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| | *HateWomanBeaters's profile:In my short life, I have seen some amazing things and some equally disgusting things.
I am here to turn the disgusting things amazing.
A few examples might be
A. helping a child get out of a household where the step father abuses her and her mother sits by idly, whether out of fear or simple malice is beside the point.
B. Helping a victim of abuse become an independent individual that can accomplish his or her goals that he or she wanted to do for so long. (an example would be a 17 year old that was not allowed to go to school by her pedophile 27 year old bf that is now in premed to become an anesthesiologist)
C. In one case, getting a female police officer to arrest her own abuser.
Together we can do things to make this world a better place.
I intend on doing more than give advice. I will do what it takes to help others.
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He never followed up on our date plans the first time. Is he reliable?
Q. I met this guy and we clicked instantly and have TONS of chemistry we chatted for a while and i gave him my number and were suppose to hangout. We talked over the course of about almost a week for hours @ a time . We set up a plan to have our date ...
A. 25 January 2010: even with the most beautiful women, i call and leave a voicemail. I then wait 2 days or so and then I text. If they don't call I don't talk to them ever again. Don't waste your time. You come up with a time to meet(him) or you forget i... (read in full...)
Help! I have a very high sex drive and my fiance doesn't - yet he's watching porn?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for seven years. We're young- no older than 22 and We've lived together for three of the seven. A few months back i woke up randomly from having gone to sleep early and noticed pink light on the walls from t...
A. 23 January 2010: 99 bananas No you do not love him. You love the illusion he presented to you as if that was the real guy. The real guy is the child with a PS3 that has porn on it. Give me a break. I thought that was childish when i was 10. (althoug... (read in full...)
Help! I have a very high sex drive and my fiance doesn't - yet he's watching porn?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for seven years. We're young- no older than 22 and We've lived together for three of the seven. A few months back i woke up randomly from having gone to sleep early and noticed pink light on the walls from t...
A. 22 January 2010: oh excuse me- he doesnt want to have sex
Well if he is not on drugs or failing at keeping a job and you are the same as you were before, tell him you are going to leave.
It is ridiculous to bitch about having sex too much when he's watching po... (read in full...)
He never followed up on our date plans the first time. Is he reliable?
Q. I met this guy and we clicked instantly and have TONS of chemistry we chatted for a while and i gave him my number and were suppose to hangout. We talked over the course of about almost a week for hours @ a time . We set up a plan to have our date ...
A. 22 January 2010: Ummmmmmm
This sounds eerily like something that happened with me.
I met this girl that I really liked that was 18-21.
We went on 3 dates in one week, and she was the only girl i have actually liked.
I didn't follow up on the 4th date... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's best friend is a girl
Q. My boyfriend has a bestfriend and she's a girl.. I knew about her before me and him became afficial.. the talk every now and then.. and once before my boyfriend gave her my number and she called me saying "you don't ever have to worry about me and ...
A. 22 January 2010: You obviously don't trust him.
You are wasting his time and yours.
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When my girlfriend is at work she doesn't call me as much, should I be worried
Q. My girlfriend and I have recently become engaged. Everything has been great. But one thing bothers me. She is an in home care giver to a handicapped man and sometimes when she goes to work for him for a few days she often goes long periods of time ...
A. 22 January 2010: you married her knowing she cheated.
either break up, or don't be overly sensitive.
i vote dont be overly sensitive... (read in full...)
We had a group sex thing and now my g/f isnt talking to me
Q. my gf and I are both 22, we decided together we wanted to try a group swinging thing with an older couple. we met a cool older couple on line (54 female and 58 male) and met last night. During the thing my gf seemed to really enjoy herself, but once ...
A. 22 January 2010: talk to her
say, "I hope I did not put you in an unexpected position, which made you feel uncomfortable. If you do not want to do it again, we won't do it anymore. Is everything ok?"
She is going to tell you yes, you have to ask again and ge... (read in full...)
Am I a slut for letting other men cum on my face?
Q. I wrote about that my husband and me want to invite a couple of men join in and cum on my face. Am I a slut even if my husband agrees to this?...
