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I don't believe I can satisfy my girlfriend physically. Should I leave her?
Q. Appreciate any answers. I believe I can't physically satisfy my girlfriend and as a consequence believe I should leave her. I want to leave her if as I don't want a gf I can't please and I worry that this may be a reason for her leaving me so t...
A. 13 January 2013: Woh!!! Hang on just a minute! First off if your happy with this girl and you love and care about her then don't leave her.
Secondly what makes you think you can't please her?? Supply more details. What you have to understand is if she's stuck with... (read in full...)
How should I greet her? First date with a girl I met online.
Q. I have been speaking to this girl on a dating site now for a week and we are going on a date tomorrow. Any tips? When I greet her is it just a casual hello,? Any advise or tips will be muchly appreciated !...
A. 12 January 2013: Tell her she looks nice and a cool casual peck on the cheek, be confident with it though as if its the norm ... (read in full...)
My Bf will be so hurt. I cheated over Christmas with a work colleague. What should I do now?
Q. Need some advice,I understand if you judge me, I hate myself for it..... Me and my boyfriend of 2 years went through a miserable period over Christmas, felt really down about it. I had my works Christmas party where I found myself really drunk, ...
A. 12 January 2013: If you really love him and there's no way he will find out from someone else then I wouldn't say anything, I would live with the guilt and swear it will never happen again, yes it's selfish but it was a mistake. Unfortunately in a workplace word ... (read in full...)
Can short guys have success with women? And if so how? I need advice on how to cope better with my height.
Q. I am a 5'4" male and i am very insecure about my height. I know that women love tall guys and that most of them turn their noses at the thought of dating a guy as short as me. However, I also know that some guys my height and shorter do have suc...
A. 11 January 2013: Confidence is the key, I'm 5.8 so not that tall, the way I got my girlfriend was through being confident and making her laugh, she's only 5ft tall though. What you have to accept is that there are going to be girls who will and won't, work on your ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband that I cheated on my ex with a co-worker? Or leave the past in the past?
Q. Been happily married for a few months after I'd been with my ex for a few years. Do you think I should tell my husband I cheated on my ex and had a six-month affair with a co-worker? Now I don't have any contacts with either my ex nor my former a...
A. 11 January 2013: If your 100% sure this won't come out another way I don't see the need to ever tell him about it, it could only cause problems, it's in the past and it should stay there ... (read in full...)
What do I say to bring this guy back around?
Q. I met a guy online, we clicked, hung out a few times - then got into some huge fight .. nasty words were exchanged even at one point! And we stopped speaking ( he didn't trust me and I didn't trust him but no one cheated or anything as we were ...
A. 10 January 2013: Say exactly that, message him saying your bored and would like to hang out, tell Him you miss the fun times you had. From what you've said I'd bet be wants the same. Don't hold out any hope that he's matured at all in that time.... (read in full...)
Guy trying to steal my girl becoming a nuisance
Q. hi ladies and gents, i need a little help with my gfs/fiances problem friend. before i came onto the scene, they where dating and she gave him a little tail once in a while (from what i gather). but they never became bf/gf because he was too ...
A. 10 January 2013: Dude be a man, mark your territory, what I would do, tell her by keeping talking to this guy she's leading him to thinking he has a chance. I'd tell her to stop completely out of respect for you and your relationship, If she refuses then bin her. ... (read in full...)
I am left feeling guilty because I don't want to give my b/f a blow job
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years. I have had a bad experience with blowjobs in my past and i know my boyfriend really wants one but i can't let go and give him one. I'm not ready. But he's become withdrawn and he tells his friends ...
A. 10 January 2013: There are always ways around these problems. He is indirectly pressuring you which is wrong but I can understand his frustration. First off identify exactly what your not comfortable with be it the taste, texture or havin cum in your mouth. Whatever ... (read in full...)
She lost interest in me because I let her pay for her part of the meal on our first date!
Q. I had a situation with a woman I really liked, and need you opinion on this. I 've met this girl in a building that I work at. She works for a different company, and I saw her several times at lunch before we started talking. We just talked for ...
A. 8 January 2013: Honestly, me and my girlfriend always pay for eachother, we've been together 3 years, but when I first met her I paid for everything, it's what you do man, especially on the first date when you asked her out! It's old fashioned I know but it ... (read in full...)
How can I get my fat girlfriend to lose weight?
Q. MOD NOTE: This was original poster's chosen title... Hi all Ive been with my OH (other half) for nearly 4 years now - when we first met she was 196lbs at 5ft 10 and it didnt bother me much. I was still attracted. Now, she is 219lbs! and thou...
A. 8 January 2013: Your not being selfish or a pig, I'm not attracted to fat girls, it doesn't make you a bad person, if you're not happy then tell her, if she can't handle the truth then that's her problem.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is upset about what I did in a past relationship....
