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I love to write poetry, dabble in graphics design, collect dolls, and I have a passion for cooking. I also have a little bit of a "dark" side. I'm very drawn to all things paranormal, supernatural, and science fiction related.

I've done a lot of traveling, and have friends scattered all over the United States, Canada, and Europe. When it comes to choosing my friends, I am very open minded. They are people of all different races, backgrounds, lifestyles and religions.

I'm married to a man sixteen years my junior, and it works for us. He says we are two pieces of a two piece puzzle, that is how well we fit together. We have the kind of relationship that people say only exists in fairytales. We've been married over seven years, and when people see us together, they ask us if we're newlyweds.

My answers are based on my own personal beliefs, which have been shaped by my faith as a Christian, and my own life experiences, as well as what I've learned from the experiences of others. They're "my" opinions, and they're not always gong to be what you want to hear, but it's up to you what you chose to take from them. I'll never sugar-coat, kiss butt, or post an unpopular answer under "anonymous". I'm open, upfront, and honest, and I don't really care if I get a bad rating because someone doesn't like what I have to say.

Anytime you take a stand on something you believe in, you're going to piss someone off, somewhere.

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The Beginning of A Wonderful New Life.

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12 July 2012: In October of 2002, I moved from The San Francisco Bay Area, back to my hometown of Dallas Texas. In November I got a job at the wonderful world of Wal-Mart (said sarcastically) I worked back in receiving, my job was a soft-lines processor. I was ...

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Can a friendship turn into more? Or will you always be stuck in the friend zone?

Q.   Can you guys tell me if it is possible for a friendship to develop into a romantic relationship between you and your good guy friend? Or will you always just remain in the friends zone with each other... Is it better to take your time and ...

A.   26 June 2012: That's the way it happened between me and my hubby. We worked together, and we became friends. We just enjoyed each other's company. we liked to do the same kinds of things, watch the same types of movies, exetera... There may have been some s... (read in full...)

How should I handle my insecure and jealous boyfriend?

Q.   Here is a background of me and my boyfriend. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-not-a-talker-but-my-ldr.html My boyfriend has a few times said to me that because I am quiet on the phone, he thinks I am distant, and that I must be talking w...

A.   26 June 2012: This is one of those behavioral issues that makes a relationship not worth the trouble. He wont change, this is part of his personality, and it will only get worse as he gets older. If you stay in the relationship, you are going to constant... (read in full...)

Why would he date me and hold hands, hold me, and that kind of thing if he didn't want a relationship?

Q.   Met this guy online through a dating site. We chatted for a few weeks and then decided to meet up after we texted each other for a while. Things were going good, we connected very well, laughed a lot, etc. But here's the thing, he said very early on ...

A.   25 June 2012: I can't imagine why anyone would want to go on a dating site if they weren't looking for a relationship. You did the right thing. He can't decide what he wants, and you don't want to be led on, only to be constantly let down. Move on, there ar... (read in full...)

He's been talking with women on webcam when he promised he wouldn't do that anymore!

Q.   So, i've had this problem of my boyfriend looking at naked women on webcams. He promised me that he wouldn't do it again because it made me feel so hurt and not good enough for him. Well, i know i shouldn't have but i snooped through his computer ...

A.   25 June 2012: He made a promise to you and didn't keep it. You can't trust him, and a relationship can't survive without trust. Really, there is only one thing you can do, distance yourself from the relationship. If the relationship is new, and you really haven't ... (read in full...)

I've had anxiety as we had a threesome and his condom fell off!

Q.   hi. my girl and i recently had our first threesome with another guy , and the rule for the other guy was to wear a condom. well, while he was in the middle of things, his condom came off. now, im ok with the fact that we did the threesome, but not ...

A.   25 June 2012: Yeah, I don't think it's an issue with the condom falling off. The reality didn't live up to the fantasy, and now you're having issues over watching your wife have sex with another man. You're in denial about it, so your subconscious is compensating ... (read in full...)

Should I just give up on this relationship?

Q.   My boyfriend and I recently split up over my jealousy issues over his relationships with his female friends. When we were together he told me he loved me and was only interested in me. We even talked about marriage and I moved in with him after only ...

