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12 July 2012: In October of 2002, I moved from The San Francisco Bay Area, back to my hometown of Dallas Texas. In November I got a job at the wonderful world of Wal-Mart (said sarcastically) I worked back in receiving, my job was a soft-lines processor. I was ...
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What goes around comes around!
Q. My ex is really suffering now but I don't know whether to feel sorry or avenged for how he has treated me in the past. He left me to marry somebody else. His marriage has now broken down even though he's been trying to get back with her but she...
A. 12 June 2012: Yes, what goes around DOES come back around ALWAYS.
I would not go back to this man, he left you for someone else. He's only crawling back to you, now, because the other relationship didn't work out, and he has no where else to go. Don't be... (read in full...)
Is he willing to lie to me to avoid conflict?
Q. I've been with my current boyfriend for nearly a year. I love him, and he tells me he loves me. He treats me very well, and I have little to complain about. But one day in conversation, he mentioned that an old female friend of his drunkenly kissed ...
A. 12 June 2012: I agree with ChiGirl, if it happened the way he said it did, then you have absolutely no reason to mistrust him.
Perhaps he didn't tell the girl he was dating, at the time, because he knew, from past experience, that she would overreact. You DO N... (read in full...)
Worried about this girl that's become close to my b/f
Q. I'm really worried about a girl becoming close with my bf. we've been together just over a year but he had to move away for work 4 months ago (he comes home every weekend and I'm moving there also in August). He's obviously made a lot of new ...
A. 12 June 2012: He is well aware that she is after him, In fact, if she is being that obvious with her facebook statuses, then I would be willing to bet that she has actually told him how she feels. I agree with what everyone else has said, you do indeed need t... (read in full...)
Disgusted by my fiancee's past relationship
Q. Hello, I'm due to marry my fiancee in December, I love her so much and she's perfect for me. I'm 36 so am no spring chicken, and have had past relationships that never worked out so I know what an awful lot I have to lose if I blow this one. ...
A. 7 June 2012: You shouldn't hold against, you fiancée, the things she did as a teenager, yes, eighteen is still a teenager. Between the ages of eighteen and thirty, women go through an enormous amount of change, physically, emotionally, and hormonally, in other ... (read in full...)
Keep my safe, secure job, or move abroad with hubby?
Q. Hey! Been married a few months, been with my hubbie forever. He's just found out he's gonna have to move abroad for 5 years for work (his firm asked him that and he cannot refuse). He's got a great job and it's gonna be nearly impossible for him to ...
A. 6 June 2012: If it were me in this situation, I would move with my husband. Separation takes a toll, even on solid healthy relationships, and five years is a very long time for two people, who love each other, to be separated. When making this decision, consider ... (read in full...)
My best friend got me pregnant, and my husband is threatening to leave. Should I keep the baby?
Q. I'm 30 years old and I have been married for nearly 7 years. I love my husband very much but I do believe you can love two people at once. I am also in love with my best friend- occasionally, when we hang out, we have sex. We know it is wrong and I ...
A. 6 June 2012: Are you absolutely positive that the baby isn't your husbands?
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How do I confront him?
Q. I met this guy 3 months ago and we have been seeing each other since then. He told me he is in love with me and wants to be with only me. But still has feelings for his ex which he has a child with. Well she called wants to get back with him and ...
A. 5 June 2012: He is laying on the guilt, trying to make you feel bad for being suspicious of him, while knowing full well that he is doing EXACTLY what you are accusing him of.
He is lying to you, and hoping that you're not smart enough to see it, or that he ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so irrationally envious?
Q. One of my very best friends got engaged last night, don't get me wrong when I ask this question I am sooo happy for her. But I'm insanely, ridiculously, incredibly jealous. I'm not sure why, I know that my boyfriend and I are not ready to get ...
A. 5 June 2012: Alright, so then it goes back to what I said about you knowing, in your head, that you're not ready for marriage, but your heart says otherwise.
Talk to your boyfriend, and make sure that the two of you are indeed on the same page about having a... (read in full...)