A. 22 January 2010: Slut should not even be in your vocabulary.
Your sex life is YOUR life. Live it for yourself, not for other people, and DON'T let others live it for you!
You are doing something fun that you enjoy.
-IHateWomanBeaters... (read in full...)
Can I play tennis at 20 weeks pregnant?
Q. Hi and thanks to all who responds to my post =) I was just wondering if i can play tennis while i'm 20 weeks pregnant. Thanks. And how active can I be while i'm pregnant. I would just like to know my limits bc this is my first pregnancy...
A. 22 January 2010: Dear Pinkgoblin15,
Exercise Science guy here.
It is not recommended, but you need a physical examination.
I recommend doing an elliptical machine
Make sure you go get a check up from the doctor.
PS Congratulations :)
-IHateWomanB... (read in full...)
If he finds out I'm banging his "little princess" the man will kill me!!!
Q. Ok, I have a HUGE problem. I am 29 yrs old and have been working for a construction company for a year. My boss is totally cool and since I have no family in the area has pretty much opened his home to me. We get along great both at work and off ...
A. 22 January 2010: You didnt know.
tell him with her.
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My best friend's in love with me! But I don't see him that way.
Q. I met him two years ago.. (He's two years elder to me and we're in the same school) Since then we've been best friends. We used to hang out all the time, and talk the whole day. And he kept on having a crush on me. I didnt know about it till my ...
A. 22 January 2010: you are using him
end it if you do not like him... (read in full...)
Help! I have a very high sex drive and my fiance doesn't - yet he's watching porn?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for seven years. We're young- no older than 22 and We've lived together for three of the seven. A few months back i woke up randomly from having gone to sleep early and noticed pink light on the walls from t...
A. 22 January 2010: He didn't one day just STOP having sex.
It must have been something.
1. He doesn't have a job anymore, and failed out of some career he was in.
2. He does drugs.
3. I don't want to sound rude but this is quite plausible, you have gai... (read in full...)
Am I investing my time for it all to end anyway???
Q. I am in love beyond what I ever thought possible. I was once married (for almost 10 years), and left that relationship a hollow (cynical) man. I spent a lot of time learning about myself, my needs, and ultimately what I wanted. At about the time...
A. 22 January 2010: ask her and get her to tell you WHY.
WHY do you not feel this way.
Its not invasive forceful or inconvenient thing to ask.
She should answer that for her own sake, as well as yours... (read in full...)
I'm scared to let him give me oral in case I smell!
Q. heyy, i am in a relationship and love this guy a lot but i stop him going to give me oral because i am paranoid that i smell down there. can you give me any advice on how to over come this? thank you =)...
A. 22 January 2010: Dear Anon- dude wash it and you're good this coming from a guy who licks asshole that smells like a rose You will be alright :) believe me -IHateWomanBeaters... (read in full...)
I moved across the world to be with him-now he's not sure if he loves me!
Q. This is a hard situation. I moved to another country to be with my boyfriend, he was pretty scared/nervous/unsure about it but he still did a lot for me as well as his family. I live with them now the last 6 months and he broke up with me because ...
A. 22 January 2010: leave not worth it... (read in full...)
My stupidity is driving her away! What should I do
Q. Hi, I am deeply, madly in love with this women, I've been with her for one year and four months. I lied to her about myself, so that I can have some type of chance with her, and I lied about my past (which I don't care). Everything started great ...
A. 22 January 2010: Dear Anon, "and she won't be with me unless I leave the house, finish school, and do a massive 380 degrees on her to back with me" There is your answer. If you like/love her that much you will regret it for the rest of your life not doing it... (read in full...)
Haven't seen him in 2 years...should I get in touch?
Q. I,m a seventeen year old girl (eighteen in a few weeks) and I've developed feelings for a guy i havent seen in two years. You see lately I,ve been having dreams about this guy and I havent seen him in two years. I,ve lost contact with him and the ...
A. 22 January 2010: Dear Anon, Its always worth of a shot. You should definitely get in contact with him. You may end up finding out he has the same feelings! -Ihatewomanbeaters Good Luck :)... (read in full...)
She lied to me about seeing her ex bf! what should I do?
