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I am a 35 year old happily divorced woman with four children. Two girls and identical twin boys. My field of expertise is domestic violence having grown up with it and now work in a domestic violence women's shelter advocating strongly for the empowerment of women. I consider males and females to be equals and am passionate about the work I do. I am currently in a healthy stable relationship and my one wish is that all people find themselves in a healthy relationship. My hobbies include bellydancing, bushwalks, camping, going to the beach and making the most out of each day and taking time out to smile and be happy. Cheers.

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His ex is stalking us and I am frightened.

Q. Update on his ex won't leave us alone -Harassing phone calls. Hi guys I have been dating a wonderful man for the past 6 months and his ex wife has been making harassing phone calls to my partner and I. I successfully had calls traced with the ...

A. 22 April 2008: well Mandy I got a phone call at work today from an unidentified male asking specifically for me. He asked me if I was still going out with my partner and at first I thought it was an officer from the police station. I remained coy about this line ... (read in full...)

His ex is stalking us and I am frightened.

A. 21 April 2008: He texted me today and I played it cool. We have a dv march coming up in one of the local towns and we always provide the banner so I will be seeing him there with his work role being crime prevention officer and me as domestic violence outreach ... (read in full...)

His ex is stalking us and I am frightened.

A. 20 April 2008: Mandy thank you so much for your advice. I am really struggling not to contact him and I am waiting to see what he does ie when he contacts me as the ball is in his court. I said I would wait 8 weeks but I could not guarantee what the future holds ... (read in full...)

His ex is stalking us and I am frightened.

A. 19 April 2008: Update her harassment of me extends to now calling me from a payphone. She did this a couple of weeks ago cause he took off fishing and cause she couldnt contact him she rang me. The night before he rang me and was on the phone with me for 5 minutes ... (read in full...)

His ex is stalking us and I am frightened.

A. 3 April 2008: Anonymous I have thought of moving but I have moved already 4 times in 3 years due to my ex and he had it in family court that I am not allowed to move more than an hour away so basically I am trapped from really getting away. Also my job is ... (read in full...)

His ex is stalking us and I am frightened.

A. 30 March 2008: Thanks Mandy. I feel I know that her next move will be to fake an injury to herself or her property and blame me for it. That way the police will arrest me not her so I have written a letter to work stating that I will volonteer all free time to ... (read in full...)

His ex is stalking us and I am frightened.

A. 30 March 2008: Update on the situation. On Friday my partner left work early to go fishing with mates overnight to get away from the stress. I sent him a text to see how he was and as soon as I sent it the phone rang so I picked it up but it was her so I let rip ... (read in full...)

His ex is stalking us and I am frightened.

A. 26 March 2008: As for a police arm mandy female stalkers really are low priority in Australia even though you and I both know that their potential for escalation is much the same as it is for males although the issue of rape is non exsistent with female stalkers. ... (read in full...)

His ex is stalking us and I am frightened.

A. 26 March 2008: update The investigation is still continuing into the pre paid mobile identity theft. One of the numbers rung on this phone was a direct line to a bank I do not bank with in a town I don't live in but I did bank with them years ago and the scary ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

A. 24 March 2008: That is so good to hear you are at peace. I agree with Pericles that short posts mean peace. Savour every moment darling and enjoy because YOU ARE WORTH IT! Happy easter from Australia!... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 14 March 2008: Wow ringing you at 3am just shows the lack of respect. He is probably hoping that if you answer the phone at this hour you will be not thinking of a defensive response. I would get an answering machine, turn the phone to silent ring tone overnight ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 12 March 2008: He was expecting a card or phone call from you and when that didn't happen he felt the loss of power and control over you. He used GUILT AND PITY to make you see HIS emotions without considering yours. SORRY PHASE. NEXT IS BUYBACK PHASE. He is ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 12 March 2008: I am so proud of you. You had enough strength to not send the card. It is ok to buy it and your instincts told you not to follow through. That is a positive step. Another positive thing would be to keep a journal. On one half of the book you can ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 10 March 2008: Glad I was able to help. To have moments when you feel like caving in and going back is to admit you are human. You know the emotional cost you have put into the relationship is what makes you falter but this is when you should just do nothing. Your ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 9 March 2008: Thankyou for posting and letting me know you are ok. Keep posting as rcn and myself genuinely care about seeing you in a better place. Information you are gathering will strengthen you in addition to doing some work with yourself. I mean building ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 9 March 2008: Wow I am so proud of you for going to the library and reading up on domestic violence related issues. I am getting goosebumps and tears of joy in my eyes. You are on the road to recovery. Once I armed myself with literature and books on the subject ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 6 March 2008: Hey I hope you are doing ok and come back and let us know how you are going. I see you are getting your strength back and just want to say how proud I am of you. I left my abusive ex husband 3 years ago and there were many times I had this crazy ... (read in full...)