I think my husband may be cheating on me again. What should I do?
Q. What do you think of this one? My spouse and I have been having trouble the past 2 years. I found out he cheated on me, a very long time ago with a so called friend. She was passive aggressive with me over the years and when I found out why (aka ...
A. 4 June 2012: Because he cheated on you, you are now in distrust mode. This is perfectly understandable, but make sure you don't over think things. Whenever you go looking for trouble, you can pretty much use anything to support your suspicions. I get e-mails ... (read in full...)
My ex is married, but I'm still interested in him. What should I do?
Q. I dated a guy for short period but lost all contact until recently. he contacted me and tells me he's married (not his decision), but can't forget me. he wants to connect again. we were very good together and i know i'll be just as bad as he is if ...
A. 4 June 2012: What does he mean that him getting marries wasn't HIS decision? That's a crock, if I ever heard one. Unless he is from a country where marriages are arranged, he had a choice. Sounds like he's playing the old "poor poor pitiful me, I have an ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so irrationally envious?
Q. One of my very best friends got engaged last night, don't get me wrong when I ask this question I am sooo happy for her. But I'm insanely, ridiculously, incredibly jealous. I'm not sure why, I know that my boyfriend and I are not ready to get ...
A. 4 June 2012: Even though your head is saying you're not ready for marriage, your heart is screening to the contrary. That is an issue you're going to have to resolve within yourself.
You do seam to have a lot of anger surrounding your best friend's happines... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want me to meet his co workers.
Q. my husband and I have been married almost 3 years but he doesn't seem to want me to meet any of his coworkers. He never invites me to any of there work activities such as the family picnics etc. He says he's ashamed to bring me around them because ...
A. 4 June 2012: Hmmm, how very strange. The first thing that came to my mind, was that, for some reason, he has told his coworkers he isn't married. Maybe there is one that he flirts with, a lot, and doesn't want the two of you crossing paths. Unless, of course, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont kiss me, hug me or compliment me, what's wrong?
Q. My boyfriend won't kiss me, hug me, or even touch me. He never compliments me or says anything sweet. I'm really starting to think he's not attracted to me. He tells me a lot how "hot" his celebrity crushes are so i know he doesn't have a problem ...
A. 4 June 2012: He isn't physically or emotionally affectionate with you, what the hecks is it, about this man, that you're in love with? Love is born out of having a physical and emotional connection with someone, and you don't have either one of those with him. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend texts and calls random women, but denies it and gets defensive when caught!
Q. A few months ago, while using my boyfriends phone to make a call I noticed an unregistered, unfamiliar area code number dialed late at night. Later, when I asked my boyfriend about it he said he didn't know what I was talking about and denied it. ...
A. 4 June 2012: Sounds like it's time for a new boyfriend. There's a reason that things get to this level, apparently he isn't happy in your relationship, and obviously he has no respect for you. If he can't be honest with you, about it, then it's time for you to ... (read in full...)
How do I confront him?
Q. I met this guy 3 months ago and we have been seeing each other since then. He told me he is in love with me and wants to be with only me. But still has feelings for his ex which he has a child with. Well she called wants to get back with him and ...
A. 4 June 2012: He's keeping you on a back burner, because you're allowing him to, don't get caught up in a love triangle. Since they have a child together, the ex is always going to be a part of his life. Talk to him, tell him of your suspicions, and of the ... (read in full...)
When is a good time to start doing things like going and hanging out with friend, activating my Facebook again?
Q. Hello .. Well my boyfriend has broken up with me,and this isn't the first time it's happened. He said he couldn't trust me,i've never cheated or lied but he has and he thought i would try to get back at him for it,but i wouldn't have done anythi...
A. 30 May 2012: Now is a very good time, start living your life IMMEDIATELY! Sounds to me like you are very lucky to be rid of him, men who are that controlling, don't usually like to let go. Go out, have fun, be with your friends, do all the things a girl yo... (read in full...)
