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| | *HateWomanBeaters's profile:In my short life, I have seen some amazing things and some equally disgusting things.
I am here to turn the disgusting things amazing.
A few examples might be
A. helping a child get out of a household where the step father abuses her and her mother sits by idly, whether out of fear or simple malice is beside the point.
B. Helping a victim of abuse become an independent individual that can accomplish his or her goals that he or she wanted to do for so long. (an example would be a 17 year old that was not allowed to go to school by her pedophile 27 year old bf that is now in premed to become an anesthesiologist)
C. In one case, getting a female police officer to arrest her own abuser.
Together we can do things to make this world a better place.
I intend on doing more than give advice. I will do what it takes to help others.
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I think I need a break to sort things out. What should I do?
Q. Just before my fifteenth birthday I was with this guy, who I fell in love with. But then he made some bad decisions and we went our seperate ways. Not even a month later, I got with this new guy who was nothing spectacular and I figured he'd just be ...
A. 5 November 2009: you do not want to be with his man.
1.he is forbidding you from talking to friends.
2.your BEST FRIEND has said she does not trust or like him.
3.Your best friends father has said he does not trust or like him.
You spend nights crying and ... (read in full...)
Let him go and hope for his return or tell him how I feel and ask him to stay and chance ruining our remaining time or just let go?
Q. My problem is, I am seeing a guy, let's call him 'A', and he is moving to France (both he and I live in London at the moment). I met him through a previous boyfriend of mine, 'C', who I dated for several months, and this prevented me and...
A. 5 November 2009: well. I don't know how things are done in Europe. You tend to be more "traditionally progressive" than us in the USA.
However, what I would do to get things good and what not, would be to have fun with him and don't blow eachother off. See othe... (read in full...)
I hit my wife and choked her, she thinks it's her fault...help
Q. Dear Cupid, My wifew and I have been under alot of stress since my accident 2 years ago , we just recently went through depositions for our case, which is hard for us. Yesterday we got into a big fight and she wanted me to express to her w...
A. 4 November 2009: Here is a question.
If someone got in your face. Say it was me?
6'3" 235 single digit body fat % and 2 years of muay thai and jiu jitsu.
Would you hit me and *TRY* to choke me?
I highly, highly, highly, doubt you would try anyt... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't put effort into our relationship!
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was edited for grammar only, and to make it easier to read.] okay so my question is why does my boyfriend treat me like he doesn't want to be with me? he doesn't do anything to show me he wants to be with me he only hug...
A. 4 November 2009: you want to know what to do?
leave him.
do you want to be married to someone like that ********************EVENTUALLY***************?
If the answer is no then there is no point in furthering the relationship.... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I'm scared to have sex with my 17 year old boyfriend; he wants me to get pregnant!
Q. i am a 14 year old girl and i am going out with a seventeen year old boy and i am stuck in a situation because he wants to have sex with me but im scared because i do not no what to do when having sex!!and he said that he wants to get me pregnant ...
A. 4 November 2009: Ummm DON'T HAVE A KID
I am 21 with a business where I make 100 dollars an hour. I was scared so bad when i thought I got a woman pregnant.
You have no job, no schooling, no experience with anything. You are a child.
That last thing a chi... (read in full...)
They say I am pretty but fat. Should I be offended?
Q. Okay soo. Im 13 and i am over weight. please dont comment giving me tips on how to lose weight or on how to be healthier, im offended enough. i have low self asteem when it comes to my body, i have a stunning face but my body just isnt right, and ...
A. 4 November 2009: ok... I am trying to be nice because you are still a child. I'm 22 so you are a child. Anyway. If you want to gain confidence and the thing that is holding you back from being happy is your weight, then lose it. I am an exercise scienc... (read in full...)
Is my jealousy pushing him away?
Q. Dear cupid: I went on my first date with my boyfriend three months ago. During the four first weeks we had great time while getting to know each other. I was always happy and smiling and he told me that he will always like me as long as I remain...
A. 18 October 2009: yes it is your fault. you are 41-50 not 13-14. GROW UP. Get over your blatantly OBVIOUS insecurities.... (read in full...)
Could it be the one night stand's baby?
Q. hiya , i am 7 weeks prenant and very confused, i have just came out of a violent relationship but was carrying on sleeping with him , i got very drunk one night and had a one night stand on the 8th of august , i had a period after that and carried ...
