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In my short life, I have seen some amazing things and some equally disgusting things.

I am here to turn the disgusting things amazing.

A few examples might be

A. helping a child get out of a household where the step father abuses her and her mother sits by idly, whether out of fear or simple malice is beside the point.

B. Helping a victim of abuse become an independent individual that can accomplish his or her goals that he or she wanted to do for so long. (an example would be a 17 year old that was not allowed to go to school by her pedophile 27 year old bf that is now in premed to become an anesthesiologist)

C. In one case, getting a female police officer to arrest her own abuser.

Together we can do things to make this world a better place.

I intend on doing more than give advice. I will do what it takes to help others.

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Why my one kiss has changed my girlfriend so much?

Q.   My girlfriend, until recently, used to scold me quite with full throat even for little human errors. But for the last two weeks, she has got changed because she when was scolding me last time, out of nowhere, I got closer to her and shut her...

A.   18 February 2013: get organized and dint take advantage of her submissive position in an abusive way, but be dominant like you were. respect her but be like you were with the kiss. its passion she.was.waiting for. give it to her... (read in full...)

My husband has gone impotent...what happened?

Q.   Do some man goes impotent without any cause? Is there always a cause? My husband is 48, and he is impotent, he went to doctors,they didn't find anything wrong with him. They just say, oh every man becomes a bit impotent in their 40 s.Well, I can't ...

A.   31 December 2011: If a woman does not want to have sex ever, and she is not willing to work on the underlying conditions on why she does not want to have sex, leave her. If a man does not want to have sex ever, or he is not willing to get off of medicati... (read in full...)

My husband is impotent, will my marriage survive? Please help.

Q.   My husband is impotent and feels it's ruining our marriage, we are sleeping separate 'cos of his disabillity. My question is that i've tried so hard to try different things, but he doesn't seem interested. I feel useless. Can marriage survive with...

A.   31 December 2011: Work with him on it. If he is willing to work with you on it. If he is saying that he wants to try viagra, he wants to try cialis, etc., then DO IT. If, on the other hand, he can't do those things, because he had a heart attack or whatever... (read in full...)

How do I prove my husband is impotent?

Q.   Dear Cupid Please read the entire post I am basically from India married for 6 years. I never had any sexual exp before marriage, i.e. i was virgin when i got married, never had a bf too. I was scared of sex when i got married, since i di...

A.   31 December 2011: just leave. Cite irreconcilable differences and leave. If you can't get a divorce, because you are in some shithole state, then separate and break it off. Move on. He is a jackass and you are a fool for staying because you can't get a ... (read in full...)

How can I bear this relationship when my boyfriend cheated on me 7 months ago?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years. During our 5 years, he has kissed another girl while drinking. This happened a few months ago in May. The girl he kissed was his cousin's girlfriend. His cousin was very mean to her, and she alw...

A.   3 December 2011: Ummm... Forgiveness is NOT the answer. You need to leave him. Yes, what he did for the girl was very good. He kissed her and she left her abusive boyfriend. However, you also need to leave him, because he kissed another girl. If it both... (read in full...)

Should I forgive him after he punched a wall during an argument?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months he is very passionate and lovey dovey. I like it I'm that way too. But one night he was over and we got into an arguement about him going to a party without me. I told him if he goes without me ...

A.   12 October 2011: Trust me if someone is openly possessive then they are bad to date. He will hit you or he will make you miserable but he will definitely do 1 of the 2 at the very least.... (read in full...)

Am I being too jealous and paranoid?

Q.   Hi, my problem is this my girlfriend of 3 years is making me very uncomfortable with her behaviour. She is texting an ex school friend of hers and has admitted this guy likes her and that if she wasnt with me she would probably go for him. The ...

A.   12 October 2011: if you are uncomfortable with someone having other friends or if you are uncomfortable and insecure about yourself do us both a favor and her both a favor and end the relationship because she doesn't need to be a part of it. you are there are in a ... (read in full...)

Have I lost him?