Q. My bf is upset about what I did in a past relationship I am with my current bf for about a year and a half now, going on two years. We met in college and have a great relationship. My bf and I recently went back home to my family for the T...
A. 4 January 2013: Kristen, I think what your boyfriend really wants to hear is that you don't want to have anyone else involved in your sex life, that you want only him ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is upset about what I did in a past relationship....
Q. My bf is upset about what I did in a past relationship I am with my current bf for about a year and a half now, going on two years. We met in college and have a great relationship. My bf and I recently went back home to my family for the T...
A. 19 December 2012: If This happened to me I wouldn't want a threesome, I wouldn't be upset that you that you had them in your past, what would really upset me is the way he found out, it would of made him feel a complete fool... (read in full...)
What goes through a man's mind when he watches porn?
Q. Can some actually explain to us women what happens when watching porn? Does it make the man feel like he is having sex with the woman on the screen? Apparently I am told they are not watching it to pretend they are the man in the video. I am ...
A. 12 December 2012: Iv never watched porn and thought about having sex with the women, I think most men watch it and get off on the act that their watching... (read in full...)
My dad saw one of the dirty pics that I had sent my B/f!
Q. Ok so me and my boyfriend now have a long distance relationship... in order to keep things "interesting"... we send each other pictures. The other night I sent him a bunch of pictures and they were sitting on my desktop. The next day I was in the ...
A. 2 December 2012: Don't do anything, your dad is probably just as embarrassed as you are and wants to forget it as much as you.... (read in full...)
Troubled by a dream - what do I do?
Q. I'm worried. I am 16 and I am fantasizing about my dad. Not all the time or anything but sometimes he just pops into my dreams and I don't normally have sexual dreams. It scares me. He's never done anything inappropriate and I wouldn't want him to ...
A. 23 November 2012: I don't think there's anything you can do to control your dreams, also I wouldn't worry to much about them, everyone has unpleasant dreams from time to time, it doesn't mean you secretly want these things does it. ... (read in full...)
Is it a good thing to be with the girl that every guy wants?
Q. the girl i'm seeing she is very beautiful, but the problem is that. So many guys want her and they will do or say anything to convince her they're better than me! We go out together on nights out at least once a week because our friends are friends, ...
A. 22 November 2012: I felt a bit like this when I first got with my girlfriend, the whole why the hell is she with me syndrome, she sounds like a great girlfriend, she's given you no reason to doubt her, keep these thoughts at bay, enjoy the fact that she's your woman, ... (read in full...)
How do I overcome these bad thoughts that pop into my head about her past actions?
Q. Hi, I am currently dating my gf of 7 months. She cheated on her last bf of a few years and that relationship ended mostly due to that. Shortly after she remained in contact with the guy she cheated on her ex wit and had given her virginity to this ...
A. 21 November 2012: First off I would come clean that your not the player that you claimed to be, be honest with her and tell her how u really felt, I think she will appreciate the honesty and will probably feel a lot more special to you, after this long I don't think ... (read in full...)
How do we bring back the fun in our sex life with 2 young children?
Q. How do I bring the fun back in my wife's and I sex life with two toddles ?...
A. 21 November 2012: Maybe ask the grandparents or aunts to look after the kids for a weekend every now and then and both have a break somewhere, just the two of you? ... (read in full...)
Did you ever have someone you were close to and now you don't talk to them at all?
Q. Hi all, I was just wondering if you had someone in your life you were pretty close to but at somepoint due to some circumstances had to stop talking and now you don't even acknowledge that person!? I do have,and I just want to know if they r people...
A. 21 November 2012: I know exactly what you mean, and I think at our age we first start to experience this, we are all getting older and going our separate ways and its sometimes difficult to stay in touch. At different points of my teen years I spent a lot of time ... (read in full...)
I finally met a great guy - but he's so selfish in bed!
Q. After being single for over 2 years and meeting a string of losers, I decided to give internet dating a go and met a wonderful guy about 6 weeks ago. He makes me laugh, he seems to care about me and he has told all his friends and family about me...
A. 19 November 2012: First off there is nothing more annoying than for us guys than hearing a girl moan about their weight, so I don't blame him for saying you need to exercise more if you're unhappy with your weight. As for the sex/foreplay have you told him how you ... (read in full...)
'Making Love' versus 'Having Sex' with boyfriend.
Q. So I guess this is a question about lovemaking vs sex. I had spent the day with my boyfriend and he was helping me studying. Then after several hours I had to go out to do something else, and we were kissing a bit, and I said, I have to go, and ...
A. 15 November 2012: I agree with so very confused, what's wrong with a quickie now and then, although his comment was a sly cheap shot, and he passed it off as a joke, but he knew exactly what he was doing saying that knowin it would mess with your head a bit ... (read in full...)
