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writes:Ok theres this guy ive liked since march when a mate told me to add 2 facebookThe only problam is i cant tell him i like him, i once again i can getting another gf, he had one then split up, still single at the moment tho :)Anyway this guy i have slept with him a few times and we always seem 2 get on,Hes taking me away in a few weeks to visit some mates in devon and im really looking foward to it My problam is i think im not good enough for him and my ex thinks hes very shallow as ex thinks he ccares a lot what his mates think and goes for skinny girls and im not exactly pritty or skinny and it actually makes me sad as he could look at me like omg shes ugly, Yes people say sex is just sex maybe it is where its concerned.Its so obvious i like him well to others he cant be that stupid not to tell i like him, He just maybe dont want to no,I do a lot for him i look after his animal when he wants to go out and stuff What can i do to make him awear i like him or how can i tell if he likes me (maybe)
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Forget about your ex, I don't even see why he is voicing his opinion because it doesn't matter.
Now unless you're telepathic or know sign language then there's no nonchalant way to tell him you like him. You're going to have to be vocal about it. The problem I see is that you guys have already had sex a few times before getting started into a relationship..bad move. If guys get sex beforehand they seem to have trouble committing to a relationship. However, he is taking you on a trip to meet his mates, sounds like a good sign. But, beware because guys are tricky. I suggest you take advantage of this time spent together on this trip, let him know you like him and would like to start dating..I mean you already have had sex so there's no reason why he wouldn't he agree? Also I suggest you hold back on the sex until you guys are established as a couple.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (19 December 2010):
 He's taking you somewhere. If a man is after you for sex and nothing else, he wouldn't even take you for a sandwich. He obviously doesn't mind being seen with you, so he likes you in some respect. I can't say if he wants a relationship for sure, but the signs seem to be good.
Forget what your ex thinks. You must learn to believe in yourself. You are definitely a worthwhile person and you are definitely worth more than a pity fuck. Believe in yourself and love will follow.
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reader, Sex_counsellor +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Firstly you need to stop trying to act like a friend to him as he needs to see you as Girlfriend material for things to work. As for the casual sex this needs to stop as you have too deeper feelings for him by the sounds of things. Don't put yourself down, believe in yourself. I suggest talking to him about how you feel and how you want things to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): tell him dont go for passive and leave hints but dont just be with him and randomly scream "I LIKE YOU!" either
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (19 December 2010):
 If you want to know whether or not he likes you as much as you like him, then you'll just have to ask him. You never know, you may get an answer you like, but then again you may not. I think the worst thing is not knowing at all...
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