes more than once. I want to know why he is looking at porn everyday, sometimes more than once? I try my best to satisfy him. Am I the problem? I tried to talk to ...
A. 16 February 2008: It depends what type of porn he is watching ie girl on girl group. I watch porn not daily but I can't see why a man would resist a woman lying naked in his bed. HELLO most men would turn the computer off so fast and trip over the cord to get to the ... (read in full...)
Is saying you still have feelings for the ex another way of saying that you just don't want to go out??
Q. dear cupid, this question is for the ladies When a girl goes out with you but then after a week dumps you saying that she "still has feeling for her ex" is that their way of saying that they just dont wanna go out with you or do they really stil...
A. 16 February 2008: I would say that when a woman says she still has feelings for her ex she is saying that she is not ready to commit to you because she has not let go emotionally of her last relationship. I would say call her and tell her that you would be willing to ... (read in full...)
I think life is too short to spend it with the wrong person...what do you think??
Q. I am stuck in the middle of two guys, one of them i am going out with, and really loves me honestly i couldnt ask to be treated any better. the other is one of my bf's mates who i love more than my bf. I think that life is too short to spend it with ...
A. 16 February 2008: Obviously your boyfriends mate is not his mate or he wouldn't cross this boundary. Sounds like he is jealous of your relationship with his mate and wants to break you guys up. You could possibly end up with neither of them. If your boyfriend finds ... (read in full...)
What advice can you give me for the future?
Q. Hi. I went out on the town tonight and had barely any contact with a woman at all. I was lucky to even get involved in a conversation. I usually get lots of attention but tonight I have come home feeling disappointed. I know when you go out you ...
A. 16 February 2008: mate I feel for you. You are 19 wow so young too young to be feeling like there are no women. How about going to a different night spot or going out during the day somewhere. A lady is just around the corner for you I can feel it. I met my partner ... (read in full...)
His Ex won't leave us alone.
Q. His ex won't leave us alone - Harassing phone calls etc to my home and work. Update- I received a further nuisance call tonight from my boyfriend's ex wife. I rang my boyfriend to tell him and he also had a hang up call 5 seconds before I called ...
A. 15 February 2008: Well I have received another two nuisance calls and my boyfriend strongly suspects that it is his ex wife or her new partner calling me. I have the police involved and my telephone company has successfully traced these two calls so now just have to ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 15 February 2008: It sounds as though you have reached the crucial milestone in your life in where you have realised that no amount of good and love coming from your side is going to change him. Sometimes beautiful warm caring women have to reach absolute rock bottom ... (read in full...)
Are there signs that she might be interested?
Q. Hi All, Bit of a long story this one but I think you’ll find it amusing if nothing else! I really like this girl. I’m fine chatting to her and joking around but there are moments where I get confused… Is she interested? Is she just being ni...
A. 15 February 2008: Hey mate have a good weekend and make it this weekend you ask for her number and give her yours and don't lose hers. She is keen mate you just have to leave Hugh at home and take Jonny depp with you. Just kidding be yourself however nervous she ... (read in full...)
Are there signs that she might be interested?
Q. Hi All, Bit of a long story this one but I think you’ll find it amusing if nothing else! I really like this girl. I’m fine chatting to her and joking around but there are moments where I get confused… Is she interested? Is she just being ni...
A. 14 February 2008: Mate you got it bad for this chicky babe. She is giving you ALL the signs of wanting you. She sounds really confident and I bet she giggles at the effect she has on you but at the same time it would turn her on. If you make a move and she says no ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 13 February 2008: Ok for him to say you are in shock has he followed you to the doctors to know that you are on valium? Also he is softening you up for valentines day. You are on a very heavy dose of medication BECAUSE OF HIM. When I left my abusive ex husband my ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 13 February 2008: Hey just wondering if you are ok and you haven't caved in and let him back in your life. Send us an update so we know you are ok.... (read in full...)
She did things with her ex, that I haven't experienced before. How can I handle this situation?
Q. hi, i need help. about one or two months into my relationship with my girlfriend, she hinted at an event in her past that sounded like she was sexually assaulted. seeing as i care a lot about her, i have always been very cautious when it came to ...
