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I'm not turned on by him and during oral I don't really get aroused at all.

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Question - (15 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2008)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me, but I'm not turned on by him and during oral I don't really get aroused at all. Help I don't want to insult him .

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008):

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i mean receiving...he just doesnt turn me on...it gets more difficult....

thx for ur help on the second answer...

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A female reader, iAintYourAunt United States +, writes (16 February 2008):

iAintYourAunt agony auntHave you ever been aroused by anyone? I'm not sure if by oral you mean giving or receiving or both.

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A female reader, korculan queen Australia +, writes (16 February 2008):

It depends on his technique. Get him to trace IN CAPITALS the alphabet from A to Z on your clit. He can go slowly or fast however talented his tongue is. Another thing is body paint get him to paint it down there and really go to town. I do not know what his technique is down there and maybe you are feeling embarrassed to come while he is licking you but honey that is the reaction he would want if he is out to please you. Also do you get turned on by vaginal or clitoral stimulation. If clitoral like me then you would be better getting on top and thrusting forward and back to get that stimulation or doggy style and you play with your clit. Buy a vibrator and really explore yourself down there. After a few times you will get to know what makes you cum. Good luck.

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