I lied to my Mom, but I love this boy so much
Q. About 5 months ago i met my uncle's wife's brother at my little cousin's birthday party. They all live in mexico so i rarely see them. This boy and I didn't talk, we just looked at each other and smiled, through out the whole party. After that...
A. 27 December 2010: How old is this guy you're seeing? If he's a lot older than you then i can understand why your family are so against you being with him. If he is around your age then i can understand where you're coming from, but becoming pregnant just to be with ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I'm not ready?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months. we are both 15. he says that i have changed his life because i make him so happy and i am amazing to him. he also makes me happy and i am in love with him. recently he fingered me, and i wasn't ...
A. 27 December 2010: Christ, what's the big deal with having sex nowadays?? I didn't lose my virginity until i was 17, and it was a beautiful moment. I reckon there are a lot of people out there who regret their first time because they weren't really ready and they ... (read in full...)
Why is this breaking my heart?
Q. Why is this breakng my heart?. He's nice and he's sweet but sometimes he's a complete jerk. I mean i love him and everything. He goes out of his way to make me happy, but seriously he's 3yrs older then me, i'm 15. He has a major fit when i tel...
A. 27 December 2010: Next time you tell him to go and make his own sandwich, and he goes nuts, just calmly tell him that he'll simply have to starve because you do not belong in the kitchen!!
I agree with other posters, he needs to learn to respect women...... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me fat and that is destroying our relationship
Q. Hi everyone. This is my situation... I've been dating this guy 'L' for almost 10 months, we've been friends for two years and I'm very in love with him. He says he loves me and I believe it because he has proven me he does love me. Our relation...
A. 27 December 2010: I agree with the posters who said to let him read this, and all of the answers too, should shock him into realising exactly what his 'joking around' has done to you!!! I'm a massive believer in second chances, and you need to start building up your ... (read in full...)
The changes in my friend are unsettling me
Q. My best friend is really starting to change. It all started when we went to the mall. I saw these really cute pants but I'd wasted all my money on a birthday present for my mom. So, my friend says "take the pants, put it in your purse and walk out...
A. 27 December 2010: You need to tell her that you don't like the person she has become. You have been friends for ages and you don't want to see her go down the wrong path.
Just tell her straight that if she wants to go ahead and smoke, eventually end up drinking... (read in full...)
How do I tell her about my trust issues?
Q. How do I tell my girlfriend how I feel without making it look like I don't trust her? My girlfriend of 4 months is hanging out a lot with a new guy friend at work. She tells me about him quite often and seems to talk with him nearly as much a...
A. 27 December 2010: Email this post to her, kinda sums it up really!!!! She needs to know that this is hurting your feelings!... (read in full...)
Browsing the interent for a nice dress, any suggestions for sites?
Q. I have a day event with my bf in a few weeks and I'd like to find a nice dress to wear [day dress]. I live in UK and want to buy online. I have looked on asos.com but can anyone name any likewise websites that arent just online street shops. Thank ...
A. 27 December 2010: boohoo.com is a great site, very reasonable prices indeed and a nice range. ASOS.com is also a good website to try...... (read in full...)
Did I cross the line by posing as someone else and chatting to him online to trap him?
Q. Hi, Am I in the wrong? and did I ask too much from him? Right Id had been dating this guy for a couple of months and thought it wasn't working out (We had meet on match.com) We would go to his and watch the football or racing and stu...
A. 23 December 2010: Let me get one thing straight... You are not 'his' you guys broke up, leaving you free to do whatever the hell you want. I think you should contact your ex and tell him exactly that!! He's jealous because you're not falling over everything and ... (read in full...)
I don't want to break up with him, but I cant take his flirting with other girls anymore!
Q. Hi everyone me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks but its our 2nd time dating, before it lasted 3 weeks and i really really like him like a lot and he treats me really bad. he flirts with other girls in front of me even when were holding ...
A. 23 December 2010: Yeah, something does need to change, you need to get a spine and then kick him to the curb!!! How dare he flirt with other girls in front of his girlfriend?? What a sorry excuse for a guy!!!
I know you feel love for him, but seriously, are you ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him? My friends have seen him with other girls.....
Q. Should i break up with my boyfriend? My boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 months tomorrow. He recently started to cancel on dates and hanging out. My friends say that they see him with some girl at our school. One of my friends saw him ...
A. 23 December 2010: I think you should confront him, give him the chance to tell you the truth... (read in full...)
I was in love with a terminal cancer patient and she passed away...
Q. I need help with laying old ghosts to rest. I'm 17 years old, a senior in high school and for 4 months, I was engaged to 15 year old girl who had terminal Leukemia and CIPA (she couldn't feel any pain or sensation in her entire body 8 months ago, my ...