A. 13 February 2008: Well on the subject of anal the reason why she may not have enjoyed it is because she felt pressured and if she felt pressured then it is possible that it was not done correctly ie lots of foreplay, lots and lots of lube and both parties willing and ... (read in full...)
How can my wife and I bond closer the way we did before?
Q. I need a little help:( I am a 28 year old man who has been married for 6 years. I have a wife and a 5 year old son who I love with all my heart. My problem is, since my wife gave birth to our son she has had problems with her temper and anger...
A. 13 February 2008: When was the last time you took her out to dinner without your son? When was the last time the two of you went out anywhere on a romantic date? Sometimes as new parents we get so bogged down in being parents that we forget to be partners. For her to ... (read in full...)
Why does he treat me so badly?
Q. My boyfriend has been treating me really bad and I don't know how to tell him how he's been treating me because whenever I try to tell him he gets mad. He never wants to talk unless we're having sex. If we're not having sex and I try to talk to him ...
A. 12 February 2008: He won't change as he feels ENTITLED to treat you this way. If he has not changed yet he will never. When men say they are going to change it usually means they are going to manipulate you and control you until YOU ADAPT to their treatment of you. ... (read in full...)
Why does he treat me so badly?
Q. My boyfriend has been treating me really bad and I don't know how to tell him how he's been treating me because whenever I try to tell him he gets mad. He never wants to talk unless we're having sex. If we're not having sex and I try to talk to him ...
A. 12 February 2008: He is only nice to you when you are having sex- user and control freak. When you try to communicate your thoughts, opinions and beliefs he becomes angry= he is controlling and abusive towards you. You are in the initial stages of being in a ... (read in full...)
It makes me so jealous when my bf talks about celebraties being fit...what shall I do??
Q. My boyfriend talks about models and celebrities being buff and good looking and it makes me sooooo jealous. I try laughing it off or talking bout celebrites being buff myself but that makes it worse!! I really dont like it. What shall i do?...
A. 12 February 2008: Obviously he does this to get a reaction from you ie jealousy. I had a boyfriend that was like this at your age and I threw it back at him by saying things like " Yes she is really gorgeous so what makes you think she would want to be with you?" ... (read in full...)
I have tried dating sites but they don't help, I want to settle down but I'm extremely shy and work all the time! any suggestions?
Q. Ok, here is the thing i just turned 26 and im starting to get to the point where i want to settle down, find a nice woman to spend my life with that shouldnt be to hard right. The problem is i am extremely shy. so i don't talk to women. i dont know ...
A. 11 February 2008: Hi mate. I was in an abusive marriage for 7 years and left him and took two and half years healing and like you I am shy and did not want to do the pub/club scene to find a male and as I work in a women's shelter the chance of me finding a male ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 11 February 2008: To the man that asked you out I would have accepted a coffee date with him and after a few coffee dates explain to him that you have been in an abusive relationship and you want to take things slowly because you will not accept bad behaviour again ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 10 February 2008: In Australia we would consider this stalking behaviour. My suggestion is to get an answering machine for your home phone and that way you do not have to directly speak to him and if he gets ticked off he may leave a nasty message that you can take ... (read in full...)
Where can we go on our first date?
Q. Hi, hope you can help. I need some suggestions on what to do. Next Saturday I am going on a date with this guy I met over a dating site. I really like him, we have been swapping emails over MSN, since early January. He had messaged me on the dating ...
A. 10 February 2008: The key is to feel comfortable. First dates are always stressful. How about trying to hook up at a coffee shop prior to Saturday where you frequent or know and have a relaxed chat and see if he has any ideas for Saturday. How about a movie and ... (read in full...)
Getting him to talk about our problems
Q. How do I get my boyfriend to talk to me about the problems we've been having? My boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 years. In the past year he has gotten a new job that requires him to travel, he works in one place from any where to months ...
A. 10 February 2008: He is saying he wants you to travel with him and rather than have a home away from him he wants you there. That is guy talk for I love you you are my woman and I want you with me. Sweet but I can see how it is hard for you putting your life on hold. ... (read in full...)
