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How can I make going down on my boyfriend more comfortable for myself and him?
Q. Im 18 years old and my boyfriend likes when I give him a blowjob. But he's too wide to fit in my mouth. He keeps trying to push me down farther but everytime I try my teeth hits him and I choke. So what can I do to make the situation more ...
A. 14 August 2012: If he knows you can't fit it all in then why is he still pushing your head down, blowjobs are great but you don't need force the whole thing down someone's throat to enjoy it, he's treatin u like a sex toy ... (read in full...)
Why do men seem to prefer fellatio to intercourse?
Q. I would like to know one of two things. why do men get so much pleasure out of a blowjob and less out of sex? I also have a few fantasies. How to I communicate this to my boyfriend of five years? Will he think I'm weird if I want to try out som...
A. 13 August 2012: The truth is because most of us are lazy and enjoy to just lay back and relax, blow jobs are great, as for gettin him into anal if he says he's dead against it I don't no if you will able to change him, get him drunk and tell him how much you want ... (read in full...)
I've never been turned down for sex in the middle of the night, I feel hurt! Am I over reacting?
Q. I'm so hurt it's unbelievable. I live with my boyfriend but went away abroad with my mum and sister for a week and got back last night. everyday we called and texted a lot, he told me all the time how he missed me and couldn't wait to see me. I've ...
A. 12 August 2012: Your over reacting, 4 am? The guy was sleeping, don't feel hurt over this, he was tired, you sound like a great girlfriend by the way ... (read in full...)
What else could I have said or done when he was unable to perform? We'd been partying and he was drunk.
Q. I tried to hook up with this guy i've been seeing but he couldn't get it up. We'd been out partying, so it was pretty late and he was drunk. The foreplay went on for ages. I just want to know if there is anything I could do (if it happens agai...
A. 11 August 2012: From a guys point of view, if he was really drunk then that would explain the problem, that added to the embarrassment of not bein able to perform meant there was no chance for him, a blow job probably would have helped but if he was really drunk ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants sexual play involving her butt and I can't do it
Q. My girlfriend is great. I really love her not to mention her intelligence, sense of humor and...amazing looks. The other day we were had some shower sex that turned into regular sex -- recently she's been into 69, so that's what we did. To be ho...
A. 10 August 2012: If you really can't bring yourself to do it then don't, I think it's wrong of her to try and trip you into it by mentioning her ex, she should of had a bit more respect for you there, on the other hand don't knock it til you've tried it, get ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is mas at me because my ex wants to live with me?
Q. Hello everyone. I really did it!!! I pissed off my boyfriend and now he isn't talking to me. Well, I have been staying with friends since separating from my husband. I am ready to go out on my own but I don't make much money with my minimum ...
A. 10 August 2012: This isn't insecurity, this is just a reaction than any normal perso
Would have if there partner mentioned that their ex was asking them to move in together, he's angry because you told him about it, it should not even of got that far, you shou... (read in full...)
S this a normal male perspective please?
Q. Hi, this is a question for guys mainly... I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year, and spending most of the last 6 months staying round at his house. My lease has come up on my own shared house and so I am moving into a new flat. He sa...
A. 8 August 2012: This isn't a normal male thing, this guy is trying to force you into something your not ready for, he sounds like he's trying to use you, of he thinks he has all these women queuing up round the block to move in with him then tell him to go ahead ... (read in full...)
Is checking partners phone wrong
Q. So there has been a lot of talk in magazines etc about Jools wanting to check Jamie Oliver's texts....and I have to say whilst it's wrong I can kind of understand it... My boyfriend has always been very private about his phone, to the point that h...
A. 8 August 2012: He doesn't let you look at it and he shouldn't have to, you have to learn to trust him, you said yourself you want him to see what you send to your friends, so why should you see what he's doing, he does what all men do and keeps things to himself ... (read in full...)
Can I trust this man when he's not honest?
Q. Hello, wondered if anyone could shed any light on my boyfreind of eight years actions??? we recently spent 8 weeks apart and got back together (we have done this a few times over the years) .... Only I have this nagging doubt, he has a biz and ...
A. 8 August 2012: There is nothing more annoying than being with someone who doesn't trust you, he erupts because for 8 years he's probably been putting up with this. You said you say these things just joking? Well it's not joking is it, it's you letting him no in a ... (read in full...)
Will oral sex have prepared me for regular sex?