A.   25 June 2012: If he is lying to this girl about yours and his relationship, that right there is a major red flag. If you believe he cheated in a previous relationship, then you have every reason to suspect that he would also cheat on you. If the man can't be ... (read in full...)

Should he stop communicating with a girl he almost went on a date with during our brief breakup?

Q.   Please MEN (and ladies) help answer this: My BF broke up with me in Nov said he was "talking" to a girl havent met up yet or anything...2 ks later begs to come back to the relationship w me exclusively says the breakup was NEVER related to another ...

A.   25 June 2012: If I got upset every time my husband "liked" or commented on something on another womans facebook page, or they "liked" or commented about something on his page, I would be in a constant state of MAD. Same with me, I like and make comments to things ... (read in full...)

My head is going in circles, is my wife cheating?

Q.   hi im 54 and my wife is to , this is killing me we have sex once a week now and for some reason she wont let me suck on her nipples like i use to never real got that rough where it leave scab on the base of her breast where the nipple start to ...

A.   25 June 2012: My husband is rough, he bites and nibbles, I like it that way (I know, TMI) but the point is, I have never gotten any scabs, just soreness the next day. Tisha is right, there could be something medical going on. Your wife needs to see a doctor... (read in full...)

My Mother seems obsessed about trying to break up my brother's relationship with his Gf. What can I do?

Q.   ok my question is in regards to my brother and my mom. My brother A has always been a mamas boy and she has ALWAYS been obsessed with him and in his business. A is the dream kid, has always just let her be her over bearing self and smiled and s...

A.   25 June 2012: Sounds like your mother has a very unhealthy obsession with your brother, even your father notices it. Unfortunately there really isn't anything you can do about it. You can talk to him, and try and encourage him to stand up to your mother, ... (read in full...)

He 'doesn't know what to do,' now that his wife does not want a Divorce. What should I do about my Bf''s response to his wife's edict?

Q.   My boyfriend's ex wife has said she still loves him and doesn't want a divorce. We have been together for 18 months and are very much in love but now he said he 'doesn't know what to do.' He was married for 30 years and still feels guilty about hi...

A.   25 June 2012: Well, technically she's not an ex wife until they are legally divorced. As long as they are still married, she is very much his wife, with all the legal benefits that go along with that.....even if they are no longer loving in the same household. It ... (read in full...)

Am I engaged to the wrong person?

Q.   I wonder if I am engaged to the wrong person. We have been together for 4 years+ now... Our wedding is next month... He is kind, nice, my best friend, has a very strong personality, has helped me several times, very supportive, my friends and fami...

A.   24 June 2012: You've been with him for four years, and you wait until a month before your wedding to express doubts. This could be a simple case of re wedding nerves. On the other hand, if you truly don't trust him to secure your financial future, then ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend too dumb to pick up that I want sex?

Q.   So im really annoyed at the fact that my bf rarely wants to have sex. Weve been together for 10 months and for like the first 6 months we were having sex multiple times a day and now its like maybe once a week. We dont really cuddle that much either ...

A.   24 June 2012: Even though you don't like talking about these things with him, you're going to have to. Communication is the single most important thing in a relationship, especially in matters of sex. Have a talk with him, and don't drops hints or beat around the ... (read in full...)

I found out g/f had been cyber cheating for months and she thinks its no big deal

Q.   Hello, I'd like to start this off first of all by saying thank you to anyone who reads and replies to this lengthy message - I'm really in need of an outside opinion here and it would mean a lot to me. I have been with my girlfriend now f...

A.   24 June 2012: A lot of people don't consider cybering and strictly online relationships to be cheating, but they are. The emotions being exchanged are very real. An online relationship can also become an IRL relationship, very quickly, so they're far from ... (read in full...)

What is hot?

Q.   By watching TV and looking at magazines, you can tell what is attractive about attractive women (if you are a man anyway). Does this mean you can tell what is attractive about attractive men by watching TV and looking at magazines? Or is...

A.   24 June 2012: The entertainment industry has done a grave disservice to the average man and woman. They've given us an unrealistic image to try and live up to, in order to be considered "attractive" to the opposite sex. The fact is, beauty has and always will be ... (read in full...)

Was it right to leave like that? Did I react right? or was I too harsh on her?