A. 22 December 2010: Wow, such a beautiful but tradgic story, i actually shed a tear! You want to know how you should feel? You should feel pride, you gave a dying girl her life force back. She felt like someone again, and not rejected by heartless fools. She tried to ... (read in full...)
My daughter hates my BF, please help!
Q. I have a question, what do you do when your 11 year old daughter can't stand your boyfriend? I have been seeing this man for about a year and a half and had some issues in the past, but am working on them. He genuinely is a good man and good fat...
A. 22 December 2010: It's always hard for children to accept someone new in their life after the death of a parent. I remember when my father died, i was so torn up seeing my mum so sad all the time, so when she started seeing someone after 6 months of his death, i was ... (read in full...)
Will he just keep making remarks like that?
Q. im 14 and me and my bf are in year 10 and the satme set but the other day in spanish he was sitting with his mates and i was sittin with my mate on the other side of the room and he made a comment about my weight im not fat i juss have an eatin di...
A. 21 December 2010: You need to tell him that remarks like that are not acceptable. You wouldn't go and make remarks like that about him.
I'm a big believer in second chances, but only you can make that final decision. I hope you are getting some help with your eat... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be in a relationship and not use tongues?
Q. This isn't anything serious - I saw a question yesterday and it got me thinking. I hate snogging (as in kissing with tongues.)I've been with my boyfriend for a while now (just over a year) and when we first started dating that's how we used to kiss ...
A. 20 December 2010: If you have a particular way that you like to kiss someone, instead of hurting their feelings by telling them that you don't like what they're doing, try this that i did once...
I was kissing a guy and it didn't really do anything for me, so in th... (read in full...)
My daughter was taken advantage of by my cousin, how do I handle this?
Q. Our daughter of 18-21yrs recently went to Australia to stay with a cousin of mine, he is a man in his 30's and a devoted Christian (he even took her to church). My husband and I were worried about her going as she has had what seemed to be a late ...
A. 20 December 2010: Cerberus - Great answer, i completely agree!! You had your concerns in the first place, but you decided to trust him anyway and he let you down BIG TIME!!!! I would want to do everything in my power to destroy him socially. Please talk to your ... (read in full...)
Should I try to clear messy things up after such a long time has past??
Q. HI at work there was a big ta do with my boss at the time and myself..to this day I see him glancing over at me...he goes hot and cold and I won't deal with the emotional flip flop anymore so I avoid him or at least don't look at him if I have to be ...
A. 20 December 2010: If you feel you need that peace of mind, then yes, maybe clearing the air would be a good idea. It's been a year, surely there are no grudges to be held against anyone. A happy workforce is a productive work force, and if someone isn't fully happy ... (read in full...)
Was what he did wrong?
Q. Hey guys. I appreciate you taking the time to read this and if you could give me advice I'd be really grateful. This would be really long if I went into detail so I'll just go over the basics. I used to date this guy and our relationship became ...
A. 19 December 2010: Yes, what he did was wrong, you said no from the beginning. Take a test and if it's negative then don't ever speak to him again.
Even though he apologised, he should have never done anything in the first place. In future, make sure you always h... (read in full...)
A bully is spreading a nasty rumor that I'm sleeping with a 26 year old man!
Q. I am 14 years old. My brother, Danny, is 22 years old and his friend, Justin, is 26 years old. I have a good relationship with both of them. And by a good relationship, I mean like a brother/sister relationship. Even Justin is like a big brother ...
A. 19 December 2010: You need to speak to someone about whats going on. The more people that know, the more people who can tell the bully that she is making up vicious rumours.
Anyway, if that 1 percent are constant told that there is nothing going on, they're ... (read in full...)
Can I get an STD by having unprotected sex?
Q. Hey so I lost my virginity to this guy that I'm not even dateing . And he fucked a lot of girls and I didn't no that till after I had sex with him .. And we used no condom twice .. Is that bad?? He told me befor he cumed tho but I dnt want to get a...
A. 19 December 2010: Great, another person who fell asleep during sex ed classes in school...
YES, you could potentially get an STI from having unprotected sex, and you could also get pregnant! But this doesn't necessarily mean that you have one either. Go to a clinic... (read in full...)
I wish my boyfriend would treat me with some sort of respect!
Q. i dont know what to do. my boyfriend treats me like shit. we have a baby and im 8 months pregnant again and he has a job so hes never really home during the day. i get up every morning with the baby and tend to the baby all day then my boyfriend ...
A. 19 December 2010: If this has been going on for 3 years, why the hell are u still having kids with this usless excuse for a man???? I mean seriously, you need to tell him all of this, otherwise it'll never change. You say you have noone to turn to...turn to him and ... (read in full...)
Should I ring him when he tells me to, or do I play hard to get and ring him another day?
Q. Do you think it's better to ring a guy when he tells you to, or is it better to play hard to get and ring another day ?. This guy i like wants me to ring him tonight, but we are only going to be casual with each other, not in a proper relationship, ...