A. 16 October 2009: GET AWAY FROM HIM NOW.
It doesn't matter whos kid it is. But, if it is the one night stand's kid, its better than that ex. Your ex IS going to be jealous. Your ex IS going to hit you again. And your ex WILL kill the unborn child.
End
It... (read in full...)
Is there a chance she's pregnant? Yes or No.
Q. I was just casually having sex with someone up until September 30, 2009. She is supposed to have her period on October 1, 2009. Admitedly it was unprotected. I only had vaginal sex with her for 3 minutes and did not cum inside her. I didn't c...
A. 13 October 2009: I already took the disease stuff into consideration. I always require proof of being tested for all viral and bacterial STD's before I have sex with anyone, in case something does happen like someone is allergic to latex etc. In which case anal ... (read in full...)
Do bad boys every change?
Q. Do u think bad boys ever change? What do u class as a bad boy? Im hooked on this man who i have had an on/off relationship with 4 3 years! He always let me down. Put his mates first. Sleep with lots of woman b4 i met him. And continued to when were ...
A. 12 October 2009: He is a bad bf. You and hm don't match. End of discussion. Move on and break up. If you don't it will get worse. ... (read in full...)
I'm beginning to think I am pregnant by a very jealous and controlling man!
Q. I tried to make this short but...couldn't. I kind of already know the answer to this but..thought I'd ask for advice. I have been dating someone for several months. We have had a argument every month except one about my ex husband. I have been ...
A. 12 October 2009: There is no point in bringing a child into that world. You are a mother and cannot be married to a man like that. He WILL abuse you and possibly abuse the kid. I worked in a shelter and had that happen to me. It WILL happen. When your bf hits ... (read in full...)
Is he a woman beater
Q. ok so my friend is with this guy and they claim they "love" eachother but everytime i talk to him he's always saying that he';s got to prove to his gf whom is also my friend that he loves her because she's said! this is getting really pathetic tbh ...
A. 12 October 2009: no he is not a woman beater, but it is a sign of what is yet to come.
If she is scared she should not get back with him... (read in full...)
My bf wants to try bondage, is this a good idea?
Q. hi my bf wants 2 do some bondage he has done it a bit with his past gf's but i have never done anything like it i am a bit scared to try new things but want to please him sexually as we have become less interested in each other sexually we have been ...
A. 12 October 2009: break up.
i have been into hard BDSM for four years and he is doing it to take his anger out on you. It is not right what he is doing. I am officially a DOM in the lifestyle, and i show consideration for all women i am with. He doesn't ... (read in full...)
Was my wife really a virgin, if she almost had complete intercourse, but not quite?
Q. I've never obsessed over my wive's past before. She was a virgin (so she said) when we got engaged and moved in together. I knew of a few past boyfriends where they did some 'heavy petting', but that's it. This past weekend, we had a romantic n...
A. 12 October 2009: this is so childish.
Thank you for the laugh my friend.
O' connor the irishman is right.
Grow up. Be a man and love your wife.... (read in full...)
I think I need a break to sort things out. What should I do?
Q. Just before my fifteenth birthday I was with this guy, who I fell in love with. But then he made some bad decisions and we went our seperate ways. Not even a month later, I got with this new guy who was nothing spectacular and I figured he'd just be ...
A. 10 October 2009: your bf is a child and is already on the wonderful path to abusing you. Step #1 is branding you like cattle. Then the really fun stuff comes :). Take a break. Leave. Dump him. Be with a mature person. This is what THE REST OF YOUR L... (read in full...)
I'm a chinese guy who has broken up with my indian girlfriend...because her parents don't approve
Q. im a chinese guy and i met this indian girl at work a year from now. i felt this strong bond with her so last month i asked her out and she felt same way so she became my gf. i know most indian parents want arranged marriage or people from the same ...
A. 6 October 2009: don't push it but prove yourself worthy. Get an apartment and be COMPLETELY independent and self-reliant. Also check the law books. I don't think they can tell her what to do under English law. I know in the good ol' USA they'd be getting their... (read in full...)
Do nice guys even still exist?
Q. I am 19 and I have never been kissed. Or even been on a date. Now that I am in college I want to date but all the guys I meet are more interested in partying and meaningless sex. I do not go to parties and I obviously don't have sex so I don't know ...
A. 6 October 2009: 1. You are looking in the wrong place. There you meet drunken bafoons. I go to Radford which had riot police and SWAT bust stuff up because there were 10000 people in 3 streets that went 3 blocks on each side of campus. Point being I know what ... (read in full...)
Am I a straight? Bi? Or lesbian?
