If my ex said he wanted to be my best friend, why doesn't he talk to me at all?
Q. My ex-boyfriend said he wanted to best friends....i broke up with him almost 2 months ago, and he wont talk to me. I asked if he was mad at me, and he said no. But if he says he wanted to be my best friend, why do you think he doesnt talk to me? Its ...
A. 7 October 2008: Well alot of guys are like that. I am in the same position at the moment exept its a bit more confusing as my brother and my ex are best friends so he is at my house all the time. All you need to do is stay calm and tell him that you want to be ... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex off my back without letting on that I have a new boyfriend?
Q. Hello, well, my ex bf tell's me he still loves me, but i have a new bf now, but no one knows cos were keeping it quiet for a bit to see how it goes. so my ex bf dosn't know, and i can't tell him. but he keeps telling me he still loves me and tht he ...
A. 29 September 2008: Ok this is really difficult but i went through exactly the same situation about 4 months ago. You need to tell him in a firm voice that you are not into him, you never will be again so he needs to move on with his life. Also you need to tell people ... (read in full...)
I don't feel his love anymore. May be I should give up. Please help.
Q. I am 15 years old . My boy friend does not really like talking to me now like before. When I say that I like another guy but i already give up on that guy and now I only like him . A long time ago he cheat on me too, but i have forgiven him ...
A. 29 September 2008: Ok so I have been through this aswell. If you dont think he still loves you he probably doesnt. I am sorry to say this but I think you need to end it because he sounds like he isnt treating you right and you dont want to get hurt by than and he isnt ... (read in full...)
I got them together... but my heart skips a beat whenever I see him!
Q. Ok, so I go to school with this guy who is a year younger than me and has a crush on my best friend... well I think I may like him, but I don't know why. Everytime I think about him, I see him with my friend, and I'm the one who kinda got them ...
A. 24 September 2008: You need to tell your friend your feelings for this guy, stay with your current boyfriend. Your friend seems really into this guy so dont ruin anything but just tell her how you feel. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mum about the appointment to the doctor? I seem to be having symptoms of depression...
Q. My best friend of 5 years (who used to be severely depressed but has come out of the other end) has recognised immense symptoms of depression in me - and has done for the last 3 years. We agreed, after a lot debate, that i'd go to the doctors. I ...
A. 24 September 2008: You need to tell your mum. She can help you so much. Over the last year or two I have been in the same situation. One of my friends suspected it and I took her advice and I went to someone that i knew could help. I didnt tell my mum and it made ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to get my hopes up that this boy likes me, as my friends like to think?
Q. All the time I'm talking with my friend about the smallest interactions i have with the boy that i like. They always joke around and stuff with me. Sometimes they say "oh he likes u" and stuff like that, and I just blow it off like 'yea right' and ...
A. 24 September 2008: Hey, i am sorry but this guy at the moment doesnt seem that interested. you need to be friends with a guy and talk to them and there friends and get to know them alot before you go any further. At the moment from the information that has been given ... (read in full...)
Can I get a purity ring even if I'm not a Christian?
Q. im not christian and i want to wear a purity ring. my parents dont know abou them so i dont want to explain how i wont have sex. so i was wondering can i get one even though im not christian? also can i buy it for myself and not get my parents t...
A. 10 September 2008: Of course you can. I wear a purity ring that I bought for myself, and I told my parent the moment I placed it on my finger two years ago. I haven't taken it off since. You can always wear a purity ring even if you are not christian. It is just a ... (read in full...)
My ex, told me last night that he loves me and can't get over me bit I'm with someone else now!
Q. So I have this amazing boyfriend of almost 3 months. He means the world to me and we don't argue he doesn't flirt with other girls. And to me his is perfect. The thing is my ex, told me last night that he loves me and can't get over me even though ...
A. 10 September 2008: Thank you everyone who helped. I am not going to break up with my current boyfriend because I love him so much and I think he is the one. Thank you... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend want to have sex, but we're unsure about some things.
Q. I am 12 and me and my girlfriend want to have sex but we don't know were or when....
A. 27 June 2008: YOU ARE 12!!! Are you and your girlfriend crazy? What if something goes wrong? What if she gets pregnant? She could die!! If you want to have sex then you are making the worst mistake of your life! Think about this so hard. I am 14 and I am not even ... (read in full...)
How can I prove to him that I'm different now?
Q. hello, i was in a relationship for about 4 months there, and he was so good to me, but at times a was a bitch to him, i regret it now...as just recently we have grew apart, i cant get him out of my head, i love him so much....just want to prove to ...
A. 12 June 2008: Talk to him, be friends to start off with. Show him in a friendship way that you are different first. Dont be a bitch when he is around while your friends. Then after a while talk to him about how you feel. I know it seems kind of forward but if you ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out and risk a friendship or just stay friends?
Q. met this girl i reallllly like her i think she might like me too but im not to sure if she likes me so i really dont know what to do. im afraid if i ask her out and she says no it may ruin our friendship i dont know what to do im falling for her and ...
