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| | *HateWomanBeaters's profile:In my short life, I have seen some amazing things and some equally disgusting things.
I am here to turn the disgusting things amazing.
A few examples might be
A. helping a child get out of a household where the step father abuses her and her mother sits by idly, whether out of fear or simple malice is beside the point.
B. Helping a victim of abuse become an independent individual that can accomplish his or her goals that he or she wanted to do for so long. (an example would be a 17 year old that was not allowed to go to school by her pedophile 27 year old bf that is now in premed to become an anesthesiologist)
C. In one case, getting a female police officer to arrest her own abuser.
Together we can do things to make this world a better place.
I intend on doing more than give advice. I will do what it takes to help others.
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Husband cant satisfy me because of premature ejaculation.... perhaps I need to have my physical needs met elsewhere?
Q. I love my husband very much. We did not have a lot of sex before we married, so it wasn't until after our wedding that I confirmed that he has premature ejaculation. This has effected every single time we have had sex for the past two years, without ...
A. 5 April 2011: You should talk to a doctor with him. Premature ejaculation can be fixed.... (read in full...)
I'm feeling neglected and unloved in my marriage. What can I do?
Q. My husband been weird lately, he doesn't seem to want to hug me or kiss me, or do anything, when he gets home from work i go to hug him and he says 'i got other things to do'. He works Monday-Friday, so on the weekends i hope we can do things to...
A. 4 April 2011: This is not something that should be happening.
He needs to open up.
IF he doesn't, then leave him.
You are way too young to act like you cannot find a partner that will communicate even when he is a little stressed.... (read in full...)
I have to kiss my sister-in-law in a play! Should I do it?
Q. hello aunty,I am stage actor..my last few plays have done well and I am on a rise..2 days back I was offered a play with the best director in the business..this is a romantic play where my sister-in-law(cousins wife) plays my love interest..she also ...
A. 4 April 2011: She is your sister in law...
No blood relation.
Not incest.
Do it.... (read in full...)
I love my husband but I think I may have been happier with his brother....
Q. I have been with my husband foralmost 6 years. Before i met my husband i was friends with his brother who i also had feelings for. I still have feelings for him and sometimes i find myself wishing that i had told him how i felt and persued a ...
A. 4 April 2011: Actually, Jonas, you may be right, but in the USA sometimes men do not initiate. Maybe in singapore they do, or you are lead to believe all men do. However, if you are attractive at all (speaking in second person), then that would mean you would ... (read in full...)
Three months pregnant and he gets on my nerves all the time
Q. I am three months pregnant and ever since I have lost complete interest in the father/boyfriend. He gets on my nerves ALL the time and is always loveydovey and sensitive and it pisses me off. i feel like our relationship will fall apart through this ...
A. 4 April 2011: Well, OP...
You are wrong...
It will have a great father figure and a great mother figure.
YOU will be the father and the mother.
A man worthy of being a father, eventually, can help you. Right now, you be both parents. Your head is o... (read in full...)
My husand used to abuse me, but has stopped...Is this real change?
Q. Its been 7 months since my husband has been verbally or physically abusive to me or anyone else. He says he is changing,and has been on meds for the last 7 months. we have been together for almost 6 years. At the 4 1/2 yr mark is when he bacame ...
A. 3 April 2011: People do not change for others, they weigh the consequences and decide whether or not you are bluffing, changing, for themselves, only because it is in their best interests. It is not real change, I can assure you.... (read in full...)
He said he would like to be like Charlie Sheen and have a few girls on the side
Q. Last night me and my bf of 8 months were in bed and he was talking about what he wants. Hes studying at uni and got just over a year to go. The job he is going to get from it he will be earning from 120 000 to 200 000. His job will mean him going ...
A. 2 April 2011: Money does not buy happiness, but it buys the chance for happiness. On the opposing side of the original response in this thread, marrying a rich man that loves you for you and is secure, etc. is better than marrying a poor man that loves you the ... (read in full...)