His ex is stalking us and I am frightened.

A. 4 March 2008: Thank you all for your responses. Mandy you helped me heaps went to the link you suggested. The sanction the other woman spoke about is a justice examination order in Australia.She has accused my partner of abusing his kids then when the kids ... (read in full...)

He's distant, unsupportive, and it's hard for him to show emotions. I still love him with all my heart...Help!

Q. So, i wrote last week (you can look into what ive posted by going into my profile)... summary: Ive been dating a guy for 2 years we were going to get married and we wanted to have a baby..i had moved to be with my parents while he was finishing u...

A. 4 March 2008: Do you feel loved? Does he care about you like his own flesh? Does he do little things for you to let you know he cares? Does he make you smile? Or do you find yourself more confused, uncertain and unhappy? This is the best indicator. Why he rang ... (read in full...)

He wants to break up and invokes having changed his sexual orientation. What can I do?

Q. I've been dating this guy for 9 months now, our sex life we perfect (well at least to me) until Feb 29th he told me he doesn't want to have sex with me anymore and that he was more into girls when at the beginning he said he was into guys so right ...

A. 3 March 2008: He is basically saying he is bisexual which is perfectly alright provided you are also of this choice. It can be really hard just being anything other than hetero and unhealthy relationships exsist in gay, straight and bi situations. I sense you ... (read in full...)

How do I move on knowing that I was used, played, and lied to just for sex? I'm 15, will I trust again?

Q. First of all, let me apologize about his being so long. (it could be longer...) About six months ago, I met "Mike". From the beginning, I had a crush on him. We came to be good friends and one of our mutual friends told Mike that I liked him. Tur...

A. 3 March 2008: When a guy says that they connect with a girl he is talking about CHEMISTRY AND ATTRACTION. You may be a beautiful girl but by the sounds of it he was looking for a girl that was good to go when he wants. Also you saying you have a low self esteem ... (read in full...)

I need your help women (PMS issue)

Q. I am planning to go back home this month for 4 days only, but unfortunately my wife will have her pms during that time, so will it be safe to have sex during that period? Have you guys tried it? What shall I expect? Is it true that women are more ...

A. 3 March 2008: Do you mean periods or pre menstrual syndrome? From what you are saying I am guessing that you are saying she will be bleeding from having her periods. As a woman I feel unclean when I have my period and definitely do not want anyone going down on ... (read in full...)

Is 13 too young an age to date?

Q. So I'm a 13yd old girl and I just got asked out by a boy(13) in my class. I already knew he liked me and I only like him because he is sweet to me. So I said yes to go out with him because I only like him a little. I'm also allowed dating now. Do ...

A. 25 February 2008: I would say that 13 is too young to do adult things ie sex as your body is still developing internally. I would say you could do fun activities together like going to the movies during the day on the weekend, and maybe even inviting him to family ... (read in full...)

Would he come back, is he just trying to hurt me, or have I really gone too far this time and lost him forever??

Q. hi I split up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago now, we were together 2 and a half years and we have a 1 year old boy, who's gourgeous by the way lol !!! Since xmas I'll admit I did distance myself from him, I went out with my mates a lot, started ...

A. 24 February 2008: The fact you say that his mum never had time for him and now you are admitting that you never had time for him when you were partying is a double hurt to him because his core values and beliefs have been formulated by his mother's lack of attention ... (read in full...)

Why is my doctor behaving strange around me?

Q. I've known a male doctor for 19 years. He used to treat one of my children and seemed to like my family-anyhow things changed suddenly. His behaviour changed, he seems to avoid talking to me-or any one on one interactions with me, I get the feeling ...