Will weed destroy my son's life?
Q. I found a small bag of pot and a 'pipe' in my son's room. He's 16 and he is smoking every day. He admitted to me he did this. And he said "don't worry...all the kid's do it" I am so worried about the long range effects and how this will ruin his ...
A. 9 February 2008: Talk to him on what he gets out of it in smoking. Listen to his reasons and if he says all the kids are doing it ask him if all the kids were eating poop would he do it too? Cannabis is a mind altering mind expanding drug and its effects have been ... (read in full...)
Why do guys think its so hott to make a girl have an orgasm?
Q. When me and my boyfriend have sex he tries so hard to make me orgasm, it feels so good and I want to be able to Orgasm so bad but I dont know why I cant? Is it the fact I'm afraid we'll have to clean up my mess? Whats wrong? I know alot of girls ...
A. 9 February 2008: Guys think it is hot for a woman to have an orgasm with them because it confirms their ability in pleasing women. Simple as.... (read in full...)
Why wouldn't he like giving me oral sex??
Q. My boyfriend said he doesn't like giving me oral sex and i didn't ask why because i was embarrassed.. why do you think he wouldn't like it?? I like it!!??...
A. 9 February 2008: Usually when a guy won't go down on you it is because he does not care for you. Of all the guys I have been with it was always the players and the control freaks who refused to go down but always wanted you to come to the party with him. My theory ... (read in full...)
His Ex won't leave us alone.
Q. His ex won't leave us alone - Harassing phone calls etc to my home and work. Update- I received a further nuisance call tonight from my boyfriend's ex wife. I rang my boyfriend to tell him and he also had a hang up call 5 seconds before I called ...
A. 9 February 2008: Thankyou rcn for the advice. Her new partner is a very unsavoury character. He has broken up three marriages now and he has children but is not allowed to see them unless he is in a room fully supervised. So his unsavoury behaviour towards my ... (read in full...)
His Ex won't leave us alone.
Q. His ex won't leave us alone - Harassing phone calls etc to my home and work. Update- I received a further nuisance call tonight from my boyfriend's ex wife. I rang my boyfriend to tell him and he also had a hang up call 5 seconds before I called ...
A. 8 February 2008: Thankyou mystify for the reply. I have thought of ringing her but when she made an earlier call to me and spoke to me claiming to be my boyfriend's lawyer for family court I refused to give her any information over the phone as she had asked me to ... (read in full...)
My children's grandmother wants to take custody of them from me!
Q. Hello, My name is Faith and im 21 years old. I have triplet 5 year old girls Their father died 11 months after their birth. 3 days ago his mother demanded that the children went to live with her as im struggling. Im not. I work a part ti...
A. 8 February 2008: Wow you are a mother of triplets! You are so precious.1 in a quarter of a million women have triplets. Fantastic. The children belong with their absolutely miracle making warrior woman mother. YOU! I have twins so I am a 1 in 80 kind of girl. Keep ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is a stripper
Q. OK well this really isnt a normal scenario although having a girlfriend who is a stripper isnt normal to begin with. Anyways it makes it harder for me since i am in the military. Before i start we are both in our early 20's. I come back from bei...
A. 8 February 2008: What are her debts from? Have you seen evidence of her debts? I am thinking she may be on drugs or will eventually go down that road. How would you feel knowing that your mates are seeing your woman's bits on stage? I would be uncomfortable with ... (read in full...)
I want them to have great lives.
Q. Hello again, My name is Faith and i previously posted a question about my childrens grandmother wanting to take custody of them. First of all thankyou for all your help but i have another question. Ive been thinking alot, and im just wonde...
A. 8 February 2008: I had an abusive ex husband whose mother stood behind her "little flower" as she called him and tried to declare me insane and tried to have the children taken off me despite the fact that he was abusive to the children. She used her money and her ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 7 February 2008: Change your cell phone number for a start or turn it off each night after you have received all calls from your friends and family. Have messagebank take all calls so that he has to leave a message and then simply delete it. You are in a cycle of ... (read in full...)
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