Caught my dad in bed with my friend. Please advise.
Q. My Mum and Dad are still married but I found my Dad in bed with my friend. My dad is 62 and my friend is 26, they don't know that I saw them. Should I tell them and my Mum?...
A. 2 April 2011: No one should be fooled into living with someone that cheats on them and does not treat them with the respect they deserve. Your mother and your father are obviously having issues. One of your parents is not being communicative with the other, ... (read in full...)
Ex has come between me and my cousin. Am I wrong to have nothing to do with her?
Q. Well, i went out with this boy for nearly a year, we were perfect for each other and we both fell in love with each other, we broke up because he started drinking and i didnt like it, but i still loved him for ages after the break up. i tell myself ...
A. 2 April 2011: People who disown people for going out with someone that WAS going out with someone that did nothing harmful to someone else are in the wrong. You broke up because your bf was a drinker. That was a smart decision. However, he did nothing to y... (read in full...)
Will going on a dating site make me feel better?
Q. Your Open Question: What should I do? am really hurting:( ? I loved my ex boyfriend so much, but he lied, cheated on me and dumped me. He says he felt out of love with me:( last time I saw him I was really vulnerable and slept with him b...
A. 2 April 2011: Just hang out with guys and meet them. Don't do anything you don't want to do or feel ready to do. You obviously want to move on and meet new people. Do it, just don't go farther than you would want to go. Does that make sense?... (read in full...)
Is there anymore I can do, or do I just need to get over it?
Q. Ok yesterday I sent my boyfriend this really serious text pouring out my heart to him and letting him know that I will never break or hurt his heart. I sent him a text message saying:You really been on my mind this whole week. Like your the only one ...
A. 2 April 2011: I would say back off and find another person. If he really wants you, he will come to you. ... (read in full...)
I know he is cheating on me. Why? I am a good woman.
Q. Hello there... I have been with my boyfriend 6 years. We have had our ups and downs. He has a really strong character. So most of our "downs" have been because of his unwilling way of not trying hard to understand. He has cheated on me several ...
A. 2 April 2011: He does not see what you have to offer. He is a commitment phobe, and you equate yourself to his wife. Find someone that is a match for you. I am a good person, a freakin great lover, and would never physically or mentally abuse som... (read in full...)
He's a lovely man but I keep wanting to break up with him, sometimes on a daily basis!
Q. I have been dating a man for almost a year and love him with my whole heart but he drives me mad with his habits and personality and I keep wanting to break up with him on a weekly, sometimes daily basis. He has so many good points and is fa...
A. 1 April 2011: It sounds like you are bottling it all up inside. Talk to him and tell him how you feel about all the things that frustrate you. If he is unwilling to compromise, good penis is not worth being miserable everywhere else. ... (read in full...)
He calls me his closest and best friend in his entire life, but insists on commiting to his ex!
Q. I dated this guy for more than a year and I know that he's really into me. We have a lot in common, and the chemistry between us is just mind-blowing (that is what he says!). He told me really nice things, he bought me expensive things, he introduc...
A. 1 April 2011: Tell him to drop the stupid compliments, forget the expensive gifts, and to be upfront and honest with you. What the hell does he want? Why the hell is he not with you? Is he going to commit to it? Yes or no. If he is not, then forget... (read in full...)
What exactly is good sex?
Q. How do you know you're good at sex. What exactly is good sex? ...
A. 1 April 2011: That is a good question. The answer is, "It varies from person to person." What is your version of good sex? There are so many types of sex one can have it is ridiculous. My kind of sex is one that illicit the most real and primal respons... (read in full...)
If you've been friends for a long time, is there NO chance that he or she could ever fall for you?
Q. I've had something on my mind for a long time and I could use some wisdom in this situation. I would never try to steal, or break up someone's relationship... but, what I WOULD like to know is this: Suppose that you've been friends with someone...
A. 1 April 2011: I always recommend being honest and up front about how you feel about him. It gives you a fighting chance and it gives him the ability to make an educated decision. He is currently going out with a woman. He may love her and he may end up ma... (read in full...)
