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anonymous
writes:I'm in a similar situation. I love my 32 year old cousin's daughter. i didn't even know my 32 year old cousin was my cousin. Well my cousin's daughter is my age and she loves me too, we love each other so much. I don't know what to do my parents don't know, but her step dad and mom does. Her step dad doesn't like me, but her mom/my cousin does know and agrees with our love. So i don't know what to do.
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 her step dad is just tryin to protect his step daughter and the fac u r so close to be family that he doesn't like. just wait he may come a round and if u like eachother enough u can wait.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 At the moment you should not do anything.
How can you know it is not just a crush?
"is my age and she loves me too, we love each other so much"
Probably you need time to test your feelings to one another.
You both decide whom you should tell when the time is right.
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reader, Jenii  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Dear anonymous,
Not knowing too much of your situation I can only guess that maybe her step father doesn't so much dislike you but maybe the situation of being so close in relation. Either way if you are both in love then I can only suggest for you to be patient and understanding with her step fathers point of view. People can change their minds and if you prove you are genuine and good together and for each other then maybe he will come round to the idea.
With Warm Wishes
Jenii
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