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| | *HateWomanBeaters's profile:In my short life, I have seen some amazing things and some equally disgusting things.
I am here to turn the disgusting things amazing.
A few examples might be
A. helping a child get out of a household where the step father abuses her and her mother sits by idly, whether out of fear or simple malice is beside the point.
B. Helping a victim of abuse become an independent individual that can accomplish his or her goals that he or she wanted to do for so long. (an example would be a 17 year old that was not allowed to go to school by her pedophile 27 year old bf that is now in premed to become an anesthesiologist)
C. In one case, getting a female police officer to arrest her own abuser.
Together we can do things to make this world a better place.
I intend on doing more than give advice. I will do what it takes to help others.
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My girlfriend has no interest in sex whatsoever, is it wrong to consider breaking up with her?
Q. We've been together for 3 years, but this isn't the sort of thing where she gradually became less and less interested in sex... She's just always been pretty non-sexual, at least with me, anyway. We broke up for awhile about a year ago, and she had ...
A. 15 May 2012: Is there something that you are not willing to do, that she needs done? if that is not the case, then there is nothing you can do, because she does not desire something that can change your sexual relationship. I would say that you should br... (read in full...)
I need some outside perspective
Q. Hi aunts and uncles. In advance, I'd like you to know I don't want to be judged harshly for this post. I'm going through something personal and I literally have no idea what to do. I've weighed the pros and cons and I still don't know. Anyway, I've ...
A. 14 May 2012: One, are you leaving ihim because he does not take care of himself physically?
Or is it truly finances.
If it is finances, DON'T SPEND MONEY ON HIM, spend money on what needs to be spent on and save.
If he wants to lose weight, he... (read in full...)
Should I stick it out a little longer or just cut him loose?
Q. I'm out with a guy for 7 months. In the beginning he would asked me out frequently and soon the outing would stop at about 3 months. I know he's doing that to get to know me first, get comfortable with me and when he reach that comfort zone, he ...
A. 14 May 2012: You as in second person. He is a liar. If he wants it, he would make it happen as well. ... (read in full...)
Should I stick it out a little longer or just cut him loose?
Q. I'm out with a guy for 7 months. In the beginning he would asked me out frequently and soon the outing would stop at about 3 months. I know he's doing that to get to know me first, get comfortable with me and when he reach that comfort zone, he ...
A. 14 May 2012: If he wants to go out with you and if you really wanted to go out with him, you would do FREE things that are fun! For example, I live in a beach city in the United States. I don't make that much money, and I take a woman out to the beach an... (read in full...)
Should I call the wedding off?
Q. My fiance and I are to be married in 3 months, 7 years together and 3 children later but I have this nagging feeling of should i be doing this. We argue alot, more then ever since we have been planning our wedding. we cannot agree on anything and I ...
A. 11 May 2012: i agree with dougbcall...
people here don't say someone should end a relationship because they hate relationships, they say that, because we believe in people finding the right relationship.
If you feel this is not the right relationship, do... (read in full...)
Husband putting oral sex above everything else.
Q. My husband and I have been married for 6 years, our sex life has always been great, but lately I feel that I am nothing more than a mouth for him. He wants oral sex everyday, and though I dont mind it, it seems that he has no emotions about it, no ...
A. 5 May 2012: At this point, he might get hurt, but you are ALREADY HURT.
Be direct. If he can't handle that, then the lines of communications are broken, and you get a divorce.
If he does not value you as a person, then he will not love you again, if he... (read in full...)
Husband putting oral sex above everything else.
Q. My husband and I have been married for 6 years, our sex life has always been great, but lately I feel that I am nothing more than a mouth for him. He wants oral sex everyday, and though I dont mind it, it seems that he has no emotions about it, no ...
A. 2 May 2012: @op...
Yes, it is your fault for allowing it to progress, but it is HIS FAULT for doing what he did for all these years.