Q.   First off I'd like to say I really, really appreciate that you are reading this lengthy story/question. *question at end I promise!* Me and this girl had a thing together and I told her how I felt and she said she couldn't date me because I w...

A.   24 June 2012: This girl clearly does not want to be anything more then friends with you, and all the begging and pleading in the world isn't going to change that. For whatever reason, she is not ready to be in a relationship, and you need to respect that. If you ... (read in full...)

I need to move on. But still feel connected to him. What's going on with him? Is there a chance?

Q.   I need some help to get over the love of my life and move on. We've got such a complicated history. He always used to act as if he liked me but denied it, however there was a lot of problems back then. Then various things happened to suggest ...

A.   23 June 2012: Have you tried talking to him and laying it all out there, telling him exactly how you feel? A lot of times, relationships that could really work, never have a chance because one or both people involved are afraid to admit their true feelings. It ... (read in full...)

Are these clues that he likes me?

Q.   I do have a slight crush on this man but i am wondering if this mean he likes me or more. He is around 40ish and this prior to a meeting. When every one starts coming in and just generally saying hi, settling down. I was in the middle of the room, ...

A.   23 June 2012: It's hard to know what his motivations are, but I'm going to strongly advise you, at your age, not to get involved with a 40 year old man.... (read in full...)

How do I stop being so negative about his new boyfriend? And how do I deal with the insults and such?

Q.   Ok, so I have been friends with this guy for about two years. And at first we have hated each other, because he would always make fun of me. After being paired up together for a project we have been best friends ever since. He is so awesome, he has ...

A.   23 June 2012: This friendship isn't good for you, at all. Listen to your other friends, they are completely justified in their feelings about him, he is destroying your self esteem. A true friend would encourage you and lift you up, not tear you down. Since he ... (read in full...)

I waited too long, so should I just let it go and forget about it?

Q.   My senior year of high school I didn't have a date to homecoming so one of my friends and I decided that we would be each others "date". When we were hanging out after the game she told me she had feelings for me and asked if I would go out with ...

A.   23 June 2012: Ahhh, the one that got away. I would say, yes, let it go. She is seeing someone else and you really don't want to interfere with that. Hopefully you can remain friends with her, without being driven crazy with jealousy. Who knows, somewhere down the ... (read in full...)

I can't talk to my mate!

Q.   How do you talk to a mate that, no matter what the circumstances of the discussion/disagreement we are having, refuses to take responsibility for his/her actions and relegates any comments made about him/her as part of that discussion/disagreement ...

A.   23 June 2012: You're in a very difficult situation, and I can definitely empathize with you. My ex husband was that way, and so are my mother and younger sister. It is very frustrating because nothing ever gets resolved. You end up having to throw your hands up ... (read in full...)

Would it be a mistake to go running off after a fling?

Q.   Ok I have a dilemma. Ive met a wonderful man I just feel absolutely amazing when im with him. Hes just one of those men who really wants to make his woman happy. I dnt mean like a whimp but like a real man would want. BUT, HE LIVES IN PENNSYLVANIA ...

A.   23 June 2012: I think if the relationship you are currently in, has no future, then you should definitely end it before hooking up with someone else. As far as this new man goes, I wouldn't run off to Pennsylvania just yet. Take some time to get to know him... (read in full...)

Will my ex go back to his ex wife? Can marriages work after such a long separation?

Q.   I wrote before about my boyfriend being reluctant to divorce his wife that hes been seperate from for two and a half years. He was involved with me for the last ten months and she was involved and living with a guy for the whole duration of the ...

A.   23 June 2012: I believe they can if both people are willing to work 100% at it. If they have children then they have a very good reason to make it work. You may need to just cut your losses on tbs one and move on. What you shouldn't do is be his safety net. Don... (read in full...)

I'm ashamed of how angry I got when I found duplicates of text messages to me sent to other women!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I been seeing a man in USA and I am in Canada about 6 months. We were having everyother weekend together. I just spent 3 beautiful days with him. I thought we were falling inlove, While sleeping somehow he hit me with his...

A.   23 June 2012: Oh well then that does make it a different story. In your post you didn't actually make it very clear that the two of you had a calm discussion about it, or that your relationship was exclusive. You just said you lost it, slapped him, broke his ... (read in full...)