A. 5 June 2008: This is difficult. Talk to one of her girlfriends. She will have probably told her how she feels about you if she has feeling for you. If she does like you then talk to her before you ask her out and remember to mention that you would still want to ... (read in full...)
I'll see him at school next year, but what if it will be too late for "us"?
Q. Hey, i like this guy, i've known for about 2 years. he's in 9th grade and im in 8th he's my best guy friend. and is amazingly sweet. i talk to him every day, for about an hour or more. all my friends say he likes me, and we would be so cut...
A. 16 March 2008: Hey dont ruin a friendship. talk to one of his friends. see what he really thinks of you. ... (read in full...)
Should I chicken out and not see this guy this weekend?
Q. OK so another guy problem. I like this guy but he is one of my brothers best friends. My brother knows and so does my BFF brother and he said he is going to tell him. But I am worried he will make fun of me really bad this weekend when i see him. ...
A. 13 March 2008: Well, going on that trip made my self confidence go down to the bottom of the ocean. he likes my best friend alot. it hurt me really bad. but it hurts me so see him sad because my friend likes his friend. i dont know whether to be friendly with him ... (read in full...)
Should I chicken out and not see this guy this weekend?
Q. OK so another guy problem. I like this guy but he is one of my brothers best friends. My brother knows and so does my BFF brother and he said he is going to tell him. But I am worried he will make fun of me really bad this weekend when i see him. ...
A. 13 March 2008: Well, going on that trip made my self confidence go down to the bottom of the ocean. he likes my best friend alot. it hurt me really bad. but it hurts me so see him sad because my friend likes his friend. i dont know whether to be friendly with him ... (read in full...)
Should I try to love him
Q. i have a freind that har a very long time! i don't know how to deal with it! i don't wanna hurt him! should i just try to love him like he does?? please help!...
A. 10 November 2007: You would know if he was really the one for you. It sounds like even if you did get together with him it would be a one sided relationship. Is that what you want. You have to think what is best for you and go with your heart.... (read in full...)
What to do about mom's boyfriend.
Q. My mom has this boyfriend who I really just dislike. He's mean and yells and gets mad for the smallest reasons, like forgeting to put aways a plate. And my mom is trying to make me like him better then my own father but thats not going to happen ...
A. 10 November 2007: Tell your mum how you feel and speak to your dad and see if you can live with him for a bit it should be up to you were you live. if it is going to help living with your dad go for it, then maybe your mum will understand how you feel. ... (read in full...)
Everywhere we go there are girls who instantly like him and try to flirt with him even though I'm there, this upsets me. What do I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been having a relationship for two years, and I find myself in a very difficult position. My boyfriend, who is not only good looking but smart and charismatic is being stalked by all these ex-girlfriends, who leave him flowers ...
A. 30 October 2007: Well talk to him and tell him how you feel, my best friend was in the same position and so talked to her bf. He understood her, if he really loves you he will understand and help... (read in full...)
How do I bring up this subject to him.
Q. HELP!!! i divorced my husband 3 years ago because it wasn't working out, we had been together since we were at school and always stayed in touch. Recently we have started seeing more of each other as friends but things are getting very close. We ...
A. 28 October 2007: Talk to him and tell him how you feel. You never know he may feel the same way... (read in full...)
Is it natural to think that your girlfriend is the sexiest person in the world?
Q. Is it natural to think that your girlfriend is the sexiest person in the world? I ask because it feels like I've lost the most gorgeous woman I'll ever meet. She split with me some months back after 3 years together, and now I don't think I'm ...
A. 28 October 2007: It is natural. If you have been dating along time it is the hardest. talk to her and be friends. that way you will get what you both want. Find someone who can also make you happy but a relationship isnt about how that person looks it is how you get ... (read in full...)
My self-consciousness in interfering with my life
Q. Im 15, and i know pretty much all i should know about sex before i have sex. i am in a serious relationship, he has fingered me and i have given him a hand job. We do that every few times we see eachother and im fine with it, and want to have sex...
A. 28 October 2007: If you want to do something then you shouldnt be so self conscious, having sex with someone should be love he wont mind about something that is slightly different if he really loves you ... (read in full...)
How do I end it?
Q. Im 47 just divorced and fall into with a man 18 years older than me. 18 months on seeing each other I start to find him too old I dont no how to end it and worry cant find someone else after leaving him I dont no what to do...
A. 28 October 2007: If it isnt working with him you should break up with him. You will find someone. There is someone out there for everyone you just need to be patient you will find someone... (read in full...)
Get girl or keep friend?
Q. One of my friends moved out to another state for a job. He proposed to his girlfriend of two years, but after living with him for 2-3 months she decided she wasnt happy and she moved back out here. When she came back she told me she liked me and ...
A. 10 October 2007: Talk to your friend. Maybe he will understand. If he doesn't then friends are always more important than a relationship. Friends will always be there for you boyfriends and girlfriends may not... (read in full...)
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