A. 24 February 2008: Maybe he knows something about your family ie your husband that you do not know about and it makes him uncomfortable to be around you due to this knowledge. Otherwhise someone may have told him gossip about you and he has taken this on board making ... (read in full...)

I fancy this girl but her friend just asked me out. What should I do?

Q. i fancy this girl i sit next to but her best friend just asked me out what should i do?...

A. 24 February 2008: You are only 10 so I am guessing that her friend has asked you out for three possible reasons. 1.the girl you like might like you also but is too scared to ask you so has got her friend to ask you out to see if you like her or her friend. 2. Her ... (read in full...)

Will her turning me down end our friendship?

Q. Hey, I am in love with one of my friends who I have liked since the 3rd grade. She has an idea I like her but I have a problem. My problem is if I tell her I like her and she likes me back than great. But if she doesnt like me and says no than our...

A. 24 February 2008: You have nothing to lose by at least telling her how you feel. It would help to clear the air but say to her that you value your friendship and what you are about to tell her you do not want that to change. You can only predict what you are thinking ... (read in full...)

Is my bf suggesting marriage, do you think?

Q. i've been with my wonderful bf for 3 years now (just had our 3rd year anniversary on 2-14). he's 29, never been married, and no kids. i'm 28 (almost 29) with 3 girls ages 8,6,and 5. my bf loves my girls dearly and treats them as his own. we've had...

A. 24 February 2008: Wow you have yourself a really nice man. You lucky girl enjoy he sounds really wonderful. I would place a wager on him asking you to marry him on bended knee! You go girl.... (read in full...)

I am in relationship with an older girl and feel pressurised to have sex. I also need to increase my confidence, how?

Q. i am in a relationship with an older girl and i am a virgin but she isn't. i feel pressured but don't want to have sex out of embarrasment. because of lack of exsperience and how would i know if its big or small compared to others'?...

A. 24 February 2008: simply put only have sex when you feel ready to. Your lack of confidence stems from lack of experience. Tell her how you feel about your ability to please her and I am sure she will feel flattered given the fact you are a virgin. Honestly, size does ... (read in full...)

How can I bring him closer to me and make him change his mind about relationships?

Q. Hello.I am 25 years old and I am a university student and recently I broke up from a 4 and a half years of relationship and am about in 2 days to move out from my boyfriend's house. Around October I fell in love with one of my classmates. We w...

A. 24 February 2008: this guy is being careful and considerate to you given the fact you have recently broken up. He obviously does not want to enter into a relationship with a girl on the rebound as he does not want to be dumped or used. Remember you guys kissed while ... (read in full...)

My friends ex asks me for advice. What do I tell him?

Q. hey okay so heres the situation 2 of my best friends used to be dating and the girl thought she liked him agen but she recently realised she didnt and has moved on - but the guy told me he still likes her and he cant look at other girls because...

A. 24 February 2008: First of all do you have feelings for this guy. If you do it is putting you in a difficult situation. I would be honest with him and tell him that she has moved on and he will want to know what he has done wrong but simply say that it was not meant ... (read in full...)

Is it him and me?

Q. I really like this guy and we are in good terms with each other mutually. We met last year and he stared at me and says I love you to me and all that. He would in the begininning brush my shoulder as he walked by. Then he would talk to me after ...

A. 24 February 2008: He says he loves you. Mmmm What does he know about you? What is it he loves about you. I am not saying that you are not worthy of love. I am simply stating that if you guys have not spent quality time together and are not an item and have not been ... (read in full...)

Sex education in schools...we need to know more of the basics.

Q. It's really strange, how I noticed when I went to school, they always tip-toe around the idea of sex and reproduction in general. The education system seems to be under the impression that the less teachers talk about it, the less we know, the less ...

A. 24 February 2008: Definitely, I think all girls should learn the Billings method. The billings method is a natural way for you to get to know your own menstrual cycle with charts where you colour in your period length, the mucous plug discharge and your temperature ... (read in full...)

Turned me down because she thinks I'm gay.

Q. A girl turned me down because people call me gay at school but i am deffinately not and i really like her, what can i do ?? i dont care wat people think but its effecting me now as i can not get the girl i want because of it. it makes me really sad ...