Am I right to be jealous of my wife's new 'guy friend'? It goes so far that she even does his laundry!
Q. So, my wife and I have been married 12 yrs, and have always been admired for our relationship. About 6 months ago she started sharing her office with a single man, who quickly turned into her "guy friend". Since then, she's spent a lot of time ...
A. 30 May 2012: I believe you have every right to be concerned, and I agree with AuntyEm.....DO NOT befriend this man, because they will then use that friendship as a means for him to wiggle his way even deeper into your lives.
I've seen this exact same scenario... (read in full...)
Girlfriend "moved on" while I was deployed, what happens now?
Q. I was dating my ex for close to a year before I was deployed in October. My deployment was originally scheduled to last for 6 months, but was extended twice so now I'm scheduled to return from my deployment in about a month (9 months). The majority ...
A. 28 May 2012: Let me take this opportunity to say thank you so much for serving our country, you have no idea how much it is appreciated! Please do not take offense to this, but your ex girlfriend is very selfish. She said she still loves you, and that you wer... (read in full...)
I'm trying so hard to like her, and get to know her so I can develop feelings.
Q. I met this girl who genuinely likes me, made the first move, and such... I'm trying so hard to like her, and get to know her so I can develop feelings. I believe relationships shouldn't be unrequited. I guess some things really drag me dow...
A. 10 May 2012: Wow, if you're having to work so hard at trying to developer feelings for this girl, then she isn't the right one for you. Relationships start with an infatuation, a desire to get to know the person, and feelings develop naturally, over time, as a ... (read in full...)
No sex drive since the baby arrived -- should I tell him to get his needs met elsewhere?
Q. Ok so I had a little baby girl about 9 months ago. And since then Ive had about zero sex drive. I get horny occasionally but im just not in the mood. This has put a serious strain on my relationship with my fiance. I know he has liked our mutual ...
A. 7 May 2012: I have to agree with what everyone else has said, this has "bad idea" written all over it. Please do not make this decision, you will live to regret it. They are into each other ALREADY if they start having sex, you will lose them both. ... (read in full...)
Do priorities come into play when there's a large age gap?
Q. I'm wondering if age in dating makes a big difference. Recently I met this guy and hes a bit older than me. I just turned 21 and hes 34. We hit it off pretty well and we have the same views on a lot of things. I'm just wondering if it'd be a problem ...
A. 26 April 2012: I think when it comes to age differences, it really depends on the personalities of the two people involved. I am sixteen years older then my hubby......we've been married for seven years, and are extremely happy. He tells me that we are two pieces ... (read in full...)
My wife says that I need to chose either her or my family!
Q. My wife and I have been married for 6 years. She has 3 children from a previous marriage. I love them dearly. My wife thinks that my family hasnt shown them love. I will say my mom has told the kids that she would do things with them and it has ...
A. 18 April 2012: My brother is in the same situation as you, although, his wife has not issues him, an ultimatum, she manages to keep him away from his family though manipulation and trouble making. My only hop is that my brother wakes up, one day, and realizes what ... (read in full...)
In a relationship with an older woman....she's so beautiful but so insecure! How do I fix this?
Q. Ok so I was a the club and I saw probobly the most attractive girl I seen in my life(I thought I was drunk until i saw her again and she looked just as good!). As a matter a fact all my friends tried to get her number individually but failed. I was ...
A. 16 April 2012: All you can do is keep reassuring her, not only with your words, but also your actions. Over time she will come to realize that you are not playing games.
My husband was 24 when I met him, I was 40. Now I'm about to turn 50, and he's 34, and toda... (read in full...)
Am I being petty over my husband's friend?
Q. Hello! So my husband and I were separated for three months and have decided to work things out. While we were separated he was seeing a lady who works in his building. They would go out and hang out and what not. I don't have a problem with tha...
A. 9 April 2012: Hmmm, this could go either way. My best friend was in almost the exact same type of situation, and it didn't end well for her. Her husband becomes "friends" with a woman he worked with, and this woman decided that he was the man of her dreams, even ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's drinking is ruining everything!