Q. Basically, im a 19 year old virgin and a guy. I guess in my younger teen years I had low confidence and never got round to getting a serious girlfriend or having sex. Now that im 19 I feel like im missing out and I really, really want to start ha...
A. 6 August 2012: I agree with double m, please her first and then it's not too much of a deal how long u last, and you will probably last a lot longer than you expect, don't panic, relax, enjoy it and remember u only get better, practice makes perfect ... (read in full...)
Was he being rude or protective? opinions please
Q. Hey guys. I went on a night out, and I have a male best friend who is four years older than I am. Now before he knew I was planning to have a night out, he claimed to not be going out this weekend. Yet somehow he managed to be in ever single plac...
A. 6 August 2012: This sounds more of a jealousy thing than a protective one, by the sounds of it he may have quite strong feelings for you and not in a friendship way ... (read in full...)
How can I pick myself up again, What do I do if he calls?
Q. My ex dumped me yesterday because he found out I'd written some nasty things on Facebook which were about him. The thing is, we didn't have each other on Facebook because all it does is create unnecessary problems, especially with jealous people ...
A. 6 August 2012: U said how much better you felt when you broke up, this man is making you miserable, as hard as it may be I think you know what you have to do, you have to leave this person for good, for your own well being... (read in full...)
Boyfriends ex is spreading around that he uses girls for money which isn't true! what should I do?
Q. Ive been with my current boyfriend for 8 months now. To begin with when we first started seeing each other his ex was still trying to get him back and would basically slag me. She would text him saying he should stop seeing me and that im a fa...
A. 6 August 2012: I can understand your anger, and while the urge to teach this trouble maker a lesson is very tempting, I urge you to follow in your boyfriends footsteps, he has handled this in the best way possible, this woman is obviously madly in love with him, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has stopped calling me by my pet name, should I be worried?
Q. Dear all, Would you be concerned if your boyfriend stopped calling you pet names and replaced with using your first name instead? I noticed my bf of 8 months as started doing this. Were in a ldr see each other alternative weekends and he still has...
A. 6 August 2012: From a personal point of view, after time pet names can become quite irritating, and it's nice to be called your own name once in a while, pet names can be quite childish and maybe he thinks he will be taken more serious He uses your real name... (read in full...)
Risk losing a great guy, or risk having sex with a random guy?
Q. I know this question must have been asked a thousand times before, and I also know that this is a VERY long post. However, I'm facing a very difficult choice right now, and I could use the point of view of an outsider. So, I'm a late virgin at 2...
A. 5 August 2012: If this guy was do great and cared about you he would be with you, your lack of experience wouldn't matter, don't have sex with this other guy, you don't want too and it won't make you feel good, neither guy sounds right for you ... (read in full...)
My first relationship: Am I dating him? Or was it just about sex? Nine years older than me and I don't know where I stand.
Q. Hey! I've got my self into this 'relationship' with a guy but I do not know where I stand anymore! So basically a guy, 9 years my elder, who I've known for 2 years or so started talking to me more often since early June. After that I've been '...
A. 5 August 2012: Sorry to say this but it sounds like he got what he wanted and has cast you aside, still you deserve an explanation, wait til he gets back, and WAIT for him to call you, don't contact him straight away, if after ten days away he makes no effort to ... (read in full...)
Any advice for a 44 year old virgin? I tried an escourt but had Erectile Dysfunction so she suggested a longer visit next time.
Q. I recently visited an escort agency to have sex for the first time at 44yrs of age but was unable to obtain an erection and nothing happened. Of course i was nervous even though the lady was very attractive, i booked for an hour. She suggeste...
A. 4 August 2012: Viagra would probably help, but this is more likely to be a bit of stage fright, anxiety and nerves are an erection killer, a longer session may help of your happy spending your money, being relaxed and comfortable are definitely the way forward, I ... (read in full...)
They say size doesn't matter but it really does!
Q. Okay so me and my fiance have been together for over three years now and I have a slight issue. To put it bluntly, i have a below average penis size. Sex was great at the start of our relationship and still is in my opinion but I'm pretty sure that ...
A. 3 August 2012: I think this is all in your head, unless shes telling you your penis isn't good enough for her then what's the problem? If she didn't enjoy sex with you then you wouldn't be having much of it, I don't understand why guys get worried about their ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is incapable of being aggressive!!