Older female falls for young men and gets hurt every time! Do I stop, or alter how I feel about the inevitable end?

Q.   i know im in trouble. i even know how i got here. i just dont know how to stop. im a girl who is an artist and i enjoy the company of artistic feeling when it comes to love; sensuality, beauty, emotional feeling and connection, spunk and spirit...

A.   22 June 2012: I met my husband when he was 24 and I was 40. We didn't start out with romantic relationship, though. We had a lot in common and enjoyed each others company, so we became friends. The romance slowly blossomed over a three year period. Last April, we ... (read in full...)

I'm ashamed of how angry I got when I found duplicates of text messages to me sent to other women!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I been seeing a man in USA and I am in Canada about 6 months. We were having everyother weekend together. I just spent 3 beautiful days with him. I thought we were falling inlove, While sleeping somehow he hit me with his...

A.   22 June 2012: I agree with CindyCares. Physically attacking him and his personal property is not a good thing. Technically you're a long distance relationship, and you've only been seeing him for six months. Have you established yourselves as a committed couple, ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cant get hard, even after 2 years! What can I do?

Q.   So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we're still not having sex but we do fool around the problem is my boyfriend can not get hard when we're fooling around. I've gone down on him and given him a hand job and he'll even try to ...

A.   22 June 2012: It could be a form of ED. I know he's a bit young, but from what I've read, erectile dysfunction can happen at any age, for a multitude of reasons. Maybe it's time for him to see a doctor about it.... (read in full...)

New boyfriend admitted he can't get an erection because of my weight and I'm devastated....Help!?

Q.   I have an incredible new boyfriend I really like, but he has trouble getting and keeping an erection, and the reason is.....my weight. We are incredibly drawn to each other on so many levels- intellectually, emotionally, etc. He says he finds my ...

A.   21 June 2012: If he's as into you as you say he is, then the physical attraction would be there regardless of what you look like. I don't think this has anything to do with your weight, there's something else going on. If he isn't attracted to women who are ... (read in full...)

I have a little crush on my friend, but could never date him because he is overweight! How do I talk to him about his weight so he can be the perfect guy for me?

Q.   Hi guys. I would really love some thoughts and opinions on my situation. First off i am 25 years old and after some horrible relationships iv finally found peace in being single and living life. I have joined volunteer work to void some of my ...

A.   21 June 2012: Chemistry between two people cannot be forced, it's either there or it isn't, and it has nothing to do with how a person looks. It's a soul to soul connection that gives you the desire to get to know that person on a level that goes beyond ... (read in full...)

I accidentally found out that my daughter in law & family do not like me. What do I do now?

Q.   This afternoon I had my 10 year old grandson (my son's son)and I took a wrong turn in the car at a junction. He panicked thinking we were going to his other grannys (his mum's mum). On gently questioning him he told me that it would be a bad idea ...

A.   21 June 2012: If the granny is that dominating, then it may very well be that she's the only one who doesn't like you, and the others are just afraid to disagree with her, at least in her presence. A very smiler thing used to go on in my family, until we all ... (read in full...)

I masturbate and then don't want sex with my wife

Q.   I don't seem to be sexually attracted to my wife very much. I'm not not sure if its a labido thing or what. I do masturbate to porn though when she's not around but as soon as she's back and wants sex I'm not interested. I do love her and want her ...

A.   21 June 2012: Have you tried not masturbating, saving those urges for when she is around? It might help, because if you haven't taken care of yourself, by the time you see her you're going to want sex. If you still would rather masturbate to porn, instead of sex ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't acknowledge when I say things

Q.   I've been dating a wonderful man for 6 months. I've never had a relationship go this smoothly ever. There are only two issues: one huge and one small. The huge one is he can't sustain an erection enough for us to have sex. Although this is a huge ...

A.   21 June 2012: He could be one of these men who only speak when they have something of value to add to the conversation. My husband is the same way. He will answer me when I ask him a question, but other then that, he only speaks when he has something relevant to ... (read in full...)

He's told me he's open to a relationship down the road, but there is the problem that he's married. Input is needed!

