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*lliebellie
writes:hii dont want to sound paranoid. but my bf has myspace and recently my friend left comments on his page with loads of kisses and he replied back saying something but with laods of kisses. i found that he normally gives me more than one kiss when he writes a comment and any other girl one. i felt kind of upset. i mean know i think he likes my friend better than me. i left a really nice comment on his page and even though he was logged in he didnt even reply. im starting to doubt whether he just thinks our relationship is more friendly than anything else.please help.xxx
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (10 February 2008):
elliebellie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionheythanks to the person abovehe puts one kiss of eveeryone elses...i dunno she just told me like yesterday (my friend) that they call each other everyday...i dunnoxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): You're not paranoid at all, if my bf did something like this, I'd tell him straight that I didn't like it, and ask him why he did it. There's obviously something going on here.
I don't think it's likely that he thinks your relationship is only friendly as he's your bf! And part of this is the kissing and hugging and intimacy, not just friendliness. I think you should just be blunt about this, and ask him straight out how come he put so many kisses to this girl. If he has any brain in his head, he'll realise why it's not acceptable, as any girl would take this as a form of flirting! If he stops putting so many kisses, then great. He's learnt his lesson. And if he doesn't... then you know that maybe it's time to reconsider whether your relationship is worth working for, if he's not willing to appreciate your opinion, and do something about it to make you feel better.
Good luck :]
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