A. 24 February 2008: This is bullying at its lowest form. Usually guys that tease a guy about being gay usually have hidden issues themselves that they are not addressing. You know like smoke and mirrors. Pot calling the kettle black. However this is very serious stuff ... (read in full...)

I need touching my penis for an erection to occur, why is the visual aspect not enough for me?

Q. hi I am a 24 year old male. I have a problem in getting an erection by itself. I need the penis to be stroked for getting the erection. I have been masturbating for almost 10 years now. Is it that the penis has got used to stroking so much that now...

A. 24 February 2008: Worry is like a seed that you plant. Then the seed of worry grows bigger and makes the problem bigger than it is. There are many sex toys for men to buy like penis rings masturbating gloves etc. Masturbation will not wreck your penis. It is the ... (read in full...)

The father of my daughter sexually abused me, I'm so scared our child will be next. Could I obtain full custody or have him visit under legal surveillance, you think?

Q. Hey I have a question regarding custody. I am 18 years old and I have a five month old daughter. I have recently filed for child support and sole legal and physical custody which I already have because we were never married but I want it to stay ...

A. 24 February 2008: In Australia the fact that he is not paying child support would be grounds to not have any contact. Have you instigated any family law proceedings? I would strongly suggest supervised visitation and a family report be done. Is there a child rep ... (read in full...)

I'd really appreciate some advice on how I can improve my social life, and get an attractive girlfriend before it is too late.

Q. Hi everybody. I'd be grateful for some advice on my problem. I am a 28 year old virgin. I have never had sex in my lifetime. I feel like I am getting old and that I am missing-out on things like girlfriends and sexual experience in general. I d...

A. 23 February 2008: Oh honey most girls would only dream of a 28 year old virgin. I can say I have never met one in my life but really attractive women aren't that hard to impress. Have you thought about internet dating? To be comfortable around women try going out to ... (read in full...)

It was only one little mistake!

Q. I'm only 15 turning 16 and two months and I have a big problem. I did something so stupid I'll never be able to forgive myself every again. I met this 20 year old guy on a website and we really hit it off. We started "dating" the day we met. We ...

A. 23 February 2008: Oh sweetie this man just wanted to use you. You are so young and with your whole life ahead of you. The thing is with internet stuff at your age you are so prone to these predators. What if instead of being 20 he turned out to be forty. Relax. You ... (read in full...)

How do I rebuild my trust in him, it is ruining our relationship.

Q. My boyfriend of 4 yrs has lied to me many times over our rship but never actually cheated on me. he has carried on friendships with females behind my back and lied about who he is hanging out with. he maintains that it was never because he had ...

A. 23 February 2008: BIGGEST RED FLAG WARNING SIGN- HE LIES. If you catch him out on the most simple of lies then chances are your whole relationship is a lie. For him to say that he has been with other girls but nothing bad happened and he did not want to tell you ... (read in full...)

Why is he doing this? I would love to think he's in love with me...

Q. Dear All, I am a 25 yr old girl and I have a unique problem. There is a celebrity i was crazy about [like most of u are about celebs] and was quite active on his fan sites [esp de ones he frequented passively]. Now, before i joined the for...

A. 23 February 2008: I would be very careful in this situation. If you are initiating most of the contact then I see him as maybe using you and if something sexual was to happen given the fact he has alot to lose I would see him as turning it around on you and saying ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure I should involve seriously in coming dates as I feel emotionally drained due to my past relationships.

Q. i have dated men for years to realize that they aren't right for me. i see their flaws and see past them and i "deal with it"..in hopes that it may be forever. i am a Caucasian Italian female. i'm trying to figure out a pattern but then even wh...

A. 23 February 2008: There is a way to break the cycle. First of all you need to work on changing your core values and beliefs. I can see with you giving your all to relationships that you see this as a solution to your partners problems and that if you give your all ... (read in full...)

I am in a relationship and I am thinking about oral sex with him what should I do?

Q. I am in a relationship and I am thinking about oral sex with him what should I do?...

A. 23 February 2008: Hire some porn and get some tips from the videos. My favourite is Shayla. It's not that hard but only do it when you feel ready and confident.... (read in full...)