Q. My boyfriend has an obvious drinking problem, even he admits it. At times he has tried to cut down, but over the course of a month or so he just works back up to the same old excessive amount. He comes home drunk all the time. He's even started ...
A. 8 April 2012: Your boyfriend needs some serious help. Encourage him to get into a twelve step program like aA......and you even go with him to show him that you are serious about seeing him get sober. You also need to get yourself into some kind of support group ... (read in full...)
My husband's temper is destroying me and our marriage!
Q. I feel absolutely trapped in a relationship that is tearing my self esteem apart. I've been with my husband for 7 years. I've always known he was opinionated and a bit hotheaded. At times he borders on being verbally abusive when he's mad. Then ...
A. 8 April 2012: If this is new behavior, then there very well could be something going on in his brain......you need to have him see a doctor. I can tell you from personal experience, though, that for 21 years I was married to a man with a horrible temper.... (read in full...)
I still love my ex but I'm married!
Q. Hi I have been divorced from my ex for about 9yrs now. We still talk on a regular basis. He now has 2 kids but indicated to me that he would never marry again unless it was me. I recently re-married almost a year ago. I love my husband, but I just ...
A. 6 April 2012: He's your EX for a REASON. Unless the issues, that lead to your divorce, have suddenly been resolved, this will never work. I feel sorry for the man you're currently married to, because he believes that you love him......he has no idea that you're ... (read in full...)
Where did I go wrong in starting this 'rebound' relationship?
Q. So my boyfriend of two years broke up with me, about 5 months ago now, and I was completley heart-broken. Shortly after the breakup, I hooked up with a co-worker. I told this co-worker from the get-go that I wasn't interested in a long term ...
A. 23 March 2012: No matter what "ground rules" are laid down, in the begining, friends with benefits does NOT work. One person always ends up falling in love, and if the other one doesn't follow suit, then there is real trouble. You have a pretty serious problem on ... (read in full...)
He hurts me so much but he is like a drug I cant live without! Help!
Q. Dear cupid My bf of 2 years constantly avoids me, often humiliates me and when i ask he says he was joking, joking or not joking, his words affect me. I told him not to do that, he never listens. I dont want his words to affect me so much, but it ...
A. 22 March 2012: What I want to know is, what is it about this man that keeps you coming back for more abuse? He isn't the last man on earth, and really, he doesn't even sound like much of a man. You can do better, and you deserve better. People will only treat you ... (read in full...)
Major crush on my neighbor, but we are both in relationships! What should I do?
Q. Hi everyone, I have a question. I have this neighbor who lives right next door to me who I have a major crush on for a while. I know he likes me too we flirt all the time and he acts all shy and nervous when we talk. This is the thing, he is with ...
A. 22 March 2012: All I can say, is that I completely agree with Aunty BimBim. You need to deal with your current relationship issue, before looking elsewhere. Whether that means getting counseling, doing whatever it takes to make it work, for the sake of your ... (read in full...)
He went to the movies with a girl and lied to me about it...
Q. First, I'm in love with my best friend. We have been close for about 2 years now, we're always together. But we also have sex together, although we aren't actually in a relationship. He knows that I have feelings though and we have had ...
A. 21 March 2012: Stop sleeping with him.....it's complicating your situation. The problem with FWB, is that neither of you really know where you stand, because a line has been crossed. You're no longer just friends, but you're not really a couple, either, because ... (read in full...)
Is this an unforgivable mistake? Should I believe nothing happened between my husband and the other woman?
Q. My husband and I have been together for 13 years and married 7 this year. We started dating when i was 15. My Husband is my best friend and love of my life. Until Nov. of last year our marriage was great really. We had our fights and my husband w...
A. 21 March 2012: I've always seen sudden changes, in behavior, as a major red flag. Almost always it points to cheating.....either emotionally or physically. I don't consider a basket of fruit to be so much of a romantic gift, it is more of a gustier of friendship, ... (read in full...)
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