Why does this otherwise nice guy turn into a jerk with me?
Q. perhaps this is a more general question: I know this guy from work, and I see him talking on all kinds of social networks, and I know some of his friends, and he is a really good person, two lovely children who adore him, but with me he was a total ...
A. 1 April 2011: Do not pay him any attention. he is not really willing to commit. Everything that he feels and everything that he says are all lies. He is what you call someone who is feeling pity. I would not waste anymore time on this guy.... (read in full...)
Why does this otherwise nice guy turn into a jerk with me?
Q. perhaps this is a more general question: I know this guy from work, and I see him talking on all kinds of social networks, and I know some of his friends, and he is a really good person, two lovely children who adore him, but with me he was a total ...
A. 30 March 2011: 1. he is a drug addict. 2. you seem like you expect people to do things for you and he probably is really laid back in the sense that he would rather get to know you and do stuff for you out of wanting to as opposed to be expect to. I, for ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why my husband watches porn and it hurts.
Q. Why do men like to watch porn? I was raised in a christian family, and for me that is so hard to take...I feel betrayed when I find out that my husband was watching it and masturbating...and the worst is, i feel like he does not find me attractive ...
A. 28 March 2011: Porn is something that can be used for the benefit or destruction of the relationship. I watch porn and masturbate two or three times a day. When I am not doing that, I am having sex with someone. It gave me a lot of great ideas. In being ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know if hypnosis, or any other sort of alternative therapy works for self acceptance?
Q. How can I accept myself? It seems so difficult. I like my personality, my brains... I just don't like my looks. And sadly, appearance is the most obvious part of a person. I feel like I'm never thin, despite being at a normal weight, I still get ...
A. 28 March 2011: Hmmm... I believe that looks are important to a certain extent, in the sense that if you look relatively healthy, you actually care about your health. Your looks in terms of what you do to keep them up is reflective of your personality. ... (read in full...)
Can someone help me figure out my BF? Is he just selfish?
Q. I have been with my bf for almost 18 months. we both love each other, but in some situations i find my bf very selfish. he only thinks of his own good. sometimes tells me that i didn't share my feeling to him. i do share but sometimes i think why ...
A. 28 March 2011: If he doesn't have money and he is a jackass, then you should end it. Yeah, money is not everything, but being in a constant financial rut without doing anything about it is kinda bad. However there are hints of him helping you out financially,... (read in full...)
Can someone help me figure out my BF? Is he just selfish?
Q. I have been with my bf for almost 18 months. we both love each other, but in some situations i find my bf very selfish. he only thinks of his own good. sometimes tells me that i didn't share my feeling to him. i do share but sometimes i think why ...
A. 28 March 2011: If he doesn't have money and he is a jackass, then you should end it. Yeah, money is not everything, but being in a constant financial rut without doing anything about it is kinda bad. However there are hints of him helping you out financially,... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from him since turning him down for sex, but he said he always loved me.
Q. Have known this guy for 2yrs now. He loved me but I turned him down many times because I had a boyfriend. Having broken up with my boyfriend, I sent him a msg on fb, saying 'hi', he replied saying that he loved me, he never stopped loving me. Then ...
A. 28 March 2011: He is an idiot. He only wanted sex. He is a stereotypical player.
There is nothing wrong with not talking to someone again if they turn down sex, when that is what you pre-agreed to go out for. It means that you don't want to waste your or ... (read in full...)
My soon to be ex-husband has hurt me very badly, but says he doesn't want me to hate him.
Q. I need advice! Myself and my ex separated now x2 yrs ago, but i still have some feelings for him. I have let him stay in my house until he finds somewhere else to live (raise a deposit). He does support us financially but he constantly reminds me ...
A. 28 March 2011: I have some advice.
Throw him out. ... (read in full...)
I found porn on my 53 year old dad's computer
Q. My dad is 53yrs old.. a very simple, sober and decent man who practices meditation daily. But today when I went on his laptop, there were loads of porn (hardcore) websites in his browsing history. Is it normal for a person like him to be looking ...