I'm not sure I should involve seriously in coming dates as I feel emotionally drained due to my past relationships.

A. 23 February 2008: Ok you give too much of yourself to the wrong type of man. That is why you are emotionally drained. You need to keep something for yourself otherwhise you lose who you are and become totally swept away in a relationship. It seems as though you ... (read in full...)

He says he wants me close yet goes out with other girls - while I don't seem to have the strength to leave!

Q. Hi nice to meet you, I was looking for some help, because I have been one year and 2 month with somebody and he told me that he cares about me but he didn't know what he really feels for me so. It hurt me a lot because I have no friends I mean real ...

A. 23 February 2008: It sounds as though he is just with you until something better comes along. That's usually what guys say like I want you close but I am not sure about how I feel about you. That is a very mixed signal but guy talk for you will do for now and when I ... (read in full...)

Having a very high sex drive, is this normal?

Q. i'm very hyper active in sex . i always want to make love and try many sexual positions . am i a normal man? ...

A. 23 February 2008: Yes very normal. It shows you savour every experience and want to make the most out of each time. Gets very boring being a missionary man. Relax.... (read in full...)

No reply from my affair since Valentine's, why?

Q. hi all ive been with my husband for 13 years we have children.the past year has been real tough for us as i asked for a seperation because i felt we had drifted apart. within this time while going out with friends i met a younger man than me 6 years ...

A. 23 February 2008: v day or valentines day scares some guys because it is a day to declare your love for a person. Maybe this scared him a little. Does he know that you are married and have children and still with your husband? There could be many explanations. One is ... (read in full...)

Are there signs that she might be interested?

Q. Hi All, Bit of a long story this one but I think you’ll find it amusing if nothing else! I really like this girl. I’m fine chatting to her and joking around but there are moments where I get confused… Is she interested? Is she just being ni...

A. 22 February 2008: Gday mate just wanted to have an update on how things are going with you and this special girl that has you wound up in knots. Let us know how things have progressed. I am curious as we haven't heard from you for awhile so maybe this is good because ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 22 February 2008: Going to the library is such a positive step for you. Arming yourself with as much literature on emotionally abusive relationships will have a twofold effect. One it will provide you with information on all the tools manipulative people use to soul ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 22 February 2008: Wow it sounds like you have been through alot of pain in your seven years with this coke addicted man. I would say the selfishness within him was present before the cocaine and the cocaine has just emphasised it and enhanced this personality trait. ... (read in full...)

It's all wearing me out emotionally...

Q. My husband has a very fiery temper and when he gets angry he can be very rude and swear and shout and insult me, calling me 'thick' and a 'bitch' etc .. I have told him so many times that this hurts me and upsets me but the next time we argue it ...

A. 19 February 2008: You are in a cycle of domestic violence. The emotional abuse you are experiencing the name calling is a tool he uses to manipulate you emotionally. Why does he do it? Because he feels ENTITLED. There are many forms of domestic violence, ie physical, ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to check girls out??

Q. I'm a 19-year-old senior in high school, and I'm always finding myself constantly looking at the girls' boobs, checking out their butts, and wondering about whether they masturbate, or not. Could someone tell me if this is normal?...

A. 19 February 2008: Gday mate. Yes it is absolutely normal and natural to check girls out. You are in the prime of your life and at the stage of your life where you are seeking out a partner to mate with. On the subject of masturbation I am 35 and I am proud to say I ... (read in full...)

Why is it so hard to commit. I know she is the one I love and want to spend the rest of my life with.

Q. Well where to start, I have 8 colleagues in my office every one is married I am the single one. Every day I'm been told by them how lucky I am been single and to tell the truth, when I hear some of the crap in there lives it really lets me think ...

A. 17 February 2008: well DONE I gathered your committment to this woman stemmed from childhood. You see the pain and the trauma your mother went through at the hands of your father and you felt like you should have protected her. This is why these core beliefs whether ... (read in full...)

After how many dates should you discuss your relationship?

Q. If you go on a few dates with someone new, and see them alot during the week, talk on the phone, go over each other's houses etc - would you be bf/gf? I was wondering, what is the usual amount of time before you should start assuming you are...

