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| | *HateWomanBeaters's profile:In my short life, I have seen some amazing things and some equally disgusting things.
I am here to turn the disgusting things amazing.
A few examples might be
A. helping a child get out of a household where the step father abuses her and her mother sits by idly, whether out of fear or simple malice is beside the point.
B. Helping a victim of abuse become an independent individual that can accomplish his or her goals that he or she wanted to do for so long. (an example would be a 17 year old that was not allowed to go to school by her pedophile 27 year old bf that is now in premed to become an anesthesiologist)
C. In one case, getting a female police officer to arrest her own abuser.
Together we can do things to make this world a better place.
I intend on doing more than give advice. I will do what it takes to help others.
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He's 26, I'm 18. Do you think he's thinking about asking me out?
Q. hey! so i like this guy, he's 8 yrs older than me. it's a love at first sight kinda thing, cause i only met him once... I was walking in a corridor with my sister and he passed by and said hi to her (she knew him), then looked at me and smiled. Lat...
A. 12 February 2012: yeah, not asking him out would be a really bad mistake.
ASK HIM OUT! ... (read in full...)
He's 26, I'm 18. Do you think he's thinking about asking me out?
Q. hey! so i like this guy, he's 8 yrs older than me. it's a love at first sight kinda thing, cause i only met him once... I was walking in a corridor with my sister and he passed by and said hi to her (she knew him), then looked at me and smiled. Lat...
A. 11 February 2012: Eight years is not a tremendous difference. I recommend you pursuing it. Do not be a fool and think you are in love. You do not know what that entails.
However, find out! Be level headed, be objective, and make sure he can be trusted.
If ... (read in full...)
All the girls like him. I do too. But I'm not allowed to date. He's asked me out. What can I do?
Q. ok, this will be long so just stick with me. I'm 15 and i've been head over heels in love with this guy for 4 years.(we've known each other ever since like, senior infants.) he's had many girlfriends and has many girl friends (get me?) because ...
A. 11 February 2012: I would go out with him, and then whenever y our parents as you where you are going, lie.
IF he says to you, "I want to have sex" then say no and don't put yourself in a situation where that can happen.
Go out with him the way normal young... (read in full...)
He's sexually experienced while I'm still a virgin by choice. Can we work out a compromise for our relationship?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for several months now, and we have come to really care about each other a great deal. We are almost inseparable. We have spent weeks at a time together, and still missed each other when parting ways. There has only...
A. 11 February 2012: I'm sorry, but I never got this sort of attitude. First off, why is he going to date someone that is going to wait til marriage. Second of all, did he even bother to ask? Did you even bother to tell him?
As far as birth control, there are cond... (read in full...)
I'm 33 and never want to speak to my mother again
Q. I'm having serious issues with my mother. I am 33 yrs old and can honestly say I hate my own mother. It all started when I started college at 20 yrs old. We use to clash a lot and she wld just take things to another level. She wld call me ...
A. 11 February 2012: 1. Your family are a bunch of idiots.
2. You should forget about her.
3. They don't even know what parts of the bible are important, like, "Do not judge lest ye be judged.". No one speaks for god minus, you got it, GOD.
If the pope spe... (read in full...)
How do I make friends? Please help!
Q. I recently moved to a new school and I am already having problems trying to make new friends. There is one girl who is one of the most popular girls and I have someone rubbed her the wrong way and I guess she doesnt like me. The other day I was ...
A. 9 February 2012: The idea is not to give a f**k. That is what I did toward the end of high school, and as soon as I started to defend myself and be who I wanted to be to impress myself and those that were impresed by me, as opposed to someone fake, I made friends. ... (read in full...)
I messed up in life and went down the wrong road, but now I'm a changed man and I want my girlfriend back!
Q. Hey so me and my girlfriend are broken up we were together for 8 years. I moved out so this is very serious.ive been given the old its not u its me excuse but i cant stop but thinking i know exactly what went wrong. i smoked pot all the time and i ...
A. 2 February 2012: Dont' be friends, because she will then put you in the friend zone.
You can do what I had previously said if you wanted to change and show her.
... (read in full...)
I need motivation, how to lose weight?