Q.   Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years but suddenly yesterday, after a bad argument I solely threatened to break up with him, and he told me that it was the right thing to do, that we do not work and he doesn't want a headache ...

A.   11 October 2011: He is the kind of person that does not want to communicate and actually have a real discussion. I know this kind of person because this is how my brother and my father are. My brother had a gf but they broke up because of the same reason and my ... (read in full...)

Should I report this guy?

Q.   Help! I'm so fed up. A veryyyy long time ago I was a manager of a retail store where I met a lady who was elder and incredibly sweet. She had 2 sons who I also met one living @ home and one living on his own. Let's call the son living at home "Brad" ...

A.   11 October 2011: Report him. I am the kind of person to call someone out and say that they are being a stupid bitch or something. However, I do not ever speak to them again. If I were to say something mean, I make sure that all contact is cut off, because if ... (read in full...)

I need some insight into the female mind!

Q.   I need some insight into the female mind. I am away from home right now. Been away for about 4 weeks, and I have two more to go. My wife and I video chatted today, but the whole day she has been short on calls/texts. She seemed super tired (yaw...

A.   20 September 2011: After reading your updates and followups, it appears that what you are doing is VERY GOOD and that 6 weeks is not a lot to get a promotion and raise in pay of 35 grand. You sound like a very nice guy and you should be one, it is good. However,... (read in full...)

I need some insight into the female mind!

Q.   I need some insight into the female mind. I am away from home right now. Been away for about 4 weeks, and I have two more to go. My wife and I video chatted today, but the whole day she has been short on calls/texts. She seemed super tired (yaw...

A.   20 September 2011: Well, to the woman, it sounds like your husband is immature. To the OP, it sounds like your wife is immature. If she can't explain what is wrong, then she should not show it. As far as what is wrong, are you pursuing something really far ... (read in full...)

She says u can build a relationship early on(2wks in) by having sex. Is she just using me for sex? Or is that true?

Q.   I'm lesbian and I recently met a bisexual woman and we connected instantly. We started hanging out, texting n calling each other. The weird thing is we went to sex store this week and she was telling me which strap on and vibrator she'll use on me. ...

A.   16 September 2011: IT sounds like she is sort of trying to rationalize how it should work, but not intellectually. Yes, sex is important in a relationship. However, what she is saying is contradictory. Sex is an important aspect in a relationship and it is neede... (read in full...)

If a girl lets you do things for her, does it mean she likes you?

Q.   I met this girl and she asks me to drive her places, and I helped her move. I also help her out by giving her advice. My best bud says if a girl is always looking to you to help her with stuff it means she likes you. I am not sure though. I really ...

A.   13 September 2011: You are very very quickly approaching the friend zone. You are a convenient tool. Be very careful. You are at a point where you can't just tell her to go to hell and then say, "let's get some dinner". You have to flirt with her. You have to ... (read in full...)

Should I consider going to an escort? Thoughts, anyone?

Q.   I have been single for three years (I am 37), following the break-up of a 9-year relationship. I live in a relatively rural area which means dating opportunities are few and far between. I have tried online dating but with no success (even though ...

A.   12 September 2011: You need to approach it a little differently and open a woman up to the whatever you want. Get them interested in the concept of whatever you want. Be flirtatious and a little edgy. You want intimacy? The last place you'll get it is from... (read in full...)

Would u have sex with someone if they promised a job?

Q.   would u have sex with someone if they promised you a job or if theyd support you but you were a virgin...

A.   12 September 2011: I am completely baffled at the concept of staying a virgin until married. I am completely baffled by societal double standards against women doing what they want. I am completely baffled at society banning consensual sex for money. ysel... (read in full...)

My cousin is being too playful!

Q.   OKay i am 16 an cousin is 18. My cousin has been acting a bit weird lately. He was never like so playful since i knew him. But now i think he has changed. He s being too playful. He have been telling me that he loves me then when i gave him a su...

A.   9 September 2011: he needs to stop what he is doing and you should definitely follow the advice below. If he does not stop, then you need to tell someone. I think that if you wanted to actually sleep with him and you were of age, so on so forth, I would s... (read in full...)