Q. I just want your opinion. i've been with her 3 months at first she said she had 3 sexual partners before me. one month she went to a party with her ex bf, i was fine with this. Then she wanted to go out in his car after the party i said no ob...
A. 22 January 2010: Yea dude. break up with her... (read in full...)
Is this girl worth all this hassle?
Q. I've got a slight problem here, and I dont know how to address it. I like this girl, who happens to be related to an old friend who is dating a girl who hates my guts, and he follows her word on everything, and has more then on one occaision tr...
A. 22 January 2010: don't not date someone because of some bully. If you like her, date her.... (read in full...)
He's unemployed, no career goals...what should I do here?
Q. I've been with a guy for four years. Before I met him I was completely obsessed with the thought of him. I finally actually got with him, and things started out good. We are exactly alike, and spend all our time together. We both really love each ...
A. 22 January 2010: How do you stop the cycle? By ending it. You cannot stop it or slow it. People are not meant to be together sometimes. ... (read in full...)
My best friend's in love with me! But I don't see him that way.
Q. I met him two years ago.. (He's two years elder to me and we're in the same school) Since then we've been best friends. We used to hang out all the time, and talk the whole day. And he kept on having a crush on me. I didnt know about it till my ...
A. 21 January 2010: why are you not attracted to him?
is he not good looking?
I had a best friend that claimed me to be "the most beautiful thing she's ever seen" but would not go out with me, because we were friends. She volunteered the attractivness pa... (read in full...)
He says he hit me out of self defense. Should I still even be with him?
Q. I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 21. 2 days ago we went to a christmas party. i got very very drunk and apparantly made a fool out of him by the way i was dancing ect..we stayed at my parents and when we got in we were arguing. I went into my room and ...
A. 21 January 2010: first off, your boyfriend is angry at you, because you danced a certain way when you were drunk? That is the sign of someone that you should not be with. Two. He HIT you then you push him and then he hits you for pushing him, because he hit you. ... (read in full...)
How do I get back with my stepsister?
Q. I was seeing my step sister but we broke up even though she still likes me. She is afraid people would not except it. How do I tell her it is ok? We have both fell for each other very deeply it's killing me and we're not blood related....
A. 21 January 2010: One- who cares about the laws.
Two- who cares about other people?
If you love someone whether it is a man, woman, or family member, if it is consensual go for it.
Talk to her about what the relationship means to you.
If she loves you as... (read in full...)
Hubby says I'm not fun like others
Q. My husband went to luncheon with some female clients and when they asked him to bring me for lunch one day, he replied that I'm not fun like them. He told me this when he came home and realized his mistake when I was offended. He tried to correct ...
A. 20 January 2010: straighten out the situation by saying i want to be with you like we are a couple. I want to have sex. I want to do stuff with you that makes me more than a friend.
If he doesn't fix himself divorce him.
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Is he too scared to admit he likes me?
Q. does he like me, and just to scared to admit it? There's this guy who I go to school wit n we are really good friends.when I first started goin to that school he would helop me out n stuff.well now that we no eachother n stuff, when we r at school h...
A. 20 January 2010: tell him how you feel.
and you should tell your crush how you feel! you live once.
if she is one of those damsel in distress people, take it up a notch, kick ass and kiss her.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date a woman 7 years older?
Q. Anything wrong in dating older women (like seven years older than you)?...
A. 20 January 2010: if you want to, yeah! ... (read in full...)
I am profoundly hurt over her behavior!
Q. My boyfriend proposed recently and gave me a beautiful ring. We have been together for over 6 years and we are very happy. I called my best gf's first and the one that I thought was my very best friend, said she was at a bar and too drunk to talk. ...
A. 19 January 2010: Dear anon,
As your best friend,she might realize that something bad is and/or was going on with you and your fiance.
A couple of things need to be answered HONESTLY
1. has he EVER hit you or abused you?
2. does he treat you as an equal and... (read in full...)
His mouth says he loves me but his actions say different
Q. i have a boyfriend who is upset at me because of somethings i had done in my pass. he has been giving me a hard time about it and even calls me every name in the book.. he claims to love me and will never deni that to me but his actions show ...