Q. What are good weight loss exercises for over weight people? I physically can't do regular push ups so I'm trying to find new things I can do that will still work. I'm currently on weight watchers, but I feel I need more motivation... Any help would ...
A. 2 February 2012: There si something that I have done with people that could be a good motivator for you, if you are into that kind of stuff.
Aside from eating healthy and exercise, you should also consider consequences for not doing your exercises.
I am su... (read in full...)
B/f accused me of being with someone while I was lying at home and watching tv!
Q. Hi, Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we're long distance at the moment but see each other every weekend. Last night he went out with his work colleagues but called me after an hour saying he was bored and going home... we spoke on the ...
A. 2 February 2012: I would leave him. It is so silly from square one. However, the cheating thing is incredibly silly.
Leave him and find someone that is not long distance. ... (read in full...)
Do all guys want serious relationships?
Q. Let me start off I am currently going through a divorce and dating for the first time in years. My husband and I met in college and were married for 3 years before the separation. When I first started dating my husband he was drawn to me righ...
A. 2 February 2012: Bottom line, these guys that you are attracting are idiots. You want to find someone that is not going to be infatuated with you in five seconds, saying it from the very beginning. I am not looking for something serious. If that is something... (read in full...)
My partner of two years has a constant bad attitude and no matter how much I do she's still finds reasons to get angry
Q. My partner of two years has A constant bad attitude! Were to begin? So no matter how much I do she's still got reson to be angry! Firstly she complained that I don't do enuf around the house to help so I started doing more, that wasn't enuf s...
A. 2 February 2012: You can work it out, but it is virtually irreperable. I would not even deal with it, as it would take years f counseling.
I would move on or tell her to shut the hell up and make a list of what is wrong, and discuss it with you in a calm man... (read in full...)
I messed up in life and went down the wrong road, but now I'm a changed man and I want my girlfriend back!
Q. Hey so me and my girlfriend are broken up we were together for 8 years. I moved out so this is very serious.ive been given the old its not u its me excuse but i cant stop but thinking i know exactly what went wrong. i smoked pot all the time and i ...
A. 2 February 2012: There is nothing that you can do right now. As a person who does seem like a good guy, just soemone who couldn't take a hint, you can do the following.
Stop smoking weed, look up the foods that cause you to gain testosterone, since that is what ... (read in full...)
Hey guys, How often do things go well after getting a girl's number for you?
Q. I have a question for the guys on here. How often do things pan out? I mean, you meet a girl you like, you get her number. You text a little then nothing happens. I'd like to know how often this happens to other men because lately this has ...
A. 31 January 2012: unfortunately, your question is hinging on your communication style. Today, i got 3 numbers and got dates lined up fro thursday and saturday. I would say about 40% for me i go on dates with, from people i walk up to. The main reason why i do ... (read in full...)
Hey guys, How often do things go well after getting a girl's number for you?
Q. I have a question for the guys on here. How often do things pan out? I mean, you meet a girl you like, you get her number. You text a little then nothing happens. I'd like to know how often this happens to other men because lately this has ...
A. 27 January 2012: be more aggressive. That is your problem. You need to not bore them to death by texting and not having the balls to ask them out in person.
You have their interest, which is why they give you their # instead of taking yours. After that, yo... (read in full...)
Should I be upset and jealous over his remarks??
Q. I was watching TV with my boyfriend and Faith Hill came on for a moment. This is what he said.... "Mmmm Faith Hill is a scrumptious treat. I want to eat her up. She is sooooooo fucking hot!!!" I got upset and we had a huge argument about it...
A. 23 January 2012: Of course it is rude. you should leave him. If you are just a convenience for him, then move along.
You can do better.... (read in full...)
Too many red flags here? Or should I have more patience?
Q. Ok, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now. It's still early days I know, but it's also a long enough period to see how the persons personality is etc. My boyfriend had a troubled childhood, his mum ran away aged 5 and his dad beat ...
A. 17 January 2012: He is basing his response on indicators given to him by you on what you want to hear.
I would not trust it.
You don't have a sudden epiphany.
My epiphany came from within for me alone.
My interactions with other people have ALWAYS be... (read in full...)