Is he having a change of heart about me?

Q.   What do i do? I love my boyfriend but lately things have gone weird. We used to live 10-15 mins away from each other and we used to spend all of our time together, texting, calling and hanging out but ever since i moved closer to my family abou...

A.   9 September 2011: He is being immature. I doubt that he is cheating, but he resents the fact that you moved away from him and made it so difficult. He is the kid with the magnifying glass watching you squirm. He wants to equalize the playing field and make y... (read in full...)

Was it too soon to tell him I think about us having babies?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now..today I sent him a text message at random, saying that sometimes I think about us having babies. I asked him later if that was too weird of a text, because he didn't reply. He told me he just ...

A.   7 September 2011: hmmmmmmmm you are him and I am you... You: Drinking a beer with friends Me: (Conveying a serious tone through text, magically) Will you marry me? You should have talked to him about it in person! He is a little shocked. It takes tim... (read in full...)

Was she just trying to be nice in actually flat out rejecting me? How should I act when I see her again?

Q.   So last night after going out with my friend I told her that I liked her. She was a bit shocked but proceeded to tell me that she was not rejecting me but simply saying no for the time being because of circumstances in both of our lives at this ...

A.   7 September 2011: Be the same and flirt. If she flirted back, then you are good. I do escorting for fun sometimes, and I bring that out into the real world (never fucking in escorting, btw). I always flirt with women and what not. The married women that I know l... (read in full...)

Husband doesn't love me but doesn't want divorce because he wants the property

Q.   My husband does not love me. He is searching young girls for long term relationship keeping our marriage as it. He loves my education, property, and background, not me. He always harass me in front of his family and close friends. When I asked for ...

A.   6 September 2011: Liquidate all assets and get a bank account separate from him and walk out. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend left me and I don't know what to do?

Q.   hi, please help me i'm sorry this is going to be long but please take the time to read this really need someones help... i have been with with my girlfriend for 4 and half years, she was 16 and i was 23 when we met. we have always been ther...

A.   6 September 2011: She feels that the stagnation involved in a house that undoubtedly has taken a ridiculous amount of time to complete is one where she has to live in it. She would rather you not build the house, but get a job doing anything and renting an apart... (read in full...)

The bible tells me I'll go to hell for liking girls. Should I get help?

Q.   The Bible tells me it is wrong to desire women sexually, I feel like I'm going to go to hell for liking girls. What should I do? I have like girls since I was a pre-teen, I'm now 65 yrs old. I have dated men on and off my whole like, even marri...

A.   6 September 2011: Hmmmm You do know that all the people ine the bible committed atrocities and sin like no other? I hope you are not catholic, because that is the worst organization, ever. Not taking a stand against nazi germany persecution of jews, active ... (read in full...)

How can I accept that I have herpes?

Q.   i need help with accepting i have herpes. Anyone know of a better way to think about it? besides having a dreadful permamnent disease?...

A.   6 September 2011: I have herpes simplex 1 aka oral herpes, and so does 70% of the US population. 80% of those people that have it, don't know it. I just get a battery of std tests every six months, as it is the good thing to do. Clean in every other way, but w... (read in full...)

After 30 years together husband says he never felt intimate with me

Q.   I have been with my husband since I was 16 been with him for 30 years and married for 23. He said that he has never felt intimate with me, is this possible? He first asked for a divorce and now a separation because he feels intimate with wo...

A.   6 September 2011: Life should not be about being strong enough. Barring some terrible disease or accident, it is not about the man or just the woman making sure the other person is happy. It is about both people making eachother happy. When one falls down the ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was raped before I met her and she can't get over it. Is it fair to leave her?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together for 10 years. She was raped at some point before I met her. I found this out in the last year. Initially, we had a good sex life, but within two years it became nonexistent. She just cannot be intimate with...