A. 19 December 2010: Ring him, then halfway through the conversation, tell him that your friend has turned up and hang up. He'll be chomping at the bit!!!... (read in full...)
How can I make him aware of my feelings for him?
Q. Ok theres this guy ive liked since march when a mate told me to add 2 facebook The only problam is i cant tell him i like him, i once again i can getting another gf, he had one then split up, still single at the moment tho :) Anyway this guy i...
A. 19 December 2010: If you want to know whether or not he likes you as much as you like him, then you'll just have to ask him. You never know, you may get an answer you like, but then again you may not. I think the worst thing is not knowing at all...... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I always make him sad?
Q. I have only been to my boyfriend house for 4 times all only for a while. But yesterday I got to know from my boyfriend that his mother don't really like me. What should I do I did not even do anything wrong to offend her? We have been together for ...
A. 19 December 2010: did he say why his mother doesn't like you? Maybe you should find that out then see what you can do from there. Good luck... (read in full...)
Why is my ex boyfriend playing mind games?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I have been on and off for about a year. When he broke up with me at the beginning of this year I decided I was stuck in a sick cycle and I didnt want to get back together again. So within a month, he realised he made a mistake ...
A. 19 December 2010: Unfortunately there's not much you can do without him getting what he wants (which is for you to confront him)
I assume your current bf didn't believe these rumors that your ex spread around? All you can do is show everyone that you're the bett... (read in full...)
Why did my ex want to meet up with my father?
Q. I have this abusive ex boyfriend whom i been with him for 2 years and after i decided that i had enough of insults, pain and hurt i broke up with him then the drama started as i never excepted he turned into a very obssesed person that may beg and ...
A. 18 December 2010: I think your father was just trying to protect you more than anything, he didn't want to see his daughter hurting like you are, so he went and told your ex to back off.
Glad you are rid of him for the moment anyway. If you are still scared, ... (read in full...)
Virgins getting erections????
Q. ok so my friend's worried because her boyfriend says he's not a virgin but she thinks he's lying because he always has a erection like when they hug kiss or anything he always gets a erection and she thinks that if he's not a virgin he would be able ...
A. 18 December 2010: Wow, did you guys fall asleep when they taught sex education in your school???
Guys can get an erection any time, even when they are not hugging a girl or even near one!! You guys seriously need a heads up (excuse the pun) on this sort of stuff...... (read in full...)
How to make a good first impression on a guy?
Q. I'm gonna meet him. He's my mom's business partner's son. He is a teenager. So how to make good first impression on him?...
A. 18 December 2010: 2 words.... Be Yourself!!!
If he likes you, great, if not, he's more than likely a loser. Best of luck!!... (read in full...)
Do you bleed during your first time?
Q. Do you bleed before or during your first time? Me and my boyfriend are about to have sex, and its going to be my first time. But i've heard you bleed after your first time. But do you bleed after you've had sex or during?...
A. 18 December 2010: It depends, i think i bled during, but it wasn't a massive amount of bleeding, just make sure your boyfriend takes things really slow, use extra lube if needs be, and make sure he wears a condom!!!! I hope it is special for you both... (read in full...)
Should I give a second change, or give up.
Q. I have met this wonderful man 11 months ago whom i am now engaged to...the problem is his ex wont let him see his kids while he is with me...obviously she cant let go of him, and is jealous, even tho they were not together when we met...My fiance ...
A. 18 December 2010: This is why i would never dish out an ultimatum, because more often that not, it goes against you!!!
Just think how happy he will be spending time with his children, and then coming home and telling you all about it!! He's not seen them for 3 mo... (read in full...)
What are your top 5 "Must haves" and "Can't stands"
Q. Poll (just for fun). For women and men, for you, what are the top 5 "MUST HAVES" and the top 5 "CAN'T STANDS" when evaluating members of the opposite sex as a potential lifelong partner? I guess mine would be Must Haves: friendly dispos...
A. 17 December 2010: Likes:
1. Fun and outgoing
2. Loves me for who i am
3. (Random one) cheeky grin
4. Nice eyes
5. Isn't afraid to show his emotions
Dislikes:
1. Someone that does drugs
2. Cheaters
3. A guy who thinks he is 'Gods gift' to women
4. A ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend keeps picking fights and rejecting me. What's a man to do?
Q. I returned home with my girlfriend about half an hour ago. We just spent the last six hours with two new friends. One of which happens to be an old girlfriend of mine. But before you go "oh you idiot", it wasn't my idea. They've friended on facebook ...
A. 17 December 2010: Had you guys had a few drinks? It's amazing what alcohol does to people heads...
This sounds exactly like something i went through about a year ago, my ex would just randomly challenge me, and nothing i could say or do seemed to make anything... (read in full...)
What do you do when you are feeling down about yourself?