Why do involved guys send texts to other girls?
Q. My boyfriend has been sending dirty texts to other girls and he knows that I know. Why do guys send dirty message to other girls if they're in a relationship?...
A. 15 November 2012: The fact that he knows you know and carries on makes this even worse, he shouldn't be doing this, just because he's texting doesn't necessarily mean he would have sex behind your back, but this is wrong, if he loved and respected you he wouldn't do ... (read in full...)
Caught my husband watching porn, what should I do?
Q. dear all, i feel devastated after i caught my husband watching porn and masturbating. we just came back from a vacation in italy and had a blast! im 27 and even though i hav 2 kids i have a good thin body . i. wat happened is that i woke up and w...
A. 14 November 2012: Porn for most guys is a quick fix, it's not a reflection on you or your sex life. I don't understand people who get hooked on it and spend Money on it, but I agree with Eddie, he probably needed the release quickly and probably didn't want the ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by walking away when my fiance was staring at a woman? He didn't try to find me.
Q. My fiance stares a lot at women in front of me. I've talked to him about it, but to no avail. His staring can get blatant, up and down looks, looking at their rear. No matter where we go, he looks or tries to sneak a peek in. I see it all even if ...
A. 14 November 2012: Women are crazy, all he did was talk to someone while his girlfriend threw a childish strop in a public toilet, and based on one comment about getting to women through their kids, which could have been just a joke, you all think he's cheating, it's ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by walking away when my fiance was staring at a woman? He didn't try to find me.
Q. My fiance stares a lot at women in front of me. I've talked to him about it, but to no avail. His staring can get blatant, up and down looks, looking at their rear. No matter where we go, he looks or tries to sneak a peek in. I see it all even if ...
A. 13 November 2012: To be honest you sound like a nightmare girlfriend, your too old to be playing stupid games hiding in a toilet, it's quite ridiculous, so what if he takes the odd look at other women? So long as he's not doing anything with them. Sort out your own ... (read in full...)
I'm so embarrassed of my past and am afraid it will ruin my relationship...
Q. So, i have been with my boyfriend for several years and we are so in love, thinking of getting married in the near future. The problem is, the past few months i've been thinking about my past constantly and feel so embarrased. The thing is, ...
A. 6 November 2012: If he loves you he WONT care that you've been with 7 people, being with 7 people by your age can hardly be described as promiscuous. You are not a whore, you've done nothing wrong, tell your boyfriend the truth, if he can't handle it then it really ... (read in full...)
I'm so embarrassed of my past and am afraid it will ruin my relationship...
Q. So, i have been with my boyfriend for several years and we are so in love, thinking of getting married in the near future. The problem is, the past few months i've been thinking about my past constantly and feel so embarrased. The thing is, ...
A. 6 November 2012: First off your not a whore, you've only been with seven people, we all do things we regret when we're young, and you need to accept that, tell your boyfriend exactly what you've written here, if he loves you he won't care, as for these other guys ... (read in full...)
Could my boyfriend be watching porn because he's depressed?
Q. My partner watches porn and says he does it because he feels depressed. So, to the men... Is this just an excuse or could he be telling the truth? Also, how could looking at pictures of naked women help him to feel better without masturbating...
A. 31 October 2012: People use depression as an excuse for many things, this man is not depressed, but may be down in the dumps about something, how is your sex life? Is it great or has it died down? If the sex has dwindled he may think you've gone off him, so he's ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend couldn't keep his erection. Is it because he doesn't find me attractive?
Q. Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 months now and this weekend we finally got some us time. Things began to get physical between us ( it wasn't planned jut felt right at the time) after some foreplay we decided it was time to take our...
A. 29 October 2012: This is not your fault, it's just nerves on his part, he may not be as experienced as he has been telling you, or it may be the case that he is a bit anxious about his performance for a girl who he is emotionally involved with rather than just a ... (read in full...)
Is 5 sex partners by age 21 ok?
Q. Hi. I am curious whether it is ok/normal for a 21 year old boy to have slept with 5 girls. I am a 20 year old virgin and my boyfriend admitted he slept with 5 girls previously. I shouldn't have asked about his past, but I was curious and didn't want ...
A. 29 October 2012: If he's telling the truth then 5 isn't that bad, I wouldn't worry too much... (read in full...)
Is it strange for a good looking 24 year old girl to be a virgin?
Q. is it strange for a 24 year old , good looking girl to be a virgin? Some of my friends laugh about it and have told their guy friends who then called me the virgin mary. I like the way I am and am proud, why do others think it strange?? They think i ...