A.   6 September 2011: You are not terrible. People need a shock to get out of the bad situations that they are in. If you end it, it will make her feel like a victim, but then she will slowly realize that she was kinda ridiculous. Its like me being so angry a... (read in full...)

I',m upset that I caught my husband with a dirty magagzine

Q.   Dear cupid i am married to my husband who i love so much and the other day i called into his work and caught him coming out of the bathroom at work with a dirty mag and i was upset and he was not bothered that i was upset but it made me feel ...

A.   6 September 2011: It is unacceptable that he is jerking off yet refuses advances from his wife, just like it would be unacceptable for her to refuse advances from he husband to only turn around and masturbate to a picture of a hot guy. There is a problem.... (read in full...)

If I tell anyone I'm gay...I'm dead....literally!

Q.   Hi, I could really use some help advice. I'm 22 and where I live being gay is a no-no, but I fear that I might be gay or at least bi, but I'm not very sure I dunno what to label myself as I'm so confused. Honestly I don't want to be either. Ever...

A.   5 September 2011: One... Your friends are not your friends and your family is not your family. What you do or what you feel about people in a positive way should not make you a target of someone who cares for you. Assuming your brother is serious, he cares mo... (read in full...)

I have a fantasy about my wife being with another woman. Should I tell her?

Q.   Hi I need some advice I've been with my wife for a while now and I know she is bi curious. I have always had the fantasy of seeing her with another girl. Do I explain I no about her curious fantasy and ask her if she wants to live it out? I no she ...

A.   5 September 2011: If she has a fantasy for doing it, then tell her that you are interested in it and you find it sexy. She will go from hmmm to "I need to change my underwear". Trust me.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend and the new house

Q.   Hi guys, please let me know what you think about this... recently, I told my gf that I'm working (painting, getting furniture, etc) on the house I bought recently so she did not have to worry about anything when we get married, she would just mov...

A.   5 September 2011: She is not ready... You just broke up and got back together and now you are building a house that you say she will live in when she marries you. You are going to lose it if you don't reel it in bro. As they say in America, "Thems is facts"... (read in full...)

I don't feel close with my parents and I feel like I can only be myself with my friends

Q.   I don't know what my question is really. I just know that I don't really feel happy 90% of the time when I'm at home. I don't feel close to my parents and I feel like I'm being judged sometimes. My parents think I don't take pride in myself just ...

A.   5 September 2011: You seem like a very intelligent woman, and I am sure that you can get your own job. Become emancipated and live on your own. If people are really bring you down and you have tried to get through to them but can't it is not worth it.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend makes me feel unwanted

Q.   Ive been seeing my boyfriend for a few months now and he as started making me feel really unwanted, He means the world to me and I thought I did to him as well but lately he as been really different towards me, He seems to be spending more ti...

A.   5 September 2011: Why are you going to get your heart broken? You have to be with someone that isn't too busy not being a man and spending time with a woman every now and again to get your heart broken. He is either cheating on you or he has no drive whatsoev... (read in full...)

Snooped and found out that my some guy kissed my GF! Now what?

Q.   So i did something bad. I snooped my GF facebook. I found a conversation that she had with her friend. They are talking about a party that my GF friend attended. her friend said something like "3 guys tried to make out with me , they pretty much...

A.   4 September 2011: actually, I think she should get dumped... ... (read in full...)

Snooped and found out that my some guy kissed my GF! Now what?

Q.   So i did something bad. I snooped my GF facebook. I found a conversation that she had with her friend. They are talking about a party that my GF friend attended. her friend said something like "3 guys tried to make out with me , they pretty much...

A.   4 September 2011: Dude, really? It was not consensual. ... (read in full...)

My fiance says he doesn't trust me!

Q.   I have been with my partner for 6 1/2 yrs, we are coming up to our 1yr anniversary for when we got engaged. And yesterday, he tells me that he doesnt trust me. He didnt give me specifics...but he says he has problems trusting people...is that a good ...

A.   29 August 2011: He does not trust you, because he is cheating on you or because he is not confident in himself and feels that he is not good enough for you. In either situation, if soemone does not trust you after six and a half years, he is never going to trust ... (read in full...)

