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How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 26 March 2008: Sweetheart you have made the decision because it is your decision. Instead of some of these posters bagging you they should be bagging the male who put you in this position. It is so easy for them to walk away but the woman has to be responsible for ... (read in full...)
How to resist temptation of contacting or responding to an ex.
Q. Hello. I've written here before asking a question about how to get over a breakup. That was back in September. I definitely got through the break up, and moved on and found happiness within myself. But not completely. Currently I am...
A. 24 March 2008: Excellent. You see he threw out the bait to see if you would bite. No response on St Paddys so chose to throw the bait further ie by running into you and being flirty. ie trying to weaken your resolve and confuse you. By being nice, and in your face ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 24 March 2008: That is so good to hear you are at peace. I agree with Pericles that short posts mean peace. Savour every moment darling and enjoy because YOU ARE WORTH IT! Happy easter from Australia!... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 18 March 2008: Honey I hope that you are well and firm in whatever choice you decide to make. I assisted a woman with a further pledge towards her termination today. This woman already has 5 children and was facing being on her own with baby no 6. Really the issue ... (read in full...)
Should I go to a "Gentleman's Club" to lose my virginity or am I selling myself short?
Q. Hey guys, I've been pondering this for a while now, but I'd like to get some outside opinions on this. I'm still a virgin at 20, and quite frankly I'm over it. It hasn't happened yet, I can't see it happening anytime soon, and I just feel bored ...
A. 16 March 2008: glad to hear you are ok mate. Being a virgin is basically to be intact. Although you are male what I am getting at is most people see losing your virginity as the be all and end all of what qualifies you as a person. You have alot of strength ... (read in full...)
He tells everyone I am a "retard" but I still want him back!
Q. hey I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm having big dating problems. I was dating this guy I totally fell in love with. We dated and one night I was talking to our friend and max(the guy I was dating) tested me and asked what I was doing, I told him talk ...
A. 16 March 2008: I would wait until you are more clear on what it is you want and who you want. It seems to me that attention is what you want and honey you are still young. He called you a retard. Definitely not the grounds for a healthy stable relationship. ... (read in full...)
"Bad Luck Omen" when it comes to sex?
Q. Hey, My girlfriend (21)and I (18) have been dating for a month now. We've tried to have sex but its a no go. She has had bad experiences in the past with inconsiderate guys and now thinks she has some sort of condition where she cant have sex ...
A. 16 March 2008: First of all what sort of issues/trauma is she dealing with? Has she had a history of child sexual assault? Has she been raped by these inconsiderate guys? You will need to ascertain all this in order to UNDERSTAND HER. If you are committed to her ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 weeks pregnant and I am having nightmares.
Q. I'm 17 weeks pregnant and I am having nightmares, not scary ones just creepy funky unbelievable ones, every hour on the hour I wake up, I'm so tired I feel like I could pass out all through the day. I've read that it's my hormones but I'm worried ...
A. 16 March 2008: Depends what you eat before you go to bed as to what will cause these strange nightmares. Document and write them down as much as you remember and take a food diary also. Cheese is not good to have before bed as it can bring a nightmare on. Also how ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure about my sexuality...
Q. Hi, I have a dilemma currently in my life. I'm not sure about my sexuality. I've always checked out guys as well as girls, but lately I find myself checking out guys more often but would never take that next step to go into a relationship with the...
A. 16 March 2008: It saddens me when religion comes into play. I am christian but I do not judge others. Like the other post stated you are you. Labels are just societys way of judging others and putting them into a box. Are there any alternative nightspots or clubs ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm pregnant...
Q. I had sex a little while ago, unprotected. I'm 16 years old. He did not cum inside of me, and we are both sure of that but I'm scared I'm pregnant.. I worry alot. what can I do?...
A. 16 March 2008: Learn about the female cycle. Ok day 1-5 is when you have your period. day 12 your ovaries release an egg which then takes 1-2 days to get to the uterus. From there it will stay from day 14-18. If you have sex on day 13-18 you have a high chance of ... (read in full...)
Is he interested, if not, how can I get him out of my head?
Q. I'm 15, bisexual. I really have the hots for a guy in my school year. Is there anyway to tell whether he is interested, or if he isn't which is most likely to get him out of my fanatasies?????????????...