Is my wife testing me? My sister in law is way too flirty. My wife wants me to get on better with this woman.
Q. My wife has family in San Diego that we visit sometimes and over the past few years, on and off, her sister, who is also married, has been flirty with me. There have been instances where she has "accidentally" exposed herself, talked to me about ...
A. 16 January 2012: Get a tape recorder and tape the en tire conversation, including you saying in the conversation, "this is being recorded".
Then, do whatever you feel like doing.
Then tell your wife that is what she gets for testing you, and that you are not... (read in full...)
Husband has changed in the three months we've been married
Q. My husband and i have a 6months old daughter. Baby and i share same bed, husband sleeps in a different one but in the same room. Bedtime-inserts his earplugs, turns over and sleeps. I tend to the baby. My roles-take care of baby (every aspect),...
A. 15 January 2012: You did not fall in love with the man, you fell in love with the illusion of a man he made himself out to be.
Get out of the relationship.
A tired mother is depressed is much worse than a happy mother that is single.
Do what you nee... (read in full...)
Feeling useless being in a long distance relationship with an emotional girl
Q. I'm having a long term relationship with an emotional girl for about 1 month. she is very emotional and feeling depressed all the time. we are in love, deeply. because we are living in different countries so I have no idea how to help her. but ...
A. 13 January 2012: Say this to her... "Sometimes, what we have to do, in order to build a good life, we have to tear the old one down.. You have torn all the bad out of your life, and now you have the materials to build the foundation for a great new one. ... (read in full...)
Had SUCH an embarrassing moment on this date, is he now scared away?
Q. Question This was SUCH an embarrassing date, did he get scared away? Details I've been dating someone for 5 months, I'm head over heels for him. He always calls and texts, he has romanced me and we have gotten closer by the day. A couple week...
A. 12 January 2012: Well, that seems kind of weird that he would make a big deal out of it. I do not see the problem with reacting to a drug that you have never taken. He should have been able to tell what kind of reaction you would have by talking to you everyday ... (read in full...)
Queefing during doggy-style, is there any way to stop it?
Q. When me and my boyfriend have sexual intercourse, we tried the 'doggy style' position, I love it because of the deep penetration but whenever we do it, my vagina makes a weird 'farting' noise? People call it a 'queef'. When it happens I stop and I'm ...
A. 12 January 2012: HAHAHAHA i LOVE your description! Its not bad, I like it for real. As far as the queefing thing, you can stop it by getting a less well-endowed man! I suggest you stick with the guy you have though! Its not a big deal and it really is not ... (read in full...)
Found boyfriend on a fetish website!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. He is very kind, sweet and generous and I've never had any doubts that he's a good person. The only real problem we've had is his porn usage - I don't like it, I think the majority is degrading to ...
A. 12 January 2012: Well, on your view towards porn. The porn that is consensual is not demeaning to women, as they enjoy whatever they are doing. Some do it for money, but they do not last long if they do not enjoy it. I have been majorly into fetishes, as wel... (read in full...)
How can we our first time spectacular?
Q. Okay, so early last year I was sexually assaulted by my boyfriend at the time. So that was my "first time" whether I liked it or not. Yeah, I know, how lovely. Anyway, I now have a new, wonderful boyfriend whome is a virgin and we're discuss...
A. 12 January 2012: Oh! wow sorr y, i did not see your followup. Romance- I am a very romantic person at heart, and I have done a lot of romantic things. The thing that I always do is I find out what they have wanted through conversation, listen to what they say, r... (read in full...)
Lack of a "filter" vs. chooses not to think before speaking?
Q. How could I have been expected to remain in a relationship with a person who "has no filter" and thereby often hurt me (unintentional as it may have been). How could I continue to give chance after chance of reconciliation (over a year's worth of ...
A. 11 January 2012: Ok, this crap about not having a filter is pretty silly.
I was diagnosed with ADHD as a kid and I can control myself, because I choose to. I also am diagnosed with Tourrettes Syndrome, and had a severe tic problem in high school. Often, i... (read in full...)
I feel I'm being pressured to move in with my boyfriend. I'm fine where I am!