A. 16 January 2010: Dear Anon,
I am sorry to say this, but no man that loved you would treat you like that. He is a self-absorbed asshole.
With all of the SEVERE things I have seen, I wish you do one thing and one thing only. Do not stay with him.... (read in full...)
Will experimenting with rough sex...change our relationship in a negative way?
Q. My girlfriend and I have a very loving relationship. We care for each other greatly, and I respect her so much. We have done some minor BDSM and slave things but she recently told me that she wants more. She wants me to be really rough on her, ...
A. 16 January 2010: It is possible. You never know. Don't assume that that is the case, but statistically speaking, it is the case. Her wanting to do that and people that do that in general, want someone that they love and trust to do it. The goal is to turn a ... (read in full...)
Should I Choose Between My Boyfriend And Family?
Q. I am almost 20 years old, and female. When I was 16, I began dating a boy who was 18 and lived in California. I'm from Texas. We spent a lot of time with each other despite the fact we lived so far away from each other. I flew to see him and he flew ...
A. 16 January 2010: Go home.
A relationship should be about comprimise, not him guilting you into staying, not letting you see family.
Go to your family, build a life and find someone that will allow you to see family.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's past trouble me..am I overreacting?
Q. Hi there, I'm looking for some advice about my partner. I've been with my partner for 4 years now and we don't live together but do see each other 3 times a week, either he stays at mine or i stay at his. The problem is that I have always known ...
A. 16 January 2010: well here is the thing.
liking violent sex aka pulling hair and spanking a woman while doing incredibly rough anal is not synonymous with an abuser. I do that all the time, consensually.
What you should worry about is him verbally abusing... (read in full...)
Will experimenting with rough sex...change our relationship in a negative way?
Q. My girlfriend and I have a very loving relationship. We care for each other greatly, and I respect her so much. We have done some minor BDSM and slave things but she recently told me that she wants more. She wants me to be really rough on her, ...
A. 16 January 2010: Hey Anon,
I have been heavily involved in BDSM for 4 years.
Talk to her about her desires. Why does she want to do them?
The most important thing is getting an idea of what she wants to accomplish with this.
There is a past fueling... (read in full...)
I feel pressured into giving into my bf's sexual needs...should I do it?
Q. Heey,, im 14 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 months ( he turned 16 last month and im 15 in june) and everythings been going fantastic until a few weeks ago. He started telling me stuff. Stuff like he thinks about me when hes masturbating and ...
A. 16 January 2010: I am the sexually hedonistic, wild, and sinful person doing the nastiest, raunchiest sex possible. However, I am 22 and the women I am with are ready for it. When a woman is not ready for it and i truely like her (not love), I will wait for her. ... (read in full...)
I hate it here and home and my boyfriends offered me space at his place!
Q. I've live in Spain for 8 years and last year I moved back to Estonia and went to school. I live with my dad and every other week my brother's here too. At school I met my now boyfriend and we've been a couple for 2 months. We seem a perfectly good ...
A. 16 January 2010: live with your boyfriend. Give it a shot. If you like him and he likes you, try it out.... (read in full...)
My husbands anger is getting worse and he is resorting to violence
Q. i don't know what to do!!! my husband and i have our problems but i think we argue more than anything. it has resently gotten worse. the other day he got pulled over for the third time without a license and i told him he isn't driving anymore. he ...
A. 15 January 2010: Dear Anon,
Your husband is definitely going to be the kind of person to abuse you later on in life. The thing that perpetuates this cycle of violence is temper, explosion, man denying he needs help. Repeat.
Like they do in all those movies... (read in full...)
I tried to help a victim of violence but she's left and I don't know where she is
Q. I need some advice. I met this random girl one day i saw her walking down the other side of the street and i called to her and told her she was cute and she stopped, so i went over and started talking to her, but when i got close i could tell she...
A. 15 January 2010: this is a tricky one. I would say that it is probably legal to leave home after the age of 16 and if she is 16+ then you can just let her stay at your place or get her the assisted living some other way.
Either way to simply walk away would be... (read in full...)
I hate it here and home and my boyfriends offered me space at his place!