He is the one to start it, because, in fact, he is a bad person.
He applies double standards to his wife.
He is ... (read in full...)
Husband putting oral sex above everything else.
Q. My husband and I have been married for 6 years, our sex life has always been great, but lately I feel that I am nothing more than a mouth for him. He wants oral sex everyday, and though I dont mind it, it seems that he has no emotions about it, no ...
A. 2 May 2012: @op...
Yes, it is your fault for allowing it to progress, but it is HIS FAULT for doing what he did for all these years.
He is the one to start it, because, in fact, he is a bad person.
He applies double standards to his wife.
He is ... (read in full...)
Husband putting oral sex above everything else.
Q. My husband and I have been married for 6 years, our sex life has always been great, but lately I feel that I am nothing more than a mouth for him. He wants oral sex everyday, and though I dont mind it, it seems that he has no emotions about it, no ...
A. 1 May 2012: I say do what Aunty Bim Bim said. Very good advice. However, your husband is an idiot. I inject my own anecdotes into the answers a lot, but they are always valid. I am known as the most controlling and demanding person in the bedroom... (read in full...)
Is she just being friendly, or is she trying to hint at something?
Q. There was this girl in my classes (both lecture and lab), well, from what I know there's not really a strong vibe between us (from my end anyway). We sat across from each other in our group of 4 in lab (I'm the only guy in the group by the way...
A. 27 April 2012: Ask her out for some coffee. If she is interested, then she will say yes, if not she will say no.
You'll have your answer.... (read in full...)
Any ideas for reducing swelling after kissing?
Q. Okay so I'm going to get to the point. Me and my boyfriend like to be a tad rough when we kiss, so it's to be expected for me to have clown lips within a few minutes of making out. Does anyone know anything to make the swelling go down? I would love ...
A. 27 April 2012: battle wounds are not something bad to show off ! ... (read in full...)
I'm scared of him now. How do I handle the issues of concern that I have about this man?
Q. How happy I was to think that I had finally found love at the age of 40! I have Multiple Sclerosis and he said it didn't matter; I repeatedly tried to push him away but he kept coming back. He is a retired policeman who has PTSD and BiPolar and take...
A. 8 April 2012: Well, original poster, you are not hearing what I am saying.
there is WELFARE, GOVERNMENT HOUSING, etc.
apply to them, you definitely qualify... (read in full...)
I'm scared of him now. How do I handle the issues of concern that I have about this man?
Q. How happy I was to think that I had finally found love at the age of 40! I have Multiple Sclerosis and he said it didn't matter; I repeatedly tried to push him away but he kept coming back. He is a retired policeman who has PTSD and BiPolar and take...
A. 6 April 2012: I am sorry to hear that, but there are ways to move out. There is government assistance, cutting the fat out of your budget, etc. if you are too scared to do anything.
Just leave, seriously, not difficult.... (read in full...)
I haven't done this before, what is it you do?
Q. Hey everyone. Quick question, please do not judge me. A week ago I hooked up with a guy at a party.I am currently single and going through a dry phase so it was really cool. He also said afterwards he wants to go for drinks with me some time. Now I ...
A. 6 April 2012: You are fine, go after him.
It is always acceptable to make the first move, if you feel like doing it.
Since you do, do it!
As a guy, I wish more women were like you. ... (read in full...)
What can I do about this?
Q. not so much of a relationship question, but I get pain 1-2 days after I have sex with my bf. It's hard work because it means I am often bent over double crying and my bf feels awful. It happens quite often and I have had a normal smear test result. ...
A. 6 April 2012: Well, the pain could be a result of him being well endowed, if that is the case?
Your vaginal canal could be shallow, and you he could be hitting your cervix.
Also, what is more likely, is that you have Pelivic Inflammatory Disease related ... (read in full...)
Do I follow my heart and chose one guy or stay with the other guy and always wonder "what if"?