Q. Hey, I'd appreciate your perspectives on whether I should move in with my bf or whether it is ok for me to want to keep things as they are, as I feel I am being pressurised into something I don't want to do:( He's been asking me to move into his...
A. 11 January 2012: If you feel as though he will take you for granted, then you need to think about that you are right in your intuitions.
He sexted, cheated, and told everyone about your misscariage when you didn't want him to.
Through every part of the rela... (read in full...)
How can we our first time spectacular?
Q. Okay, so early last year I was sexually assaulted by my boyfriend at the time. So that was my "first time" whether I liked it or not. Yeah, I know, how lovely. Anyway, I now have a new, wonderful boyfriend whome is a virgin and we're discuss...
A. 11 January 2012: Also, it will not worry him.
If he is the caring and loving guy you make him out to be, then he will talk to you about it and do hwatever he can to make it better.
Again, i have been there and i have been able to be honest and communicate with... (read in full...)
How can we our first time spectacular?
Q. Okay, so early last year I was sexually assaulted by my boyfriend at the time. So that was my "first time" whether I liked it or not. Yeah, I know, how lovely. Anyway, I now have a new, wonderful boyfriend whome is a virgin and we're discuss...
A. 11 January 2012: Ok, what these people are promising about it being awkward is a load of crap. You make it what you want it to be.
If you are ready, and you want to move forward, go ahead.
I feel that you should tell him about the flashbacks.
... (read in full...)
Should I come out? too much is at stake but I'm suffocating like this
Q. hey dear agony aunts^^ i had made a question some days ago about how to tell all the people that wanna set me up with guys to leave me alone. well i finally got the edge to that but i think of coming out anyway. see my dad and i had a talk just now...
A. 11 January 2012: If they have a problem with your sexuality and they want to hate you then they are not your family.
You are not attracted to guys, simple as that. Do you need to drop a bombshell on your mother? No. If she is going to be a drama queen an... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is having a hard time with the fact that I've been with another man before him. Help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have recently talked about having sex for the first time, he would normally wait until marriage but because we love each other and are both willing, he said we wouldn't have to wait(plus we are planning to get married in the next ...
A. 11 January 2012: Fact is, it should not matter. If it does, he does not love you.... (read in full...)
Did I wreck a chance at a third date?
Q. I met this guy online and after a couple of months he flew to see me. On our first real meeting he brought a friend and all three of us had drinks. He covered my portion of the bill. The second time I met up with him over coffee, I paid although ...
A. 11 January 2012: We are not concepts, people in general.
Take me for example. I am a dom in the BDSM world. It is a concept of who I am under a certain scenario, this being sexual. Unlike the other doms, who are usually assholes, I could not give a damn if ... (read in full...)
Too many red flags here? Or should I have more patience?
Q. Ok, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now. It's still early days I know, but it's also a long enough period to see how the persons personality is etc. My boyfriend had a troubled childhood, his mum ran away aged 5 and his dad beat ...
A. 10 January 2012: I had the same thing with my childhood.
He needs to grow up, just like I did.
It has been six months. There are a lot of very normal guys that are really good all the time, not just when it conveniences them.
Ultimately, you are t... (read in full...)
I love him. Want to be with him. But how do I stop him from getting so mad at so much I do?
Q. Dear cupid, My and my boyfriend have been togther for one year... And hes my life and i love him very much. But there has beeb such a big problem for a long time, he gets mad at almost everything i do, wearing the wrong cloths, even having lint...
A. 6 January 2012: You are not in love with him, you are in love with the illusion he has made himself out to be.
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My Mum's a tacky dating tramp all over Facebook. Help!
Q. My mum's using the fb date site and she adding all these guys for friends and flirting with them. I want her to stop because it shows up on fb to everybody thats her friends and some of them are my friends and relatives. She's acting like a slut and ...
A. 5 January 2012: It seems liek you are ashamed of your sexuality, and are a victim of propaganda. That is how you meet the right person.
Divorce is part of 60% of marriages in the USA. It is higher in other countries. Tradition is a sham way to meet "the one... (read in full...)
How do you talk sexy without sounding stupid?
Q. dear cupid, i've been looking for ways to spice things up with my guy. i watched a little bit of porn, but felt weird about it, soo i decided to just consult google and see what i could find out (snicker if you must...lol). one of the tips that i'...
