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writes:Hi. I went out on the town tonight and had barely any contact with a woman at all. I was lucky to even get involved in a conversation. I usually get lots of attention but tonight I have come home feeling disappointed. I know when you go out you shouldn't set yourself targets, but tonight for whatever reason I have come home feeling like I'm never going to meet the right girls.I'm only 19, so what advice can you give me for the future? I'm so tired of being alone. Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 This is what life is all about. There are good days ,there are bad days and some days , neither good or bad.
You are still young and have a long way to travel in this life.
Live for today and take each day as it comes.
Work hard, play hard and enjoy hard.
Tomorrow, we don't know if we are alive or not.
Thank God for another day you are alive.
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (16 February 2008):
mate I feel for you. You are 19 wow so young too young to be feeling like there are no women. How about going to a different night spot or going out during the day somewhere. A lady is just around the corner for you I can feel it. I met my partner of 6 months on rsvp.com.au and we have been going strong ever since. It is so hard in this day and age to meet a beautiful woman or handsome male given that these types usually work all day and rarely go out. Give it a go mate. It can be hard wanting so bad to feel a woman's touch but it will happen. Another option is to join a gym or go to a coffee shop and just sit there and observe the women going there and one day you just might catch your eye on someone. Another thing is to smile at a woman. Walking past her look her in the eye for two seconds and flash her a smile and see the positive outcome flowing. The next day smile at a woman and say hello. Keep doing this every day and you will feel the positive benefits of this because there are thousands of women in the same boat looking for you. Get back on your horse and get out there. She is waiting and looking for you.
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reader, iAintYourAunt  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 If you usually get lots of attention, then you likely will again. Try another night. Just because you're single doesn't mean you have to feel alone. Get stable in life (if you aren't already) and remember spending time with friends and family is more important than the ladys. Your time will come though and when it does smile and don't let it pass you by.
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reader, Burns231 +, writes (16 February 2008):
Hey i've been there and done that several times. I know it sucks but thats how life is :( Just becuase you went out this one time and nothing happened that doesn't mean that you are "never going to meet the right girls", it just means that tonight wasn't you night. Keep trying and good things will happen. Besides, you dont exactly need to have a night on the town to find someone. If your in high school/college, try talking to some of the girls there and who knows. Maybe the "right" one has been under your nose all along.
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reader, mildred09 +, writes (16 February 2008):
just dont worry, honestly if you are plannig a night out and think its going to be so good! it probably wont be. but the ones you dont turn out to be the best nights ever. your still young, just go out and have fun
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