Q. I have been in a relationship with Daryl for 2 years now. He has a child with another woman and we have definely had our ups and downs. I do not get along with his family at all. But I'm pregnant. I love daryl he's a good guy and he's been talking ...
A. 3 April 2012: One... your brother is an idiot
Two... Which do you feel is better for you?
If you are going to wonder "what if" then you are not really that in love with Daryll.
I would say find out about that what if, if the chemistry you have with ... (read in full...)
What are the biggest reasons for divorce?
Q. I was wondering what are the biggest reasons for divorce. Or I could call it cause for divorce. My husband is not intimate with me anymore, Is this very common after 20 something years of marriage? I know ,there are some marriage, what was ...
A. 2 April 2012: You need to keept the relationship in cluding the physical, because if you can't get physical, then that means you are about to be at the end of your life.
If you don't have the hormones or strength, to have sex, then you have major, major is... (read in full...)
I now regret taking him back after his fourth cheating episode!
Q. my partner of two years has technically cheated on me and i have taken him back for the fourth time and now i am regretting it what should i do?...
A. 1 April 2012: Once a cheater always a cheater.
Four times a cheater, ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS OH MY GOD NON STOP CONSTANT cheater.
What do you should you do?
I am going to say leave him! He is a shit head that will continue!
You know ... (read in full...)
What are the biggest reasons for divorce?
Q. I was wondering what are the biggest reasons for divorce. Or I could call it cause for divorce. My husband is not intimate with me anymore, Is this very common after 20 something years of marriage? I know ,there are some marriage, what was ...
A. 29 March 2012: As people age, you have low testosterone and then you generally feel like not having sex. However, there are things you can do to combat it, if you do have it, as a man. I, for example, supposedly have well below the minimum amount of testos... (read in full...)
Am I just being a prude getting uncomfortable hubbie's new obsession?
Q. Hi! My husband and I have been married for 22 years and have a great sex life. Lately, he has been wanting to be in the same room as or have the possibility of having sex with another couple. He has been online searching and chatting with other ...
A. 28 March 2012: Well, you mention that the problem would mainly be the fact that he is talking to potentially dirty people, or people that are unattractive.
Say you liked Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt A LOT.
Say they were the ones that he got in contact w... (read in full...)
How to deal with lies at school?
Q. I know this isn't the usual type of question for this site, but I pray you will help me anyway. there's this guy at school, who is spreading vicious lies about me [he's telling everyone I told him i'd be happy if he killed himself] when I ...
A. 28 March 2012: I wouldn't worry about it. think of internet trolls. They will say shit just to cause a situation to be worse. He wants your situation to be worse, for whatever reason. I think that he just wants the attention and that he is a loser. Don'... (read in full...)
How much time does a man need to commit?
Q. "Please babe just give me some time" I don't even know where to begin. I met his guy a year and a half ago and we hit it off right away even though its long distance. All my friends and families and his know that we are serious about each other and ...
A. 27 March 2012: Glad to hear this :)... (read in full...)
How much time does a man need to commit?
Q. "Please babe just give me some time" I don't even know where to begin. I met his guy a year and a half ago and we hit it off right away even though its long distance. All my friends and families and his know that we are serious about each other and ...
A. 27 March 2012: At the update...
LOL he is unemployed and lives far away, but wants to have a baby with you, but won't move in?
Leave him.
He does not know what he wants. He is an idiot.
I am blunt and I call it how it is. ... (read in full...)
I told her how I felt and she has not spoke to me since! What should I do?
Q. actually i don't know what to say or ask, i really need some help or advices maybe because this thing just make me really stressed. and here's my situation. i met this girl a year ago from facebook, I met her family year earlier from facebook...
A. 26 March 2012: A lot of problems with people in more conservative areas of the world, including the southern USA where I live, guys say they love a woman without know crap about them. You love the idea of her and that is what scared her away. To a woman, ... (read in full...)