Q. I have been staright all my life and had boyfriends etc, but just recently i feel like i have a crush on a female teacher. Everyones started calling me a lesbien, but im obvisly not a lesbein cos i like boys, but am i bisexual? or is it just a phase ...
A. 28 September 2009: You are whatever you are and you shouldn't change it for anyone.
This can actually be a good thing, because you will truly know who your friends are.
Don't be afraid of what you are and put those people that bully you in their place. ... (read in full...)
Who's right? Him? Or me?
Q. Please help me out...Recently I asked about my relationship. And now my boyfriend wants his question answered.He wants to know is it right for me to text or call him like every 3 hours when he is not home..But here is why I do In the first part of ...
A. 25 September 2009: This never surprises me. The good ol' drunk father that wants to avoid responsibility scenario. Do you think that it is right what he is doing? What I want you to do. What I am asking you to do. For your and your partner's sake, but mainly... (read in full...)
Overly critical spouse
Q. I think my husband is overly critical and he thinks that i m overly sensitive. I feel he lives in a dreamworld where he feels the need to have a perfect wife with a perfect figure who is also a great cook etc etc. I feel he is always criticising me ...
A. 25 September 2009: Ok here is how it is. Your husband expects you to be a perfect cook and have a perfect figure and what not. The least he can do is lead by example. Whenever I ask anything of anyone I am the first one to do it. Why? Because I resp... (read in full...)
Emotional abuse?
Q. hi, i desperately need some advice, i have been with my partner for over 3 years now and then i found out that before i met him he used to download illegal porn and sell for money, as he said he needed the money. I found out that he lied on a few ...
A. 25 September 2009: It is an abusive relationship and hes a dick. You should end it for the simple fact that you don't need people dragging you down. he does not respect you so why would love you?... (read in full...)
If a boyfriend punches a wall when he's mad does that mean he's abusive?
Q. Quick question. If a boyfriend punches a wall when he's mad does that mean he's abusive? I've heard it does but I was wondering if anyone has a boyfriend or is a boyfriend who gets mad and punches something but would never punch a female. Thanks....
A. 25 September 2009: IT is going to turn into abuse.
Take a break and get him help. when he is fixed you guys can see eachother.
You can talk on the phone until then.
but i recommend you break it off entirely.
It is going to be bad... (read in full...)
My verbal abuse has caused my ex to become a different person, how can I fix this?
Q. In my past relationship, I verbally abused my wife. At the time I apparently never noticed what I was doing and I've finally come to terms with this over the past few months and I've been working on it tremendously. What really concerns me though... ...
A. 25 September 2009: Hey buddy, I am going to make this productive and helpful, but first i have to say one thing. If i saw you in the streets I'd be beating you up and down the streets til you were stuttering because your brain couldn't work. You wouldn't eve... (read in full...)
He didn't tell me how old or sick he was, and I've me someone closer to my age
Q. I am 62 years old (but a very young 62). I'm active, I exercise 5 times a week and everyone tells me I don't look my age. I'm in good health and take care of myself. Six years ago, my husband of 32 years passed away. Three years later I met a ...
A. 25 September 2009: A relationship is about trust and being honest about EVERYTHING. I am 21 and I think he is immature. While I do understand he was afraid you would not take him, because of his condition, I think it was wrong of him to lie. My suggestion is th... (read in full...)
Should I walk away, or hope that things can go back to how they were?
Q. Its my first relationship and I came to find out 25 days back that my gf of 9 months cheated me in starting months, with her ex. i got disturbed and still continued with the relationship. but last night, we had a disscussion about this cheating.. ...
A. 19 September 2009: no one changes... (read in full...)
I don't want to cry while making love!
Q. so me and my boyfriend had sex last night (not for the first time) we have sex a lot. but last night he layed me on my back on the couch with my hips down coming off. he was on his knees with my feet on his shoulders, so my legs were straight up ...
A. 19 September 2009: if someone doesn't stop when you say to its rape
anyway, break up with him... (read in full...)
Useless husband doesn't show any appreciation to me
Q. Hello Everyone, I do everything for my husband. I get up before him to make him breakfast, I make sure the house is tidy I fold his laundry, I run him baths, I shave him sometimes as he finds it tedious. As well as household duties I also wr...
A. 19 September 2009: This is pathetic.
You need to respect yourself more. He is being very ridiculous and childish.
Talk to him and give him a month to change, at which point if he doesn't, divorce him.
Find yourself a good guy. You can do better than that.... (read in full...)