Q.   I met this guy through a sort of "friend of a friend" thing and initially didn't give him much of a second thought, as he was married with kids and almost 10 years older than I am (I'm 20, he's 29). We talked on and off for a few months, but it was ...

A.   20 June 2012: All women, who get involved with married men, want so badly to believe that THEIR situation is different, that they are "the one". Unfortunately it never works out that way. He's made you believe that you are his salvation from a bad marriage, and ... (read in full...)

Will he ever man up to her? Or am I a rebound?

Q.   I hope this doesn't come off mean but I need a few questions answered Maybe someone has went through this. My boyfriend of 8 months left his wife n family to be with me. I rent from them and that's how I got to know him. He's been married for almost ...

A.   20 June 2012: If they're still married, then she isn't "just an ex" she's HIS wife. I don't blame her for not wanting the children around you, you helped contribute to the destruction of THEIR family. Of course he misses his family, he has two young children he ... (read in full...)

Should women also carry condoms?

Q.   Usually guys will have one or two hidden in their wallets just in case they get lucky. However, should women do the same? What are your thoughts?...

A.   20 June 2012: Absolutely I believe ALL sexually active women should carry condoms, even if she is already on another form of birth control, unless she is in a monogamous committed relationship. Condoms are he only birth control that protects you from STD's. ... (read in full...)

Mixed messages from a guy I've been seeing

Q.   So I've been out in the dating world again. Enjoying having fun. I revisit one guy as a "friend" his choice of word. We are developing into good friends, but there have been many moments of kissing and hugging and dancing in the dark and ...

A.   19 June 2012: That is really really cool, I'm happy for you! Thanks for the update. :)... (read in full...)

How can I make him see that there is a difference between an accident and an intentional reaction?

Q.   I accidently kicked my husband in the groin (he was standing behind me) as I was explaining to my older son that it was unacceptable to constantly thump my younger son. My husband suddenly ran and lunged at me with his thick MBT shoes on and kick...

A.   15 June 2012: Oh wow, that is extremely immature of your husband, and in my opinion, could be considered abuse. I'm not sure there is anything you can do in order to make him understand the difference, because at his age, he should already know this. A loving h... (read in full...)

Mixed messages from a guy I've been seeing

Q.   So I've been out in the dating world again. Enjoying having fun. I revisit one guy as a "friend" his choice of word. We are developing into good friends, but there have been many moments of kissing and hugging and dancing in the dark and ...

A.   15 June 2012: Reading your post brought back such fond memories for me, because that is exactly how the relationship between me and my husband started out :=) To me, that is the most wonderful way to develop a solid relationship, because you really get to know ... (read in full...)

Does my boyfriend still have feelings for his ex?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and recently had a baby. When we met we had instant chemistry and fell in love. We have spent every weekend with each other from the time we met. I live in LA and he lives in San Francisco and we would ...

A.   15 June 2012: I think you are reading too much into this. The e-mail conversation took place months before you and he even met. In my opinion, the fact that he still had them, really doesn't mean anything. You are the one he is with, now. He is moving to the ... (read in full...)

When is it too late for true love?

Q.   At what age do you think its too late for true love? ...

A.   13 June 2012: It's never too late, I found it at the age of 41... (read in full...)

Do I meet up with my old flame? My husband has cheated on me repeatedly but I've never cheated on him

Q.   I have been married for 18 yrs now. My husband has cheated on me more than 10 times (3 times with a family member, but I only count her as 1).He has not cheated the past 6 years. As you can imagine I have very little self asteem left. A couple of ...

A.   12 June 2012: Don't dumb yourself down to your husbands level, two wrongs don't make a right, and you know that cheating isn't going to help your marriage, OR your self esteem. If you love your husband, as you say you do, and your marriage is important to you, ... (read in full...)

What goes around comes around!

Q.   My ex is really suffering now but I don't know whether to feel sorry or avenged for how he has treated me in the past. He left me to marry somebody else. His marriage has now broken down even though he's been trying to get back with her but she...

A.   12 June 2012: Yes, what goes around DOES come back around ALWAYS. I would not go back to this man, he left you for someone else. He's only crawling back to you, now, because the other relationship didn't work out, and he has no where else to go. Don't be... (read in full...)

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