Q. I have been feeling unconfident. I would like to know what you do when you are feeling down about yourself? I try looking at myself in the mirror; I feel good for a second then the insecurities comes back. I want to start feeling confident but don't ...
A. 17 December 2010: Believe me, every girl looks at herself in the mirror and thinks that they could be better. If i ever have one of these days, here is what i do everytime without fail....
First of all, i run a bath with lots of bubbles, i go and have a soak, wa... (read in full...)
All tied up!
Q. Hey, so my bf has told me he'd like me to tie him up during sex, and maybe to tie my wrists sometimes too. I think this sounds kinda fun, but wanted some advice on how to surprise him by doing this. I have some ribbons to tie his wrists, but would ...
A. 17 December 2010: When you feel that the time is right to do it, maybe put the ribbons down your top or pants, then when you 2 are doing foreplay, pull them out and give him a cheeky grin, say nothing as you grab his hands and tie them to the headboard/chair or ... (read in full...)
13 and never been kissed...
Q. Hi I need help! I am a 13 year old boy and i've never kissed a girl, i have crushes sure but i don't want to ask them out because if they decide to kiss me or something i dunno what to do or how to kiss.. i know it's sad right plz don't laugh at me. ...
A. 14 December 2010: I was exactly like you, i had no idea how to kiss someone and i was so scared when my first kiss happened (and i was 15 then) but when it comes down to it, you just kind of get on with it.
My first kiss was unfortunately really sloppy, and his ... (read in full...)
I feel so trapped in this relationship...
Q. Im too scared to leave my partner of 2 years. He is very abusive, he keeps threating me that he will make sure i will loose my job and that he will do something to my family. He is english and im from czech republic. My family is very importatnt to ...
A. 14 December 2010: You need to go to the police about his threatening behaviour, it's totally unacceptable behaviour and it needs to stop.
I know it seems hard and you want to protect your brother, but you need to leave this man, he is destroying you and for your... (read in full...)
Why is he teasing me like this?
Q. I'm 17 and my boyfriend who is 18 is amazing! I love spending time with him and always have a laugh when I'm with him. We've been together for just over 2 years. I suppose you could say we had a sexual relationship from the beginning. I had done ...
A. 13 December 2010: Start doing it to him....see how he likes it!!! Failing that, just talk to him about it, tell him it's frustrating getting all worked up then nothing else happens.... (read in full...)
Sex with a big guy, will it hurt?
Q. ive had sex with my ex boyfriend almost everyday and he did not have a big package down there and i have been dating my current boyfriend and we did not have sex yet but his package down there is quite LARGE and i am afraid if i will feel the same ...
A. 13 December 2010: Make sure your are well lubricated, either by plenty of foreplay or added lube, and also get your boyfriend to take it really slow. Go for standard missionary position for the moment. Other posters are right though, your body will get used to his ... (read in full...)
Should I lighten my skin?
Q. I dont like my skin colour. I'm not too dark but i'm not too bright either. How do I lighten my skin? And the real question is.....SHOULD I? Is it a bad thing if I want to?...
A. 12 December 2010: You seriously need to build up some self confidence. Stop looking at the bad things, and start enhancing the good things about yourself.
Why anyone would want to do something as drastic as to lighten their skin is totally beyond me. I'm sure you... (read in full...)
No explanation why but sex hurts!
Q. I was with my previous boyfriend for 3 years, at the begining of the relationship we had sex 4 times a week minimum. through to the end of our relation ship, we had sex less and less as you can imagen. but near to the end, it hurt, it wasnt that i ...
A. 12 December 2010: My only suggestion would be to go and see your doctor. Get yourself tested for STI's aswell, as some can cause pain, but don't show any symptoms.
Your doctor will refer you somewhere if there are any problems, which hopefully, there won't be.... (read in full...)
My sweet six year old becomes a demon when my boyfriend comes around
Q. Is it true that little girls will become more whiney and unruly to get attention, when their mother has a new boyfriend? i was in a new relationship and my sweet 6 year old became a demon when ever he was around What do I do?? I dont want to spank ...
A. 12 December 2010: Maybe your little girl needs to spend some quality time with both you and your new boyfriend. She may not understand that he is there to love and protect both of you, and she needs alot of love and support as she realises that your new boyfriend is ... (read in full...)
This nasty co-worker is spreading rumors about me all because I didn't invite her to my wedding!
Q. I'm getting married to my soul-mate February 1st 2011 (started dating February 1st 2006; about nine months after we both graduated from college both with Master's degrees). And there's really just one thing in relation to our wedding that is ...
A. 12 December 2010: Just tell her she's not invited and tell her to get over it. Does anyone actually believe her rumours??? Tell her she's a childish moron, and then just leave her to thrown her toys out of her pram.
You're not getting married because you're p... (read in full...)
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