Too young to be engaged & in love with someone else, what do I do?
Q. I am 19 years old and engaged. I have also been in love with a different man for almost 6 years. Recently, the man that i've been in love with for 6 years confessed how he wants to be with me and has had mutual feelings for the same amount of time. ...
A. 19 September 2009: You will regret it for the rest of your life if you get married
Go be with the man you love. :)... (read in full...)
He won't give me his phone number but calls me his property...
Q. 4 months ago, a much younger man I met in real life came after me full guns. He won't give me his phone number, but doesn't call me either. We mostly communicate by chat or email. He claims he is divorced with shared custody. He claims he...
A. 19 September 2009: lol
find another dude to have sex with
its not that difficult
anyone, including a homeless quadraplegic would be better than this guy... (read in full...)
Am I crazy? Or is he?
Q. Answers from guys will be appreciated. I met a guy who was separated from his wife, but still living in the same house as they got along pretty well and saw no reason to rock the financial boat by running separate households. We saw each other fo...
A. 19 September 2009: tell him to man up.
He needs to end it with her and start over with you.
If he doesn't have the stones to do that, he's not worth your time.... (read in full...)
Help! my baby's dad could be a rapist!!!
Q. dearcupids, i really dont know who to go to now! im hoping someone will have a bit of advice, im 17 and i met this great guy when i was 14 and i instantly fell for him, i didt think he was interesting so i guess it was a secret crush i had on him, ...
A. 19 September 2009: Although I am someone who supports abortions whole-heartedly, I still think that you should do what you feel right to do.
If your boyfriend loves you, he will be there for you. He would not quarrel with you. He would not turn against you. If... (read in full...)
Was I right to break my girlfriend's ex's leg and jaw because he used to hit her and cheat on her?
Q. look im a 15 year old kick boxer. i been with this girl ever since elementry i really like her. I broke her ex boy friends jaw and leg because he cheated on her and he hit her a couple of times. am I right or wrong....
A. 19 September 2009: You made 2 mistakes.
1. You cannot be 100% sure that something is credible or not. You may think it is, but I believed that myself. I have had a woman come up to me and say someone raped her when that someone was unconcious while she was givi... (read in full...)
I feel like I can't get out of this abusive relationship! Help!
Q. I'm in a situation that I feel like I can not get out of. I'm living with my boyfriend of five years and we have two young babies together. I don't want to be with him anymore because he drinks, and when he drinks he becomes very voilent. He beat ...
A. 19 September 2009: Hi.
I am concerned about your situation as of October 27 of 2008.
I would like to say that there are men that are not like him. There are men, friends of yours perhaps, that would gladly help you get out of the situation. These are the... (read in full...)
Why does he treat me so badly?
Q. My boyfriend has been treating me really bad and I don't know how to tell him how he's been treating me because whenever I try to tell him he gets mad. He never wants to talk unless we're having sex. If we're not having sex and I try to talk to him ...
A. 19 September 2009: I would like to say that there are men that are not like him. There are men, friends of yours perhaps, that would gladly help you get out of the situation. These are the people you should be with. Find yourself a good guy. You can do bette... (read in full...)
We both hit each other but is this domestic abuse?
Q. I sometimes feel like I'm in an abusive relationship. Me and my fiance fight a lot and it has become physical at times. I hit and so does he. I admit hitting is wrong on any level but I feel like my hitting is justified..is that wrong? I find text ...
A. 19 September 2009: I would like to say that there are men that are not like him. There are men, friends of yours perhaps, that would gladly help you get out of the situation. These are the people you should be with. I'll admit, I got arrested 4 days after you m... (read in full...)
He punched and body slammed me several times... but he was drunk!
Q. My husband of two years seem so perfect for me until we moved together in 2005 he choked, body slammed and punched me several times but only when he was drunk. I saw the signs but still married him in 2007 because he said he would stop drinking. ...
A. 19 September 2009: I would like to say that there are men that are not like him. There are men, friends of yours perhaps, that would gladly help you get out of the situation. These are the people you should be with. I'll admit, I got arrested 4 days after you m... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hit me, but the thought of leaving him hurts too much.
Q. My boyfriend hit me, and the thought of me having to leave and star all over with another guy hurts so bad I still love him to death cause we been together for a year and a half. Should I leave him? ...
A. 19 September 2009: I would like to say that there are men that are not like him. There are men, friends of yours perhaps, that would gladly help you get out of the situation. These are the people you should be with. I'll admit, I got arrested 4 days after you m... (read in full...)
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