A. 16 March 2008: Spend some time together. go out together somewhere and have some deep and meaningful conversations about life and about who he is interested in and bring up the topic of bisexuality, etc when you feel it is the right time. If he is not that way ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with me because I've never had a boyfriend...
Q. Well, I am 13 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. All of my friends have had several boyfriends but me none. My friends say that I am pretty and I am as cute as them and my personality is great so why have they all had boyfriends and I ...
A. 16 March 2008: No there isn't. You are still young. You are 13 years old. Too young for a boyfriend. Boys your age will be looking at a girlfriend as someone to have sex with. You are way too young for this and besides even if you are cute, attractive and a nice ... (read in full...)
Advice and thoughts on my girlfriend of 4 years breaking up with me for someone else.
Q. Ok well here is another break-up story. I never thought I would ever be writing this, but here it goes. I've been dating this girl for 4 years. She is 21 and I'm 26 so we've been dating since she was a senior in high school. we fell in love within a ...
A. 16 March 2008: Mate I would give her space. She sounds like she is too gutless to tell you that she is with this other guy and has feelings for him. She probably genuinely cared about you but this new guy has attracted her as he is basically new and she is only 21 ... (read in full...)
How to resist temptation of contacting or responding to an ex.
Q. Hello. I've written here before asking a question about how to get over a breakup. That was back in September. I definitely got through the break up, and moved on and found happiness within myself. But not completely. Currently I am...
A. 15 March 2008: Boundaries. Maintain your personal boundaries with this man. He does not care for you and is treating you like a puppet on a string. Remember:
1. You are a beautiful woman.
2. You are worthy of love and respect.
3. You are beautiful just the way... (read in full...)
I'm sooooooo confused, can anyone tell me why did he do so???
Q. I knew a man he was preparing his divorce papers we were friends at first then after divorce we became more close i loved him soo much he was sooo decent he was trying his best to make me happy then after 4 months he asked to marry me his mother v...
A. 15 March 2008: Maybe his mother's interference had something to do with it or he met your family and realized that they are very supportive of you. Abusive men will seek out a woman with a troubled background to more or less pick their target. he may have realized ... (read in full...)
Do culture differences really make a difference??
Q. I am having a relationship with a zimbabwean man. I think it's love but for him, he seems a bit of a player. A lot of my friends (including some zimbabweans) say it's a culture thing... any views? Do culture differences really make a difference??...
A. 15 March 2008: Culture does make a difference. The thing that most makes the difference is CORE VALUES AND BELIEFS. Core values and beliefs are formulated in childhood through experience with parents and beliefs and values they hold. For example if he grew up in ... (read in full...)
Will love over rule sexual urges or will sexual urges over rule love?
Q. Please can you help, My beautiful partner used to swing with his ex, while I am open minded, I can't do this and I have told him so and he has said he would never make me do anything to feel uncomfortable. He said it's not the fact he never felt ...
A. 15 March 2008: the fact he said that he would never make you do anything that made you feel uncomfortable are positive words coming from a male and is definitely guy talk for I care for you and love you and do not want to lose you. He was HONEST with you with his ... (read in full...)
I am very "turned on" by my wife with another man, is this crazy?
Q. This is a little embarrassing, but have been wanting to ask someone about this for some time, but have never had the guts to ask any of my friends. My wife and I have a good friend (David). We've been friends with him for about 4 years. The 3 of ...
A. 14 March 2008: Well mate fantasies are good to enhance things. The only danger is if they hook up individually after the threesome or foursome or whatever you want to do. Talk to her about it but mate I hope she flirts with you too mate cause if she is flirting ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 14 March 2008: In Australia there are two methods for abortions. One is the medical abortion which an agency near to me gives the woman a series of pills and this will help to create an abortion and there is alot of bleeding. I think it is that RU pill.
The othe... (read in full...)
Can you fall pregnant by intercourse while on your period?
Q. Can you fall pregnant when you have intercourse while you have your periods?...
A. 14 March 2008: No you definitely can't fall pregnant while you have your period as this bleeding is actually your body expelling the unfertilised egg from your uterus. Ok I will explain the Billings Method.
Day 1-5 The days you have your period with day one as t... (read in full...)
Should I go to a "Gentleman's Club" to lose my virginity or am I selling myself short?