Q. So we've been dating for a while- my boyfriend and I. We are at the point where we've told each other that we love one another. And I do love him dearly. I really do. But there is a problem. My boyfriend has aggressiveness issues. He is incapable ...
A. 3 August 2012: This guy has had a tough life, he doesn't want to be like his father, he's found a way to deal with his anger and bad feelings, if you try and push him to be more aggressive you may live to regret it, there is nothing wrong with being calm and ... (read in full...)
Going out on 1st date for a drink. What should I talk about?
Q. As you all know, my last girfriend was Hungarian, but tomorrow night I am going on a date with an English girl. She likes my sense of humour (by text), likes my picture. Its been a while since I've dated (in English!) We are going for a drink, wha...
A. 2 August 2012: If she likes your sense of humour then im sure you can rely on that, first dates can be awkward, just relax, tell her she looks nice buy her drinks, if you already get on over txt and there's an attraction between you both then I'm sure it will go ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me? I masturbate watching painful anal sex!
Q. Hi! I'm a 32-year-old female, married. I love my sex life with my husband, yet sometimes I feel the urge to masturbate watching porn, especially porn where girls have painful anal sex (which is something I'd never dream of doing) but that turns me ...
A. 2 August 2012: If its what does it for you then I wouldn't worry, people are into all different things, ur not hurting or harming anyone by watching it, what you do and enjoy in your own time is your own business so don't worry about it... (read in full...)
My ex and her friends have turned my new girlfriends life into a living hell
Q. Okay so I dated this girl for a while and we even got engaged. We broke up because I made a horrible mistake. I wasn’t attracted to her and I didn’t love her, I proposed because I thought it was the right thing to do. When I realized that it was ...
A. 1 August 2012: The best thing to do is cut all contact with your ex, she is a women scorned and is trying to ruin your new relationship, block her on Facebook/change your number, and focus all your love and affection on your new girlfriend, if you continue to ... (read in full...)
Is he just after sex or something else?
Q. I get so confused over this guy, I have no idea what he want from me. And im sorry that this is a long question. I met this guy 4 weeks ago at a club, and my best friend ended up with his friend so we just followed them home since they lived toghe...
A. 1 August 2012: This guy clearly likes you, and he makes you feel safe and happy then that's a good thing, I can tell you that he does want sex with you, but there's nothing wrong with that, he likes you,he fancies you, of course he wants sex, but he's not ... (read in full...)
Can you tell someone has had anal sex by looking at their bottom?
Q. Hey there everyone! So... I was in a 5-yr-relationship with this guy and we used to have a quite a lot of anal sex. I didn't really like it, but he loved it so I tried to make him happy. Since we broke up I decided I'd never do anal just to make ...
A. 31 July 2012: No he won't be able to tell, and if i were you I'd keep your past in the past, there's no need to tell him about it, just carry on the Way you are and don't worry ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend and neighbour fancy each other?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 10 years and have 2 daughters together, he recently befriended our next door neighbour due to a shared interest in motorbikes, therefore he started spending a lot of time in our back garden with our ...
A. 31 July 2012: He's being a pain, he's lapping up the attention and definitely fancies her... (read in full...)
She wants me to be more dirty but now I"m not sure we should have started down this path!
Q. I am really unsure what to make with my girlfriend. We've been together 5 months, throughout May we did not kiss or do anything sexual as she'd commented she felt guilty, plus I had things on my mind so I deliberately didn't do anything. Fro...
A. 30 July 2012: There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex with each other and experimenting, lighten up a bit, as your girlfriend she will want to feel wanted and desired by you, so let yourself enjoy it a bit more... (read in full...)
He still hasn't stopped communicating with her
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for five years, about 10 months ago he became friends with a girl. I was immediately uneasy about this friendship as he was very secretive and kept everything under the table so to speak. I only ever saw her ...
A. 29 July 2012: He's messing you around, I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with her, your obviously not gettin the truth from him so why not confront her, if someone was sending naked pictures to my partner I wouldn't just let it slip, I'd make sure it ... (read in full...)
I'm finding it very difficult to forget about my boyfriend's past relationships.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together almost a year. Before me he had never had a girlfriend, yet had slept around. I'm finding it incredibly difficult to forget about this past of his. Especially a certain girl who he claims he merely had a 'se...
A. 29 July 2012: This is in the past, your just gonna have to deal with it, he was honest enough to tell u about his past when he could just of left it, you constantly asking him about something that has nothing to do with your relationship will push him away, you ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing? He cheated, and he asked me to tell him when I do forgive him?