Squirting--I don't know what it is or how to do it

Q.   I'm not sure this is the right place to ask this question but I'm desperate for an answer. My boyfriend keeps asking me if I've ever 'squirted' during an orgasm....he says he really wants me too but I don't know what this means or how to do it, any ...

A.   29 August 2011: @marieclair... The real question is why does the poster not know this? on that note... OP, if you can squirt, he should go in 1.5 to 2 inches in between 11 and 1 oclock on the anterior aspect of your vagina with his middle and ring f... (read in full...)

Ladies, aged less than 30, would you date a guy even if he isn't ''FUN''?

Q.   Would you consider a relatively young male to be dateable even if he is a 180 degrees from the hard party bad boy persona? I am not saying that I am weak, nor that I can't stick up for myself and who I care about. I simply have no interest in ...

A.   28 August 2011: Its not really about doing the 3rd party things that make someone like you or find you fun. You don't need to drink out of a bottle to have a good time, and if someone tells you that, then they have problems. You don't need to do drugs, this o... (read in full...)

We want to moved in together. How do I tell her parents? They don't know we have been dating.

Q.   Okay, so I've been dating my girlfriend for almost four years now. I'm 19 and she is 18. Everything would be great except that her parents are very strict, in fact they don't even know we are dating since i have been hanging out with her and her ...

A.   28 August 2011: You are a grown up and so is she. She is 18 and you are 19. Live together! Yes, tell her parents what is going on so it is not like a bomb went off in their face, "by the way, your daughter is now living with me, peace bitches". However, if they ... (read in full...)

Do I support her in her wish to work in the porn industry? OrI find reasons to help her decide against it?

Q.   She says she wants to do porn.. my fiance is a very beautiful woman however due to her past (abusive mother and a father who was never there) she has almost no self esteem and because of that was often taken advantage of by men when she sought l...

A.   28 August 2011: Definitely do not enable her to get into porn. Tell her, "Money is not the most important thing in the world to me and isn't to you. You are the most important thing in the world to me and I will love you the same no matter how much or how little ... (read in full...)

How can I tell him? Have I lost him forever? Or could I make this work?

Q.   So there's this guy i feel in love with. We went to high school together we both recently graduated in may. He left to go to another state for college. There was no time nor room for a relationship. I don't think he wants to do a long distant ...

A.   28 August 2011: I don't know what you consider rude or mean, but I am going to be honest with you, and you need to listen. Your ruined your chance once in high school, and he has moved on, if he liked you in the first place, which I think he did. However... (read in full...)

He never calls, Accuses me of things. should I break-up with him for good or what?

Q.   Hi! i have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months its a long distance relationship. At first things were ok,he would call every day and now our relationship is on and off. i ended up breaking up with him for a week and we got back together, since we...

A.   28 August 2011: Yes, break up with him. If someone accuses you of cheating, that means that they are cheating. They feel that if they cheat, then why wouldn't their partner cheat? Also, the fact that he hangs up the phone, yet wants to have kids with ... (read in full...)

Why my one kiss has changed my girlfriend so much?

Q.   My girlfriend, until recently, used to scold me quite with full throat even for little human errors. But for the last two weeks, she has got changed because she when was scolding me last time, out of nowhere, I got closer to her and shut her...

A.   28 August 2011: shes smitten and likes the fact that you were really dominant. I believe that she was lashing out, because you were being pushed around by her and she wanted you to stand up for yourself. You did in the right way. We all make mistakes, ... (read in full...)

He says he trusts me, but his actions say otherwise. What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't like my friends because of how they behave when they go out. For example, a friend of mine tells my boyfriend early one night that she is engaged to "john doe." Later that night she tells me, drunk and in the front of my ...

A.   22 August 2011: You need to think about self-preservation on both sides of the coin. First off, make sure that you don't do the same things that can bring you down as your friends do. More importantly, do not date a guy that cheats on you, yet doesn't trust yo... (read in full...)

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