Q. Hey guys, I've been pondering this for a while now, but I'd like to get some outside opinions on this. I'm still a virgin at 20, and quite frankly I'm over it. It hasn't happened yet, I can't see it happening anytime soon, and I just feel bored ...
A. 14 March 2008: Mate you sound like a real catch. 20 and still a virgin. Mate I am sure there are plenty of women out there from 18- 35 that would just love to meet you. With hookers, it is just sex and I have been friends with hookers and mate they do at least 10 ... (read in full...)
I feel like a slave but he doesn't hit me too hard so maybe he will be better after we have children...
Q. My husband comes from a family where the men are always in charge. He was very nice to me when we were dating and after we got married he changed like he thinks he is my master. I feel like a slave sometimes and if I don't do what I am supposed to ...
A. 14 March 2008: Honey he is an ABUSER. You are living with domestic violence. The fact that he CHANGED after you got married indicates to me his mindset. He feels ENTITLED to treat you as a slave as he does not see you as an equal in this relationship. Each time he ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 14 March 2008: Wow ringing you at 3am just shows the lack of respect. He is probably hoping that if you answer the phone at this hour you will be not thinking of a defensive response. I would get an answering machine, turn the phone to silent ring tone overnight ... (read in full...)
My feeling to that is that she has become slightly taken in with this other guy...
Q. It look like I am about to split with my wife of 4 years (together for 8 years before that) We are both 28 years old so doing the math means we have been togther since we were 16 years old, childhood sweethearts as the saying goes. Anyway over the...
A. 12 March 2008: Hey mate hope you are doing ok. Try not to let the grief wear you down mate. Take time out for yourself and please post and let me know that you are ok. Remember you are a worthwile person and that love will enter your life in time again. Draw ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 12 March 2008: He was expecting a card or phone call from you and when that didn't happen he felt the loss of power and control over you. He used GUILT AND PITY to make you see HIS emotions without considering yours. SORRY PHASE. NEXT IS BUYBACK PHASE. He is ... (read in full...)
I need to lose the pounds quickly!
Q. hi, How much weight will I lose by Easter Sunday if I do one hour on the treadmill a day at 6km per hour, and eat one apple everyday and nothing else. I'm 5 ft 3 and 9 and a half stone, so I really want to shed the pounds. Also, what would be the ...
A. 12 March 2008: Honey, do not torture yourself. Be happy with the way you are. Losing weight for easter is this about the chocolate you eat at easter? I mean easter is a christian tradition and is about the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ not how skinny you ... (read in full...)
Making myself sick to lose weight, will it work?
Q. I'm 15 and I weigh 11 stone. I look at myself as fat, but I know I'm not that fat but for my age I am over weight. Ii stopped eating for 4 days once and I lost half a stone. As soon as I ate again I put on half a stone again but recently I've bee...
A. 12 March 2008: You have an eating disorder called bulimia nervosa. Bulimia is a binge purge cycle. Ie you starve yourself, then eat ravenously then vomit. You will lose weight but also ESSENTIAL electrolytes which will then put you at risk of dehydration. Your ... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend to have sex with me?
Q. I am concerned about my sexual relationship with my boyfriend of over 2 years. For about the past year my boyfriend hardly ever in the mood to have sex with me and we only have sex when I initiate it and it makes me feel incredibly unattractive. I ...
A. 12 March 2008: CONTROL. HE knows you love sex so he denies you that privelige. It is all about control. He says that it is not you yet he makes you feel unattractive and possibly unloveable through his ACTIONS. I was in a similar situation to you in that I am a ... (read in full...)
How can I open up?
Q. Hey, ok me an my bf have been together for bout 3 months, it's all been great but there is a lil prob that is affecting our relationship, i have trouble opening up and talking bout what i want an how i feel, my mum passed away coming up 3 years ago ...