A. 28 March 2011: Just because he watches porn and you don't it does not make him sick or twisted or indecent, etc. If he enjoys porn, so be it. Who cares? Is it ruling his life? If not, then, again, who cares? Unlike texas gal, I find, and the women that h... (read in full...)
Is it really wrong to have a relationship with my cousin's cousin?
Q. Hi, my problem started on new years eve - I was drunk at a family party and my cousins cousin kissed me in the bathroom. Ever since we've been seeing each other and it's the best relationship I could've asked for but people (particularly people ...
A. 24 March 2011: Look. If you like someone and they are really awesome to be with, then go do it. If someone has a problem and refuses to talk to you now, then whatever. Explore this to the fullest. ... (read in full...)
How do you tell a guy you won't go any further in the relationship until he is well off?
Q. I met a really nice divorced man a while ago and we started a relationship in which we were both happy, and even discussed marriage and children. However lately I have realised how much it actually costs to raise and school a child. (I don't have ...
A. 23 March 2011: You raise a good point. The reasons you stated as for not wanting to marry him, just yet, are legit.
State those reasons by saying something to the extent of, "You are someone I want to have kids with. I want to get married, etc. (IF AND ONLY... (read in full...)
Three months pregnant and he gets on my nerves all the time
Q. I am three months pregnant and ever since I have lost complete interest in the father/boyfriend. He gets on my nerves ALL the time and is always loveydovey and sensitive and it pisses me off. i feel like our relationship will fall apart through this ...
A. 12 March 2011: that is not lovey dovey, that is insecure. I thought you meant he would do stuff like make dinner for you and give you massages and be more careful when in the bedroom.
Leave his ass.
A child is better off with a great single mother th... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is going to prom with someone else!
Q. Hey guys, I am sort of in a dilemma. I am in highschool and I have a girlfriend of about 6 months. We both really like each other, talk everyday, and just generally feel really relaxed and comfortable around each other. But now, as the time for prom ...
A. 3 March 2011: proactive people win. Be proactive, and take the shot, or there is no point in continuing this thread. Seriously. Take our advice and get her, or lose. Your choice. We hope you make the right one.... (read in full...)
The man I like found out I like him, he likes me only as a sister and things are really strange now!
Q. First of all, my grammar is very bad.. sorry bout that.. hope you can understand my story.. I like my senior, Kim. We know each other for more than one year and we are quite close. His close friends is my close friends as well. They (Ed and Dan...
A. 28 February 2011: The constant exposure to somethign that you like that you cannot have, will prevent you from getting passed it.
You need to get away from him in over to get over him.
Nothing else can be done.... (read in full...)
My partner only stayed with me because I begged him to! What should I do now?
Q. hi i have a problem, i am 52 years old my so called partner is only with me as i begged him not to leave me we dont live together. we have a 14 year old son so our whole relationship is based around him. if i ask my partner anything he will always ...
A. 28 February 2011: The relationship is dead. You seriously need to move on and find someone else. Maybe that will light a fire under his ass. Seriously, my parents are your age andt hey have a shit relationship. My mother is super sexual, because my father ... (read in full...)
Why did this happen? Is he not interested in sex with me anymore?
Q. I was having sex with my bf of a year the other day. I was on top and he went a bit floppy, enough for it to keep falling out/being hard to get back in (sorry to be graphic). After about 5 mins he ended up finishing. Im just wondering if anyone h...
A. 28 February 2011: Think about it this way. A man getting hard, is the equivalent of a woman getting wet. If you are not into it that day, because of some exterior stressor, you will not get wet, just like he would not get hard. Sometimes, it just happens. I... (read in full...)
How do we draw a line under this?
Q. I found out my fiancé had been going to massage parlours for massages and 'hand relief'. This is what he told me at first. I found out as he hadn't deleted messages from his sent box, arranging time and what address he had to go to and what he ...