How do I show my boyfriend how much I appreciate him?
Q. hey again,i'm with my boyfrind almost a month now,he's funny and i like him so much,he gave me my first kiss,he'd had a lot of girlfriends before ,but i want to be the special girl in his life, he said he loves me, specially when he kissed me,and ...
A. 26 March 2012: Hmmm, I don't want to burst a bubble or anything, but you said thath e had had a lot of girlfriends before?
Do you mean girls that he has hung out with, or do you mean girls like you that he has kissed and more?
I think, that at least as... (read in full...)
How much time does a man need to commit?
Q. "Please babe just give me some time" I don't even know where to begin. I met his guy a year and a half ago and we hit it off right away even though its long distance. All my friends and families and his know that we are serious about each other and ...
A. 26 March 2012: Forget everyone else. Why do want to get married?
Is it because of your parents or you?
I am banking on your parents. They are the reasons why you are so in need of getting married.
Tell them to back off.
They have no say in whe... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my 7 year older 1st cousin
Q. I'm a girl and i have a huge crush on my older cousin. She is 7 years older than me but still, everytime when she comes over to our house she is all i can think about. I have known her since i was little and we are very close. But i can't help that ...
A. 26 March 2012: Truth, there is nothing super immoral or dangerous with having responsible sex with a cousin, between adults. However, you are young and in a certain developmental stage where you shouldn't hold back your natural feelings toward the men and/or w... (read in full...)
Not confident when having sex! Has anyone else experienced this?
Q. Hi, I'm 19 and a bit confused.I have been with my boyfriend now for quite a while.I recently stayed at his house for the first time over a few days and we felt ready to take things a bit further then before.It was actually very sweet we were mucking ...
A. 26 March 2012: Haha, its all good... You need to relax and understand that it is a gradual process, and that all you have to do is educate yourselves! I remember some pretty hilariously pathetic sexual escapades I had in college, and then I read up on t... (read in full...)
Back together with my boyfriend again but found out he lied about being on his own, he was actually in a relationship with his ex!
Q. my boyfriend split up with me in November and said this was because he didn't want a relationship after this we didn't speak until January when he said he wanted another go at things and he said he knew 100% that this is what he wanted and he'd been ...
A. 12 March 2012: Exes are exes for a reason... (read in full...)
My current boyfriend wants me to delete FB pictures of my ex and I! Should I do this or not?
Q. My boyfriend feels uncomfortable seeing videos and just a handful of pics on my Facebook page of my ex boyfriend, it's vids and pictures of him and a few if my friends hanging out and normal pictures of me and him.. He's asked me previous times to ...
A. 12 March 2012: I would end it. Why can't you have pics of your ex on your facebook? lol
If you haven't actually done anything against him, there should be no reason for you to delete the facebook.
He is being controlling.
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My boyfriend has become a possessive maniac!
Q. Dear Cupid,I'm starting to think my boyfriend of 3 years is very possessive.He has just started the same college as me this semester and I thought it would be fun but instead its been hell! First thing, he started getting upset that my female ...
A. 10 March 2012: NO leave now.
I normally have more stuff to say, but LEAVE NOW.
... (read in full...)
Do I just have to be okay with no sex in my marriage, or should I find someone to give me that "experience" my body is craving?
Q. Hello, I really need someone to help me out. I have been married to my husband for almost five years, and we have two children together. Ever since we had our second child, my husband and I have had very little to no sex. He could care less about ...
A. 8 March 2012: All a bunch of garbage. When a woman rejects a man and the man continues to try to have sex with her and is turned down CONSTANTLY, you don't need therapy to find out why, she isn't interested. When a man rejects a woman and the woman co... (read in full...)
Should I jump ship for my old high school crush?
Q. Ive been in a relationship for the past 8yrs and we have been through a lot. He is also 7 years older. i know im not the pretty young thing like i used to be but things feel like their going nowhere. No more spark. not much conversation. not too ...