A. 12 March 2008: I would only open up and discuss your feelings when YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE TO. If he is an understanding boyfriend then he will give you the SPACE to just be you. I do see a partner of only 3 months wanting you to completely open up to him as a RED ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 12 March 2008: I am so proud of you. You had enough strength to not send the card. It is ok to buy it and your instincts told you not to follow through. That is a positive step. Another positive thing would be to keep a journal. On one half of the book you can ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 10 March 2008: Glad I was able to help. To have moments when you feel like caving in and going back is to admit you are human. You know the emotional cost you have put into the relationship is what makes you falter but this is when you should just do nothing. Your ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 9 March 2008: Thankyou for posting and letting me know you are ok. Keep posting as rcn and myself genuinely care about seeing you in a better place. Information you are gathering will strengthen you in addition to doing some work with yourself. I mean building ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 9 March 2008: Wow I am so proud of you for going to the library and reading up on domestic violence related issues. I am getting goosebumps and tears of joy in my eyes. You are on the road to recovery. Once I armed myself with literature and books on the subject ... (read in full...)
My feeling to that is that she has become slightly taken in with this other guy...
Q. It look like I am about to split with my wife of 4 years (together for 8 years before that) We are both 28 years old so doing the math means we have been togther since we were 16 years old, childhood sweethearts as the saying goes. Anyway over the...
A. 9 March 2008: Mate I feel for you. I left an abusive marriage loving him. It took me a good 2 years to recover and the person that still loves the other partner always takes longer to grieve because your grieving process begins now, but for the other partner that ... (read in full...)
If I just drink Fanta and Coke till Easter Sunday and eat nothing will I lose weight??
Q. Dear Cupid, what will happen to me if i only drink fanta or coke zero til easter sunday? And eat nothing? I just have one can a day (330 ml) and that it. Will i lose any weight? What side effects would it cause me to have? Is this an awful idea? T...
A. 8 March 2008: Drinking excess of softdrink can lead to osteoperosis as the carbonated drinks saps you calcium stores. Starving yourself will not make you lose weight. I would drink eight glasses of water a day, eat two serves of fruit and three of vegetables and ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if he cheated. Can a guy feel himself have sex if he is drunk?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been going together for over 3 years, and i recently just found out that he went to a party and got extremely drunk and says he doesn't remember or know if he had sex or not. I was wondering if a guy could feel himself ...
A. 8 March 2008: unless he is totally comatose I would say he would know it he had sex while drunk unless he suffers from brewers droop I would say that he is saying he cheated but he can't remember or does not want to tell you cause he is blaming the booze for his ... (read in full...)
My feeling to that is that she has become slightly taken in with this other guy...
Q. It look like I am about to split with my wife of 4 years (together for 8 years before that) We are both 28 years old so doing the math means we have been togther since we were 16 years old, childhood sweethearts as the saying goes. Anyway over the...
A. 8 March 2008: You are not being old fashioned. It sounds as though you really love her but her feelings have changed and she likes the excitement of this other guy. That's not to say that you are not exciting. I am feeling though that her 4 week thing might be ... (read in full...)
She hates the ejaculating inside of her, but only after 4 years she tells me this!! I feel hurt and disoriented.
Q. I have been seeing a woman for over four years and have had what I thought was a great relationship. We have recently been talking about marriage. However, last week after sex she told me that she absolutely hates the fact that I ejaculate inside ...
A. 7 March 2008: You can use a condom instead of a towel. I used to hate it when my abusive ex husband came inside me because I felt raped every time by him towards the end of the marriage but now I am in a happy healthy stable relationship and I love it. So maybe ... (read in full...)
My son saw me kiss another man while I was separated from my husband (due to his abuses.) I'm worried my temperamental husband will find out!
Q. My husband was acting like he was ragging yesterday because his boss laid into his ass about something. So we were arguing about little stupid crap all night because of his attitude. Well, whenever he starts to lose the argument he always tries to ...
A. 7 March 2008: You were seperated at the time so what you did with this male is none of your ex husbands business. Your son has learnt from his father through the abuse your ex husband showed towards you how to get you into trouble and therefore continuing the ... (read in full...)
How can I show my fiance that I really love her??
Q. How do i show my fiance that i really really love her?Should i be calling her frequently,buy good things to her,visit her frequently or have sex with her or come we stay before we officially get married. Kindly advice...
A. 6 March 2008: I would follow your heart and yes call her to let her know you are thinking of her. Lots of back massages, foot rubs and my favourite is a Croatian massage technique where you get your fingernails and fingertips and very lightly trace them all over ... (read in full...)
I'm male and wear women's panties. Do you out there think I'm an effeminate wimp?
Q. I've already sent this in but no reply. My problem is I've been wearing womens panties since I was 14, I wear a full brief panty mostly nylon plain no lace. I'm 5ft-7ins and small framed, I weigh 10st-7lb my chest is 34ins my waist is 28ins but my ...