A. 5 January 2012: Hmmm... The first thing that needs to be taken care of is peoples' preoccupations with making sex out to be something that is taboo. You are not five, right? No, I see that you are between 18 and 21. That was not an attack on you, but an attack ... (read in full...)
Are all sexual relationships a roller coaster ride?
Q. I have been warned by a lot of people that sexual relationships are not all their cracked up to be. That there are a lot of ups and downs. Is this true? Or is it possible to have a relationship where there are plenty of ups and few downs?...
A. 5 January 2012: Lol, no, not all relationships are emotional roller coaster rides involving huge ups and huge downs.
I have had a lot of sexual relationships, and I can tell you that the only thing that makes them up and down is not the relationship itself. ... (read in full...)
Our friendship is slowly going downhill.
Q. This girl and I have worked together for a little over a year. I never really talked to her much until around July. We seemed to hit it off and we would hang out every lunch and break. I found out she had a boyfriend and I was fine with that. We ...
A. 5 January 2012: Tell her what I said. The reason why you should, is becuase it will be on her mind, you won't come off as desperate, and give it a bit of time, and she will be calling you. You will have the upper hand, and you will be the one calling the shots. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with the perfect boy, but he's moving in with my friend!
Q. I'm Completely in love with my bestfriend. The problem is he's going out with my friend. I've known him for 2 years and have loved him almost as long. He recently admitted his love to me.Today we made out and he said he loved me and I told him I lo...
A. 2 January 2012: Give him a choice and say I appreciate what you have done for me, but do you want to be with her or me. It is not about being afraid to move in with. You are moving in with her or you date me. But please, make it clear, whatever your in... (read in full...)
Should I stop being in contact with my ex? Or break up with my boyfriend? CONFUSED!
Q. ive been dating a guy named matthew for over two months now.my best guy friend,andrew , who is also my ex, tried to kiss me on new years knowing that i have a boyfriend.that night he txt me.and he never txts me.hardly ever at all.i was surprised.he ...
A. 2 January 2012: Why did you and Andrew break up ? What actions of Matt's would make you want to break up with him? How is he not the perfect boyfriend? If you were to ask these questions to yourself, you could find and answer. If you and Andrew bro... (read in full...)
I told my boyfriend I was raped and he says things "don't add up"
Q. I was wondering was I raped. Last week, I received a call from an old friend who said that he wanted to talk to me and I told him that we can talk on the phone and he said that he wanted to talk in person. I told him to meet me over a friend house ...
A. 2 January 2012: If what you are saying is true and no details have been altered, which only you and the guy you are talking about can know for sure, then you were clearly, beyond a reasonable doubt, raped. Unfortunately, since it is such a severe crime wit... (read in full...)
Was I raped by this guy years ago. How do I get over this?
Q. I had a really traumatic first time, experience years ago. I was making out with someone and I was happy just with that. Then he forced himself on me and had unprotective sex with me. It was very painful. I couldn't stop crying, but he kept going ...
A. 2 January 2012: The doctor is a fucking moron. It would go to court, and if there was evidence of trauma, the doctor should have documented it. You may not have won, if you had cleaned yourself, or waited weeks, etc. However, if you did all the right th... (read in full...)
Our friendship is slowly going downhill.
Q. This girl and I have worked together for a little over a year. I never really talked to her much until around July. We seemed to hit it off and we would hang out every lunch and break. I found out she had a boyfriend and I was fine with that. We ...
A. 2 January 2012: Say to her, "I think that you should go for who you want to go for and make a move." Hit me up if you decide to continue where we left off".... (read in full...)
My husband has gone impotent...what happened?
Q. Do some man goes impotent without any cause? Is there always a cause? My husband is 48, and he is impotent, he went to doctors,they didn't find anything wrong with him. They just say, oh every man becomes a bit impotent in their 40 s.Well, I can't ...
A. 31 December 2011: If a woman does not want to have sex ever, and she is not willing to work on the underlying conditions on why she does not want to have sex, leave her.
If a man does not want to have sex ever, or he is not willing to get off of medicati... (read in full...)
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