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age
36-40,
*adAsh6705
writes:Hello everyone...I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year. We had a fairly deep connection, but things did not work out well between us, and I decided to finally break it off a few days ago.During the last week before we broke up, I cheated on my boyfriend with a guy who I have been attracted to for awhile. He knows that I was with someone, but he still slept with me a couple of times in the past 2 weeks. Well, I decided to break up with my boyfriend and now I am interested in pursuing a relationship (not necessarily serious) with the new guy, but he doesn't know that I have broken up with my boyfiend yet.I want to let him know that I am single now and that I want to spend time with him and get to know him, but do you think that he is only interested in sex or does the fact that I am single now make a difference? I guess what I want to know is from a man's perspective, if you decided to hook up with a girl who was in a relationship and then became single, would you be interested in her, or do you think that he has a bad opinion of me because I slept with him even thought I was in a relationship?
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (3 February 2009):
He might think that you would cheat on him aswell and it might put him off having a relatonship with you. But if he likes you then he might not look at it that way. Also, perhaps he thought that because you were in a relationship he could have no stings sex with you and you wouldnt be interested in anything more. Tell him your single and ask him out for a drink.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (3 February 2009):
 In my personal experience, I think he would be interested in a relationship with you, but I doubt it would last very long, he knows you are a cheat and you know he has no morals. There will be a huge trust issue here and you will find that you turn on each other as you will both be paranoid about your past.
Or I could be totally wrong and you will live happily ever after... Until you find a new guy that you are attracted to and sleep with be hind his back.
My best advise if you like a guy and you are seeing someone, break up first give it a couple of weeks then start dating, it shows you have some self respect, you ex won't think you are so much of a cow and your new boyfriend will respect you for how you drop your ex for him.
Good luck
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