A. 6 March 2008: What others think is irrelevant. What you think about yourself is relevant. If you wear female underwear that is your choice. No one on this earth has the right to judge you on a piece of material that you wear on your body. If you feel that you are ... (read in full...)
Very tough situation - needy, insecure and controlling wife, but we have a child, who she uses to influence my decisions.
Q. Hi All, I *desperately* need advice, so any thoughts would be greatly appreciated and would definitely be put to use... I am South African and I have been married for 5 years, but my wife and I have been together for about 9 years. I m...
A. 6 March 2008: She is controlling you through her manipulation of you. I am a domestic violence worker and she is an abuser. Yes there are female abusers. You are in the cycle of violence. Her main tools with you are the emotional ones and social isolation. The ... (read in full...)
He tells me he "Can't fall in love again". Is there anything I can do?
Q. My boyfriend has told me he "can't fall in love again" because he has convinced himself that if he does he will get hurt. He found his fiances dead 2 weeks before the marriage and then 2 years later he married a girl 10 years younger (18). After 12 ...
A. 6 March 2008: I am in a similar situation to you in that I have met a wonderful man who stated to me he is not sure if he can love again after I told him 2 months ago I loved him. Give him time and try not to pressure him. Obviously he is not yet over these hurts ... (read in full...)
How can I last longer during sex? And should I give her oral to make up for ejaculating so early?
Q. Recently I've been seeing this girl I'm close friends with. We are both seventeen. I am not very sexually experienced, however, she is (she's clean, don't worry). This is a pretty wierd question to ask on this site, i guess, but, the past few times ...
A. 6 March 2008: Honey I would have to say yes foreplay is important. You are not quite an adult but do not stress if she is not worried. Once you get more comfortable then try a little technique. trace with your tongue on her clit in capital letters the alphabet ... (read in full...)
He calls me names, gets really jealous, and slapped my leg really hard...is this an abusive relationship?
Q. Me and my bf of 2 years were broken up for around 9 months. He broke up with me. DUring that time, things were very dramatic between us. He would get very jealous at any new guy I meet. A couple times we got into heated arguments and he would te...
A. 6 March 2008: Yes honey this is an abusive relationship. There are many forms of domestic violence. PHYSICAL hitting, punching, biting,scratching,pinching, pushing, strangulation throwing things or throwing you. EMOTIONAL name calling etc, slut whore hag nag ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 6 March 2008: Hey I hope you are doing ok and come back and let us know how you are going. I see you are getting your strength back and just want to say how proud I am of you. I left my abusive ex husband 3 years ago and there were many times I had this crazy ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 22 February 2008: Going to the library is such a positive step for you. Arming yourself with as much literature on emotionally abusive relationships will have a twofold effect. One it will provide you with information on all the tools manipulative people use to soul ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 22 February 2008: Wow it sounds like you have been through alot of pain in your seven years with this coke addicted man. I would say the selfishness within him was present before the cocaine and the cocaine has just emphasised it and enhanced this personality trait. ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 15 February 2008: It sounds as though you have reached the crucial milestone in your life in where you have realised that no amount of good and love coming from your side is going to change him. Sometimes beautiful warm caring women have to reach absolute rock bottom ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 13 February 2008: Ok for him to say you are in shock has he followed you to the doctors to know that you are on valium? Also he is softening you up for valentines day. You are on a very heavy dose of medication BECAUSE OF HIM. When I left my abusive ex husband my ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 13 February 2008: Hey just wondering if you are ok and you haven't caved in and let him back in your life. Send us an update so we know you are ok.... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 11 February 2008: To the man that asked you out I would have accepted a coffee date with him and after a few coffee dates explain to him that you have been in an abusive relationship and you want to take things slowly because you will not accept bad behaviour again ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 10 February 2008: In Australia we would consider this stalking behaviour. My suggestion is to get an answering machine for your home phone and that way you do not have to directly speak to him and if he gets ticked off he may leave a nasty message that you can take ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 7 February 2008: Change your cell phone number for a start or turn it off each night after you have received all calls from your friends and family. Have messagebank take all calls so that he has to leave a message and then simply delete it. You are in a cycle of ... (read in full...)
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