A. 17 February 2008: Guys and girls have different views on the committment talk and most guys will run 100 miles in the opposite direction if you have THE TALK even if they are happy dating you. I say tell him that you care about him and you are happy to proceed with ... (read in full...)

I have a small penis,,how can I satisfy a female?

Q. Hi im a guy in my late teens and im really embarrassed ive got a very small penis just on 2 inches fully erect ive never had a girlfriend im to embarrassed what can i do can i even satisfy a girl?...

A. 17 February 2008: Good advise from the last post. Wasn't it Madonna who said it is not the size of the wand that matters but the wizard who waves it. If you are worried then your insecurity will affect your ability to please a woman and you will be constantly ... (read in full...)

Should I cry out when I orgasm?

Q. I've recently started to orgasm during intercourse and sometimes feel like calling out with the pleasure.I'm a bit shy though and wonder if the people in the bedroom next door might hear-especially when it's so quiet at night.My man says if ...

A. 17 February 2008: Maybe I am the wrong person to answer being croatian korculan but mate if my partner is making me happy I moan and bellow and say yes oh my god harder that's it keep going yes yes I'm gonna cum baby. I really don't care who hears me. If he is doing ... (read in full...)

Should I give it another try or move on?

Q. I have been on and off with this guy I'm in love with for 5 years. We decided to go our own ways and he got with a girl but left her for me then got back with her. Now they have broken up due to their own problems and he is saying he wants me even ...

A. 17 February 2008: Sounds like he is committment phobic and really not sure what he wants. This will confuse you and make you unsure. Ask yourself do you want to be someone's seconds or do you want a partner who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to be with you. Or ... (read in full...)

Am I normal??? How can I overcome this shyness with women?

Q. I want to know if I'm a normal guy. I'm 26 years old and I don't date at all. Not because I don't want to date, I find woman very attractive, I'm just shy. I have gone on a total of 5 dates my whole life, and have never been on a second date. ...

A. 17 February 2008: Work on your confidence levels. Happiness comes from within and radiates outwards. You could try internet dating if approaching a women scares you. You can chat online and meet for coffee etc. My advise also is this. Walk down the street and the ... (read in full...)

Why is it so hard to commit. I know she is the one I love and want to spend the rest of my life with.

A. 17 February 2008: Being afraid to commit could be that your workmates are putting a damper on being married. If you love her then ask her to marry you. Ask yourself if you chose to procrastinate and she left you and someone else asked her and she said yes would you ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 15 February 2008: It sounds as though you have reached the crucial milestone in your life in where you have realised that no amount of good and love coming from your side is going to change him. Sometimes beautiful warm caring women have to reach absolute rock bottom ... (read in full...)

Are there signs that she might be interested?

A. 15 February 2008: Hey mate have a good weekend and make it this weekend you ask for her number and give her yours and don't lose hers. She is keen mate you just have to leave Hugh at home and take Jonny depp with you. Just kidding be yourself however nervous she ... (read in full...)

Are there signs that she might be interested?

A. 14 February 2008: Mate you got it bad for this chicky babe. She is giving you ALL the signs of wanting you. She sounds really confident and I bet she giggles at the effect she has on you but at the same time it would turn her on. If you make a move and she says no ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 13 February 2008: Ok for him to say you are in shock has he followed you to the doctors to know that you are on valium? Also he is softening you up for valentines day. You are on a very heavy dose of medication BECAUSE OF HIM. When I left my abusive ex husband my ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 13 February 2008: Hey just wondering if you are ok and you haven't caved in and let him back in your life. Send us an update so we know you are ok.... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 11 February 2008: To the man that asked you out I would have accepted a coffee date with him and after a few coffee dates explain to him that you have been in an abusive relationship and you want to take things slowly because you will not accept bad behaviour again ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 10 February 2008: In Australia we would consider this stalking behaviour. My suggestion is to get an answering machine for your home phone and that way you do not have to directly speak to him and if he gets ticked off he may leave a nasty message that you can take ... (read in full...)

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

A. 7 February 2008: Change your cell phone number for a start or turn it off each night after you have received all calls from your friends and family. Have messagebank take all calls so that he has to leave a message and then simply delete it. You are in a cycle of ... (read in full...)