A. 29 October 2012: It is unusual as most people lose their virginity before 20, but just because it's unusual does not mean there's anything wrong with it, of your proud and happy the way you are then good for you, keep waiting and one day you'll meet the right ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife I've been doing penis enlargement exercises?
Q. Should I tell my Wife I've been doing penis enlargement exercises? I was doing them a few years ago and stopped at her request. I finally decided that this is something I want, even if she doesn't want me to. I am small down there and she has had ...
A. 25 October 2012: Man I wish I was 6 feet tall instead of 5.8, but stretching my legs ain't gonna make me taller, I wish I was more handsome, not gonna happen, so I doubt there's some magic way to make your dick bigger, and your complaining about slipping out? With a ... (read in full...)
We want to settle down and have a baby. Getting our finances right to buy not rent is the aim. Have you achieved this goal successfully? How?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for just over 3 years and we really want to get our own place. We don't want to rent as we feel that we will be wasting money paying the rent each month and at the end of it we will have nothing ...
A. 25 October 2012: You should both save a certain amount now until you both start your new jobs, then when you start your new jobs increase the amount your saving, depending on where your living in the country, on your joint earnings you should be able to get a ... (read in full...)
Should I let my boyfriend carpool with a female co-worker?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We moved in together 4months ago, and things have been going pretty good so far. He started a new job about a week ago and while in the process of meeting the coworkers in his ...
A. 24 October 2012: This guy has gave you no reason not to trust him, you causing him problems over your insecurities will ruin things, it shouldn't be down to you to 'let' him do anything, he's an adult with his own mind, your not his owner... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife I've been doing penis enlargement exercises?
Q. Should I tell my Wife I've been doing penis enlargement exercises? I was doing them a few years ago and stopped at her request. I finally decided that this is something I want, even if she doesn't want me to. I am small down there and she has had ...
A. 24 October 2012: This is ridiculous, she's probably telling you not to do it because she's happy with you the way you are, wake up and smell the coffee... (read in full...)
I love him, but I need to understand if his sexual fetishes are OK or not? One example: He likes me to dress as a school girl when we have sex.
Q. To give you a bit of background I'm not very sexually experienced. I've slept with two people in long-term relationships before my current partner and he is my third sexual partner (he is 23). In both my previous relationships, I had passionate, ...
A. 23 October 2012: I wouldn't be worried by the schoolgirl thing, loads of guys like that outfit. The period thing is a bit strange though, he's my age and I think that his fetish is weird. I'd be very careful with this guy, he's acting out his fantasies, who says the... (read in full...)
I'm so good looking, its annoying! How can I approach a guy for sex without getting into anything serious?
Q. I am good looking to the limit of annoyance, it caused me a great deal of trouble looking the way I do. I had major psychological issues because of my looks, I isolated my self thinking everyone interested in me because I am pretty I felt li...
A. 22 October 2012: What you should do is meet a guy who you think is suitable man for what you want, have sex with him once and then tell him you want a 'friends with benefits' thing, if your as hot as you say you are then no guy is gonna say no to that. Plus guys... (read in full...)
How to stop Boyfriend taking advantage?
Q. Lately, i've been feeling like my boyfriend is taking advantage. He never seems to give me any notice for anything - always assumes i am free and just demands it instead of asking. If he wants to stay over mine on a friday night (he doesn't alwa...
A. 22 October 2012: He's Taking you for a ride, he doesn't care about you at all, you are just his slave, you need to lay down the law, tell him your not taking it anymore, if he doesn't change his ways your gone ... (read in full...)
We've been fighting every day for months. Is it any wonder I have trust issues over her sexting etc
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now and we've been fighting nearly everyday for the past few months. We have sat down and talked about this and the arguments stopped for about a week. Now it's the same old arguments. Heres the tricky p...
A. 22 October 2012: A relationship without trust just won't work, tell her straight that you give her all of your trust, but I'd it happens again the relationship is over, you've got to be prepared to walk away from this should it happen again... (read in full...)
I'm feeling guilty about finally being happy...
Q. So I split up with my ex about a month ago now, two years of being treated badly and being unhappy finally came to an end, although we had our good times, the bad eventually weighed out the good which made it practically unbearable to be around ...
A. 22 October 2012: Sometimes you just got to do what's best for yourself, your words, and the truest words you could ever speak, you deserve to be happy, don't feel guilty, you've been through rough times and come out the other side, embrace it, it is not unusual for ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my married ex
Q. My ex-girlfriend has come back into my life after a four year absence. After she broke off our engagement she had a baby with another man, who she broke up with afterwards. She is now married and has a second child. I have gotten over the ...
A. 21 October 2012: I have to agree with auntyem, this woman just plays men, your just one of her toys, and your just sticking around hoping to get another chance to play. It's pretty desperate. If you really can't keep away then tell her what you want and get it over ... (read in full...)
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