Q. I've live in Spain for 8 years and last year I moved back to Estonia and went to school. I live with my dad and every other week my brother's here too. At school I met my now boyfriend and we've been a couple for 2 months. We seem a perfectly good ...
A. 15 January 2010: I would say stay with your boyfriend. Don't do it to be more committed. Do it because you don't want to leave spain.
I think you should stay with your boyfriend (IF HE IS NOT ABUSIVE).... (read in full...)
Am I selfish for wanting to go abroad, or is he selfish for wanting me to stay?
Q. I don't know who is right in this situation !.Me and this guy i used to be with have been together on and off for a few years. We haven't become very serious, such as moving in together, having kids, or doing many sexual things.He has said in the ...
A. 18 December 2009: Well, I would honestly, honestly think going back to him is not a good idea. I think that you should focus on your career another way if this opportunity did not work out for you. When you have money, it might not buy you love or happiness, b... (read in full...)
Would this be considerd rape...i don't want to think badly of him...
Q. Mah boyfriend and i had been together for 5 months...we had had sex before but one night we were washing his car in his barn and there is a couch in his barn. Well sprayed him with the hose (juss being goofy) and then ran to couch. he followed too ...
A. 11 November 2009: rape call 911 and report it do not take a shower. have the police gather evidence. He is going to victimize other women if you don't. He is a predator and you have to understand what he has done to you... (read in full...)
I lied about my sexual history. How can I make it up to him?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. When we first got together i lied about how many sexual partners i had had. Since then, I have lied to him about 2 or 3 more times, letting only a little bit more information slip but not telling him ...
A. 9 November 2009: why is it that the most socially advanced cultures on Earth are worried about how many partners you have?
1. If he judges you negatively and you haven't put him at health risks, etc., then he is not worthy of your love and commitment. ... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 5 November 2009: OK everyone needs to chill out and be quiet for a second.
Relax and count to ten and ... relax.
Anyway, the chances are higher, not ridiculously high, that you are going to have some sort of recessive genetic defect in the baby.
For th... (read in full...)
I think I need a break to sort things out. What should I do?
Q. Just before my fifteenth birthday I was with this guy, who I fell in love with. But then he made some bad decisions and we went our seperate ways. Not even a month later, I got with this new guy who was nothing spectacular and I figured he'd just be ...
A. 5 November 2009: you do not want to be with his man.
1.he is forbidding you from talking to friends.
2.your BEST FRIEND has said she does not trust or like him.
3.Your best friends father has said he does not trust or like him.
You spend nights crying and ... (read in full...)
Am I selfish for wanting to go abroad, or is he selfish for wanting me to stay?
Q. I don't know who is right in this situation !.Me and this guy i used to be with have been together on and off for a few years. We haven't become very serious, such as moving in together, having kids, or doing many sexual things.He has said in the ...
A. 5 November 2009: seriously... this guy is a loser...
move on.
you are going to spain to start a wonderful career and a wonderful life.
you haven't even done lots of sexual stuff...
you are going to spain to do work abroad, you are 24-27, you are i... (read in full...)
Let him go and hope for his return or tell him how I feel and ask him to stay and chance ruining our remaining time or just let go?
Q. My problem is, I am seeing a guy, let's call him 'A', and he is moving to France (both he and I live in London at the moment). I met him through a previous boyfriend of mine, 'C', who I dated for several months, and this prevented me and...
A. 5 November 2009: well. I don't know how things are done in Europe. You tend to be more "traditionally progressive" than us in the USA.
However, what I would do to get things good and what not, would be to have fun with him and don't blow eachother off. See othe... (read in full...)
I think I need a break to sort things out. What should I do?
Q. Just before my fifteenth birthday I was with this guy, who I fell in love with. But then he made some bad decisions and we went our seperate ways. Not even a month later, I got with this new guy who was nothing spectacular and I figured he'd just be ...
A. 10 October 2009: your bf is a child and is already on the wonderful path to abusing you. Step #1 is branding you like cattle. Then the really fun stuff comes :). Take a break. Leave. Dump him. Be with a mature person. This is what THE REST OF YOUR L... (read in full...)
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