A. 24 February 2012: You are in a situation where you are not enjoying yourself.
Here you have a chance to, at worst, live a little and enjoy the company of a travel partner, an old lover, and experience life for once.
We all have things we regret.
Rathe... (read in full...)
Are these actions totally fine or are they a little inappropriate?
Q. I'm not sure what to think about some of my bf's interactions with women/female friends. First of all I want to say that I'm not an overly jealous person but I'm very perceptive. My bf is a very outgoing and chatty person. He's the kind of guy who ...
A. 15 February 2012: Clearly I usually side with women, but you are paranoid.
Take it down a notch.
at this point you have suspected him of wanting to have sex with several women.
If you were a boyfriend, I would be much harsher in my assessment of this situa... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and have a major crush on a guy. Should I make the first move?
Q. Okay, I feel like I'm in love with a guy i have barely talked to before. I just see him in passing every once in a while, but all i can do is think about him. I'm just so scared to make a move. What should I do?...
A. 13 February 2012: I think that the person who feels that they liked the person a lot should be the one to make the first move. If I have my eye on someone, I will make the first move. If I happen to not have my eye on someone, but someone sees me, even if they are ... (read in full...)
He's 26, I'm 18. Do you think he's thinking about asking me out?
Q. hey! so i like this guy, he's 8 yrs older than me. it's a love at first sight kinda thing, cause i only met him once... I was walking in a corridor with my sister and he passed by and said hi to her (she knew him), then looked at me and smiled. Lat...
A. 12 February 2012: yeah, not asking him out would be a really bad mistake.
ASK HIM OUT! ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't find me sexually attractive. But I still love him so much. What should I do?
Q. I am 13 years older than my boyfriend we have been togeather for 6 months, he moved in with me in December of last year and we barley have sex, he said he has no desire, blaming it on himself like he has sexual problems, the times we have done it ...
A. 11 February 2012: The guy is simply an idiot. Drop him.
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Am I trying too hard to spice things up on Valentine's day?
Q. Ok, so another advice; For valentines day I bought this really sexy little outfit ( btw, today was the day my bf moved into his new place and our offical 1 yr ann. Is comming up on the 28th) anywho, so I bought the outfit and a lamp he likes; t...
A. 11 February 2012: That is weird.
If my a woman I was attracted to that I had been dating for a year spiced it up and bought a little outfit, I would tell her to try it on and see what she thinks. While she was trying it on and still on the phone, I would be... (read in full...)
Do you know any links to good artices in DearCupid please re fellatio?
Q. I just started dating after getting out of a 15 year marriage. My ex never liked blow jobs and really zapped my confidence with his criticism so I need a step by step guide of giving a good bj. Thanks!...
A. 11 February 2012: Double M said it well. However, there are some men that honestly don't get off on blow jobs. I happen to be one of them, just like some women don't like being eaten out. However, I do understand what you are talking about. Chances are, if... (read in full...)
How can he so easily forget what we have? I'm blonde. His blonde jokes offended me
Q. Hello aunts. This guy and I met 4 months ago and things have been moving really smoothly infact, better than I had predicted. He checks on me a lot, calls me often and its the first time I've been in a relationship where the guy is so into me. We...
A. 11 February 2012: He can't take what he gives out. Hang out with someone else.
Lame personality and hypocrite.... (read in full...)
He's 26, I'm 18. Do you think he's thinking about asking me out?
Q. hey! so i like this guy, he's 8 yrs older than me. it's a love at first sight kinda thing, cause i only met him once... I was walking in a corridor with my sister and he passed by and said hi to her (she knew him), then looked at me and smiled. Lat...
A. 11 February 2012: Eight years is not a tremendous difference. I recommend you pursuing it. Do not be a fool and think you are in love. You do not know what that entails.
However, find out! Be level headed, be objective, and make sure he can be trusted.
If ... (read in full...)
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