Q. I found out today that my boyfriend of two years has been skyping another girl, calling her 'sexy', 'love', 'cutie', all things that he calls me, telling her she's 20 times hotter than me, that he'll think of her when he's in bed with me, etc. ...
A. 25 July 2012: Given the chance Id bet he wouldn't physically cheat on you, he obviously never expected you to find out, the reason he doesn't feel so bad is because he hasn't done anything physical and never planned too, he doesn't realise that words are just as ... (read in full...)
She's my Dream Girl. But I'm consumed with jealousy over her past. Can someone help me resolve this huge problem?
Q. how do I stop thinking about my Girlfriends past and make sure its not the end of our future? I looked at many sites about guys on this subject but Wow all these dudes think they got it bad with like girlfriends having 3-4 partners more then th...
A. 25 July 2012: She is older, clearly much more mature than you and has a lot more experience than you, that's what people do when there young, they experiment, they have fun, sometimes they bow to peer pressure and do things when their young that they wouldn't do ... (read in full...)
Am I being unnecesarily jealous or do I have a valid point about her fling from the past contacting her?
Q. Hi all, I'm hoping to receive some impartial advice on a problem I'm experiencing ATM. Been with my GF now for over a year and living with each other for a month. While on holiday it came to my attention that a guy she had 'fun' with between h...
A. 25 July 2012: This guy is did respecting you and your relationship in my opinion, your girlfriend might not have any feelings towards him but it's still not right her txtin him, tell her your not happy about it, there's a difference between a male friend and as ... (read in full...)
Would it be bad of me if I went away with my friend and told my girlfriend it was a work convention?
Q. I took her away to Florida in June and we are booked to go back next summer. She is going away with her family for a week in August and i was invited but i cannot get the time off work. I was thinking about going away for a week in September with...
A. 25 July 2012: At your age you have to start laying down the law, go with your friend, tell her your going with him, if she has a problem with that then she obviously isn't very mature, you have to live for yourself as well, if you lie she will definitely find ... (read in full...)
I adore everything about him but his height turns me off!!
Q. After a break up, I met this guy that ive been friends with for about 9 months now. During the first 4 months we got a little physical but we did not have sex. I adore everything about him but his height turns me off so much. He's as tall as me and ...
A. 24 July 2012: If your already asking these questions then your answer is there already, the height thing will always be a problem for you, and it's something he can't change, to choose him because he's nice and has a good job is not fair, it will all end badly, ... (read in full...)
Sex is unfulfilling for me, and my boyfriend blames himself. What can I do?
Q. ok i have a problem! i lost my virginty two years ago! i've never had one good experience with sex! im always horny and want to have sex but its always unfulfilling i've tried different things and the only thing thats worked me for is playing with ...
A. 24 July 2012: Maybe you should see a doctor about this, maybe it's a psychological thing... (read in full...)
When will these feelings for my ex go away?
Q. Why Is this happening to me? I hate my life:(. Mature answers please? My ex boyfriend and I broke up 15 months ago. I loved him so much, I thought we were in love cause of the way he cared about me. All my friends and family thought ...
A. 23 July 2012: It's hard to say whether these feelings will ever go away, you need some form of closure on this, your last meeting only left you more confused, contact him, meet him, and ask him why things changed, why they went wrong, tell him everything that you ... (read in full...)
Guys, would you be disappointed to know that the girl you're dating had hair loss and wears a wig? Any ladies out there who have gone through this?
Q. This is a question for guys mainly (or for any girls in my situation or who have been in my situation). I have androgenetic alopecia, I'm 23, so I feel I'm too young for this! :( Anyway, for those who don't know, it means I'm losing my hair. ...
A. 23 July 2012: As a guy I wouldn't mind, I'd say the right time to tell someone would be after a few dates, if someone likes you for who you are then I can't see this being a problem from a guys point of view, anyone who does obviously isn't the right one for you, ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend WANTS to perform oral on me. However, I DON'T want it!
Q. Hi. As the title suggests, my girlfriend does want to perform oral sex on me. She keeps asking, every, single, time that I'm alone with her. I tell her, "No. I'm not ready for that. I am, however, ready for intercourse.", and she tells me she doe...
A. 20 July 2012: As a man I can tell you that you will be kicking yourself for not letting her do it sooner, your lucky to have a girlfriend who is keen on oral... (read in full...)
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