A. 28 February 2011: He wants you to not bring it up, yet he is begging your forgiveness?
He is the guilty party, yet you are feeling guilty.
You do not need this bullshit, and you would be doing your child a disservice if that were his father.
Your fiance ... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend be upset about my past?
Q. Hello all, I really need some opinions and information, please. My situation is as it follows : I had a bf, then we engaged and wanted to get married. We haven't had actual intercourse, nor did we have oral. But we engaged in some heavy pet...
A. 28 February 2011: Bottom line. If someone loves someone, they are not going to care about their past. I believe that if he really loves you, the fact that you are not a virgin will not make a difference. By the way, you are a complete and total, utter virgin... (read in full...)
Our classmates made fun of our friendship and now she doesn't talk to me anymore!
Q. hi frnds i am a student of class 11th and i have been fall in love with a classmate of mine i just truly love her but all my friends and her friends now know that i like her and most probably she also knows that i like her. she is somewhat a s...
A. 28 February 2011: Here in the USA, there are a lot of stupid idiots that are focused on idiotic things like certain types of relationships being wrong. One thing that you have to understand is, people will always try and ruin something they are jealous of. When... (read in full...)
Three months pregnant and he gets on my nerves all the time
Q. I am three months pregnant and ever since I have lost complete interest in the father/boyfriend. He gets on my nerves ALL the time and is always loveydovey and sensitive and it pisses me off. i feel like our relationship will fall apart through this ...
A. 28 February 2011: What do you mean by sensitive, actually? Is he sensitive about you, or is he sensitive about himself in reaction to you telling him to be less lovey dovey? If it is the latter, leave him.... (read in full...)
I am so beautiful. Are my friends all just jealous of me?
Q. I am so beautiful. I have a really nice body and i have double D's. Flirting comes naturally to me. I can honestly say that a lot of people like me and just want to be me. I'm really popular and i have a lot of experience. All my close friends are ...
A. 28 February 2011: Ok, ignore all the sexual double standard talk. Ignore the word skank, slut, easy, etc. If you find someone attractive, are able to have sex legally, and do so responsibly, then do it. However, know the possible consequences of your actions. I... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is going to prom with someone else!
Q. Hey guys, I am sort of in a dilemma. I am in highschool and I have a girlfriend of about 6 months. We both really like each other, talk everyday, and just generally feel really relaxed and comfortable around each other. But now, as the time for prom ...
A. 27 February 2011: I can't say this enough...
ASK HER TO PROM!... (read in full...)
Agressive partner or scared child??
Q. I've had a relationship with a man for 9 years. Although over 9 years ago we split up for a while, but, then we got back together. He can be aggresive and spiteful, but he never physically hurts me. But it's affecting my 13 year old girl, as they ...
A. 27 February 2011: they are right. You have to let him go and focus on your daughter.
At this point you have to choose. Do you want to hurt him by leaving a grown man that is causing your daughter pain?
Do you want to hurt your daughter by dismissing her a... (read in full...)
He wants me to stay home and take care of the baby while he's in school
Q. I need advice someone please help me is this good I'm trying to get my g.e.d and my boyfriend he works as a porter making $13.00 an hour. I do not have a job at the moment and Im taking my g.e.d and i want to get it done i have two more...
A. 27 February 2011: Get your education. That is the most important thing in your life, aside from your son. Your boyfriend is trying to control you. Get a sitter. You know that you have to go to school so you can get the money to support your kid and yourself as ... (read in full...)
My Mum is coming between my first love and me!!
Q. Ok so i'm 15 in yr 10 goin' on to work experience etc and my friends who don't go to my school (they go to a grammar one) have a friend who's in yr 11 (just turned 16) and when i met him he was really nice and fun to talk to. Then one night (l...
A. 25 February 2011: teens rebel for a reason. What you need to do is just go out and be with him, if that is what will make you feel better. If he turns out to be an a-hole, then you found out. If he is a really nice guy and you like him, then continue. You are ... (read in full...)
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